Stupid shit in Medellin

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800575]I guess I must have misread. If it is just about you having fun, why are you bragging about paying some Tijuana hooker to fly to Medellin then? You think other guys have not done that or at least been smarter than you about it?[/QUOTE]Apparently you misread a lot of things kid. I only mentioned that the only thing I was paying for was her flight, why? Because I'm obviously the one inviting her. Junior.

I'm not paying her for her time or sex like I'm sure you would probably have to if you invited even a non hooker on a vacation, If you want to call that bragging then sure whatever floats your boat.

As far as the other dumb comment you made, of course plenty of other guys have done the same, but I am curious to see what other dumb response you have as far as what you meant by that others have been smarter than me about it? So please enlighten me. How so?

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800553]For men like me, $500 a month is a paltry amount..[/QUOTE]Right, because for "men like you," that's only a dollar a pound!

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2800505]There's a minor flaw with your diagnosis. That's without considering the fact you've never known what you're talking about, with anything.

As a licensed commercial vehicle operator, I'm required to get a physical every 2 years. If I don't pass, I don't drive. If I have a significant health concern, at the very least that requirement will be reduced to every year. Or even every 6 months.

Funny thing, my atrial flutter, a type of arrhythmia was first detected 7 or 8 years ago during my physical. The GP wouldn't sign off until I saw a cardiologist. Lots of tests, no symptoms, nothing adverse. He prescribed beta blockers and put me on 1 year physicals. I've been back on every 2 years for the past 5 years.

If, as you claim, I've been rushed to the hospital several times due to severe cardiac arrhythmia, I would no longer be allowed to drive a truck. Which means someone needs to explain why I've bought over 1200 gallons of diesel fuel this month (photo attached).

I have fainted. 3 or 4 times, once in Medellin, over the last 11 years. At least twice I wasn't on medication for the atrial flutter. Catch me on another day and I'll explain why it's not a huge concern, at least for me and my cardiologist.

I've been rushed to the hospital several times? If I include the Navy Dispensary, then yes, in my life I've been rushed to the hospital several times. Here's the full list..[/QUOTE]They say the average person lives to be 75. Jjbee if I was you, I wouldn't waste your last remaining years going back and forth with people on the net. Can't be good for your health.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2800525][B]All this talk about cheap hotels and mediocre apartments.[/B] Bed bugs. Has me concerned.

I'm staying at energy living for a week next month. Will girls get wet when they see where that I brought them there or will they instantly dry up?

Anyone have bed bug issues there? It looks nice from the pics I seen but some of you guys are talking like these hotels are for peons. Do peasants stay there? Maybe I should of stayed at the charlie or click clack hotel?[/QUOTE]The only person on here that is [B]known[/B] to stay in cheap hotels is Paulie. Of course his jealousy rages when he sees that other people are staying in places he could never afford. As to staying at Energy; you shouldn't have any issues. The main problem you will face is that if you are pulling girls form Bello or up North, they may be very late especially if you are pulling them during rush hour when las autopistas are jam packed with traffic.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800553]When you really care about someone, you throw out the calculator....[/QUOTE]I guess you have advanced to the next level. I think 35 is too old if she is a sex worker. I also think others think you will be taken advantage of in the end. To me that is what most of the comments is about. You said you don't know either so it remains to be seen.

I had a date this week that reminds me of you. The girl asked to come to my place after work with a catch. She had a friend visiting her. After some conversation, both came. After greeting, my date told her friend I wasn't seeing other chicas, and asked me to confirm it to her friend. She brought her friend to my place to have sex so she knows I do have sex with other girls like her friends. But I guess in her mind, I wasn't seeing others. Fast forward, we finished around 2 AM. She asked to sleep with me in my room and her friend in another room. I told her I only registered her and not her friend so they couldn't stay overnight. She said to me: Thank you for trusting me. That was unexpected. Do I have a future to have as good sex as you have?

[QUOTE=Paulie97;2800527]He sold everything, put all his worldly belongings in two suitcases and moved to Colombia to rent a room from a webcam girl he met spanking his monkey online. She used him for one year then told him to scat, leaving him with never any pay for his labors. He admitted to all of this, then for months cried and cried in social media about what a victim he was to anyone that would listen.[/QUOTE]And this from the guy making fun of me for a breakup with my ex Venezuelan fiance years ago? LOL. The lack of honesty is what makes this forum so rough. Everyone is trying to pretend they are a stud on a hooker board. So JJBee makes a year of drinking, whacking off, going in debt, and hanging in a bar into this wonderous journey instead of the obvious truth, he hit rock bottom.

