Bangkok Reports

[QUOTE=Fargler;2976158]Newbie first report.

Been here 10 days or so. Have racked up a few wins and losses and just wanted to post a report chronicling some of my adventures:

Blowjob bars make up a large percentage of what I'm looking for. Known cost, no haggling, low price, and easy access. I am not very picky about women when I don't plan on full body-to-body contact. Older women have better skills, and that suits me just fine. I'm old and am not excited by young girls. I haven't paid over 800 Baht yet, and the girls are fun.

Lotlitas and Kasalong and Duangporn are all winners. Lolitas doesn't have a sink, which is why I spend more time at the others. I'm old so I make them earn their money! Most have lasted an impressive amount of time before they take a break, and then I inform them that I rarely finish in the mouth and let them spank it. Am I a bad person for letting them go until they can't anymore? Hahahahahaha..[/QUOTE]Lucky me I actually did find a teenager at Analisa last month. I wanted to try their glory hole service. First time having my dick dangle through a hole in the table but that was pretty much it. At some point she went down there for a quick rub but no BJ nothing. It was such a let down compared to the original script you see online.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2976134]I have a buddy in Pattaya that does that, and 3000-5000 is exactly what he gives them. And I am not talking about for short time. In many cases guys saying what can not be done have never tried doing it.
[/QUOTE]LOL. I have to tip my hat to your buddy then. He the man.

I'm having difficulties imagining how I'd explain just the concept itself to a tf-girl in Bangkok without her looking at me like I'm someone that just fell off the moon.

[QUOTE=Werqweq;2976208]LOL. I have to tip my hat to your buddy then. He the man.

I'm having difficulties imagining how I'd explain just the concept itself to a tf-girl in Bangkok without her looking at me like I'm someone that just fell off the moon.[/QUOTE]Well I first found out when I was riding past a bar and saw him. I stopped and hung out for a minute and took a liking to another girl that was working. I negotiated with my girl for 1000 LT and paid the bar fine. I asked him how much he was gving his girl. He said nothing. He gives her 3000-5000 each month and she comes when he wants her. He said a lot of times she even pays her own bar fine when he wants her to come during work hours. Said he has several chicks he does that with.

I like too many different chicks, so in a lot of cases it takes me 6 months to 1 year to get back around to the same chick. Better for me to pay as I go.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2976226]Well I first found out when I was riding past a bar and saw him. I stopped and hung out for a minute and took a liking to another girl that was working. I negotiated with my girl for 1000 LT and paid the bar fine. I asked him how much he was gving his girl. He said nothing. He gives her 3000-5000 each month and she comes when he wants her. He said a lot of times she even pays her own bar fine when he wants her to come during work hours. Said he has several chicks he does that with.

I like too many different chicks, so in a lot of cases it takes me 6 months to 1 year to get back around to the same chick. Better for me to pay as I go.[/QUOTE]I think the point of this forum is to report things that are realistic. I have been in Thailand for 15 years and mongering the whole time. I would just like to say that any young and decent looking girl will not go LT for 1000 Baht in Bangkok and you would even be hard pressed to find that in Pattaya. The key to this statement is "YOUNG AND DECENT LOOKING GIRL" Further, no young and decent looking girl will accept 3000-5000 Baht per month to go to fuck the guy at his beck and call each month all the wile even paying her own bar fine. Either this story was from 20+ years ago or the girls in question were old and unattractive.

A post like this just gives newbies unrealistic expectations. I will tell you about some sceneries that are more realistic.

Let's just say you end up frequenting a bar like Maggie Mays in Pattaya or let's say Bunny bar on Soi 4 in Bangkok. You meet one of the girls there and bar fine her a few times. Then you become a regular customer. While being a regular customer, the two of you develop feelings for each other. Then a semi relationship starts. During that relationship, sometimes the girl will skip off work early because it's quiet or she had a big customer earlier that day and go to see the guy. That would require her to pay her own bar fine to get off work early. This has happened to me plenty of times. Sometimes I would pay the girl the next morning and other times I wouldn't. Sometimes I would throw her a few bucks at the end of a given month to help her out and other times I wouldn't. This type of thing is more like a kik in Thai which means fuck buddy or friends with benefits. Meaning fuck buddy, not money.

