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[QUOTE=JustTK;2761963]Haha. While that's true for the majority, I don't think its bulletproof. Just as in english, some groups call everyone "love", so they do in spanish. So I don't think its so true of amor.[/QUOTE]The female owner of the fried chicken called me amor. Older female vendor also tend to use the word more. Not sure why a prostitute uses it when it indicates she is a prostitute.
[QUOTE=Nounce;2761971]The female owner of the fried chicken called me amor. Older female vendor also tend to use the word more. Not sure why a prostitute uses it when it indicates she is a prostitute.[/QUOTE]Yes. Even I am from the southern USA and call women sweetheart. The difference is that hookers overuse the word. They tend to use it at the end of damn near every sentence. They will amor you to death. A normal person will be like can I get you anything sweetheart? Then the rest of the conversation they will not use the word again.
But a hooker is like let me get a menu sweetheart. Do you want cheese with that sweetheart? Do you want ice in your drink sweetheart? Any condiments with that sweetheart? Do you want dessert too sweetheart? Thank you for coming sweetheart.
[QUOTE=JustIncognito;2761942]Another question asked and answered 1000 times that could easily be figured out with a basic reading through the various Colombia and Medellin forums.
Stay at the Mansion. If you can't figure out what that means after reading through various discussion topics here. Traveling to Medellin is probably not a good idea for you.[/QUOTE]I would generally agree with this statement. The Mansion will provide you with girls on site and fellow mongers at the hotel will provide guidance to you. It is the easiest setup for first-timers but eventually you want to move on from the Mansion. It can be a little too easy and convenient and in a hinder your knowledge about mongering in Medellin for future trips.
For my first trip to Medellin, I intended to stay at the mansion but then decided that I wanted to learn things on my own and that is what I did. The upside is that you learn a lot when you first trip, downside is that you will make mistakes and learn from them.
As for speaking Spanish, it helps and it makes things easier. But but keep this in mind. I hear a lot of guys say they don't speak Spanish but that does not mean they can't make a little effort to learn a little Spanish. So just because you don't speak any Spanish now doesn't mean you can't speak a little Spanish in a few weeks. Just learning the basics can be helpful in communications with the locals.
As for myself, I speak some basic Spanish but on each subsequent trip, it gets a little better but I will never be fluent. That does not stop me from having a good time with the chicas.
[QUOTE=Knowledge;2761789]Friday night in Provenza I saw so many street girls I decided I should document it. These two were especially aggressive. They were strolling carrera 34 just south of la 10. I think the one in white shorts had ass pads in her underwear. Be careful out there.[/QUOTE]These two don't appear to be "street girls", I guess they wouldn't be out there unless they were getting customers. If they had seen you taking a photo of them you might of gotten your ass kicked as they looked like trouble. Very different now in and around Lleras and the surrounding areas since the onset of the Pandemic, and when Lleras opens back up it will be even more of a circus like atmosphere with all the hustlers, beggars, Indigenous, and sex workers roaming around.
First let me say that I'm no expert and I've only been to Medellin twice on short trips. So for guys who want to criticize me, I am a loser, I overpay, I don't know what I'm doing, I am ruining it for all the other guys, you were doing things the right way I'm doing it the wrong way, etc.
I prefer to get an agreement on price even with girls who are not asking me for money on the chats. The second thing I started to do is to ask how long they will stay. Now I am an older man near 60 so I'm a one shot guy but I like to take my time so I usually ask for 2 hours. If you don't ask for 2 hours, girls may want to leave after you finish and it is less than 1 hour. Even after asking for 2 hours, girls may not stay 2 hours but will stay hour 15 minutes, hour and a half or an hour 45 minutes. That has happened to me on this trip but it is not a big deal for me because the sex part has been completed and the rest is just other stuff. But for guys who really want 2 hours and want to screw for 2 hours with more than one shot, I can see that this can be a big deal if the girl is itching to go after you finish the first time and it has been 1 hour.
The easy resolution for guys who want multiple shots is to clarify your intent with the girl. At least that is my opinion which may be wrong.
I feel the same way about particular sexual acts that you may want. For example let's take anal. If this is something you want, I think you should mention that during the preliminary discussions. That way if this is what you want you can be assured that you are getting it as opposed to asking and being rejected during the meeting. I think the same thing goes for finish in the mouth. If this is what you want, you might want to mention it in the chat to ensure that this is what you're going to get. There may be surcharges for these acts.
Anyway this is just the opinion of one person who does not know anything about Medellin as I'm sure some of you guys will say.
