Some ideas I'd like to talk freely about
Hello everyone,
Yesterday I watched some episodes of Netflix's "Sex Education" series. And although it's meant to be a comedy / satire series, but it started to give me some ideas.
To have a "complete, successful and satisfying for both partners" sex is not a straightforward thing for many people (including me). Many issues happens, and ignorance (sexual illiteracy) is common in many countries where there is no formal / informal kind of sex ed.
And doctors (Andrologists) are not always the solution. There are many Andrologists that just know about the "common" issues and can't really give a true solution for some of the less common issues. Because there may be some "indirect issues" that need some digging to discover the root cause and solve it. Many Andrologists don't do this. They don't care much about if issue solved at the end or not, as long as they already got their payment ahead.
Some issues are best solved by "sex therapist" (is there anything like this in Abu Dhabi? Some other issues are best solved by an honest advice from someone who just has a personal experience with it.
I suggest creating a forum topic regarding "issues with sex" where members can talk freely and exchange advice regarding it. I didn't find a topic regarding this?
Abu Dhabi Massage Republic action
I posted an account of my first action in Abu Dhabi in the Massage Republic board, if anyone is interested.
Tool Shedd.
Gentlemen's spa near Al Whada mall
Thursday afternoon I had a little extra time, so I decided to find a massage with some extracurricular activities. I searched Google maps for "massage Abu Dhabi" and found some interesting results. I suspect that the places that show a nice, clean facility with professionally dressed men and women giving massages with hot stones and lotus blossoms in the vase are probably not going to provide the extras that we ISG members so desire. I may be wrong, but I focused on the places with stock photos of sexy and scantily clad girls, and pictures of rooms with wh*re house looking wall paper.
I am also discovering that about half of the places that fit my criteria above are described as being behind a certain restaurant near the Oaks Liwa hotel and the City Bus station. I believe the same establishment that let me down (as reported on the MR board) has posted multiple ads and spa names. If not, there are a hell of a lot of seedy salons on that block. The apartments in that area are nothing to write home about, either.
I finally settled on a gentlemen's spa not far from that area. Finding these establishments is a trick. You call them, get a general idea of where they are, and they often send you a What'sApp message with a map. This didn't do me any good because I am still getting the hang of cell phone and internet coverage here. So, when I get near the area, I call and have them guide the taxista into the exact spot. This establishment is near the Al Whada mall.
It still takes some guessing to find which door you enter, but when you arrive on the correct floor an unmarked door will open up and let you in.
This spa actually had the business name on the door, and it was open.
I walked in and was greeted by an Asian gentleman who asked me to wait about 10 minutes. After that, a lady about 30 years old, 160 cm, 60 kilos with chin length black hair, a pleasant face, wearing a tee shirt and blue jeans came and got me. At first, I didn't think she was attractive, but she grew on me. The massage was 150 AED for 1 hour. I disrobed and she started to massage me. The massage was better than average, but nothing to write home about. Her name is Zaza, she told me she was from the land of beauty queens. Later, I found out she is from the Philippine Islands. As she massaged me, I worked my hand under her shirt and up her back. No bra, just like I like them. As I worked my hand around the front under her shirt, I found she was a member of the Itty-Bitty Titty Committee, about 34 alpha cups. She said it tickled when I played with the nipples, and she was sad they were too small. This is after she said it didn't matter what I looked like, as long as I had a good heart. I wish these women would understand that even though they may not have monster chests or perfect bodies, some of us like them anyway.
After the flip, she very quietly whispered in my ear that a hand job would be 200 AED. I countered with 100, but she wouldn't come down, so I agreed. As she performed the service, she was very careful to shush me if my breathing became too loud. As the hand job progressed, she bent over and very tenderly French kissed me. It was soft, passionate and about the best kissing I have ever had. I am glad I caved on the extra 100 AED.
Clean up progressed and I promised to visit her again.
Girl: 5/10.
Attitude: 8/10.
Service: 8/10 (for the wonderful kissing).
Damage: 150 AED for massage, 200 for extra, total of 350 AED.
Perceived value: Worth the price paid, plus a little more.
WIR: Maybe, but I have since found another diamond I will probably patronize over this sweet lady.
Abu Dhabi is great, but I am sure burning a lot of cash. My hotel is out of town far enough that each trip downtown costs about 160 AED round trip. The massages, extras and such, as well as the $100 USD steak and margaritas at 49 ers is starting to add up. I better get out into the desert and get some cash earned. I have about worn out little Johnny, but he seems to be taking it like a trooper. I had one more wonderful experience Friday, but I am not sure I am going to report it. We'll see.