Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

Blink and HG have already clarifed and I agree one should be careful with girls living in AC -- esp. those in the flesh trade. Manila girls can be a pain too. Of course you have no guarantee that the sweety you meet in Cebu or Cagayan hasn't just returned from AC...or Singapore, or....

The original line that got my goat was:
"As of now forget all chatgurls for serious relation (marriage etc) just keep them as f..ckfriends and if the moneything comes up get another one."

ALL? Well, I'm not in a rush for a serious relation, but I've met some really nice people thru chat and keep in touch with many. I'd let more than a few marry my brother. (no, just kidding. I wouldn't wish that on any woman)

I've met some really nice ladies and I've met some really nice and naughty ladies. As for chatting with AC girls and cam girls, many have been honest with me about their work.

Nevertheless, we always hear about newbies making big mistakes. Love is blind.

Maybe some of us regulars should make a ten commandments list for newbies.

1) Thou shalt not propose marriage to any cyber girlfriend.
2) Thou shalt not send more than $100 a month, and then only after consulting ISG members for advice.
3) Thou shalt never put all eggs in one basket-- have several ladies lined up before departure.
4) Thou shalt not tell cyber cunts about p4p fun (that includes ISG).
5) Within reasonable limits, thou shalt treat women with care and respect so as not to screw it up for the next guy (ie, don't give her a disease or a pregnancy or a lifelong hate for men.)
6) ?



[QUOTE=Hornygeorge]While I think Blink's original post may have exaggerated the danger of online dating a bit, his clarification makes sense (he is only trying to warn newbies).

I completely agree with him that anybody in Pampanga (whether a native AKA Kapamapangan or transplant) should be viewed with great suspicion. Lying and deceit is a way of life there, there is so much temptation it is almost irresistible, and those looking for a trustworthy GF are looking in the wrong place if she has EVER even been to Pampanga. The farther from Angeles, and the less exposure to foreigners, the better for those seeking a real GF.

The upside to online girls in AC is you need not make a special trip to remote provinces to meet her, and if things don't pan out you can always console yourself with a hooker.[/QUOTE]

C blossom C00710990 Looks like a nice couple, and I wish them the very best. Read the lady's comments. She even give the guys acct. number - which curiously didn't come up when I searched it.

Commandment 6 Do not allow any virtual **** to meet you at the airport.

footnote: Guy common sense rule #1, empower women (in their minds), but always stay in control and show confidence.

"Oh, going to the Philippines is scary, please meet me at the airport and take care of me..."

I'm not trying to take the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] out of anyone. I once followed a beautiful woman to a strange land (not PI) and depended on her for many things. She was such the nurturing type, ...also the take control type as I later realized. It was so sweet that she met me at the airport.

Eventually, I got a job, made money, made some friends, got a life, and eventually found that both balls were still intact. Progeny induced me to put up with Ms control freak for several years.

Passion was what we had when she visited me in the US. In la la land, it was almost nonexistent. After only once a month, dead fish fks, she says...over morning coffee, "Let's have sex tonight, I want another baby."

I probably should have moved the coffee aside and giving her a good fk. Fortunately, I just told her "No, too late for that".

She divorced me a after a few too many of my trips to Thailand and that incident with the college girl.

I still feel guilty. Very guilty. Toward the end, we moved out of the apartment. The sweet college girl, her nickname was "muffy", visited. The apartment was completely empty, cold, no lights, no curtains. I still had a key though. I fked her all night on the carpet. Poor girl probably still has the rug burn scar on her back. Damn I feel guilty about that.

X

[QUOTE=X Man]Blink and HG have already clarifed and I agree one should be careful with girls living in AC -- esp. those in the flesh trade. Manila girls can be a pain too. Of course you have no guarantee that the sweety you meet in Cebu or Cagayan hasn't just returned from AC...or Singapore, or....

