Medellin Reports

I couldn't have said it better. I tried hard but this is the post to read if what I wrote on the subject is confusing in any way.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2761549]Here's some advice for everyone. Saying "no offense" and then saying something offensive doesn't really cover it.

There are roughly 5 million types of mongers. I've met a lot more than just 2. Everyone has their own history, their own reasons and their own preferences. Throwing everyone into 2 groups makes as much sense as dividing people by the color of their skin, picking 1 color and calling them all losers.

However, if you want, pick a group for me.

My sex drive isn't high. Never was super high. Married 3 times, all 3 divorces were reasonably amicable. Early on I had difficulty initiating conversation with women, but ended up dating often. Women frequently approached me, either directly or through mutual friends. I was always good at romance, still good at it when I feel like making an effort. Once I reached 30, my dating and sex life took off. For about 10 years I averaged meeting and having sex with 15-20 new girls per year, with maybe 1 per year being a prostitute. Many started with dates, many went straight to sex. A few became regulars, whenever I was in their area. 10 years ago I got tired of dating. It seemed pointless. Still wanted sex, decided paying was the simplest route. A year ago I decided to mix dating in with mongering. Settled on 2, 1 is a semi-pro, the other just a regular girl, lower mileage than you're ever likely to find on SA. 4 months ago I dropped the semi-pro and am exclusive with the regular girl..[/QUOTE]

I can clear this up. Seeking Arrangement is a higher cost alternative to Tinder and some users believe Seeking Arrangement is a dating sit of the [URL]match.com[/URL] variety, in spite of the "Arrangement" aspect.

[QUOTE=YahooDiSingh;2761511]Hey bro what's the difference between seeking arrangements and finding GF's on tinder?

I am confused.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JustTK;2761632]Not my experience at all. I have / had a very natural sexual relationship w plenty of working girls. If I didn't, I wouldn't repeat, and I would have given up on this game a long time ago. All you need to do is be fun, friendly and treat them like real people.[/QUOTE]Bingo!

It's just as simple as that.

Lots of avenues for meeting girls, lots of guys' opinions on what's the best way.

Does it really matter?

It's all about what TK says above really, regardless of what you pay, from whatever venue you meet.

[QUOTE=Mtndew704;2761686]Yes, she can write those drinks off on her taxes.[/QUOTE]The correct answer was no.

If you're a carpenter and a girl is fucking you, should she expect you to remodel her kitchen for free? If you're a mechanic do you replace the clutch on her old Volvo for free (if you've ever replaced the clutch on an old Volvo I know your answer)? If she's an accountant do you expect her to fo your taxes for free?

If a woman owns a bar and you show up every night to drink for free, you're not only costing her money, you're interfering with her business.

Mutually appreciated sex with equal attraction is great. Personally I believe that's why many guys go to Colombia. For a reasonable price you can find girls who will have sex with you and enjoy it.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2761685]If you knew a girl that owned a bar. . And she was in to you, would you expect free drinks every time you went there?[/QUOTE]She has to pay for the drinks. She was born with the pussy.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2761326]It happened in Cartagena and a secret service agent met a young attractive girl and they spent the night together and have fun. He was 40 and fit and thought that It was just a normal pickup and one night stand.[/QUOTE]Yeah. But, no.

The entire stay-behind detail went to Pley Club and they all procured chicas.

Two of these fools inexplicably decided to pay the $60 jailbreak fee on 2 x chicas. They brought them back to the place where they were staying, Hotel Caribe (ONE of those fools either agreed to some retarded USD price thinking it was COP, or agreed to some price with the intention of stiffing the girl. Or the girl said, "This guy is so incredibly dumb, watch me take $800 from him. He's not going to completely burn down the USSS and lose his job- for less money than he made staying behind to close out the visit. I. e. Doing absolutely nothing and getting paid for a few days. That would be retarded."

He called her bluff, and proved that he was not in fact merely dumb, but truly retarded. And the rest is now part of American History.

[QUOTE=QueRico;2761541]Some people don't understand this but there is a massive difference I mean a world of difference when a girl is hot for you it doesn't matter what she does or what her performances it's 100 times better than a Stone cold prostitute looking for milk and money.[/QUOTE]And just think if she was your GF and loved you it would be 1000 times better. Oh, and better yet if she was your wife and loved you it would be 1,000,000 times better. So why do you guys not get married and have the best sex ever? If you guys have this magical connection you would not be on this site designed for paying girls for money. But here you are.

Stone cold prostitute? That is at such a level of BS that you should be banned for saying such stupidity here. You are talking about the women I love.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2761621]If you are going to be in Colombia for 2 weeks, try starting 2-3 weeks before. If it is one weeks, try 3-4 weeks before.

