Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=PedroMorales;2327481]I am eating a lot of bread these days. Gluten free to be safe. Many people have allergies, not least to LBFMs, who are irresistible to some. I prefer to be safe, immune and inoculated. Take gambling. I don't see the lure of betting on someone else's horse. But others do. And more still marry these nags.

Pussy is a vice, best used in moderation and knowing who or what is in control, you or the pussy. All common sense but common sense is a rarity.[/QUOTE]Sirens are a good description of these lascivious Filipina prostitutes who enchant wayward mongers with their pussies, depriving them of reason to the point of forgetting their native country. Once these mongers become lost in carnal delights with their LBFMs, they neglect their finances and fall into poverty. Their LBFMs quickly unload them and the elderly fellows soon succumb to sickness and death. Some of the courageous ones throw themselves off tall buildings or drink themselves to death with cheap Filipino rum that doubles as an industrial solvent.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2327260]Romantic love is a temporary form of mental illness. Thousands of mongers fall victim to this illness in the Philippines, and end up married to low quality scheming Filipina pussy. These impoverished women are always looking to enrich themselves and display their loot on social media. All one can do is sit back and watch the show. At least the office is getting a laugh out of this over-the-hill Filipina pussy cleaning the old Aussie monger's clock. The fact that he has multiple failed marriages and his middle-aged Flip wife 'forced' him to buy her a luxury house shows that he is a very weak man who enjoys playing the fool for women.[/QUOTE]Another interesting chapter to this story. This monger has been sent on assignment to another city in Australia for six months or so. Company has hired him an apartment and his Filipina bride has also accompanied him. She can't work as she has no residency status yet. What is she going to do in her luxurious inner city apartment while Mr Fat Monger is at the office for 12-hours a day for the next six months? There is only so much social media, video chat with family in Cebu and shopping you can do in a day. You can all see where this is going.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2327260]Romantic love is a temporary form of mental illness. Thousands of mongers fall victim to this illness in the Philippines, and end up married to low quality scheming Filipina pussy. These impoverished women are always looking to enrich themselves and display their loot on social media. All one can do is sit back and watch the show. At least the office is getting a laugh out of this over-the-hill Filipina pussy cleaning the old Aussie monger's clock. The fact that he has multiple failed marriages and his middle-aged Flip wife 'forced' him to buy her a luxury house shows that he is a very weak man who enjoys playing the fool for women.[/QUOTE]Yes, but there are always exceptions if one chooses an educated, employed good girl with good values, right, RK?

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2327260]Romantic love is a temporary form of mental illness. Thousands of mongers fall victim to this illness in the Philippines, and end up married to low quality scheming Filipina pussy.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=DCups;2331318]Yes, but there are always exceptions if one chooses an educated, employed good girl with good values, right, RK?[/QUOTE]You're both right. However, one thing that the occasional visitor or online love struck seldom realised is that in most of Asia it's totally acceptable to have your cake and eat it too.

DCs civilian princess accepts that virtually all husbands are going to stray and will tolerate the odd "golf trip" as long as nothing comes to light in public and embarrasses her or her family.

For those that want to settle down, there is definitely no need to fall in love with Chocha's scheming hoe. Just find a good civilian and quietly have fun on the side.

Enjoy. G.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2331438]You're both right. However, one thing that the occasional visitor or online love struck seldom realised is that in most of Asia it's totally acceptable to have your cake and eat it too.
DCs civilian princess accepts that virtually all husbands are going to stray and will tolerate the odd "golf trip" as long as nothing comes to light in public and embarrasses her or her family.
For those that want to settle down, there is definitely no need to fall in love with Chocha's scheming hoe. Just find a good civilian and quietly have fun on the side.
Enjoy. G.[/QUOTE]Many Asian cultures expect men to wander. One of the first things that happened when I met my Asian GF sister's husband is he took me to a "spa" in their hometown.

I played dumb as I thought it was a test and said "just a massage please". I'm sure he got the full treatment.

Many Asian wives know not to ask. As long as you look after them, come home and are discrete as Gof says all is fine.

And looking after them does not mean being a walking ATM 24/7.

NI.

That is totally going to depend on the girl you meet. If you fall in love with a bar girl yes she will expect you to stray. If you fall in love with the typical catholic girl that has very high values then no it will not be expected. Low profile is the answer and don't shit where you eat. Take a cab or a jeepney to wherever you plan to play, not the next door neighbor.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2331260]Another interesting chapter to this story. This monger has been sent on assignment to another city in Australia for six months or so. Company has hired him an apartment and his Filipina bride has also accompanied him. She can't work as she has no residency status yet. What is she going to do in her luxurious inner city apartment while Mr Fat Monger is at the office for 12-hours a day for the next six months? There is only so much social media, video chat with family in Cebu and shopping you can do in a day. You can all see where this is going.[/QUOTE]She can work but depends on her residency status as once married and the bridging visa is in place she can work but can she find it. Most pinays can stay transfixed to FB etc for 12 hours happily as their whole world can be there. The news, their friends and all the chismis!

But she will wander to gym or supermarket maybe ED and then people think she is exotic especially if in the Bush areas so you point is well made.

