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[QUOTE=FireWalker]You are quite wrong on this point. I'm sitting with friend tonite and a girl is texting asking for money to go to the hospital tomorrow, He text back asking what time she wants him to pick her up and take her to the hospital. She text back, no she has friend taking her. He text that he takes her or no pay. No text back. This goes on constantly.
Here is how things go here. Girl has nothing dancing in bar. Meets guy who really likes her. He starts seeing her regularly. He starts helping her with money. She want scooter to save money going to work. He buys her scooter. He rents her an bigger nicer apartment. She has scooter now and gets a filipino boyfriend and moves him in apartment. He beats her up now and then when they are on shabu. By helping them, you fuck them up.[/QUOTE]I did not say that they will not try to get as much out of you as they can. Sure they have no other way of making money. And yes there are those who let Filipino men take advantage of them. After all most of the girls are from small province villages and have little knowledge of the ways of the world. So yes they will lie about situations to get money from guys.
That doesn't mean that they don't live in poverty stricten situations. Is there any thing they could tell you that would make you send money except for an emergency situation. NO. So the only way they know how to get money is through lying about their needs. If she said "Hey I'm broke and I need $50 send it to me" would you send it. Yeah maybe one time but then the next time you'd say No. Therefore what else do they do besides make up emergency situations.
I'm not making excuses for the girls or saying you should send the money either. I'm just stating a fact.
They are dirt poor, Its easy for us to criticize these girls. We grew up most of us educated at least thru High school in societies which everyone has bank accts, allowances, learn about budgeting. But when you live as poor as these people, many pulled out school at a young age to help the family, their only concern is where and if there will be a next meal.. Forget banking. What they earn is immediately spent on needs for sustaining life. Most didn't have the luxury of planning for the end of the week, let alone a savings. So they growup living for the moment.
So its understandable, when they do get a little bit of money. They go buck wild and blow it. How many people in the US have you heard made millions and went backrupt. And are much more educated than these girls would ever be.
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[QUOTE=ThatGuy865]The only thing I would disagree with you on is. The idea that they are trying to somehow con/trick/conive whatever term. Guys with sob stories. Their conditions are true and are mostly fact.
99% of these girls do come from dirt poor families. Even the living conditions while working in the bars are herrendous by our standards. Many sleep in crowded rooms with no air con, mainly a old ricketty fan. Old worn out beds, (some without mattresses) which have been used year after year by different girls. What little they get mainly is shared amongst them. They have to constantly try to protect personal stuff they get because some of the girls are users and will steal from them.
So for most, their situations are bad. Lets face it our prisons almost provide better conditions (except for the lockdown aspect). But the reality is true. Most have little to nothing in common with most guys.. Sympathy is not the right reason to marry.[/QUOTE]From my experience too - they are not out to con, they are just enterprising enough to make more money out of the guy.
FireWalker: As for the other post on having a filipino boyfriend, when I was part timing in a filipino bar in Singapore some girls openly admitted that they cannot express themselves with non-filipino guys .. when screwing an European, they can only say "oh fuck" or "oh shit", when screwing a filipino, they can sing a lot of more emotional stuff - trust me - that all came out from filipinas who are married to non-filipinos, but have a filipino boyfriend on the side ..
And that my friends, is why filipina bar girls rarely have a faithful relationship- even when it is a No strings attached thing ..
If you are in an alien country, wouldn't you crave to eat some of your native food ??? I rest my case ..
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Minds of the filipina
Just remember that most of the stories/experiences/misfortunes/rip-offs are from guys who only have had experiences with bargirls. For the guys who have lived in the Phils for a while and been out and about throughout the philippines, we are definitley more atuned to these mishaps..
Get out and explore, stay in the province for weeks and then make a rational decision about filipina's. The filipina's I hang out with sure are not like the hardened bargirls you run into in the go-go. Not saying I don't enjoy their company for 1 night, but understand the game before you play.
And as the filipina's favorite saying is, "It's up to you". My favorite saying is, "NEXT!"
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[QUOTE=Hesekiels]Is it really like that? With all due respect, but I would rather doubt it!
Cheers!
Hesekiels[/QUOTE]
The only major reason I see girls deny guys in AC is because of where they are from. And we all have seen this....
They have no idea that I am a billionaire because I dress like Im on the beach. Or I mean they don't know Im making it check to check because I monger in my suit.... I think that I rarely get refused because of where Im from!!!!!
