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The victims brother claimed his brother met a tinder girl on 70 in laureles. He never returned that night and his friends grew worried and contacted his family in the states. It was soon learned that his accounts were emptied and a mysterious 500 usd PayPal transferred was made after his disappearance. He was most likely drugged and it was confirmed today that he was murdered with his body having been recovered. Rip to another lost soul.

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The victims brother claimed his brother met a tinder girl on 70 in laureles. He never returned that night and his friends grew worried and contacted his family in the states. It was soon learned that his accounts were emptied and a mysterious 500 usd PayPal transferred was made after his disappearance. He was most likely drugged and it was confirmed today that he was murdered with his body having been recovered. Rip to another lost soul.

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[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761398]The Secret Service incident is a very good cautionary tale. The advantages of settling negotiations before the fact far outweigh the disadvantages (e. G. It takes the romance out of it or it kills the mood). In the end these are business transactions.[/QUOTE]Sry, I disagree. Why? Bcos price is only one of many things that can go wrong. You can arrange a price and still have a big issue over smthg else. Many of the potential issues are just stuff that you have no control over. So yeah, you can perhaps narrow the scope for an issue on price, but one of many other issues can occur and cause a similar problem. Personally, I would not lose sleep on; price. If she is going to be a bltch, she is going to be a bilch regardless.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2761491]This is not only about being cheap. It is their "pussy is pussy" mentality. Read Steve's reports in the Seeking thread just to compare, and see for yourself what a real girlfriend experience is.[/QUOTE]Maybe people are not getting it because they are only looking to get laid, not pay anybody's rent. I do not know about the rest of ISG, but I can get a REAL GF without paying her rent. Nothing amazing about someone treating you well when you are paying their bills. Stop paying the shit then come back and say how great the GFE is.

Why do you guys continue to act like chicks are not on seeking for money? On the website itself, it asks guys are you generous and asks women are you decent looking. Something tells me the website would not work out too well by putting the generous under the women and the attractive under the guys. Everybody is not looking to pay to have their ego stroked. Some guys just want to nut in a broad's face right quick.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2761479]And my home girl that I found on SA has moved to full mistress status (pay her rent but everything else is just BFGF)..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761398]The Secret Service incident is a very good cautionary tale. The advantages of settling negotiations before the fact far outweigh the disadvantages (e. G. It takes the romance out of it or it kills the mood). In the end these are business transactions.[/QUOTE]Except that means shit because the girl can always say later that she wants more or it is supposed to be this much. The same way they can promise you the world to get you to the room and not deliver, they can not honor the agreed upon price at the end.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2761420]You want to know something funny! After I discovered SA and being in this hobby, at first I hesitated sharing intel w a bunch of horny and thirsty dudes on sites like this one so they don't go ruin it, but then I realize few others were on it and discussed it, yet sooooo many don't believe the reports and stay away from it. Meaning it's not for everyone, which is good.

Part of it is because it's not cheap, and also most guys prefer point and click environment and are lazy to actually take a girl on a date, or have small talk, etc. So now I don't mind sharing bc I know the losers will stay away. But if you're the guy who want to travel and want to diversity your time between casas / hardcore putas, and also go on actual dates with beautiful ladies, then it's for you.

So to answer your question, yes some will flake obviously but it's rare tbh. Remember majority of these ladies aren't considered "putas" or "working girls". Clearly lots of hardcore pros are on there, some not even pretending. Prob lke 10-20%. So most are normal chicas, low mileage LOL. For the guys who think it's dangerous to not set a price upfront, this I agree when it comes to most actual putas and pros, and the problem ones won't meet you anyway without a price.

There are clearly two different types of mongers, no offense of course: The 1st type failed in women, barely had any real dates or romance in his life, never married likely, so the concept of dating and being romantic is super foreign to him and mongering is by no choice. So this ain't for you. The 2nd type is the guy with a higher sex drive, marriage or real GF isn't enough, or got divorced, tired of entitled and feminazis / us cultured women, and now just want to be free, mongering by choice and for fun. This then maybe for you LOL.[/QUOTE]Hey bro what's the difference between seeking arrangements and finding GF's on tinder?

I am confused.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2761420]Remember the site is a dating site, not a puta site
[/QUOTE]It's a puta dating site.

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I am sure majority of you exercise with cautions but still watch yourself and each other out there. Kid was young, like 27.

[QUOTE=Avonite;2761032]Guys.

Seeing police taking away girls, rappers, etc. Anyone know what's happening?