For the newbies out here and most of the others. Please don't get it in your head that you can get young and attractive bar girls these days for 1000 Baht LT. And don't think that you can get a young and attractive bar girl to fuck you anytime of the day or night at your beck and call for 3000-5000 Baht total per month. However, the girl might give you a freebie here and there, but that comes with her expectation of more from you later on such as sponsorship or a real monthly salary of 15,000 Baht ++ per month or marriage. This type of relationship normally lasts only a short time because the girl realizes the farang is not willing to commit and take her out of the bar or she realizes that the guy is fucking others. Meanwhile thinking its ok for her because its her job but the farang should remain faithful to her.

FYI. Young and attractive bar girl for me = 20-25 years old. Not 35-45, chunky, with 2-3 kids under her belt and divorced 2 times.

Keep it real guys when posting about the Bangkok scene guys. The girls in Bangkok are classier, dress nice, spend hours doing their make up, nails and hair before going out and look for guys who have it together. The girls that accept 1000 LT and salaries of 3-5 k per month in return for unlimited fucking are not the top tier girls, nor the middle tier girls or even the below average girls.

Knowing this. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. However, I have seen foreigners with some scary looking ladies walking down sukhumvit. I have also seen dudes who dont pay any money and get real girl friends. I have been there and done that plenty of times over the last 15 years. This is not the same thought as what MR. E has just posted about. What he is saying is just not realistic in this day and time and over the last 15 years for young and attractive bar girls working in the farang haunts where most guys will initially meet the girl. Even in the Thai haunts where mostly ST is the only option.

For what Mr.E describes for:3000-5000 Baht per month, Thai men will pay a lot sometimes for their kiks. They are young university girls with white skin who are beautiful. These Thai men buy them cars and condos. Why would they want one of us, a foreigner for chump change?

Now in my next post, I will educate you guys on Thai university girls. I have read a lot of inaccurate info below.

Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and white blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easyor as glamorousas it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.

The Language Barrier and Cultural Gap.

For starters, many university girls in Bangkok have limited English skills. This language barrier alone makes meaningful connections difficult unless you speak Thai. Additionally, cultural differences mean their dating expectations may differ significantly from those of foreigners.

Campus Approaches: A Risky Move.

Trying to meet these girls at their universities might seem like a natural approach, but it's a mistake. Thai campuses are not public spaces, and wandering around without a purpose can result in complaints, security intervention, or even police involvement for trespassing. It's best to avoid this route altogether.

Shopping Malls and the YouTube Myth.

Videos of foreigners picking up girls in Bangkok's shopping malls like Siam Paragon or CentralWorld often paint an unrealistic picture. Many of these videos are staged. While it's possible to strike up a conversation in these places, expect skepticism or indifference, as Thai women often view unsolicited approaches from foreigners as intrusive. Have I done this before. Yes. In Pattaya it was easy. Why? Because many of the girls there work as FLs. In Bangkok I did it twice at Central Lat Phrao. However, it was with girls who worked there and I was a regular customer in their shop. I did get a couple of strangers contacts but they never replied to my lines. They just gave me their line ID to get rid of me. Few will have luck at this. Meeting them on Tinder and then meeting them at the mall, their place of work is a much more realistic scenario which I did often.

The Khaosan Road Scene.

Khaosan Road, Bangkok's backpacker haven, is a more realistic venue for meeting university-aged girls. While you'll primarily encounter tourists, some Thai students might visit for a night out. Keep in mind, though, that most of them are there to have fun, not to meet someone serious. If you get lucky here, it is one of the best ways to meet them and the one night stand will most likely be a freebie.

Tinder, ThaiFriendly, and Fiw Fans.

Online platforms like Tinder and ThaiFriendly offer more accessible avenues for meeting university girls. However, these apps are saturated with competition, and many users may not be genuine or are looking for financial support. Some foreigners have had luck meeting "Fiw fans" (freelancers), but these interactions are paid and most wont want to see you again. If a relationship develops, know it's likely rooted in a power imbalance. However, you will be able to fuck them, but don't get any idea about freebies. I fucked many of them during Covid. It was a blast. Even before Covid, I got lucky and found one on TF but she was also being supported by a Thai man so I didn't last long. I was just a change for her and when the foreigner novelty wore off, it ended.

Hostess Bars and Kareokes.