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[QUOTE=Jack James]I am not kidding anyone this is happening to me right now. I am not having a joke here I am 101% serious. I know I might be stupid telling complete strangers my story but how can I tell my family or friends here. I came back home for 3 days then went back to the Phillipines. I know iam pussy whipped but when they treat you like a king, what are you meant to do? I think I might be making a mistake getting hitch but as they say roll with the punches. I am hook on assian girls they do treat you like a king. I have looked in the photo gallery I can not see a pic of my maganda there which for that iam greatfull. I know that a lot of girls are players but at the end of the day I must take the leap of faith. Iam getting hitched at 3pm tomorrow I will try to make a report on the event but I have to go now I have a cake girl coming to the club which her brothers have organize.
Thanks to all the members for there input ooh la la.[/QUOTE]Hmmm. You think she might be the one? Have you been able to be totally honest with her? Obviously not. Then she isn't the one is she? Nothing you can do can scare her off. For now. You can bring a girl home and she won't mind. You can ask for your kinkiest fantasy and she will do it. For now. Until she gets the ring. Then she has you. More precisely, she has your pockets. The reason you couldn't scare her off is that you were trying to scare her with infidelity. But dude she isn't after your love, she wants your pockets. If you really want to scare her tell her you are broke.
But I guess the deed is done by now and you have joined the ranks of the pussy-whipped, ball-and-chain, noose-tied, broke-ass, miserable, monger-has-beens.
To tell the truth, I will be joining those ranks myself, but I know it is what I want and I know that she is the one. In my humble (and rather inexperienced) opinion the right filipina makes a wonderful wife, to someone who is truely ready to settle down. Would love to hear from the regulars though on how best to keep the King treatment going as long as possible.
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[QUOTE=The Rooster1]The only major reason I see girls deny guys in AC is because of where they are from.[/QUOTE]I've been turned down only a few times in AC because I'm white, and they think I'm too big. Some girls will only go with guys with small cocks, and unfortunately, white guys are presumed to be big. This happens to me a lot more in China or Laos, but recently it happened to me in Pattaya (WTF!!!).
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Other reason
[QUOTE=Amjeck]I've been turned down only a few times in AC because I'm white, and they think I'm too big. Some girls will only go with guys with small cocks, and unfortunately, white guys are presumed to be big. This happens to me a lot more in China or Laos, but recently it happened to me in Pattaya (WTF!).[/QUOTE]Amjeck,
There are many other reason that girl refuse to go with you, many hot girl are cherry girl or on the period that will not go out.
Fast Eddie 48
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[QUOTE=Amjeck]I've been turned down only a few times in AC because I'm white, and they think I'm too big. Some girls will only go with guys with small cocks, and unfortunately, white guys are presumed to be big. This happens to me a lot more in China or Laos, but recently it happened to me in Pattaya (WTF!!!).[/QUOTE]Part of this is true. Some girls tell me they don't want to go with white men because of their size. But, as Fast Eddie 48 mentioned earlier, some girls won't go because they are on their menstruation. I'm Fil/Am and I get turned down to because they think I'm LE especially when I go to a gogo by myself. So, each girl has their own reason why they won't go with a particular customer.
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[QUOTE=Gogobarlover]Part of this is true. Some girls tell me they don't want to go with white men because of their size. But, as Fast Eddie 48 mentioned earlier, some girls won't go because they are on their menstruation. I'm Fil/Am and I get turned down to because they think I'm LE especially when I go to a gogo by myself. So, each girl has their own reason why they won't go with a particular customer.[/QUOTE]That's the way it goes if you look Fil/AM or in your case you are. I have the problem looking like it. Sometimes it works for me and sometimes it doesn't. You probably have a lot better chances with regular girls even more so. Sometimes it doesn't matter what I say or do a girl in the bar will refuse to go with me because they think I'm Filipino. Just got to move on and don't waste your time.
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Gallantnitez,
Please dont close your account here when u get married.
Come back and tell us how the two of you live your life from time to time.
