Things can change very quickly
I have been chatting with a very attractive single mom on YM (met her on DIA).
We met last Monday and we had a good time together.
I gave her money for her daughter's birthday present and party on this coming Friday, more cash for her daughter's school supplies / registration and 500 php for her fares (she came on a 4 hour bus trip (240 php each way) to meet me).
She was worth the cash.
Very sweet, and I was assuming I may not see her again for a long time because I have a busy work period coming up and anyway she lives too far away.
Today, out of the blue, I get a text telling me she has found a pair of shoes that she wants, and her father's tricycle registration and his driver's licence need renewal. Please send me 3500 php as soon as you can.
When I responded by saying "No, Sorry. I won't be doing that. I am not an ATM for your family" she started sending me the sorry sorry sorry texts and when I didn't reply she started on the "make me feel guilty" texts ("I thought you were a kind gentleman but I was wrong" etc etc).
When I still ignored her she started with the "rude asshole" texts.
I have deleted her from my phone and YM now.
She kicked the gift horse in the mouth.
Amazing transformation in her. I thought I was a good judge of women, but this one was a surprise.