Hostess bars like The Pimp or Karaoke bars are likely places to find genuine university girls. However, the girls working in these establishments are street-smart and highly experienced in dealing with men. If you're hoping to meet someone naive or unjaded, these venues won't deliver. They will want your money. So just pay and get out.

Gents' Clubs, RCA, and the High-End Scene.

Some of Bangkok's gorgeous university girls frequent gentlemen's clubs, RCA, or high-end venues. However, these girls are often supported by wealthy Thai men who provide them with cars, condos, or tuition payments or they are looking for this. Competing in this scene as a foreigner is challenging and expensive. Even if you connect with one of these women, maintaining the relationship will likely require significant financial resources. So, just pay to play if you want and get out.

The "Innocent Girl" Fantasy.

Suppose you're lucky enough to meet an "innocent" university girl who genuinely likes you. Her friends or family may soon educate her on the reality of relationships with foreigners, leading to complications or demands. In the end, even this scenario can become costly emotionally or financially. Don't believe others who tell stories of dorm room hook ups and free cooking classes in exchange for sex LOL. Also don’t believe the guy that tells you one will fuck you at your beck and call monthly for 5k baht. You might get lucky for a month or two, but it will end fast just like I just described.

The Bottom Line.

While the fantasy of dating and or just fucking a hot, young university girl in Bangkok is alluring, the reality is often far from it. Language barriers, cultural differences, financial expectations, and social dynamics make this pursuit complex and potentially disappointing. Most foreigners should abandon this unrealistic dream and just pay to play with one of them if given the opportunity.

Chasing a fantasy may lead to fleeting excitement, but understanding the cultural nuances and being realistic about the challenges will save you from unnecessary frustration and expense and making a complete and utter fool out of yourself.

Why? Here is why. Many university girls have rich Thai boyfriends who are married but fuck them as Mia Nois. Sometimes their wives even know. These young girls get cars, paid condos and tuition payments. Why would they want to fuck around with a broke farang or holiday farang who has watched too much you tube with a Thai university girl fetish? If you want to compete with these rich Thai men, you better be prepared to pay.

[QUOTE=EverythingThai;2976380]Bangkok's university girls....[/QUOTE]Wow, that was an education. I have no desire to hook up with a uni girl, but I read the whole thing. Thanks.

[QUOTE=EverythingThai;2976380]Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and white blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easyor as glamorousas it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.

The Language Barrier and Cultural Gap..[/QUOTE]Good insight but YMMV obviously. I recently had a fling with a girl who's a uni student just started her 2nd year (so she's 19) & met her on bumble. She's kinda curvy & looks pretty hot in her IG pics but I would say probably 4-5 kg added on and using good angles in her pics. She still looks hot when she makes the effort though.

It was a freebie, I would just call her from time to time. I wouldn't say she's particularly more into sex than other Thai girls as generally they are really into sex. And the fantasy about the girls in their school skirts with the slit, dang that's really hot but aren't those high school students so that's off the table.

The final thing I'd add is that Thai girls are really open to dating guys much older. I remember another girl who was 21-22 and she was saying she would even date guys above 45 and have done before. She was actually v sexy like an 8/10, curvy tanned with flat stomach. No payment and she go back to mine that night after a few drinks. But found out she blocked me on IG the next day for no reason.

[QUOTE=PhilipMarlow;2976396]Wow, that was an education. I have no desire to hook up with a uni girl, but I read the whole thing. Thanks.[/QUOTE]Reading about it is as bad as doing it.

[QUOTE=Sychip1;2976449]
The final thing I'd add is that Thai girls are really open to dating guys much older. I remember another girl who was 21-22 and she was saying she would even date guys above 45 and have done before. She was actually v sexy like an 8/10, curvy tanned with flat stomach. No payment and she go back to mine that night after a few drinks. But found out she blocked me on IG the next day for no reason.[/QUOTE]

This one. This is the one most important thing to know about normal, non-p4p thai girls. That's what makes Thailand, if no longer heaven due to our own age, still a great place for some of us. Even when just visiting.

If you were picking up 20 year old girls on the train, in the gym, in the swimming pool, in your own home country when you were in your late twenties, you still have a fair chance of picking up the same type of girls, at the same places, when you're 20 years older in Thailand.

If you never did that, then no, you're not going to be banging girls half your age in Thailand, unless you pay up in some way, and what you quoted from that other guy's post applies.