The original line that got my goat was:
"As of now forget all chatgurls for serious relation (marriage etc) just keep them as f..ckfriends and if the moneything comes up get another one."

ALL? Well, I'm not in a rush for a serious relation, but I've met some really nice people thru chat and keep in touch with many. I'd let more than a few marry my brother. (no, just kidding. I wouldn't wish that on any woman)

I've met some really nice ladies and I've met some really nice and naughty ladies. As for chatting with AC girls and cam girls, many have been honest with me about their work.

Nevertheless, we always hear about newbies making big mistakes. Love is blind.

Maybe some of us regulars should make a ten commandments list for newbies.

1) Thou shalt not propose marriage to any cyber girlfriend.
2) Thou shalt not send more than $100 a month, and then only after consulting ISG members for advice.
3) Thou shalt never put all eggs in one basket-- have several ladies lined up before departure.
4) Thou shalt not tell cyber cunts about p4p fun (that includes ISG).
5) Within reasonable limits, thou shalt treat women with care and respect so as not to screw it up for the next guy (ie, don't give her a disease or a pregnancy or a lifelong hate for men.)
6) ?[/QUOTE]


hi,
yes its for newbies...not for man*****s like us :D....

agree with ur first comendment...dont do that, thats kind of desperate and stupid, who want to marry a gurl which you have never met in person or lived together for a certain time. The chatgurls dont belive that anyway..

2nd comend..dont send any money at all...If you never visit the gurl before or meet her in person dont DONT send any money..all the gurls I have send money was a waste of time, 80% of them I have screwd but sending them money to make me as their BF , yes ME think I was their serious BF was completely wrong and overpriced for the intercourse thing, means if you there, enough woman you can score, you just need a bit time, which I have now :D

If your together with her allready, its your decession if you send money...I can only tell, my gf NEVER asked any money from me...more on that laters

3rd commend..yes, totally agree, Im sure gurls doing the same thing, on the other site you realy have to be there and be quick also, justa story of mine, when i was dating the gurl on chatsite and we talked and then meet up in my hotel :D, some weeks later she gave up work and now live with a FilAm somewhere in Manila who is on site and tc of here..and her relatives LOL...guess I will hear from her again, soon or later, but not sure if Im still interested :D...This shows if a gurl really look for somebody who can take care of her and somebody comes upo with a gud offer, she is gone..SO, have many gurls lined up.

4th commendm: yeah be romantic and dont tell about ISG, agree with that

5th, yes agree with that. My gf is virgin (still) and I respect that. YOu can be with a gurl for a certain of time and dont have to do the sex thing, if you really love her..and there are plenty of other things you can do ;-)

Talkin about my gf and maybe advise to newbies how to get serious GF.
My GF is the sister of my buddy who lives allready 20 years in the Philippines. He has been together with her since 4 years. He is working and his GF is working after she finsihed her studies. She pays all the bills to support her family and also put her sis (my GF) tru hi school(after she finshed as the best of her year) and University..You have to be with a gurl a certain time also to see what she thinks, about foreigners etc, put her in different life situations and see her reactions.. I have that from my buddy, when i have a new GF he gave me some pretty good advise when he meet my new flame about her character etc...Another thing, because my buddy lives with his GF a certain time and knows the family, there wasnt any money thing coming up to him.

Of course he support his GF with a certain amount and she also earns money, but there aint any "surprises" comin up, like carabao died etc etc...She has her budget and she is ok with that...

In other words, know the gurl first, meet her family and then decide where you want to go.

just wanted to add NEVER TXT a gurl first, especially if your in AC, if she doesnt txt you first or txt back, she aint interested. One story on the side, the last gurl I txt and met in AC (agassya) replied to me after I txt her, but it wasnt her, someone else replied to my txt, very funny. I found out later, just let the gurls txt you, make them wait, Pinoy guys do the same , if a gurl aint interested in you, its waste of time/money.