[QUOTE=NewImage;2331468]Many Asian cultures expect men to wander. One of the first things that happened when I met my Asian GF sister's husband is he took me to a "spa" in their hometown.

I played dumb as I thought it was a test and said "just a massage please". I'm sure he got the full treatment.

Many Asian wives know not to ask. As long as you look after them, come home and are discrete as Gof says all is fine.

And looking after them does not mean being a walking ATM 24/7.

NI.[/QUOTE]This just reflects on one of two things (or both possibly).

1. The quality and class of women you are acquainted with in Asia.

2. Your own ignorance about Asian cultures.

[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2331602]This just reflects on one of two things (or both possibly).

1. The quality and class of women you are acquainted with in Asia.

2. Your own ignorance about Asian cultures.[/QUOTE]And what is wrong with communicating with your specific partner and coming up with the rules of your particular relationship instead of guessing at what you think might be acceptable in a culture?

Two different chicks from the same culture have told me two different things. One said I know you are fucking other chicks. Just wear a condom and make sure I don't see it. Another has told me that she is not going to fuck with a guy that fucks other women. Keep in mind that there is no one size fits all either. YMMV.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2331610]Another has told me that she is not going to fuck with a guy that fucks other women. Keep in mind that there is no one size fits all either. YMMV.[/QUOTE]Hahaha. Please tell me you are kidding and understand that she is saying exactly what I said: "If you don't embarrass me by doing anything that my friends or family see, I'll pretend nothing is happening" I'll admit that going unnoticed would be exceedingly difficult (even if you wanted to) if you both frequent the same town.

In all seriousness, maybe I'm generalizing all Asian women but I haven't come across a mixed or Asian relationship that proves me wrong. Most Asian cultures that I've come across have allowances for everything from a quiet dalliance thru to a formal Major / Minor wife agreement.

Cheers. G.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2331610]And what is wrong with communicating with your specific partner and coming up with the rules of your particular relationship instead of guessing at what you think might be acceptable in a culture?

Two different chicks from the same culture have told me two different things. One said I know you are fucking other chicks. Just wear a condom and make sure I don't see it. Another has told me that she is not going to fuck with a guy that fucks other women. Keep in mind that there is no one size fits all either. YMMV.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Blanquiceleste;2331602]This just reflects on one of two things (or both possibly).

1. The quality and class of women you are acquainted with in Asia.

2. Your own ignorance about Asian cultures.[/QUOTE]Refer to point #1.

A big mistake that many monger husbands make is assuming that things will remain the same after marriage and that their Filipina wife will allow them the same privileges that Filipino men enjoy such as cuckolding, fathering bastards, keeping younger mistresses, gambling, and heavy drinking. Most Filipinas choose a foreign walking-ATM husband precisely because they believe foreigners are easier to control and arrive already castrated from Western feminist culture. Filipina brides quickly disabuse many mongers of their illusions about submissive and tolerant Filipina wives before the ink dries on the marriage certificate and visa application.

[QUOTE=NewImage;2331468]Many Asian cultures expect men to wander. One of the first things that happened when I met my Asian GF sister's husband is he took me to a "spa" in their hometown.

I played dumb as I thought it was a test and said "just a massage please". I'm sure he got the full treatment.

Many Asian wives know not to ask. As long as you look after them, come home and are discrete as Gof says all is fine.

And looking after them does not mean being a walking ATM 24/7.

NI.[/QUOTE]They expect Asian men to wander but they expect foreign men to remain faithful, and finance the extended family. Asian women see their foreigner as a source of cash primarily and do not take kindly to other women getting into his wallet.

Good observation.

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2331963]A big mistake that many monger husbands make is assuming that things will remain the same after marriage and that their Filipina wife will allow them the same privileges that Filipino men enjoy such as cuckolding, fathering bastards, keeping younger mistresses, gambling, and heavy drinking. Most Filipinas choose a foreign walking-ATM husband precisely because they believe foreigners are easier to control and arrive already castrated from Western feminist culture. Filipina brides quickly disabuse many mongers of their illusions about submissive and tolerant Filipina wives before the ink dries on the marriage certificate and visa application.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=ChochaMonger;2331963]A big mistake that many monger husbands make is assuming that things will remain the same after marriage and that their Filipina wife will allow them the same privileges that Filipino men enjoy such as cuckolding, fathering bastards, keeping younger mistresses, gambling, and heavy drinking. Most Filipinas choose a foreign walking-ATM husband precisely because they believe foreigners are easier to control and arrive already castrated from Western feminist culture. Filipina brides quickly disabuse many mongers of their illusions about submissive and tolerant Filipina wives before the ink dries on the marriage certificate and visa application.[/QUOTE]I'll pay that.

One thing that is very apparent is that you often see attitudes change radically as she becomes more and more secure. Undying devotion and horniness towards a mobile boyfriend becomes bitterness and entitlement by degrees as houses are purchased in her name, kids arrive, visas are approved and, finally, as access to western divorce courts is available.

Local husbands avoid this by having he ability to simply walk out the door if she gives him the $hits. Mr White often can't do this on moral or foreign legal grounds.

Having said that I do know several guys that ducked out for a quart of milk and took a 30 yr detour.

Enjoy. G.