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It's not complicated. Book something near Parque Lleras then follow the crowds toward the throbbing music of Gustos and its nearby competitors. The surrounding streets are the clock tower's rough equivalent. He can go to La Isla to break up the routine. As others have suggested, there is also the option of staying in Cartagena.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2737404]Don't go to Medellin looking for Cartagena. They are 2 different animals.[/QUOTE]
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Money issue
[QUOTE=FurJacket;2737435]Thank you to everyone that posts on here. I have been reading the forum for the last couple of months now, and I have learned so much. I'm going to be in Medellin in the next few weeks and I can't wait! I have been chatting with a few girls on FB. These girls don't really have slutty pictures and only a few hundred followers. Question is how do you bring up the money part. Should you even mention it, or just give them a little for their family when the night is done. What's the safe amount to give? The only reason I ask is because I don't want to insult the girl. Some guidance would be appreciate.[/QUOTE]I have the same issue. At first, I would just ask if they are escorts and the responses would be very vague and non-direct but in the chats they would mention their financial situation or that they are looking for a job. Now I don't worry about it. If they want a certain amount, they will eventually let you know. Otherwise, I am happy to give them 200 k at the end to help them with their expenses. In the end, all will be grateful for the money and it helps alleviate drama issues because if they take the money, they can't really complain if you don't see them again because they ended up better for the night. Now, if you don't see them again and you didn't give them any money, they may feel used and get very angry at you. 200 k to avoid these issues is a price worth paying.
But take my advice with a grain of salt because I have never stepped foot in Medellin. Ja ja ja. Not yet.
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Negotiations online
Do you bargain online? If the girl says her program is 80 mil half hour should I bargain try to bargain for $60 mil for example?
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[QUOTE=FurJacket;2737435]... The only reason I ask is because I don't want to insult the girl. Some guidance would be appreciate.[/QUOTE]You can just ask what she wants to let her tell you if you are not sure.
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[QUOTE=Surfer500;2737139]So what where you eating for dinner, as whatever the meat was, it looked pretty good and a good pairing with a Malbec. It you had that dinner in Medellin, what was the name of the place and and how was the food. ...[/QUOTE]It's in Sao Paulo. It's an interesting setup so it is better that you google [B]A Figueira Rubaiyat[/B] on map to check it out. Another member recommended it to me. I was waiting for baby lamb chop. The total is about 370 BRL. I am not sure the exchange rate but I just divide it by 5 to get USD total. Most steaks are about the same price in USD 45 range. Wagyu steak is about USD 90.
[QUOTE=Surfer500;2737139].... Food comes up at times here, and besides pussy I'm always on the look out for a place with good food either for delivery or in a restaurant.[/QUOTE]I recommend you to visit if you have not been there. The food are very good, and pussy too. That area is like El Poblado but without the tourists and prostitutes.
Thanks for the tip of Madurando. I stock it in my fridge.
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[QUOTE=FurJacket;2737435]Thank you to everyone that posts on here. I have been reading the forum for the last couple of months now, and I have learned so much. I'm going to be in Medellin in the next few weeks and I can't wait! I have been chatting with a few girls on FB. These girls don't really have slutty pictures and only a few hundred followers. Question is how do you bring up the money part. Should you even mention it, or just give them a little for their family when the night is done. What's the safe amount to give? The only reason I ask is because I don't want to insult the girl. Some guidance would be appreciate.[/QUOTE]Price discussions always become controversial in forums so I don't like to give specific advice on the general forum. You are welcome to PM me. But in general most girls will bring it up before they leave home. They will at least ask if you will pay for taxi and the answer of course is yes. Don't expect her to take Metro.
Another thing about these girls. They are used to walking around in their neighborhood in clothes that look like lingerie. I tend to stay in nice hotels and I don't like a girl walking through lobby looking like that. Sometimes I take them to dinner as I don't like eating alone. Many of these girls have not eaten at a nice restaurant in Pobaldo. I give specific instructions on dress code. I tell them pants and not much skin showing. I even ask her to send me photo when she is ready to call taxi. If I am not satisfied, I tell her to put a jacket on. That is me.