[QUOTE=Paulie97;2800527]But he'll fight to the death here for any face saving, as ISG is the only place he has where he can pretend to be important. Everyone who truly knows him knows better.[/QUOTE]But you can see through it if you read enough of his posts. Like I said, he had a sugar baby he stupidly called a GF, and it did not work out. I could see it a mile away. Instead of asking how I knew, he does what he always does and engages in the same narcissistic bullshit he always employs, no one can understand my life only me. You didn't understand how hot water worked, and I did not understand the strata system. Only Professor Shit for Brains knows all.

What really pissed me off the most with my ex fiance was not her stringing me along. It was being in South America and being sexually unsatisfied. For whatever reason at the three month mark in a relationship, I have seen so many women just put other things in front of sex in a relationship. At that point, you can either talk / gripe about it, lie and see other women, or just do what I did and never commit. Of course, the bullshitters here will say that NEVER happens with them, but that is where I came up with the phrase, one made fun of here, that you have to earn my monogamy. The societal default is if you are fucking one woman, you only should be fucking her is one I no longer recognized.

So I was looking for the best sex, and eventually tired of the hookers and upped my game and got the pay per meet sugar babies. If I rotated a group to keep them fresh I was finally sexually satisfied. I did not have to worry about SBs not fucking me. And of course, life fucked that up, and I meet this current woman who wants it more than I do and who has never, ever said no to anything and we are going on two years now. All it took was 50+ years of my life to find it though.

So Professor Shit for Brains commits to his SB he calls GF, pays for everything, and a few months after that, things do not work out. We all know damned well what happened because it has happened to all of us. He gave away his monogamy to a woman who did not earn it. Quit being such a patronizing dick and learn something for once.

But will he learn something this once? Hell, no. You can expect the 10 page War and Peace novel like he just wrote to you about his health, and what will be the theme? You do not understand, Elvis.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2800720]I guess you have advanced to the next level.[/QUOTE]Yes.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2800720]I think 35 is too old if she is a sex worker.[/QUOTE]She is not and has never been a sex worker. She got on [URL]seeking.com[/URL]/ SA because her friends found BFs and husbands there.

But if look at preferred411, you will see tons of women in their 40's and 50's getting top $ as SWs, and very few are even in the same ballpark as her looks wise.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2800720]I also think others think you will be taken advantage of in the end. To me that is what most of the comments is about. You said you don't know either so it remains to be seen.[/QUOTE]I do know now. The group that came and visited us in Colombia had several lawyers in it. I was told prenups are the most contested contracts there are by a lawyer in California. That is what made me nervous. However, in Texas unlike California, the prenups are upheld. As one lawyer said about Texas, "they have to be". I mentioned a plan to give her what she is getting now, and another said, "You do not have to be that generous. ".

The big thing with her is that she said that she would sign whatever I wanted. Her concern has always been just being with me. I know how it sounds but she has backed it up. I told her that I did not want what she earned, and she said she did not want what I earned, so we are just going to keep things separate. I will cover the expenses until my gal starts working, but the overall expenses will probably be about the same as I am not going to be having to keep two places afloat.

One thing I have said to guys here that has been misunderstood is to only commit to Colombians who are in the elite class. For the poorer Colombians, they cannot think long term. With the elite, they typically have a relative working in the USA and the wage disparity is very real to them. In my gal's case, her daughter wants to be in a elite profession and has the brains and work ethic to do it. The difference in career income for her if she worked in Colombia versus the USA is in the millions of dollars. The difference between my gal's daughter and the typical Colombian is she knows it is possible. She has met enough Americans who have told her the job she wants is doable besides me.

If you are an elite hard worker, those millions is the money that matters. If not, then the guy's money is what the women will focus on.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2800720]II had a date this week that reminds me of you. The girl asked to come to my place after work with a catch. She had a friend visiting her. After some conversation, both came. After greeting, my date told her friend I wasn't seeing other chicas, and asked me to confirm it to her friend. She brought her friend to my place to have sex so she knows I do have sex with other girls like her friends. But I guess in her mind, I wasn't seeing others. Fast forward, we finished around 2 AM. She asked to sleep with me in my room and her friend in another room. I told her I only registered her and not her friend so they couldn't stay overnight. She said to me: Thank you for trusting me. That was unexpected. Do I have a future to have as good sex as you have?[/QUOTE]LOL. Maybe. Just think of it this way. If you are committed to a woman, she is going to give you all she is got. So however good she is, add 10% to that. So if she is among the best you have, then yeah, you might but do not forget the three month rule. That is about how long after you commit that so many woman get comfortable and will make your sex life less of a priority.

