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Taking in consideration of the recent tragic events would you still recommend using seeking? I was also thinking of using seeking prior to my first medellin trip next month but now I'm not so sure since I keep hearing about how people keep getting set up with tinder and seeking.
This misunderstanding is my fault. I wrongly assumed it goes without saying that it's equally important to settle on what activities will take place for the agreed price. So now I've said it. I agree other things can go wrong that are beyond our control, but they are of the force majeure variety. Earthquakes, civil unrest, diarrhea. Beyond that we are getting into self-fulfilling prophecy territory. People pick up on that vibe and take advantage of it if we put it out there.
[QUOTE=JustTK;2761505]Sry, I disagree. Why? Bcos price is only one of many things that can go wrong. You can arrange a price and still have a big issue over smthg else. Many of the potential issues are just stuff that you have no control over. So yeah, you can perhaps narrow the scope for an issue on price, but one of many other issues can occur and cause a similar problem. Personally, I would not lose sleep on; price. If she is going to be a bltch, she is going to be a bilch regardless.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Maelstrom;2761593]Solid info! I thank you.[/QUOTE]If you are going to be in Colombia for 2 weeks, try starting 2-3 weeks before. If it is one weeks, try 3-4 weeks before.
I take them to WhatsApp right away, and I discuss pricing from there while in US. It would be all set once I have landed in the target city. They may ask what are you looking for "que buscas", or "que buscas en la red", you can answer conservatively with "mutually beneficial relationship" to start if you are not sure how to answer.
FYI there is no need to worry, he was not our very own Fresh Prince of Bello.
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I am sure majority of you exercise with cautions but still watch yourself and each other out there. Kid was young, like 27.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761460]Anthony Bourdain would be proud.[/QUOTE]I am a fan! Too bad he was not a monger.
[QUOTE=QueRico;2761541] shes hot for me and she wants to fuck and she's doing it to please herself you will never get that from a prostitute.[/QUOTE]Not my experience at all. I have / had a very natural sexual relationship w plenty of working girls. If I didn't, I wouldn't repeat, and I would have given up on this game a long time ago. All you need to do is be fun, friendly and treat them like real people.
[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761620] beyond our control, but they are of the force majeure variety. Earthquakes, civil unrest, diarrhea.[/QUOTE]Haha. That was pretty funny. FM, the bane of my real life. . I would add to that list. Girls that just want to FK guys over. Bad choices. Another good reason to pay street prices.
[QUOTE=QueRico;2761541]I agree but there's more to it, I'm not knocking anybody but there's a lot of people on here that don't see a value in mutual attraction for example if I go on dates in the states with a girl and I'm attracted to her and she's attracted to me when that moment comes she grabs my arm and pulls me in the bedroom she's hot for me and she wants to fuck and she's doing it to please herself you will never get that from a prostitute you will get a fake performance for me I can feel the energy the longer I'm in this game the less I want high mileage papa goes you know the ones that you negotiate with them they come in your apartment they don't smile they come in the bedroom they take their clothes off and they put a condom on you and do a fake BJ for three minutes then they climb on top of you and say give me the milk why are you taking so long they don't kiss they don't want you to give them oral and they're not there to have an orgasm some people don't understand this but there is a massive difference I mean a world of difference when a girl is hot for you it doesn't matter what she does or what her performances it's 100 times better than a Stone cold prostitute looking for milk and money.[/QUOTE]Just like there are girls that we call hardened pros, there are guys on here who as well could be described as hardened pros in the hobby. Prostitutes' main objective is to get as much money as possible with as less effort as possible. And hardened pro guys just want to shoot their load and pay close to nothing.