In general do what you think is best and what you can afford. Super majority of these girls are sweet and are not out there to scam you. I tend to be on the generous side but not on stupid side. It also depends on what you want. I have days when I am busy and I want a quick in and out session and days when I want to drink, dance party, jacuzzi have some friends over, order food, buy party supplies etc. Don't be cheap if you want to want to build a network. Don't nickel and dime about taxi money.
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[QUOTE=Vitrea;2737740]Price discussions always become controversial in forums so I don't like to give specific advice on the general forum. You are welcome to PM me. But in general most girls will bring it up before they leave home. They will at least ask if you will pay for taxi and the answer of course is yes. Don't expect her to take Metro.
Another thing about these girls. They are used to walking around in their neighborhood in clothes that look like lingerie. I tend to stay in nice hotels and I don't like a girl walking through lobby looking like that. Sometimes I take them to dinner as I don't like eating alone. Many of these girls have not eaten at a nice restaurant in Pobaldo. I give specific instructions on dress code. I tell them pants and not much skin showing. I even ask her to send me photo when she is ready to call taxi. If I am not satisfied, I tell her to put a jacket on. That is me.
In general do what you think is best and what you can afford. Super majority of these girls are sweet and are not out there to scam you. I tend to be on the generous side but not on stupid side. It also depends on what you want. I have days when I am busy and I want a quick in and out session and days when I want to drink, dance party, jacuzzi have some friends over, order food, buy party supplies etc. Don't be cheap if you want to want to build a network. Don't nickel and dime about taxi money.[/QUOTE]I love this advice. Best thing I've seen on this thread for a very long time.
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[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2737622]Johnny don't bust that dude's chop too hard man. Not his fault LOL. It's a Weekend warrior attidude started in the DR, then Cartagena, and once arrive at MDE they hate it since you have to do some work and everything isn't centralized. Although MDE's not my fav but most of us who know how to navigate the city would pick it anyday over CTG. I convinced a friend to visit Medellin few months back and he won't be going back likely since he's mostly used to the clocktower and clubs nearby each other in Cte. It was his fault too, I sent the dude the map from this board as he askd me about the casas, he was in Medellin for 10 days and not once he opened the map and only sticked to Llera and especially Gusto and complained everyday about the pricing and set up w girls asking for $300 USD LOL. I'm like seriously man, you couldn't open the map once, punch New Life's or Energy's address in Uber and go there and bang for $20. To experience these lineups? He never went to Face2, La Isla, nothing, wanted his hand held. Bruh people are just lazy and you can't help everyone.[/QUOTE]And maybe some of these lazy idiots coming, finding that, a scam or a theft changes the narrative and undoes some of the nonsense that has become more prevalent last 1 yr or so. Medellin requires a bit of work, some social skills, some street smarts, and some language skills. It's not plug and play. Let only those prepared come, whats the big deal?
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The Look Of Shame
[QUOTE=Vitrea;2737740]Price discussions always become controversial in forums so I don't like to give specific advice on the general forum. You are welcome to PM me. But in general most girls will bring it up before they leave home. They will at least ask if you will pay for taxi and the answer of course is yes. Don't expect her to take Metro.
Another thing about these girls. They are used to walking around in their neighborhood in clothes that look like lingerie. I tend to stay in nice hotels and I don't like a girl walking through lobby looking like that. Sometimes I take them to dinner as I don't like eating alone. Many of these girls have not eaten at a nice restaurant in Pobaldo. I give specific instructions on dress code. I tell them pants and not much skin showing. I even ask her to send me photo when she is ready to call taxi. If I am not satisfied, I tell her to put a jacket on. That is me.
In general do what you think is best and what you can afford. Super majority of these girls are sweet and are not out there to scam you. I tend to be on the generous side but not on stupid side. It also depends on what you want. I have days when I am busy and I want a quick in and out session and days when I want to drink, dance party, jacuzzi have some friends over, order food, buy party supplies etc. Don't be cheap if you want to want to build a network. Don't nickel and dime about taxi money.[/QUOTE]Good solid advice, especially about how the women dress. I do the same with my girls when I'm taking them out to a nice place, no jeans with holes, and a top that doesn't have their boobs popping out. After the first time at a nice place, and they see how others are dressed, they know the drill and what my expectations are.
