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Hi Fellas,
How are you.
I need help in SA. I am premium member and recently purchased membership however I am not able to see any online members. In Bangalore there are 76 profiles however hardly 2-3 profiles were recently online. Is there any settings to be changed to look at profiles and to have chat with birds? Anyone can help me with this?
Thanks.
Shine.
[QUOTE=Phil50;2830921]I think the OPs post was not about her being late. It was a deliberate scam to get 3 k, as a previous poster also mentioned re: Kolkata girls.
I agree time management is a huge problem and I cut girls some slack in our first few meets, though in this case I would have cancelled. I have learnt to do the following:
- I ask her to share her location once she leaves and I only leave after that. Once she leaves, let her share the ETA.
- I let her know that if she hasn't left (no shared loc) by the time we are supposed to meet, the meet is off. If she is going to arrive more than 30 minutes after her ETA, its cancelled.
- I agree to pay cab after the meet (or on arrival) and if I have to cancel because she's late, I won't.
Our time is a lot more important than theirs. If I am paying a large sum to a girl for a meet and we agree on the time, I would expect her to respect my time, particularly when she's not
pulled out of work. Quite often, this late coming is part of her sense of entitlement or mind games and that has never helped in any longer term relationship. Would we tolerate serious and repeated late coming with service providers, in our professional lives ?[/QUOTE]Yes it is scam that she tried to pull on me.
-I let her choose time and location. She deliberately chose 9 pm and came late almost an hour later but I believe she just tried to buy time at the deadline I set. Last order at restaurant in next 30 minutes and she knew any person would be pissed so they might just pay and postpone the dinner for some other day. Better to have food at home than a restaurant which is about to close in 30 minutes.
-The location was also selected by her. She claims she stays far away from that mall. Distance between her stay and mall to put into context of blore is electronic city and kempegowda airport, in delhis context it is between airport to greater noida. So again that's a smart con job.
-She claims no cab service in her stay area so she books some known brother who has cab to take around her to places. Other student of her college supposedly do same statement made by her only. I believe if we ended up in that dinner I might be monitored by that personal cabbie aka pimp.
- I asked her too that she shares selfie when she about to start. She didn't. Later at the night after I reached home she told she sent pic, I said no you didn't, after few back and forth she told she mistakenly sent the pic to some other potential suitor and shared me tg chat of that.
-Later she admitted she met other person before meeting me and she thought I won't show up as it was raining. Quite contradictory though. SO when I reached mall and pinged her that's when she started for me. She might have thought of me as an instant ATM at 10 pm night.
-She tried mending ways with me. But all time she hinted to compensate and told how much trouble she endured to try meet me that night. Also sent that cabbie cum pimp; s upi ID. BTW she asked 10 k plus cab charges for that nights trouble. I did little bit simping to bring out her true colours.
-Other mongers also said she tried to meet far away places from her stay and only at dinner.
Conclusion is she maybe doing MBBS though she doesn't know difference between master of science and master of surgery but she did her schooling from Nigeria school of conning that I am fully sure.
Stay awake stay vigilante.
Has anyone met with Gonegirl.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/1eb3be68-6a73-45fe-b9c5-d56e5b6ae21e?metric=true[/URL]
Quoting initial short term 10-20 k.
Expand the range of age & distance filter if its too restricted. Also, see if too many specific preferences are selected in search; then de-select them.
[QUOTE=Shine6;2830945]Hi Fellas,
How are you.
I need help in SA. I am premium member and recently purchased membership however I am not able to see any online members. In Bangalore there are 76 profiles however hardly 2-3 profiles were recently online. Is there any settings to be changed to look at profiles and to have chat with birds? Anyone can help me with this?
Thanks.
Shine.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Shine6;2830945]Hi Fellas,
How are you.
I need help in SA. I am premium member and recently purchased membership however I am not able to see any online members. In Bangalore there are 76 profiles however hardly 2-3 profiles were recently online. Is there any settings to be changed to look at profiles and to have chat with birds? Anyone can help me with this?
Thanks.
Shine.[/QUOTE]You would have registered as a successful member looking for attractive members. You can change to an attractive member by writing to the customer support. But you will have only a few days of membership (premium) with this mode as you would have paid lesser than what is intended for the newer premium membership (as an attractive member).