All information appreciated.[/QUOTE]An asian-american was found died like 2 days ago, not sure if there's any connection.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2761491]This is not only about being cheap. It is their "pussy is pussy" mentality. They have no clue what real GFE is, and don't even want to try, because they are too lazy, insecure, etc. Most of the reports that I see here are so boring and bland. Went to casa X, paid X mil cop, shot 1 load, got out. Meh. Read Steve's reports in the Seeking thread just to compare, and see for yourself what a real girlfriend experience is.[/QUOTE]I agree but there's more to it, I'm not knocking anybody but there's a lot of people on here that don't see a value in mutual attraction for example if I go on dates in the states with a girl and I'm attracted to her and she's attracted to me when that moment comes she grabs my arm and pulls me in the bedroom she's hot for me and she wants to fuck and she's doing it to please herself you will never get that from a prostitute you will get a fake performance for me I can feel the energy the longer I'm in this game the less I want high mileage papa goes you know the ones that you negotiate with them they come in your apartment they don't smile they come in the bedroom they take their clothes off and they put a condom on you and do a fake BJ for three minutes then they climb on top of you and say give me the milk why are you taking so long they don't kiss they don't want you to give them oral and they're not there to have an orgasm some people don't understand this but there is a massive difference I mean a world of difference when a girl is hot for you it doesn't matter what she does or what her performances it's 100 times better than a Stone cold prostitute looking for milk and money.

[QUOTE=Avonite;2761032]Guys.

Seeing police taking away girls, rappers, etc. Anyone know what's happening?

All information appreciated.[/QUOTE]I hope they took away the the 65 bracelet selling Venezuelan beggars and baby diaper women.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2761420]
Part of it is because it's not cheap, and also most guys prefer point and click environment and are lazy to actually take a girl on a date, or have small talk, etc. So now I don't mind sharing bc I know the losers will stay away. But if you're the guy who want to travel and want to diversity your time between casas / hardcore putas, and also go on actual dates with beautiful ladies, then it's for you.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE]There are clearly two different types of mongers, no offense of course: The 1st type failed in women, barely had any real dates or romance in his life, never married likely, so the concept of dating and being romantic is super foreign to him and mongering is by no choice. So this ain't for you. The 2nd type is the guy with a higher sex drive, marriage or real GF isn't enough, or got divorced, tired of entitled and feminazis / us cultured women, and now just want to be free, mongering by choice and for fun. This then maybe for you LOL.
[/QUOTE]Here's some advice for everyone. Saying "no offense" and then saying something offensive doesn't really cover it.

There are roughly 5 million types of mongers. I've met a lot more than just 2. Everyone has their own history, their own reasons and their own preferences. Throwing everyone into 2 groups makes as much sense as dividing people by the color of their skin, picking 1 color and calling them all losers.

However, if you want, pick a group for me.

My sex drive isn't high. Never was super high. Married 3 times, all 3 divorces were reasonably amicable. Early on I had difficulty initiating conversation with women, but ended up dating often. Women frequently approached me, either directly or through mutual friends. I was always good at romance, still good at it when I feel like making an effort. Once I reached 30, my dating and sex life took off. For about 10 years I averaged meeting and having sex with 15-20 new girls per year, with maybe 1 per year being a prostitute. Many started with dates, many went straight to sex. A few became regulars, whenever I was in their area. 10 years ago I got tired of dating. It seemed pointless. Still wanted sex, decided paying was the simplest route. A year ago I decided to mix dating in with mongering. Settled on 2, 1 is a semi-pro, the other just a regular girl, lower mileage than you're ever likely to find on SA. 4 months ago I dropped the semi-pro and am exclusive with the regular girl.

I'll add that I see no reason to use Seeking, because there are no regular girls to be found there. I'll explain in a moment. Am I in the loser / failed with women group, or the super-stud, better than everyone else group?

Everyone on Seeking is looking for something. The women aren't just looking for a man. They can find a man by opening their door and stepping outside. They're looking for a man who can afford, and is willing, to upgrade their lifestyle. They're not looking for someone to buy them a 12 k dinner before going to fuck. They want more than that. Nothing wrong with that, but that's not a regular girl.

I met a regular girl purely through luck. For several weeks we just had regular conversations. Then one day a chance comment changed the tone of our conversations. We talked for 7 months before we met. We met several times over 2 trips to Medellin before we were ever alone together and that was only 5 minutes. In other words, I put in the time.

Everyone here has their own way of achieving the same goal, getting laid. There's no reason to be insulting towards those who are taking a different path.

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I am sure majority of you exercise with cautions but still watch yourself and each other out there. Kid was young, like 27.[/QUOTE]I'm just curious without an autopsy or any more details how was he killed? Either od scop. Or killed right there in that alleyway (knife / gun).

There is also a pic of the girl he took his last snap chat really chilling.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2761507]I will treat them w the same respect that you give to guys that don't happen to be attracted to SA.[/QUOTE]Thank you bro.

I agree with this. We are all mongers. And I don't use Seeking because I get good action on tinder. And I don't even pay for anything except dinner or a good time together. Which is what a man is supposed to do in the first place.

Seeking is for men who want to be sugar daddies. Thats not what I'm into.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2761420]..

I would say to activate the paid membership 1-2 weeks before you land, it does require a few days of convo to find out which one you vibe with. Exchange whatsapp and only discuss pricing after you're in COL. Remember the site is US regulated and any biz discussion and pricing will be deemed illegal. Some profiles are fake, so due diligence like everything else, don't send money even if in Colombia, you could be sending to a john w a dick longer than yours. Other than that have fun![/QUOTE]Solid info! I thank you.