Yet you may still get the "look of shame" depending on how much younger the women are than you, at least I do at times, especially at a Hotel with families.
I remember once a family wouldn't get in the elevator with me and my date being 35 years younger than me. The mom look horrified when the elevator doors opened with her kids in tow.
And on a rare occasion, I will get the "look of approval" and the "look of shame" at the same time when an older couple sees me with a date. The woman will give me a dirty look, and the guy will give me an approving smile.
And not being a "cheap charlie", more good advice for those like you who can afford to roll in style.
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[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2737371]I say this is still a good account, because the idiot gringos who friended her or him (as most catfish accts are dudes or lonely whoopsies), have many of their friend lists open and you can find real one. I just navigated a couple dudes and hunted a couple of their real Faybu Medellin friend lists [/QUOTE]Way to see the big picture! It is folks like you that see the treasure in things that others may see as trash.
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[QUOTE=FurJacket;2737435]Question is how do you bring up the money part. Should you even mention it, or just give them a little for their family when the night is done. What's the safe amount to give? The only reason I ask is because I don't want to insult the girl.[/QUOTE]Why do you assume the chicks are hookers? So you are willing to insult her by giving her money if she is not a hooker, but you don't want to insult her by not giving her money if she is a hooker? Personally I would rather insult the hooker. I can always take money out of my pocket if she says where is my payment.
A chick that is not a hooker could be my friend for life, so I definitely do not want to insult her by assuming or insinuating that she may be a hooker and I need to give money to her.
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[QUOTE=Vitrea;2737740]They will at least ask if you will pay for taxi and the answer of course is yes. Don't expect her to take Metro.[/QUOTE]That is exactly how you know. Most chicks that I know who are not hookers will take public transportation to you (and most times even insist on it), but if a chick asks about you paying a taxi then she is coming to "pick up some money from you".
I got into a knock down drag out with my chick that works at the hospital because she took public transportation after getting off work at 9 pm then got lost and could not find the address. I told her to hop in a taxi but she just preferred to walk around scared. 1 hour later she got in the taxi. I told her from now on to take Indriver directly to me. And that is what she did the next time. The next morning I tried to give her money to get to work in Indriver and she refused saying she would take public transportation.
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I think you and the original poster are both right. I also happen to know that, like most everybody else here in Medellin, girls will opt for the metro when it's convenient and faster than a taxi. Generally during rush hour. They do this whether or not they have a deal to collect taxi money. We should ask ourselves why a girl would give up an extra 15 to 20 k and lose time she could use for another date. I like to use ride share apps so I can track the progress because for me the number one disincentive of facebook and indie providers is having to guess when they might arrive or even worse, wasting time exchanging insincere "I'm on my way" messages. I am clear and consistent when I'm paying what I consider a premium. I set a firm arrival time and I make it very clear that if we are not together by that time then we will not be together. Life is too short for rando nonsense.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2737917]That is exactly how you know. Most chicks that I know who are not hookers will take public transportation to you (and most times even insist on it), but if a chick asks about you paying a taxi then she is coming to "pick up some money from you".
I got into a knock down drag out with my chick that works at the hospital because she took public transportation after getting off work at 9 pm then got lost and could not find the address. I told her to hop in a taxi but she just preferred to walk around scared. 1 hour later she got in the taxi. I told her from now on to take Indriver directly to me. And that is what she did the next time. The next morning I tried to give her money to get to work in Indriver and she refused saying she would take public transportation.[/QUOTE]
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Took a walk around this morning in El centro. Got to respect the women who are already out there by 7 am and ready to work!
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[QUOTE=Nounce;2737717]It's in Sao Paulo. It's an interesting setup so it is better that you google [B]A Figueira Rubaiyat[/B] on map to check it out. Another member recommended it to me. I was waiting for baby lamb chop. The total is about 370 BRL. I am not sure the exchange rate but I just divide it by 5 to get USD total. Most steaks are about the same price in USD 45 range. Wagyu steak is about USD 90.[/QUOTE]Your the "Man" Nounce, sounds like your rolling in style. Good for You!