I take them to WhatsApp right away, and I discuss pricing from there while in US. It would be all set once I have landed in the target city. They may ask what are you looking for "que buscas", or "que buscas en la red", you can answer conservatively with "mutually beneficial relationship" to start if you are not sure how to answer.[/QUOTE]Good info also appreciated.

[QUOTE=Maelstrom;2761745]Good info also appreciated.[/QUOTE]This may save you some money if you only want to be on for a month. After you sign up the membership, after a couple of weeks, they may send you promotion with discount for the monthly premium membership. They also have promotion for discount around holidays. If you have time, you can wait for the promotion and not in a hurry to sign up. If you are on longer term, you have to be careful about discussing money, especially PPM because you may get banned and lost your paid membership. That is why I gave you an example of what to say in my earlier post

Friday night in Provenza I saw so many street girls I decided I should document it. These two were especially aggressive. They were strolling carrera 34 just south of la 10. I think the one in white shorts had ass pads in her underwear. Be careful out there.

She is a vennie, petite spinner, white with more European look, 19, with one 2 yr old kid or 2 kids. The face is pretty, but weathered like she has something on her mind. By look alone, I would grab her at any place before anyone else in a heartbeat, Gusto, or La Isla. Just keep in mind, she fits my preferred slender body type, short or tall.

She said she works everyday but I have only seen her a couple of times around the glass walkway. She was gone every time when I circled back to find her. That is how it is in El Centro. Today, on my way home, after dark, I saw her standing alone. I got her name and whatsapp so I won't miss her again. I had a date coming to my place shortly but decided to turn around to see what she looked like naked for 40 mil. Haha. It's CBJ and she was OK with Steve 2 position which is basically oral with her lying down. I would never finish or get hard enough this way in this situation. I have achieved my purpose so I terminated the session to go home waiting for my date.

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761698]I can clear this up. Seeking Arrangement is a higher cost alternative to Tinder and some users believe Seeking Arrangement is a dating sit of the [URL]match.com[/URL] variety, in spite of the "Arrangement" aspect.[/QUOTE]Actually the site dropped the Arrangement part and is now only known as Seeking. I think that means you do not have to pay the chicks anymore.

I'm back in the Bay Area now, trying my best to be a good inmate in American sexual prison. With good behavior, I'll be out in no time and heading back to MDE to celebrate my release with multiple releases. Going to be fun passing Christmas and new years over there again, barrio block parties here I cum!! Drinking unless guaro, listening to ear blasting navidad music, eating home made sancocho, seeing hot barrio girls on every corner, and doing it all with locals, I wouldn't have it any other way. BTW, I'm not randomly showing up to a barrio uninvited, it's always with chicas extending an invitation to their family party fest and feast. And it's chicas I've known for years, not someone I just met last night.

It sucks the Asian guy just wanted to have some Medellin fun and ended up dead. We all have to be extra careful no matter if we're newbies or experienced vets, especially doing the upcoming holiday season.

Btw, I assume you were talking about me when you said “Fresh Prince of Bello”. I do like the sound of that haha.

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761622]FYI there is no need to worry, he was not our very own Fresh Prince of Bello.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2761710]The correct answer was no.

If you're a carpenter and a girl is fucking you, should she expect you to remodel her kitchen for free? If you're a mechanic do you replace the clutch on her old Volvo for free (if you've ever replaced the clutch on an old Volvo I know your answer)? If she's an accountant do you expect her to fo your taxes for free?

If a woman owns a bar and you show up every night to drink for free, you're not only costing her money, you're interfering with her business.

Mutually appreciated sex with equal attraction is great. Personally I believe that's why many guys go to Colombia. For a reasonable price you can find girls who will have sex with you and enjoy it.[/QUOTE]Just say you never had free sex, its easier to say that.

[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761695]If you are aware of the risk it's not very difficult to protect yourself from someone who may try to slip you a mickey. I think you have to be extra careful if you are in unfamiliar territory like a hotel room or an airbnb. It's worth noting that relatively few of these cases involve guys in their own homes. The perpetrators target tourists because they know they will have the advantage of surprise and be able to get away with it more easily .[/QUOTE]Since it will be my first trip to Medellin and travelling solo I will definitely have my guard up even tho I am mid 30's Hispanic and muscular. Will not be dressing nice like I usually would anywhere else when I go out. I don't think I could get away with dressing nice like I do when I visit Tijuana, even there I usually noticed people looking at my new shoes, new clothes, airpods, shades etc. I feel that if I do that in Medellin I could potentially make myself a easy target so perhaps it would be wise to just blend in and dress plain. I think even leaving something as little as a apple watch in your room would be a good idea. I can imagine if I wasn't Hispanic and fluent in Spanish travelling alone there would be even more risky. But yeah I'm not taking any chances, definitely will be watching my drinks too.