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[QUOTE=Jack James]Hi fellow members,
Iam still in paradise angles of course iam getting married to a maganda on sat in manilla of course none of her family knows that she use to work in a bar.If any members can help me in a few days on what i should say that will be great![/QUOTE]
I think you should marry the girl and then file reports back to the forum on a periodic basis about the state of your married bliss.
RED ALERT - You have already answered your own question. If you are asking for marriage advice on a sex site from people you done know and are looking for a way out then its time to cut your losses and dont worry about saving face for you pre-bar girl. The family will still love her and she will put the blame on the you as it should be. Jump off the boat now before it leaves port. Just my take on your post.
[QUOTE=Jack James]Hi fellow members,
How is everyone going?? Iam still in paradise angles of course iam getting married to a maganda on sat in manilla of course none of her family knows that she use to work in a bar.She told her family that she was working at the sm mall.Any girl will tell you when you meet the family that you did not meet them in a bar or club.If the family knows that they have worked in a bar or club they will kick them out of the family.I think i need some help here to get out of this relationship i have brought other girls home but she still tells me that she is mahal kita with me.I need to save face with the family but trying not to be soft here i think it might be the right girl but how do us damaged guys know?If any members can help me in a few days on what i should say that will be great![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Jack James]Hi fellow members,
? Iam still in paradise angles of course iam getting married to a maganda on sat in manilla of course none of her family knows that she use to work in a bar.[/QUOTE]A bar girl? Tell a lie?
Just break up with her. Her family will think ur an *ss no matter what.
[QUOTE=Natty Bumpo]I think you should marry the girl and then file reports back to the forum on a periodic basis about the state of your married bliss.[/QUOTE]I too would say go for it mate. Just keep a journal of the change of your mental state. Post marriage, and how the mind games start. You can almost do a hollywood movie, if you keep an accurate journal. And maybe get Oscar for the movie.
As for the notion that the family doesn't know about her work. No comments. And all the threats of kicking out doesn't work. Who want to kill the golden egg laying goose?
Plus. You mentioned you brought other girls, and still your girl is mahal kita? Well, you just planted the obvious seeds of a legal case for 'adultery'. In Philippines, that is a strong legal case, and the girl can refuse to fuck you, and instead take all the money you have, quoting your 'track record'
And going back to the family not knowing. Mate. Once she knows she's got you for good, the family will be the first one to tell the police that you broke her heart and got her into hooking in bars.
I shall stop this ranting now.
Cheers
[QUOTE=Jack James]... If the family knows that they have worked in a bar or club they will kick them out of the family... [/QUOTE]The fact she was working in bar tells that the family is not well off so they will not kick out a girl with money bags (you). Put this story into a test and tell the truth to her family. One less skeleton in a closet.
Jesus. You are in fantasy land. Tell the girl you have something to attend to in your home country, and you'll be back in six months to marry her. Then go back home for six months and think about it.
You need a serious reality check. You are not in paradise. You are a kid in a candy store.
You need to understand what extreme poverty and boredom can make people do. From the pinay point of view, YOU are the candy store. You have money, you provide release from boredom, you provide escape. If the girl is young, she will mistake these feelings for love. Or she might be playing you.
The only analogy I can think of, that you might be able to relate to, is prisoners. In the US, people wonder how women fall in love with convicts in prison. The reason is that these guys have nothing to do, so they write tons of letters and string women along. It's an escape from boredom, nothing more than a game to them. But the women take it seriously and sometimes marry these guys. In your case, the pinay is the prisoner, and you are the sucker.
You have to get out of there and get your head on straight. I don't know what else to say, I'm just so shocked to read your posts.
[QUOTE=Jack James]Hi fellow members,
How is everyone going? Iam still in paradise angles of course iam getting married to a maganda on sat in manilla of course none of her family knows that she use to work in a bar. She told her family that she was working at the sm mall. Any girl will tell you when you meet the family that you did not meet them in a bar or club. If the family knows that they have worked in a bar or club they will kick them out of the family. I think I need some help here to get out of this relationship I have brought other girls home but she still tells me that she is mahal kita with me. I need to save face with the family but trying not to be soft here I think it might be the right girl but how do us damaged guys know? If any members can help me in a few days on what I should say that will be great![/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Rd Pumus]You are a kid in a candy store.[/QUOTE]I think he's kidding us. I don't believe the story.
Cheers!
[QUOTE=Ekspat]I think he's kidding us. I don't believe the story.
Cheers![/QUOTE]I agree with you.
I think JJ is just having a laugh.
Ah, that makes a lot more sense.
I was having trouble believing anyone could be such an idiot.
[QUOTE=Bob Down]I agree with you. I think JJ is just having a laugh.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Ekspat]I think he's kidding us. I don't believe the story.
Cheers![/QUOTE]I am not kidding anyone this is happening to me right now. I am not having a joke here I am 101% serious. I know I might be stupid telling complete strangers my story but how can I tell my family or friends here. I came back home for 3 days then went back to the Phillipines. I know iam pussy whipped but when they treat you like a king, what are you meant to do? I think I might be making a mistake getting hitch but as they say roll with the punches. I am hook on assian girls they do treat you like a king. I have looked in the photo gallery I can not see a pic of my maganda there which for that iam greatfull. I know that a lot of girls are players but at the end of the day I must take the leap of faith. Iam getting hitched at 3pm tomorrow I will try to make a report on the event but I have to go now I have a cake girl coming to the club which her brothers have organize.
Thanks to all the members for there input ooh la la.
I might have to go back to AC for some more "inputting".
Good luck on your wedding brother, not all of them go bad.
[QUOTE=Jack James] Iam getting hitched at 3pm tomorrow I will try to make a report on the event but I have to go now I have a cake girl coming to the club which her brothers have organize.
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You're getting married to a prostitute?
[QUOTE=Jack James]I am not kidding anyone this is happening to me right now. I am not having a joke here I am 101% serious.
Thanks to all the members for there input ooh la la.[/QUOTE]
To keep my mind off AC when I am in the states I date married women mostly and most of them are from the Philippines. That is what I look for in the clubs, on line or at the Phil-fest they do in my city every year, married Filipinas. See they put on the act get married to some retard for the green card, but it takes over two years for them to get it and they get borred waiting. They got use to getting fucked by lots of different guys and they still like it. Now I say get married and bring her to your country so me or some over guy can fuck her too. Once they have the green card and dumpthe dumb ass, most of them are not as interested in giving me the pussy any more because they can date guys their own age as single women, but I enjoy the ride while I can. Peace and good luck with your new bride.
I'm getting married in the morning! Ding dong!
The bells are gonna chime. Pull out the stopper!
Let's have a whopper! But get me to the church on time!
[QUOTE=Jack James]I am not kidding anyone this is happening to me right now. I am getting hitched at 3pm tomorrow. I will try to make a report on the event but I have to go now I have a cake girl coming to the club which her brothers have organize.[/QUOTE]
I want to see wedding pictures!
[QUOTE=Amjeck]You're getting married to a prostitute?[/QUOTE]
Ha, the last time I ever call one of my "ladies" that, I got slapped.
They prefer 1) WL or 2) dancers or 3) barmaids 4)companions
BTW: calling them Hookers or streetwalkers don't work either.
Cheers