Another thing, talk about emotions, what you feel, etc, pinays are responding to that..you will see it :D

Ok thats enough for today..

Happy hunting

Blink

[QUOTE=X Man]C blossom C00710990 Looks like a nice couple, and I wish them the very best. Read the lady's comments. She even give the guys acct. number - which curiously didn't come up when I searched it.

Commandment 6 Do not allow any virtual **** to meet you at the airport.

footnote: Guy common sense rule #1, empower women (in their minds), but always stay in control and show confidence.

"Oh, going to the Philippines is scary, please meet me at the airport and take care of me..."

I'm not trying to take the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] out of anyone. I once followed a beautiful woman to a strange land (not PI) and depended on her for many things. She was such the nurturing type, ...also the take control type as I later realized. It was so sweet that she met me at the airport.

Eventually, I got a job, made money, made some friends, got a life, and eventually found that both balls were still intact. Progeny induced me to put up with Ms control freak for several years.

Passion was what we had when she visited me in the US. In la la land, it was almost nonexistent. After only once a month, dead fish fks, she says...over morning coffee, "Let's have sex tonight, I want another baby."

I probably should have moved the coffee aside and giving her a good fk. Fortunately, I just told her "No, too late for that".

She divorced me a after a few too many of my trips to Thailand and that incident with the college girl.

I still feel guilty. Very guilty. Toward the end, we moved out of the apartment. The sweet college girl, her nickname was "muffy", visited. The apartment was completely empty, cold, no lights, no curtains. I still had a key though. I fked her all night on the carpet. Poor girl probably still has the rug burn scar on her back. Damn I feel guilty about that.

X[/QUOTE]
yes,
agree with that also...I not sure if I reported before..I met a gurl from chatsite in 2005, never met her in person and agreed to met her at the airport.

She was there with her little family, her chubby sis , her mom and maybe her mom boyfriend a cab driver who picked me up for 50 Euro!!!! from the airport to my hotel, then to a restaurant and then drives mom and her daugher home..

AFter allmost 24 hours on my legs I really dont need karaoke(which we did after I took a shower in my hotel) and when walking my gurl to Ermita hotel I saw many lookers on my way to my room, more hot then my "partner" and that gave me the idea of getin rid of her soon, which I did :D...

I just lost 3 days, so dont let somebody pick you never met before..just sharing my experiance. Met her the next day in a mall and see where things will go, if you both "click" go on and have fun...

Happy hunting

Blink

Hey Blink, thanks for all the stories and info.

Umm, man*****? Speak for yourself.

I agree with your point about money, but if one gets serious with a girl, it's not unreasonable to pay basic expenses. (yes, you should meet her face to face before getting serious) Helping put a kid thru college isn't such a bad thing to do -- if you're sure that's what she's doing.

Of course some dunderheads buy a girl an expensive phone, pay phone bills, just so he can call her everyday. I had to listen to one dunderhead chat with his girl while she was next to me in bed. The phone rang, she glanced at the phone, seemed startled as she pulled my ck out of her mouth, told me to be quiet and then answered the phone, "hello darling.".

Not sure what you mean about never texting first. If you only wait for them to text you, then you are ending up with the desperate ones. Again, Blink, don't apply AC standards to all Filipinas. Yes, the AC bar girls will text you and will send some really naughty stuff. This is the "chat rooms" thread and 98% of chat ladies are not p4p. BTW, where did you meet ladies online?

x

[QUOTE=Blink157]hi,
yes its for newbies...not for man*****s like us :D....

agree with ur first comendment...dont do that, thats kind of desperate and stupid, who want to marry a gurl which you have never met in person or lived together for a certain time. The chatgurls dont belive that anyway..