[QUOTE=QueRico;2761541]I agree but there's more to it, I'm not knocking anybody but there's a lot of people on here that don't see a value in mutual attraction for example if I go on dates in the states with a girl and I'm attracted to her and she's attracted to me when that moment comes she grabs my arm and pulls me in the bedroom she's hot for me and she wants to fuck and she's doing it to please herself you will never get that from a prostitute you will get a fake performance for me I can feel the energy the longer I'm in this game the less I want high mileage papa goes you know the ones that you negotiate with them they come in your apartment they don't smile they come in the bedroom they take their clothes off and they put a condom on you and do a fake BJ for three minutes then they climb on top of you and say give me the milk why are you taking so long they don't kiss they don't want you to give them oral and they're not there to have an orgasm some people don't understand this but there is a massive difference I mean a world of difference when a girl is hot for you it doesn't matter what she does or what her performances it's 100 times better than a Stone cold prostitute looking for milk and money.[/QUOTE]If she was that into you, you wouldn't be paying her.
[QUOTE=Nounce;2761623]I am a fan! Too bad he was not a monger.[/QUOTE]I think Anthony Bourdain may have been a monger actually and just didn't mention it in his show for obvious reasons. I always thought it was strange that he did the episode on Kentucky Fried Buches in zona norte in Tijuana, I mean you literally have to walk right past the SWers to get to the place.
[QUOTE=Mtndew704;2761669]If she was that into you, you wouldn't be paying her.[/QUOTE]If you knew a girl that owned a bar. . And she was in to you, would you expect free drinks every time you went there?
[QUOTE=JustTK;2761685]If you knew a girl that owned a bar. . And she was in to you, would you expect free drinks every time you went there?[/QUOTE]Yes, she can write those drinks off on her taxes.
My curiosity got the better of me and I went through the first couple of pages of the Seeking Arrangement section here. Yes, I RTFF. LOL. It's the same sort of discussions that go on here in the main forum with a subtle difference (without a distinction). For example, guys are on there debating whether they are willing to fuck fat girls. As one would expect, few are willing, but the subtle difference is they are also debating whether and how the "get to know you" date should be cut short.
Seen through the eyes of a hardened Centro rat who from time to time cheats on the street scene with mileroticos / photoprepago apartment dates, friends with benefits & casa visits, this Seeking Arrangement vs the rest overlooks a key consideration. We are all paying the girls, albeit across a wide range of prices. I fully respect the value of perceived emotional fulfillment from relationships with girls sourced from web sites where they ply their wares and convince customers they are so irresistible they would not disappear within moments of being denied payment. The hair splitting subjective labels like pro, semi pro, 4-5-6-7-10 say more about us than they do about the girls. It's possible to disagree with other people's choices without demeaning them. Unless the disparagement is a coping mechanism for personal dissatisfaction.
[QUOTE=JustTK;2761632]Not my experience at all. I have / had a very natural sexual relationship w plenty of working girls. If I didn't, I wouldn't repeat, and I would have given up on this game a long time ago. All you need to do is be fun, friendly and treat them like real people.[/QUOTE]
If you are aware of the risk it's not very difficult to protect yourself from someone who may try to slip you a mickey. I think you have to be extra careful if you are in unfamiliar territory like a hotel room or an airbnb. It's worth noting that relatively few of these cases involve guys in their own homes. The perpetrators target tourists because they know they will have the advantage of surprise and be able to get away with it more easily. When in doubt, point your phone at a girl and see how she reacts. Any attempt to dodge being photographed is a big bright red flag. You should also refuse any dining or drinking establishment recommendations. Get on the Internet and make a list of places you can bring dates where they won't have confederates posted up. If you are not from an urban area be extra careful because you are less likely to sense the moves these people up to no good make.
[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2761611]Taking in consideration of the recent tragic events would you still recommend using seeking? I was also thinking of using seeking prior to my first medellin trip next month but now I'm not so sure since I keep hearing about how people keep getting set up with tinder and seeking.[/QUOTE]
I'm not convinced he wasn't. There was chatter his Asia Argento thing was complicated by third parties.
[QUOTE=Nounce;2761623]I am a fan! Too bad he was not a monger.[/QUOTE]