High End Escorts, My Reasons & Hard Life Lessons
Note for the reader.
I left out majority of the information about my background and that's intentional. My experiences aren't extremely detailed as I feel a lot of that information is not very helpful. You anyways do not remember the tiny things but rather the overall experience you had with the escort. So that plus some short notes I took here and there is what I have shared here. All communications were done in English, over WhatsApp. I used SexMercadoBcn as my guide for latest reviews whenever I had to select a girl.
Hope this is helpful for the people of this community.
Intro.
Hey all. This was my first ever mongering experience Barcelona with zero prior mongering experience. This community has been a great resource in teaching me the ways. I am a good looking guy with a easy going attitude who fares well with better than average looking girls in real world. Most escorts were a little surprised to see me and almost everyone asked me why am I even there and why don't I just go to tinder as I do not look like their average client. We'll here's the reason I choose this path -.
1. I am bad with small talks required to get laid. I like deep conversations and if I connect well with someone, I end up dating them. I can't keep up a conversation long enough with a beautiful girl who may not be as into intelligent conversation. So this was an alternative way out if it plus I was on vacation.
2. I was nervous about hiring an escort. This meant I had things to experience and grow from. I was judging myself before I did it. But I knew hiring an escort doesn't inherently make you a looser. I have learned and applied social skills in the real world and been in love and been loved. Hence I felt pushing myself to at-least do it once would make me more open minded towards others who work in this industry or are legally part if it in other ways. And it did open my mind.
A life lesson the hard way.
I made the mistake of hiring one of these escorts as a tour guide around city of a price different from what agency had. This way they earned more (no agency cut) and I paid less. We talked about everything in our lives and I almost felt a connection (a friendship) that I believed could last beyond this business transaction. We attended several shows around city, hung on rooftop bars for hours, ate at the nicest and newest restaurant, went shopping (only I bough for myself), and shared our deepest insecurities and life stories. I almost started falling for her story and felt a sense of deep empathy for all sex works through her story's lens. Oh I was so wrong about it. The minute I asked her to hangout as a friend to do cool shit around town without the payments (that I had been fully paying and offered to keep paying) was the minute flaking started with very ambiguous replies on WhatsApp. She had her quota of appointments from agency fully booked so this was for times when she wasn't working (just like the last 3 days) and she had been very vocal about spending time with me and how it's the best dates she's ever had in Barcelona.
Honestly, the realization that it may have been all fake stung like a * but that's how life lessons are. Maybe I did get feelings where they weren't supposed to be.
I read someones post on reddit about dating an escort which helped me realize my mistake. It went something like - "Be careful about dating escorts as their job in some ways turns them into master manipulators. She could be exactly what you want her to be in times of your needs be it physical and emotional, but the true colors will flow once the money stops".
Well I just watched a couple of motivational videos on youtube, and spend some time to relax alone and I have been feeling better now. But I will keep this lesson with me.
In the moment I did have the urge to just tell her agency how she has been playing me & them as well by cutting their share out of transactions.
But then I realized it's a fucking loser move & this doesn't help me build a better character. I need to be a better man than this. She has her reasons for doing whatever she does, and if any part of her story was true, she does deserve forgiveness as life hasn't been fair to her. I feel lucky to not have to suck dicks to make ends meet and have a career that I genuinely enjoy (pay is good too). So I just decided to wish her luck in her future endeavors. It still stings a little but I'll get over it soon.
My experience.
Cat escorts.
1. Alina.
Good: Russian, Petite, Natural Breast, Fit, got short clip from agency on WhatsApp. Allowed DATY. Lifted her off the bed in missionary and went deep. Finished in doggy. She is very tight.
Bad: No Kiss, No BJJJ (Covered Only), Only 1 intercourse in a 1 hour (I left after 30 min). Bit of disappointment as agency specified these things are included but she refused. I just accepted whatever rules she set.
Very Bad: I reached back to agency 3 hours later about this when I got to my hotel as I was site seeing. They said I stayed there full hour (lie #1). They mentioned girl said she gave natural oral (lie #2). Then mother of all lies. They said I came in at 11:54 AM and left at 15:00 (which is when I messaged them on WhatsApp). They asked me to check time stamp of my message and said that is when they buzzed me out of building as he / she is the operator. At this point I was like "Are You fucking kidding me? You mean all services were delivered, and I actually stayed for 3 hours by paying for one hour.
Their attempt at denial of facts was just so pathetic that I laughed my ass off. I didn't pursue any further conversation regarding this with them as it was evident what they were trying to do.
But still had fun as it was my first experience with an escort and she was pretty hot.
Blue Velvet.
Agency is very good at helping you setup appointments in English. May be a bit hard to get replies late at night but over all very professional and communicative.
2. Daphne (Belarusian).
Good: Petite (less than Alina), Piercing in one breast (sensitive), Natural Breast, Pouts to Kiss (Amateur but cute. No tongue). BJJJ with that tongue piercing was awesome (again more of a Amateur BJ). Gives great attention to balls (great suction). Very white skin. Extreme deep Blue eyes like a White Walkers from Game of Thrones (maybe contacts but I didn't think too much of it).