The problem is all women would swear their men are sexually satisfied and that they are the bomb when they are in bed. These women, especially the ones in demand, almost cannot conceive that any guy could not be satisfied with them.

That was a line in the movie Annie Hall. The wife said we have sex all the time like twice a week. The guy said we never have sex and only have it like twice a week.

Like I said, you can talk to the woman about your future sex life, but at the end of the day, I was like why would I want to be with a woman who does not sexually satisfy me? So I would re-evaluate things after you commit in three to six months and ask if your sex life is good because if it is not and you are an ex-monger, you are going to cheat, and you do not want the stigma of being a cheater.

There is all this bullshit about counseling and making it work. One of the things a Men Rights guy said, and he is totally right, is that a relationship should not be hard. Hell, I could just see a counselor making out some sex schedule to make sure a guy's sexual needs are met. Fuck that. If your woman no longer wants to fuck you, get out.

I have given the hot and great in bed sugar babies second and even third chances. In EVERY case, I asked myself why I dumped then and a short time later remembered why I did after said women behaved the same way. If you think you should leave a woman, you probably should because IMO things are rarely going to get better.

IMO finding a woman who is going to always sexually satisfy a guy is tough, and that is why I think it is not something most guys should shoot for. IMO it is far more likely guys are going to be sexually satisfied rotating women than hooking up with one woman.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2800525]
I'm staying at energy living for a week next month. Will girls get wet when they see where that I brought them there or will they instantly dry up?[/QUOTE]Neither. Energy Living has made its name as a place where foreign mongers can stay and not pay room fees for women. The best part of it was seeing all the fine women coming and going. English was spoken more there than Spanish.

My room was about half the size of a typical hotel room and the bed was on par with the shitty ones in strip clubs. Maybe there are nicer apartments there but mine was highly rated on Aibnb and sucked, and I think I paid $100+ a night there. I saw nothing impressive looks wise.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2800525]It looks nice from the pics I seen but some of you guys are talking like these hotels are for peons. Do peasants stay there? Maybe I should of stayed at the charlie or click clack hotel?[/QUOTE]Even with the higher end hotels, the rooms are really pretty much the same as the lower end ones. What separates the high end from low end is the service and the public areas. The higher end hotels have nicer pool areas, gyms, lobbies, and restaurants but those vary. I do not expect any hooker who has seen many of the places to be impressed though. They might put their nose up at the lesser hotels though. Of the high end hotels, the Marriott was the nicest and Intercontinental was second. The best value was the Dann Carlton though, great pool area.

But the main thing with me was the bed comfort for fucking and the guest fees. Though not centrally located, I thought the Fairfield Inn in the Marriott chain was the best for mongers. You can bypass the lobby as it is on like the 7th floor and bring in how ever many women you want and being a Marriott, you can count on a decent bed, hot water, and okay food.

But if you are bringing a woman with you and this Hotel Dorado (I. E. Viliany's La Quinta) really has these Deluxe rooms without guest fees, I would look at getting two rooms there. You get a cheaper room for you and your woman and then a deluxe room to play in. Make sure though you emphasize the other room is not for your woman but solely for playing.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2800678]They say the average person lives to be 75. Jjbee if I was you, I wouldn't waste your last remaining years going back and forth with people on the net. Can't be good for your health.[/QUOTE]In my family, those who make it past 60 average making it past 89. Oldest made it to 108. Several got to 95.

Mostly I don't worry about it. If I wake up tomorrow, that's fine with me.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800726]So I was looking for the best sex, and eventually tired of the hookers and upped my game and got the pay per meet sugar babies. [/QUOTE]All of whom, of course, are hookers. And if you think your current woman is not a hooker, and never had sex for money before meeting the great Elvis, you are delusional. To be clear, there is nothing wrong with any of that, other than you're just so fucking stupid to deny it. I would say you are stupid not to realize it, but you realize it and know it, so that makes it even more stupid to deny it. Denial is a river in Egypt as far as you are concerned.

[QUOTE=Villainy;2800714]The only person on here that is [B]known[/B] to stay in cheap hotels is Paulie. Of course his jealousy rages when he sees that other people are staying in places he could never afford. As to staying at Energy; you shouldn't have any issues. The main problem you will face is that if you are pulling girls form Bello or up North, they may be very late especially if you are pulling them during rush hour when las autopistas are jam packed with traffic.[/QUOTE]Yeah I could see that being the case with its location. I think me and my lady friend that's traveling with me will stick to mostly pulling girls from the clubs.