2nd comend..dont send any money at all...If you never visit the gurl before or meet her in person dont DONT send any money..all the gurls I have send money was a waste of time, 80% of them I have screwd but sending them money to make me as their BF , yes ME think I was their serious BF was completely wrong and overpriced for the intercourse thing, means if you there, enough woman you can score, you just need a bit time, which I have now :D

If your together with her allready, its your decession if you send money...I can only tell, my gf NEVER asked any money from me...more on that laters

3rd commend..yes, totally agree, Im sure gurls doing the same thing, on the other site you realy have to be there and be quick also, justa story of mine, when i was dating the gurl on chatsite and we talked and then meet up in my hotel :D, some weeks later she gave up work and now live with a FilAm somewhere in Manila who is on site and tc of here..and her relatives LOL...guess I will hear from her again, soon or later, but not sure if Im still interested :D...This shows if a gurl really look for somebody who can take care of her and somebody comes upo with a gud offer, she is gone..SO, have many gurls lined up.

4th commendm: yeah be romantic and dont tell about ISG, agree with that

5th, yes agree with that. My gf is virgin (still) and I respect that. YOu can be with a gurl for a certain of time and dont have to do the sex thing, if you really love her..and there are plenty of other things you can do ;-)

Talkin about my gf and maybe advise to newbies how to get serious GF.
My GF is the sister of my buddy who lives allready 20 years in the Philippines. He has been together with her since 4 years. He is working and his GF is working after she finsihed her studies. She pays all the bills to support her family and also put her sis (my GF) tru hi school(after she finshed as the best of her year) and University..You have to be with a gurl a certain time also to see what she thinks, about foreigners etc, put her in different life situations and see her reactions.. I have that from my buddy, when i have a new GF he gave me some pretty good advise when he meet my new flame about her character etc...Another thing, because my buddy lives with his GF a certain time and knows the family, there wasnt any money thing coming up to him.

Of course he support his GF with a certain amount and she also earns money, but there aint any "surprises" comin up, like carabao died etc etc...She has her budget and she is ok with that...

In other words, know the gurl first, meet her family and then decide where you want to go.

just wanted to add NEVER TXT a gurl first, especially if your in AC, if she doesnt txt you first or txt back, she aint interested. One story on the side, the last gurl I txt and met in AC (agassya) replied to me after I txt her, but it wasnt her, someone else replied to my txt, very funny. I found out later, just let the gurls txt you, make them wait, Pinoy guys do the same , if a gurl aint interested in you, its waste of time/money.

Another thing, talk about emotions, what you feel, etc, pinays are responding to that..you will see it :D

Ok thats enough for today..

Happy hunting

Blink[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man]Hey Blink, thanks for all the stories and info.

Umm, man*****? Speak for yourself.

I agree with your point about money, but if one gets serious with a girl, it's not unreasonable to pay basic expenses. (yes, you should meet her face to face before getting serious) Helping put a kid thru college isn't such a bad thing to do -- if you're sure that's what she's doing.

Of course some dunderheads buy a girl an expensive phone, pay phone bills, just so he can call her everyday. I had to listen to one dunderhead chat with his girl while she was next to me in bed. The phone rang, she glanced at the phone, seemed startled as she pulled my ck out of her mouth, told me to be quiet and then answered the phone, "hello darling.".

Not sure what you mean about never texting first. If you only wait for them to text you, then you are ending up with the desperate ones. Again, Blink, don't apply AC standards to all Filipinas. Yes, the AC bar girls will text you and will send some really naughty stuff. This is the "chat rooms" thread and 98% of chat ladies are not p4p. BTW, where did you meet ladies online?

x[/QUOTE]