Bad: No DATY /69, Doesn't like hairs being touched, no CIM option, sometimes comes across a bit agitated when telling you about basic things she doesn't like. But overall it was a good experience. May repeat in future.
3. Sira.
Good: Deep kisser (no shy), operated breast, professional BJJJ that gets me hard very quick, Gurl Next Door looks, Good English, Lush Lips (loved kisses), Cheerful & Talkative, Allows CIM.
Bad: No DATY /69. She isn't drop dead gorgeous but is pretty and her style is great (Saw her on street one time). Someone you may like to date as she's a complete professional package.
4. Gala.
Good: Very calm & easy going nature (Big plus in my book), DATY, BJJJ & Ball sucking with operated lips were great. She thanked me for spending time with her and I felt like I was better looking than the average client she gets.
Bad: Smoker (my first and I realize It's a deal breaker for me), Tall (could be a good thing for you but I realize I like petite girls more), Weak suction in BJ, I am not a fan of kissing operated lips.
Feeling BCN.
Very helpful in setting up appointments in English via WhatsApp. They are very accepting of feedbacks as well. No complaints with the agency.
5. Alma.
Good: Lovely Smile & Attitude, easily the most gorgeous eyes in any girl I have been with (they shine man. Takes initiative, loves to talk, sings a little during BJJJ because her fav song came along in my playlist (I loved the moment) and overall she seemed like she enjoyed my company as well. And because of it she let me choose a card from Christmas tree in the apartment in which I found a 20 agency discount and a chocolate).
Bad: I wish she worked out a little so that ass gets some muscles. But overall, 10/10 I recommend her to everyone.
6. Cris & 7. Mia (Threesome).
Overall Encounter. Worst experience of my whole trip.
Mia. Great lady, very beautiful tanned complexion, great lips that like to kiss, tight ass, weak English so can get a little hard to communicate. But overall I think she's a lovely girl and I would make a different appointment with her some other time. She has great reviews as well.
Cris. Was a new girl in agency (they said they had good recommendations for her). She was supposed to be translator during 3 way as she spoke English. But man, I had such a cringy experience. First, she is a smoker (strike one), second she is the kind who would loudly say "darling" in an unappealing way before making any point (gets very annoying the 7th time, so strike 2), Would not listen to what you are suggesting and just loudly suggest what she thinks we should do. I was not enjoying her presence so wasn't even getting hard. She acted like she knew a ton but doesn't even know how to give a blowjob. I didn't even get a double BJ that was my main fantasy and she would just keep talking over what I am saying. Mia understood that I am not liking it and was trying to talk to me with limited English she spoke but Chris. I swear I am not kidding. Cut her 4 times in succession not allowing her to talk taking the charge as English speaker. I literally had to raise my voice to tell her this is wrong and she should let Mia speak. At one point I asked Cris to leave the room and take a smoke break and asked Mia to stay. Those 10 min were so good though Cris returned to kill the party again.
I just laid on my stomach and asked them to massage me so I can kill some time and get the fuck out of there. Disaster!
Feedback with feeling BCN. They were very receptive of my feedback and apologized for the inconvenience caused as it was her first time working for their agency. They genuinely looked sad about my experience and gave me a 30 discount for future visit. I don't intend to use it, but I appreciate how well they treat their customers. Kudos to them!
OK Escorts.
Again, no complaints here. Great communication in English and always helpful. Maybe even the fastest at setting up these appointments.
8. Amber (Dutch).
Good: Beautiful Dutch looks, new in Business, Girl Next Door Vibe, Nice Cuddles, Great English, and Overall had great conversations with her (I repeated her). BJJJ, DATY, CIM, Silky Smooth Skin, Someone you may like to date in the real world. If you like conversation in English, like the Dutch look, and are into Amateur girl next door experience, you will have a great time with her.
Bad: Doesn't allow multiple intercourse in a session (she gets sensitive), usually have limited availability as I believe she works other jobs too.
9. Perla.
Good: Most Petite, gorgeous hairs that she allows you to touch, chatty and loves a banter (best girl at it so far). She teased me that I do not look like her usual clients as they are either old or not good looking. Her skin is silky smooth, great BJJJ and Ball Sucking (ask what you like), CIM, DATY.
Bad: Talks a lot about other clients. It didn't get bad at any point but I feel it could be a risky territory when a girl keeps talking about other people she has fucked and compares you to them. Not sure if she does this often as I am pretty chill during conversations so I don't mind such talks.
El Eden 53.
I messaged them once and they have been following up almost every 2-3 days so I decided to give it a shot. Got lead to a room and I asked for presentation. I took notes on my phone so I don't forget the girls names (made sure I asked them who speaks English).
10. Sara.
Bad: more like my bad, she was first in lineup (that came into my room one at a time) so I forgot to ask her about English, which lo and behold she did not speak.
Good: But I was able to get by with limited speaking at this point as I know how it all works at this point. Great BJJJ, and good at riding. Not super pretty like other girls but still nice girl next door looks with great body. Likes her bouncy ass so enjoyed it from behind. Over all, great experience for the price.