[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2761839]Since it will be my first trip to Medellin and travelling solo I will definitely have my guard up even tho I am mid 30's Hispanic and muscular. Will not be dressing nice like I usually would anywhere else when I go out. I don't think I could get away with dressing nice like I do when I visit Tijuana, even there I usually noticed people looking at my new shoes, new clothes, airpods, shades etc. I feel that if I do that in Medellin I could potentially make myself a easy target so perhaps it would be wise to just blend in and dress plain. I think even leaving something as little as a apple watch in your room would be a good idea. I can imagine if I wasn't Hispanic and fluent in Spanish travelling alone there would be even more risky. But yeah I'm not taking any chances, definitely will be watching my drinks too.[/QUOTE]Apple watches, airpods, expensive shades and new shoes make excellent gifts for guys who ride around together on motos.
When I step outside in Medellin I have at most 4 things in my pockets, plus my backpack. My backpack contains a bottle of water, a light jacket, baby wipes, face masks, some hard candy, condoms and Viagra. Nothing of value and it's a cheap backpack. In my pockets:
Front left. Phone.
Front right. Money, enough to accomplish my goals.
Back right. Room key card (right front for actual keys), ID (US Passport card), emergency money, just enough to get back to my room.
No wallet, no jewelry, no $6000 DSLR camera, no watch, no credit cards. When I need cash I take a debit card to the ATM, get money and lock it away in my room.
[QUOTE=MoonShot;2762046]First let me say that I'm no expert and I've only been to Medellin twice on short trips. So for guys who want to criticize me, I am a loser, I overpay, I don't know what I'm doing, I am ruining it for all the other guys, you were doing things the right way I'm doing it the wrong way, etc.
I prefer to get an agreement on price even with girls who are not asking me for money on the chats. The second thing I started to do is to ask how long they will stay. Now I am an older man near 60 so I'm a one shot guy but I like to take my time so I usually ask for 2 hours. If you don't ask for 2 hours, girls may want to leave after you finish and it is less than 1 hour. Even after asking for 2 hours, girls may not stay 2 hours but will stay hour 15 minutes, hour and a half or an hour 45 minutes. That has happened to me on this trip but it is not a big deal for me because the sex part has been completed and the rest is just other stuff. But for guys who really want 2 hours and want to screw for 2 hours with more than one shot, I can see that this can be a big deal if the girl is itching to go after you finish the first time and it has been 1 hour.
The easy resolution for guys who want multiple shots is to clarify your intent with the girl. At least that is my opinion which may be wrong.
I feel the same way about particular sexual acts that you may want. For example let's take anal. If this is something you want, I think you should mention that during the preliminary discussions. That way if this is what you want you can be assured that you are getting it as opposed to asking and being rejected during the meeting. I think the same thing goes for finish in the mouth. If this is what you want, you might want to mention it in the chat to ensure that this is what you're going to get. There may be surcharges for these acts.
Anyway this is just the opinion of one person who does not know anything about Medellin as I'm sure some of you guys will say.[/QUOTE]You're being way too reasonable LOL.
[QUOTE=Lefeu;2761850]I can assure you that I know what GFE is, and I have experienced real GFE many times in my life.
However, at this stage in my life, I am not interested in a GFE relationship. I just want to bust a nut and have some fun. It is not that complicated.[/QUOTE]This might be my favorite post of the day.
If I go inside a man's garage, I can get a pretty good idea about what his mechanical skills are and how skilled he is. I can tell if he's a woodworker, or an auto mechanic. If a stranger tells me he bought a screwdriver, I have no idea what he's planning to screw, or how well he's going to screw it. I don't even know if he's got the right tool for the job.
It's complete bullshit to assume you know everything about anyone. For all anyone knows Centro Rat Surfer500 was fucking Demi Moore before she got the boob job and Angelina Jolie before she got her lips done. JustTK might have been a famous gigolo, who's hiding from Interpol in Colombia. Huacho might run sensitivity training workshops where he sweet talks hot HR chicks into his bed.
Or they might just be regular guys, who have lived regular lives, had regular experiences and at some point decided fucking young Colombianas for money was better than listening to some middle age woman complain her way through menopause.
Which ones they're fucking, how they're fucking and how much they're spending is nobody's business. How they were fucking 20 or 30 years ago is nobody's business.
I've had a lot of girlfriends and the GFE was different with each. One shocked me by not stopping the blowjob when I got stopped at a stoplight with about 20 people standing on the corner. One wouldn't even consider giving road head. I've had GFE that was also PSE and PSE that definitely wasn't GFE.