[QUOTE=Gallantnitez]To tell the truth, I will be joining those ranks myself, but I know it is what I want and I know that she is the one. In my humble (and rather inexperienced) opinion the right filipina makes a wonderful wife, to someone who is truely ready to settle down. Would love to hear from the regulars though on how best to keep the King treatment going as long as possible.[/QUOTE]
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Girls stories
[QUOTE=Gogobarlover]Part of this is true. Some girls tell me they don't want to go with white men because of their size. But, as Fast Eddie 48 mentioned earlier, some girls won't go because they are on their menstruation. I'm Fil/Am and I get turned down to because they think I'm LE especially when I go to a gogo by myself. So, each girl has their own reason why they won't go with a particular customer.[/QUOTE]The biggest problem is you never know the truth of what they are telling you.
Some girls love koreans because they spend more money.
Some girls make any excuse because they don't want to go with anyone.
I went to a bar and the girls said she had menstration. And could not go.
She said she was on her third day. I checked and she had a pad.
Okay so I go there 7 days later. And she did not immediately recognize me.
And she tells me she is on her second day of menstration.
Another girl tells me she is cherry girl and I know for sure she has a full time boyfriend and a girlfriend. So she want s to work the bar
But does not want to give up her pussy.
Its okay at least you don't get her home and then have some story as to why she can not or will not.
So its still fishing here for the right one in the right circumstances. I just say next.
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Yep, will do. I will be moving to RP in late October and will begin making prompt reports on every topic from love to travel to food. I'm a bit of an amateur nature photographer and look forward to sharing a few good pictures of ac and the surrounding area.
[QUOTE=Marconista]Gallantnitez,
Please dont close your account here when u get married.
Come back and tell us how the two of you live your life from time to time.[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=FireWalker]You are quite wrong on this point. I'm sitting with friend tonite and a girl is texting asking for money to go to the hospital tomorrow, He text back asking what time she wants him to pick her up and take her to the hospital. She text back, no she has friend taking her. He text that he takes her or no pay. No text back. This goes on constantly.
Here is how things go here. Girl has nothing dancing in bar. Meets guy who really likes her. He starts seeing her regularly. He starts helping her with money. She want scooter to save money going to work. He buys her scooter. He rents her an bigger nicer apartment. She has scooter now and gets a filipino boyfriend and moves him in apartment. He beats her up now and then when they are on shabu. By helping them, you fuck them up.[/QUOTE]I quite agree on this if the girl is a *****.*****s have low self esteem.They enjoy the moment and think little of their future.It is like living in a dream world for them.I have met a few and became regular to them and later considered myself a special friend to them and tried to help by way of helping them mapping possible secure future knowing that their career as *****s were short.Even helped in term of cash.Each time I helped was a waste.They just enjoyed my money with their boy friends.Now I am immune to the girls' sob stories.At least I will not feel sad when I see them wasting away their money.
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Eager Beaver
Went by last night and it was closed?
No signs on the door?
I heard via talk on the street that the new mayor will be closing down some bars? He is against the clubs?
Not sure what is true?
Anyone know what happen to eager beaver?
It was open about four nights ago.
I know some clubs have closed because of lack of customers.
And I heard some have been raided?
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[QUOTE=MauiDude]The biggest problem is you never know the truth of what they are telling you.
Some girls love koreans because they spend more money.
Some girls make any excuse because they don't want to go with anyone.
I went to a bar and the girls said she had menstration. And could not go.
She said she was on her third day. I checked and she had a pad.
Okay so I go there 7 days later. And she did not immediately recognize me.
And she tells me she is on her second day of menstration.
Another girl tells me she is cherry girl and I know for sure she has a full time boyfriend and a girlfriend. So she want s to work the bar
But does not want to give up her pussy.
Its okay at least you don't get her home and then have some story as to why she can not or will not.
So its still fishing here for the right one in the right circumstances. I just say next.[/QUOTE]
MauiDude, it's true that these girls make up these stories just so that they will not go with a particular customer. The menstruation is one that they like to use. Some of these girls who just strictly don't want to go with a customer because of his race. She hears from a friend or had a bad experience with one and she will just rule out that race of men. A girl that I had told me that she will not go with a customer based on how he looks. But, I then told her: "You can't judge someone based on that alone. He may look decent but, he may not be all that nice when he BF you"
Not much you can do if she doesn't want to go with you. You can't force her and the girl is not obligated to go with a customer if she doesn't want to. Like you said: "just need to move onto the next one"
But, I do admit this though. The ones I wanted to BF that turned me down, I tell myself: "Gad damn, I really wanted to bang her though!" LoL