Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2362526]In the Navy we used to call it a Hollywood shower.[/QUOTE]One minute on, one minute off, one minute on?

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2362369]So that boys is my heads up to you. Please know that if you think you can actually have a real marriage 1970 style with an intelligent Filipina you can't. They all lie, the stupid part is that often lie for no reason..[/QUOTE]Thanks for the informative post. It's good to be reminded of what is possible.

I do have a local Filipina contact here my home town. I had left her go cold for a few months as she was getting hard to meet. She actually got herself promoted at work and that was eating into my fun.

After your post I think I'll see if she wants to re-engage.

Paul.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2362522]I am arguing with a guy in another thread that says he spent a bunch of money on a chick and they were going to get married and have kids and she fucked him over. Advises everyone against that partucular Nationality because 1 chick screwed him over. Now he is giving everyone advice to do the same shit that got him fucked up to begin with. And asking me what kind of friend I am if I am not trying to be financially available for every chick I know. MF I am a friend that does not get taken advantage of, that is what kind. Incredible![/QUOTE]Some guys just cannot stop trying to save women from poverty not matter how many times the gratitude they expect fails to materialize. They do not realize that poor women born into poverty are molded by it. Poor women develop an obsession with acquiring money because they spend their lives not having enough for basic needs. These women do not respect suckers who open their wallets to them. They have no sympathy for walking-ATM mongers trying to buy love and loyalty. A monger can buy temporary access to the pussy but he cannot buy her love and devotion. Money is all that matters.

Many Western men are trained to be doormats for women and they take this with them wherever they monger, always paying to save women from some crisis or other. This is their frame when it comes to women and you cannot convince them to see things differently. In their world, they put pussy on a pedestal and worship it in awe. Women have pussy and this imbues them with the status of demigods. Some mongers are powerless before them, spending their last trying to earn a wife.

[QUOTE=Pinaypounder;2362369]She is here desperate to get her PR and openly admits that she will bring her husband over with her daughter.

I was pissed at first, especially when it seems besides being married she is still maintaining with the lover. I had higher hopes and expectations, call me a Romantic.

After 4 days we talked about living together (my eyes were WIDE open now) and I think that I will, the fat white cunts here are frankly horrible and we had more sex in 5 days than most poor married bastards my age have in a year.

When we live together I will have the advantage, a wonderful **** at my disposal, a woman who takes care of me and I am able to provide a constant threat of being able to expose her if she becomes an asshole and there will be a pre-nup yes even for living together. Rather a sad perspective but now at least my eyes are wide open..[/QUOTE]I agree that you should get your cock tested after being bareback inside your lying lady-friend. You can bet the house that there were more than four cocks inside of her snatch; more like 400 is a more honest number. Given the raging HIV epidemic ravaging gay men in the Philippines, there is reason for concern if her husband is a gay and you are raw-dogging the same hole.

A relationship between a philandering Filipina and a monger is like two peas in a pod. She will abuse you mentally, emotionally, and financially but at least you will have some nasty sex in between the drama. Whether or not is worth it is up to you, as they say. Lock up the family jewels, before she moves in.

I end up helping a lot of people and trying to help a lot more. Some individuals close to me are a heart beat from taking the axe to their estranged wives. The bitterness when they speak is like the winds of hell. Many guys here are carrying the same shtt. For my part, I see both sides but I can do nothing ass the hatred is that intense. These are very educated people but that doesn't mean shtt. Prisons are full of such folk.

Now, bitter people go to the Philippines and knock around with hookers. What could possibly go wrong with 60 year old lower middle class guys hooking up with Pinays who can barely read and whose 22 brothers and sisters cannot read or write either but can subsist on their half acre of mountain scrub land?

When I talk to the Pinay sweethearts about what we will do together, it is always have a good tine, splash my cash and to hell with tomorrow. That is one of the reasons the Chinese have all the money in the Philippines.

Every single hooker in the Philippines was a sweet little girl once. But now every last one of them is damaged goods. Put your dick in them squirt your load, do some small talk and Run, Forest, Run.

[QUOTE=PedroMorales;2362932]Every single hooker in the Philippines was a sweet little girl once. But now every last one of them is damaged goods.[/QUOTE]They're not damaged goods. They are doing their job: selling their body for cash. Some just do it exceedingly well.

Cheers. G.

[QUOTE=Goferring;2363099]They're not damaged goods. They are doing their job: selling their body for cash. Some just do it exceedingly well.

Cheers. G.[/QUOTE]It's about choices. Without eucaiton girls have limited choices on how to survive, so using their God-given body is a good solution.

Times are changing for many girls but the numbers still favour the uneducated.

[QUOTE=PedroMorales;2362932]I end up helping a lot of people and trying to help a lot more. Some individuals close to me are a heart beat from taking the axe to their estranged wives. The bitterness when they speak is like the winds of hell. Many guys here are carrying the same shtt. For my part, I see both sides but I can do nothing ass the hatred is that intense. These are very educated people but that doesn't mean shtt. Prisons are full of such folk.