Each of us is familiar with our own experiences. Nothing more. Don't assume you know what stranger's are doing, or were doing when you were still wearing diapers.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2761868]I can definitely tell. Normal chicks don't keep saying amor and mi vida and cielo like hookers do.[/QUOTE]I believe the amor, vida and cielo stuff depends on how you talk to them. If you don't throw in the sweet talk, or respond to it, they don't use it. Even my old roommate, a regular girl and webcam model always refers to me as "my Jay. ".
However, a girl sending several messages, voice and or video calls without response is definitely a full-time working girl.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2762010]Yes. Even I am from the southern USA and call women sweetheart. The difference is that hookers overuse the word. They tend to use it at the end of damn near every sentence. They will amor you to death. A normal person will be like can I get you anything sweetheart? Then the rest of the conversation they will not use the word again.
But a hooker is like let me get a menu sweetheart. Do you want cheese with that sweetheart? Do you want ice in your drink sweetheart? Any condiments with that sweetheart? Do you want dessert too sweetheart? Thank you for coming sweetheart.[/QUOTE]So all Alabama waitresses are hookers? Whenever I've been in the deep south I hear "honey" more than a beekeeper.
In Medellin, if they're using "amor" they're either a regular girl, or a higher class of prostitute. If they're calling you "mor", get your cash out.
[QUOTE=WayneRoberts;2761913]Question for the vets.
If you spoke no spanish, you were a complete newbie, and only had one week on the ground in Medellin in January. How would you approach that trip?[/QUOTE]1. Start learning Spanish. An hour a day in 10-15 minute sessions with a language app.
2. Stay at the Mansion. Search Google for Hotel M Medellin and you'll find the website.
3. Bring your own condoms.
[QUOTE=MoonShot;2762046]First let me say that I'm no expert and I've only been to Medellin twice on short trips. So for guys who want to criticize me, I am a loser, I overpay, I don't know what I'm doing, I am ruining it for all the other guys, you were doing things the right way I'm doing it the wrong way, etc.
I prefer to get an agreement on price even with girls who are not asking me for money on the chats. The second thing I started to do is to ask how long they will stay. Now I am an older man near 60 so I'm a one shot guy but I like to take my time so I usually ask for 2 hours. If you don't ask for 2 hours, girls may want to leave after you finish and it is less than 1 hour. Even after asking for 2 hours, girls may not stay 2 hours but will stay hour 15 minutes, hour and a half or an hour 45 minutes. That has happened to me on this trip but it is not a big deal for me because the sex part has been completed and the rest is just other stuff. But for guys who really want 2 hours and want to screw for 2 hours with more than one shot, I can see that this can be a big deal if the girl is itching to go after you finish the first time and it has been 1 hour.
The easy resolution for guys who want multiple shots is to clarify your intent with the girl. At least that is my opinion which may be wrong.
I feel the same way about particular sexual acts that you may want. For example let's take anal. If this is something you want, I think you should mention that during the preliminary discussions. That way if this is what you want you can be assured that you are getting it as opposed to asking and being rejected during the meeting. I think the same thing goes for finish in the mouth. If this is what you want, you might want to mention it in the chat to ensure that this is what you're going to get. There may be surcharges for these acts.
Anyway this is just the opinion of one person who does not know anything about Medellin as I'm sure some of you guys will say.[/QUOTE]Almost everything you said is very savy. Anyone who criticizes you should go pound sand. Your point about discussing services you want / need and time frame are very important, especially if you have some preferences that are perhaps non-standard.
Didn't know it was a Colombian holiday today. When I showed up to front door of Energy, it was closed. Their was a guy standing on the stoop and he pointed to the door next to it #49-107. I was confused at that point and thought was this another way into Energy. I rang the bell l was buzzed in. When I got inside I mentioned Energy to the girl it sounded like she said yes. I was then presented with the line up of girls. There was about 12 of them most of them kinda ugly definitely not what I expected. I picked the best one them. It was 150 k for an hour. The whole session was good. great BBBJ CIM and when it was over I was getting ready to leave and she gave me a 10 min back massage. A great session all the way through for 150 k. When I showed the girl the energy web site she didn"t recognize it. I didn't know there was another casa next door to Energy. I'll try energy tomorrow and if the service is anything like what I just received and the girls look as they do on the website, it should be a home run.
[QUOTE=JustTK;2761960]Claim a refund on your travel insurance.[/QUOTE]Lmao. My first trip will be in Jan. For a week too, maybe I could help him out so he doesn't cancel LOL.
[QUOTE=Nounce;2761955]Thanks, Now I remember this has been talked about. I tried to make my question less confrontational so I deleted some words. My original post was "Can you tell these are [b]stone cold[/b] prostitutes?[/QUOTE]There is a big difference between 'amor,' which is overused and means very little, and '[B]mi[/B] amor,' which is not used casually at all!