[QUOTE=Huacho;2800677]Right, because for "men like you," that's only a dollar a pound![/QUOTE]Lmaoooooooo wtf LOL.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800726]And this from the guy making fun of me for a breakup with my ex Venezuelan fiance years ago? LOL. The lack of honesty is what makes this forum so rough. Everyone is trying to pretend they are a stud on a hooker board. So JJBee makes a year of drinking, whacking off, going in debt, and hanging in a bar into this wonderous journey instead of the obvious truth, he hit rock bottom.[/QUOTE]Come on. I've made fun of you for dozens of things. It's so easy. You're the guy who tries to be an alpha male then says a man has to be worthy of a woman. You're the guy who says a 10 is a woman who is the most sexually desirable and then say your woman's 14 year old daughter is a 10. You're the guy, well I could go on for hours, but I think it's obvious that making fun of you, on almost any subject isn't difficult.

Is dementia contagious? If so, did you catch it from Paulie, or did he catch it from you? I've been over and over that entire year, which will have ended 5 years ago in 5 days,10 times or more. Yet neither of you seem capable of remembering any of the details except it was in Colombia and a webcam model was somehow involved. The rest you just make up whatever sounds good at the moment.

Paulie keeps going on about me renting an apartment, when I didn't. He blabbers that the failed deal with the webcam model lasted a year, then I tried for another 3 months to start a webcam studio, rented another apartment and somehow managed to fit 15 months into 1 year (352 days). It doesn't even make sense. If, after a year, I had rented another apartment, which would have required a minimum of 6 months deposit, where did the money come from? I was already broke. Remember?

He says I ran the webcam model's camera, which is impossible. I was there because the model was supposed to be starting her own studio. The studio never got started, I worked for 2 other webcam studios, but there wasn't enough work, and eventually received a small payment for my time. Not enough to cover what I'd spent, but enough for a few more months.

You and Paulie constantly fantasizing about me masturbating would freak me out, except I got over any homophobia long ago. It's just strange that 2 middle aged men are always imagining me masturbating and aren't ashamed to tell the world that they can't think about me without visualizing me stroking off.

Back on subject. Sure. On March 28,2018, I was feeling low. However, on March 29 I had a job and a place to live. Within a few months I was out of debt and improving my situation. It's been almost 5 years, I've not only replaced, I've upgraded everything I had before all of that. I've recovered my losses and then some and my income is double what it was before I started.

During that year (I'll repeat what I've already stated several times because between the 2 of you, your combined IQ barely breaks 80) I met a lot of people (ISG members, expats, Colombians, business owners, plus plenty of women), I improved my Spanish from struggling to put together 3 sentences, to carrying on conversations with several people at once, and I got to know Medellin. I made friends who will last a lifetime and I made memories. So, looking back, it was an incredible journey, it cost me very little and gained me a great deal. Feeling down for a few weeks was a small price to pay.

[QUOTE]But you can see through it if you read enough of his posts. Like I said, he had a sugar baby he stupidly called a GF, and it did not work out. I could see it a mile away. Instead of asking how I knew, he does what he always does and engages in the same narcissistic bullshit he always employs, no one can understand my life only me. You didn't understand how hot water worked, and I did not understand the strata system. Only Professor Shit for Brains knows all.[/QUOTE]That's incredible! You could see it a mile away? But you've never been within a mile of it, which means you can't see it. I still have the same girlfriend, or whatever you and everyone else who knows nothing about it wants to call her. I spent a few weeks deciding whether or not I wished to continue and decided to keep her around for now. It's approaching 2 years, 3 years since we started talking. I'm pretty sure she's less expensive than bringing in a bunch of lawyers to draw up prenuptial agreements, or in relocating a hooker to another country.

Paulie apparently didn't understand how hot water worked. I'm going from memory here, he said I didn't have the hot water turned on. Hot water isn't a service that can be turned on or off. There's either an installed heater, or there isn't. There wasn't. Fortunately, Colombia has a cheap and easy option for anyone with basic electrical skills, a showerhead heater. Works great, takes 5 minutes to install.

You clearly didn't understand the estrato system and I doubt if you understand it now. You demonstrated beyond any doubt that it was as foreign to you as finger puppets are to a snake. Remember how it's so easy to make fun of you?

Nobody CAN understand my life. There are times when even I'm scratching my head. You would have to be insane, I'm talking rubber room, strait jacket, constantly medicated, stark raving lunatic, to think you can understand another person's life, particularly someone who you've never met. Fuck, you can't even understand my relationship with my girlfriend, or the estrato system.