Now, bitter people go to the Philippines and knock around with hookers. What could possibly go wrong with 60 year old lower middle class guys hooking up with Pinays who can barely read and whose 22 brothers and sisters cannot read or write either but can subsist on their half acre of mountain scrub land?

When I talk to the Pinay sweethearts about what we will do together, it is always have a good tine, splash my cash and to hell with tomorrow. That is one of the reasons the Chinese have all the money in the Philippines.

Every single hooker in the Philippines was a sweet little girl once. But now every last one of them is damaged goods. Put your dick in them squirt your load, do some small talk and Run, Forest, Run.[/QUOTE]Yes. They were once heavenly creatures. Now, they are all fallen angels. They only crave cash and cum. Any monger falling into their web is going to get the life sucked out of him, and not via BBBJCIM. Still many lonely mongers are going to attempt to reform these fallen sweethearts in girlfriends or even wives. The warnings abound but many love-struck mongers believe in innocent angelic farm girls who are only selling it for a noble cause.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2362533]What screws us up most in life is the picture in our head of how it is supposed to be.

You knew this chick all of 2 days and had a picture of grandeur. PEOPLE LIE, not just Filipinos. It is no mystery of how Bernie Madoff made off with all those people's money. Trust is earned, not just bestowed upon a person because you met them and they seem to be a certain way or another.

When women say that we need to get to know each other first, I say for what? There have been people married to each other for 20 years and one did not know the other was an ax murderer. The only thing you are going to know is what I want you to know.

You were lucky that she wanted you to know on day 4 and not year 40. Go into things with an open mind and see objectively where a person is. Don't just jump into shit for fantasy's sake because you have in your head the female version of a knight in shining armor and are looking for someone to fit the bill..[/QUOTE]I am an idealist. Perhaps a romantic. Every GF except one in the past 11 years has been a Filipina, about 5 and of course another 120 I bedded. I know them well.

PP.

Does anyone know if depression and anxiety are even considered as illnesses in the Philippines? In most Asian countries, mental health has the lowest priority and is rarely discussed.

I often think what will happen in the future to the all the young prostitutes we see. Most will become total nut cases. Once you cross the line and become a prostitute, it is impossible to walk away unscathed.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2364424]Does anyone know if depression and anxiety are even considered as illnesses in the Philippines? In most Asian countries, mental health has the lowest priority and is rarely discussed.

I often think what will happen in the future to the all the young prostitutes we see. Most will become total nut cases. Once you cross the line and become a prostitute, it is impossible to walk away unscathed.[/QUOTE]Over the years I've known of several working girls that have descended into madness. There have always been two common factors. Firstly, drugs were always involved. I don't know if drugs contributed to or were an effect of their madness. Secondly other girls always said that while working they use to be very beautiful and sought after. Whether they were being kind or truthful, I don't know.

I've often said that it's all fun on the outside but scratch a little deeper and it's not a pleasant industry.

As a parallel, if you look at international schools, you will find that kids with physical medical issues are readily treated with physio, motorised aids, care workers etc. Kids with mental and neurological disorders (ADHD, Autism, Anxiety etc) often find it very difficult to get adequate treatment and assistance. Often the only remedy is for them and mum to go back home. These are families with considerable resources and well funded expat insurance coverage behind them. Obviously, the situation would be much worse for anyone out in the village.

Cheers. G.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2364424]I often think what will happen in the future to the all the young prostitutes we see. Most will become total nut cases. Once you cross the line and become a prostitute, it is impossible to walk away unscathed.[/QUOTE]But this is not the first generation. Do you see their mothers, who were hookers as well, as total nut cases?

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2364437]But this is not the first generation. Do you see their mothers, who were hookers as well, as total nut cases?[/QUOTE]Yes, probably. We don't know what happened to them when they returned to the provinces. How can a 22 year old girl have a normal life after she has fucked 1,000 foreigners?

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2364424]Does anyone know if depression and anxiety are even considered as illnesses in the Philippines? In most Asian countries, mental health has the lowest priority and is rarely discussed.

I often think what will happen in the future to the all the young prostitutes we see. Most will become total nut cases. Once you cross the line and become a prostitute, it is impossible to walk away unscathed.[/QUOTE]May be it is the demographic I target but most I meet are students paying for courses to ensure their future or looking at financing a business. I have only met a couple that were doing it because they were young and were single mothers though I usually avoid mothers.

[QUOTE=GDreams;2364499]May be it is the demographic I target but most I meet are students paying for courses to ensure their future or looking at financing a business. I have only met a couple that were doing it because they were young and were single mothers though I usually avoid mothers.[/QUOTE]I wish your girls well but the reality is that many start off that way but after becoming addicted to the money and fast lifestyle and everyone learning of their choices, it can be a profession that is very difficult to make a break from.

Cheers. G.