Hi,
most of them I met online at acm or abc, which have the biggest selection. I also signed up in filipinaheart and cherry blossom, but I havent extent my membership, cause so many gurls here and talkin to them is easy. I think if you home in your country its a good thing to prepare for ur next holiday, cause Im not sure about you, but IM a bit tired of the AC gurl scene. Many of them aint my liking, Im a kind of chosy guy and why should I screw bargurls who are downhill compare to the looks of my gf. Of course after 12 san migules Im more open minded and not so chosy any more.
I think the most maganda gurls are in AGassya. Last time I saw Richard there, owner of blue nile, he also know where to go :D..surely he can give a big tip ehehehe....problem in agassya is, the pretty ones make enough money with drinks, barhops and no sex. Now, that there is some trouble in AC regarding barfines Im interested how they do. As of now Im back in my country, getting some things to the Philippines for the rainy days (Playstation 3, soundsystem, LCDTV, etc :D) and have to see some clients. IM pretty bored and cant wait to be back next month. Then I will start to built up some f..ckfriendsrelation in Manila. Thats the best part in Philippines, they all speak english and you can easy flirt to them. YOu also have to know , that most of the filipinas are traveling many hours to their work, which gives a gentleman like me the oportunity to offer bed and breakfast :D, so no need to waste time with traveling....Life is hard...hehehehe

My line, dont txt, just wait until u get txted allways works, if a gurl is interested in you, she will txt you back, that specially works for the so called NON AC gurls, from provinces....even my GF :D..YOu have to be a little macho in the Phils, the gurl have to respect you. Allways remember, you can have another GF evry day, no problem, so you in charge.
Maybe that sounds harsh, but thats the way it is in the Phils. If your a under-the-skirt-guy and allways give in, your lost, believe me I got some experiences in that when I lived 10 years ago in the Philippines.

Happy hunting

Blink

I am pretty willing to give folks the benifit of the doubt on things, but when I see multiple ads with the same language attributed to a pair of hot young ladies who are suppose to be far apart, I have to wonder. Check out these to ads and notice that not only are their words the same, they are similarly distinctive in size. It could be that there is a well-know platitude or self-help book that they have both read, or that great minds think alike, but if I had to place a bet...

Hi Blink, I appreciate your info and input. Nevertheless, I still think the picture you are painting is basically and AC p4p scene. Some people here at "chat rooms" might never have been in the Philippines and / or they may actually be looking for something permanent. So, let me clarify some things..

I don't know acm, but abc is a sex cam site. I also wouldn't count too much on a girl i met on a sex cam site. CB and FH women are usually very different - it seems you don't have a paid membership, so you haven't chatted with any of them. That being said, you will soemtimes find sxcam girls at CB and FH. They are trolling for customers.

Also, the "don't text them first" idea is also misleading. It sounds like you are in AC long term. Well, yea, if a girl doesn't text you, she's probably busy in some guys hotel room. You can then walk into a bar and have a woman attached to your crank in a matter of minutes. And there is always tomorrow or next week or next month. An envious situation.

Some of us come to the Philippines and might have only a week. We might be in Cebu or Davao or Cagayan de oro. We might also want to try our luck with regular women. If you wait for them to text you, you might spend the evening alone. Just a few days ago I read in the Davao thread about a guy who had a sexless weekend.

I will add one more thing - which seems to contradict Blink. As unnecessary as it seems, it's probably a good rule of thumb to always reconfirm a date (call or text). I've had a couple of no shows because I didn't do this. They say, "Well I didn't hear from you so I thought you changed your mind." Duh.



[QUOTE=Blink157]Hi,
most of them I met online at acm or abc, which have the biggest selection. I also signed up in filipinaheart and cherry blossom, [/QUOTE]

It may well be the granddaddy of webcam sites. Yes it is very different than CB, FH, DIA etc. , but I agree with blink that MANY of the models are amenable to in person meetings if you treat them half decent. I have done very well using that method which I only recently discovered (a girl I met on DIA told me about ACM.) You should try it xman.

[QUOTE=Hornygeorge]It may well be the granddaddy of webcam sites. Yes it is very different than CB, FH, DIA etc. , but I agree with blink that MANY of the models are amenable to in person meetings if you treat them half decent. I have done very well using that method which I only recently discovered (a girl I met on DIA told me about ACM.) You should try it xman.[/QUOTE]


Please would someone supply the web address of ACM, ABC, etc.

