Fair and reasonable compensation?
[QUOTE=BananaBoi;2948359]Thanks for your excellent review, eThai. Just a couple of questions.
There are some nights when I either have something lined up later in the night or just don't feel like taking a girl at the end of the night. Would a girl there get upset if I didn't take her home after spending 3 hours with me? If I spent 3 hours with a girl in a bar I would likely tip her 500-1000 baht. Would this be considered too little? Agree 1900 baht for 3 hours of play time is cheap.
You mentioned that the 2500 baht includes a room are these girls open to going back to your hotel (Sukhumvit area) as well?
I rarely tip waitresses much more than a nominal amount unless they're hot and I get play time (DFK, groping) with them. Are waitresses there pushy for tips? Is there any real advantage of tipping a waitress a lot there? I see no advantage in tipping or buying drinks for mamasans or non playful waitresses in gogo bars.
I'm clearly not as 'Jai Dee' as you are cause 5600 in tips alone would never happen with me even if I had the absolute best night of my life. I'd rather just save that and see the girl again the following night.
I see you gave a live update at 10 pm. What time do most of the girls arrive? I usually like to start my night at 8 pm. Too early for T-Ded?[/QUOTE]I read somewhere that slipping 200 baht under the table would get you a girl to sit with you for a while, of course you will need to buy drinks. To me, this seems too cheap but please correct me if I'm wrong. I think you need to keep it in perspective, so outside you can get a FL for 1500/2000 -that would be FS fun for possibly an hour. So you are going to give her 1900 baht for 3 hrs of playing- I'd say 1000 at the most. The thing is depends where you want this to go. If a one off, 500 plus drinks might be enough, if maybe you want to repeat then 1000 might make a better impression.
Another way to look at is will 15 or 30 US break your bank, if you meet some nice girl and you have chemistry why not show your appreciation and promote this sort of interaction.
Back in the day I always worked on the basis that you do things for me then I reward you. I think we need to get the idea about performance pay across to the girls.
Back in the day I wouldn't take a girl unless they DFK me and let me have a little respectful feel. Esp the DFK this crosses a line and points to possible future performance. If they did genuinely DFK me 1 lady drink would certainly follow. I used DFK as my deal breaker.
I never tip waitresses or mamasans or hangers on. Some say tipping mamasans gives you better intel but me thinks not.
Most mamasans are worthless. Some are pure gold. Only one way to find out; Ask.
[QUOTE=NewImage;2948381]I read somewhere that slipping 200 baht under the table would get you a girl to sit with you for a while, of course you will need to buy drinks. To me, this seems too cheap but please correct me if I'm wrong. I think you need to keep it in perspective, so outside you can get a FL for 1500/2000 -that would be FS fun for possibly an hour. So you are going to give her 1900 baht for 3 hrs of playing- I'd say 1000 at the most. The thing is depends where you want this to go. If a one off, 500 plus drinks might be enough, if maybe you want to repeat then 1000 might make a better impression.
Another way to look at is will 15 or 30 US break your bank, if you meet some nice girl and you have chemistry why not show your appreciation and promote this sort of interaction.
Back in the day I always worked on the basis that you do things for me then I reward you. I think we need to get the idea about performance pay across to the girls.
Back in the day I wouldn't take a girl unless they DFK me and let me have a little respectful feel. Esp the DFK this crosses a line and points to possible future performance. If they did genuinely DFK me 1 lady drink would certainly follow. I used DFK as my deal breaker.
I never tip waitresses or mamasans or hangers on.[b] Some say tipping mamasans gives you better intel but me thinks not.[/b][/QUOTE]Some of the best, smoothest, fastest, easiest and most cost-effective no hassle Real Sex / DFK, BBBJ + BBFSCIP results I have ever gotten with solid 2nd tier (7+ lookers) gogo girls in Bangkok have come about because I introduced myself, laid a simple 200 baht tip or Lady Drink on the mamasan and flat out told her those exact requirements were what I was looking for tonight.
She would then make the rounds to her favorites until one (or more) says yes and brings her to me. Then it is totally up to me to agree based on looks and immediate chemistry or not. No penalty for me not agreeing. The mamasan will bring me another.
As you can imagine, this can cut down on tons of wasted Lady Drinks in a series of bar hops, time, money, guesswork and "Yes in the bar, No in the room" scams.
No, it isn't perfect and yes, maybe you need to sweeten the deal with both a Lady Drink and a 200 baht tip for the mamasan. It doesn't matter, ask the mamasan anyway. There is no harm in asking. And you must be specific. If you want no hassle BBFSCIP and not just BBFS and a pull out, tell the mamasan so and then only slip her that tip after she brings you a proper girl and repeats in Thai and English what you want to get a fair and clear yes or no from the girl.
Just handing the mamasan a tip with no soecific request attached to it is nice but accomplishes nothing unless you are happy with nothing specific being provided in your room, as some punters apparently are.