[QUOTE=Werqweq;2976118]Forget that. That's just some confused guy talking nonsense.

try suggesting to some TF-girl that you will pay her 5000 once, and then you'll just ring her up whenever you want a free fuck for the next 30 days. See what she thinks for a quick reality check.[/QUOTE]I met a woman in the mall last week. She was dressed cute but she was no looker. We got talking (google translating). 10 minutes later she took me into.

A department store and asked me to buy her a handbag for 2000. I just laughed. Then she took me to a different store and said 'Look, this bags only 500!

Will you buy that one for me darling?' I refused. Two days later I just texted her and asked if she wanted sex. She agreed for 3000.

So I sent her a pic of a gorgeous girl I know, who's nearly half her age, and said I only pay her 1000. So she wrote back and said 'ok, make it 2000'.

At this point I learned about fiwfans so the next day I tried it out. Sent a couple of messages, one of them replied and said 'come now', so I turned up.

Paid 1000, had 2 showers together, some good sex, then left.

That's all I really need from a girl. I don't drink anymore so I don't want to hang around in bars, Sukhumvit is too far away from my place.

So finding out there's lots of hot ladies living nearby in hotels is perfect for me. You just check the pics, check the reviews, send a message, pay the money.

Have sex, then leave.

The only downside to that meeting was that she gave me a cold, so now I feel like shit.

[QUOTE=EverythingThai;2976380]Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and white blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easyor as glamorousas it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.

The Language Barrier and Cultural Gap..[/QUOTE]Excellent primer on the subject. Report of distinction for sure.

I've known a few uni girls over the decades. Mostly through being introduced in social settings like wedding parties or family associations. What Everything Thai says is the truth. Sure, there are exceptions, but unless you are looking for a serious relationship and willing to "commit", it would never be on my "to do" list. I just prefer the point and shoot options like the obvious bar and FL scenes. Just my opinion, but trying to score uni girls seems like a waste of time. If it's some kind of fetish that needs addressing, just hire some chick to dress up like a uni girl.

Sam.

[QUOTE=EverythingThai;2976380]Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and white blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easy or as glamorous as it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.[/QUOTE]What an excellent report! Well written AND informative, from a guy who knows what he's talking about.

[QUOTE=Sychip1;2976449]
It was a freebie, I would just call her from time to time. I wouldn't say she's particularly more into sex than other Thai girls as generally they are really into sex. And the fantasy about the girls in their school skirts with the slit, dang that's really hot but aren't those high school students so that's off the table.[/QUOTE]Oh my god. Nobody here is talking about high school students. I guess you have never lived in Thailand before or you know absolutely nothing about it. The conversation I was commenting on was the one in the Bangkok section and it was about university girls. These university girls are always dressed in those white shirts and black skirts. High school children are not allowed to wear clothes like that. Please get a grip. Just google Thai university girls and look at the photos. Everyone here is referring to university girls who are legal adults. I don't know why you are referring to high school girls or why Nyezhov is saying it's wrong to date university girls who are adults. See the attached photo.

These are the girls everyone in the previous posts are so obsessed with and they are not high school girls. They are adults.


The purpose of my post was to provide realistic info to mongers so they do not arrive in Thailand and get into trouble trespassing on university grounds or make fools out of themselves trying to satisfy some fantasy.

Now I do not want to start a huge debate here, but guys please, do not mess with girls who are under 18. If a girl says she is 18, they often lie. So if you have any doubt, walk away. They can even use fake ID. If a bar girl is working at 18, you might think that it is not your problem, but the bars problem. Wrong again. If you buy her a drink, then there is a chance that you might get dragged into something even when the bar and her employer is serving her. And if you want to date university girls or any young Thai girls, please make sure you use common sense. Foreigners should not be messing with girls between 15 and 18 because that will just go wrong for you. Just do not do it no matter what you read about the topic. End of story.

If you want to debate about the legal age of majority, this is not the thread to do it in.

[QUOTE=Nyezhov;2976475]Reading about it is as bad as doing it.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I can't imagine hanging around with a 20 year old, no matter what the benefits are. But this is an interesting hobby and I never heard about hooking up with uni girls as being part of it. Now I'm pretty well up on it.

I wonder what else I don't know about the sport. Hooking up with 7-11 clerks?