Thanks!

asianbabecams.com
asiancammmodels.com
sexyasiancams.com
Filipinamagic.com

If anybody knows others by all means post them.

[QUOTE=Sojourner]I am pretty willing to give folks the benifit of the doubt on things, but when I see multiple ads with the same language attributed to a pair of hot young ladies who are suppose to be far apart, I have to wonder. Check out these to ads and notice that not only are their words the same, they are similarly distinctive in size. It could be that there is a well-know platitude or self-help book that they have both read, or that great minds think alike, but if I had to place a bet...[/QUOTE]

Its so easy to assume things and get it wrong.

One of my newer GF's & I have been having a torrid affair with lots of txt's before & after visits all day & nite. Suddenly I don't hear from her all day.. the natural thought is she's busy with some other guy. One of my other girls also went 'off the air' that day so I checked with my office in Manila & they confirmed that the Smart network had been down all day. No conspiracy, just phone problems.

I use dating sites a lot because I like the freshness of non P4P girls so I have some experience in this area. I have known girls who put up ad's when they are living in one place and then months later put a new ad when they have moved to a new place. Students do this quite a bit.

The girls don't have to pay for the ad's so they are very sloppy about 'maintaining' their ad's. Also consider most of them lead very simple lives & have almost no computer skills. Often ad's are put there with the help of a bakla cousin or best friend who got help from a cousin who got help from a friend...

Yes, there are some amateur scammers (and even some professional ones) out there amongst the genuine girls to further complicate the picture.

Happy Mongering
Amavida

[QUOTE=Iron Duke]Please would someone supply the web address of ACM, ABC, etc.

Thanks![/QUOTE]

Its easy to google up the web sites _IF_ you know what the abbreiavtions stand for. Lately people are posting using these abbreviations & assuming everyone else know's what they refer to.

Here's a list of some of them, would other mongers please fill in the blanks or add new ones. There's a whole bunch of Chinese related dating web sites also which even more cryptic abbreviations. (I dont post them here because I get a headache trying to decipher it & can't be bothered with it)

ACM - Asian Cam Models
ABC -
CB - Cherry Blossoms
DIA - Date in Asia
FH - Filippna Heart
FK - Filippina Kisses
SAC -

Happy Mongering
Amavida

This is a valentine to all the wonderful women I've know in this quirky country...

with apologies to Willie Nelson for his song

To all the girls I've loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this song

To all the girls I've loved before
To all the girls I once caressed
And may I say I've held the best
For helping me to grow
I owe a lot I know

To all the girls I've loved before
The winds of change are always blowing
And every time I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
And they just carry me away

To all the girls who shared my life
Who now are someone else's wives
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this song

To all the girls I've loved before
To all the girls who cared for me
Who filled my nights with ecstasy
They live within my heart
I'll always be a part

Of all the girls I've loved before
The winds of change are always blowing
And every time I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
And they just carry me away

Happy Mongering!
Amavida

[QUOTE=Amavida]This is a valentine to all the wonderful women I've know in this quirky country...

with apologies to Willie Nelson for his song

To all the girls I've loved before
Who travelled in and out my door
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this song

To all the girls I've loved before
To all the girls I once caressed
And may I say I've held the best
For helping me to grow
I owe a lot I know

To all the girls I've loved before
The winds of change are always blowing
And every time I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
And they just carry me away

To all the girls who shared my life
Who now are someone else's wives
I'm glad they came along
I dedicate this song

To all the girls I've loved before
To all the girls who cared for me
Who filled my nights with ecstasy
They live within my heart
I'll always be a part

Of all the girls I've loved before
The winds of change are always blowing
And every time I try to stay
The winds of change continue blowing
And they just carry me away

Happy Mongering!
Amavida[/QUOTE]

Thanks..It was great.