Regards.
Asd.
Has anyone met lakshita. ([URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/67afa37b-073c-4c38-b9c4-24f300707647[/URL]).
He / she is a transgirl. I am straight and I am curious how does it work with a transgirl. He / she says no intercourse involved.
Any insights from the more experienced folks will really help.
[QUOTE=Shine6;2830945]Hi Fellas,
How are you.
I need help in SA. I am premium member and recently purchased membership however I am not able to see any online members. In Bangalore there are 76 profiles however hardly 2-3 profiles were recently online. Is there any settings to be changed to look at profiles and to have chat with birds? Anyone can help me with this?
Thanks.
Shine.[/QUOTE]Check your settings. My membership is free currently and I see 1099 profiles in Bangalore (120+ active in the past 24 hours).
If anyone has tried this girl, please post FR or DM me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/495e8c09-281f-4f03-9772-2d1f16ef1ee4[/URL]
Thanks.
Friends please post a review on this sugar baby or you may DM me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f5aff143-a6ef-4dde-829c-a88281fc1f03[/URL]
[QUOTE=Asdqwe1212;2830980]You would have registered as a successful member looking for attractive members. You can change to an attractive member by writing to the customer support. But you will have only a few days of membership (premium) with this mode as you would have paid lesser than what is intended for the newer premium membership (as an attractive member).
Regards.
Asd.[/QUOTE]Thanks Asd. Yeah I have written to customer service. Let's hope for best. I do have 90 day's membership taken 2 days before.
[QUOTE=Shahiste72;2831044]Friends please post a review on this sugar baby or you may DM me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/f5aff143-a6ef-4dde-829c-a88281fc1f03[/URL][/QUOTE]Tried to contact her. Nerver replied to me. Also last logon was on June 17.
Following two profiles are such a time waster. Do not know why they open account. Do not want to meet but just give stupid excuses like right ow I am not in Delhi but in Kolkata, When I mentioned I will be in Kolkata, answer is I am in Hyderabad. WTF.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/558041f8-71ce-42da-aa36-f65c88a9b2d7[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11f861df-a731-4c72-903d-1a0b0bdac13f[/URL]
Any intel on this profile please, , quoting 25 k, of course it's too high. Planning for VC tomorrow morning. Please share any intel, is it a genuine profile etc, so that I can decide to move forward after VC or not, thanks in advance.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/3f4132b0-1105-4435-b6f6-ba7531dceca8[/URL]
[QUOTE=DesiGuy3;2831132]Following two profiles are such a time waster. Do not know why they open account. Do not want to meet but just give stupid excuses like right ow I am not in Delhi but in Kolkata, When I mentioned I will be in Kolkata, answer is I am in Hyderabad. WTF.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/558041f8-71ce-42da-aa36-f65c88a9b2d7[/URL]
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/11f861df-a731-4c72-903d-1a0b0bdac13f[/URL][/QUOTE]About 1 in 4 on SA are time wasters. It used to be worse, or maybe I'm more selective. Some are what I call 'toe dippers', checking out the site. They leave when they realise there's no free money on offer. Others get a kick out of having people in senior positions chase them and offer large sums of money. Or they use it as a forum to vent and be rude to people. Its a reality of life on SA that we have to live with. What I have learnt to do is:
- I don't reply to a profile with no details. If you can't bother to write anything about you, or show a pic, why would I be interested?
- I don't chase people who take ages to reply, or send 1 liners, haven't seen my long profile (though they read my message and reply). I look for a GFE and if you can't write a sentence , I will have
trouble communicating with you.
- I don't entertain anyone who posts a wrong location, or changes it. It has never worked. I have only entertained people not in my location if they have seen my profile and said that they plan
to visit my city. Or I am planning to go there and look for someone in that city.
Even if you are looking for a one time encounter with an escort, the good ones are more professional and make the effort to get you interested.
[QUOTE=Shahiste72;2831043]If anyone has tried this girl, please post FR or DM me.
[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/495e8c09-281f-4f03-9772-2d1f16ef1ee4[/URL]
Thanks.[/QUOTE]Chatted with her. She is in Delhi but wants arrangement in Mumbai. That means you pay for her airfare etc. Also her allowance expectations were 45-50 K. I didn't entertain further.