[QUOTE]So Professor Shit for Brains commits to his SB he calls GF, pays for everything, and a few months after that, things do not work out. We all know damned well what happened because it has happened to all of us. He gave away his monogamy to a woman who did not earn it. Quit being such a patronizing dick and learn something for once.

But will he learn something this once? Hell, no. You can expect the 10 page War and Peace novel like he just wrote to you about his health, and what will be the theme? You do not understand, Elvis.[/QUOTE]What else can the theme be? When you clearly don't understand, I'm rather limited. For example, it's not been a few months, closer to 2 years, I haven't paid for everything, except when she came and stayed with me in the US. But I have to pay for my living expenses regardless. It just meant I spent more on food.

You apparently know damned well what happened, but I'm lost. Can you fill me in on what caused the breakup which never happened? Or just tell me why I was considering moving on.

I never had any monogamy to give away. I don't see things in that way. For example, I spent 5 years committed to a woman, yet we often swapped, or had group sex with 4 or 5 other couples, or 3 somes with another girl, every weekend. Sex is just sex. Sometimes it's great, but if your sole definition of a relationship is how often you're getting laid, it's not a relationship.

Now, did I stop seeing hookers? Yes. Did I stop trying to find new girls? Yes. I'm well past the point of needing any more Whatsapp numbers. Did I call in lawyers and start talking about marriage? No. Only an idiot would pull a woman from a third world country, give her a first world lifestyle and expect happily ever after. Check any strip club in the US and you'll find those third world ex-wives, sucking dicks for dollars. Matter of fact, a good friend of mine has introduced me to several guys she knows who married third world women (she's a third world woman herself). Every one had nothing but regrets.

All I did was decide to stay on this ride until I get tired of it. When I do, I won't cry on ISG about my ungrateful ex who I relocated to a different country. I'll just go back to whatever feels right.

By the way, you might want to check out War and Peace again. It's more than 10 pages.

It was a simple question. Why can't you answer it? I'll rephrase it and ask again.

According to you, I'm a horribly disfigured, unkempt wretch, who nobody could possibly bear to be around. All of that may well be true, let's assume it is. Now the question:

Why did you keep seeking my company?

You sent me a PM and wanted to meet. I didn't know who you were because you never posted. We met and had a few beers. Instead of politely making an exit so you wouldn't have to see my grotesque form or listen to my inane conversation, you asked me to accompany you to a casa. Why?

I've never known which casa it was, because I never had a desire to return. You said it was your favorite, but when we arrived there were only 3 girls and only 1 looked decent. Unfortunately the Colombian who was there before us took her. You took the average looking one then later complained about her horrible odor. Meanwhile, I turned down the only other girl, but took the 4th one who showed up. She was nothing special, but was clean and enthusiastic. Strange that with all your experience, you didn't know a casa with halfway decent women. Sorry. I got distracted.

After we parted ways, you wanted to meet up again, this time in Parque Lleras. Why? I'm so horribly disfigured I'd cause the Elephant Man to retch and listening to me is worse than fingernails on the blackboard, but you not only suggested spending the evening together, you stayed for several hours. What possessed you to waste your time with such a freak?

Up to the point where you went postal, every day you were messaging me. What was the appeal?

And it didn't end there. Once you had an excuse to send me a PM you were again messaging me every, single day. Then, after getting drugged, you made a trip to Parque Lleras, just to see me.

Please explain it. Your descriptions of me depict a freak show in a torture chamber, yet time after time you sought my companionship. After your terrible experience, of all the people you might have messaged, or called, instead you took a taxi hoping to find me. Tell me why.

You haven't seen me since I sat down to listen to your story. Therefore, I had to have been, in your eyes, a shambling, drooping, moss-headed boor before then. Why? Why? Why? Why were you not only willing, but eager to place yourself in my presence then, but now feel you must constantly expound upon my horrifying description?

Come now. With all that integrity you're overflowing with, you should have an honest answer to such a simple question.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800743]Yes.She is not and has never been a sex worker. ...[/QUOTE]That is what I am trying to point out. I don't know what others are thinking but I guess some will think like me.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800743]I do know now. ...[/QUOTE]You never know so you must speak to a divorce lawyer on how to protect yourself before you commit to marriage.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2800743]LOL. Maybe. Just think of it this way. If you are committed to a woman, she is going to give you all she is got. ...[/QUOTE]I am not committing to anything, not to the type of girls I am seeing now anyway. I mostly just observe and go alone to agree with them with a smile. I know when they take advantage of me but I am not concerned about that small amount as long as we have fun together. In this case, this girl is bring her friends to have sex together and thinking I am not having sex with other women so I think generosity has its reward sometimes and it pays off in a way that is unexpected.