Maybe you guys aren't trying hard enough
I'm definitely baffled by what I'm reading here so far. By Mephistopheles balls, are you guys kidding me? Getting a Thai civilian chick is the easiest thing in the world for farangs, not just in Thailand, but all over South East Asia, and the world in general. Wherever farangs go in the world, whether it's 'gringos' in Latin America, and so on, it's easy to get a non pro girl. All you literally have to do is just show up. I've said this a million times. You can look like Danny fucking Devito, it don't matter. What you are, represents a step up the socioeconomic ladder. You can describe it as a kind of walking ATM mentality, but are you really there for a relationship or sex? I know when I go to Thailand, I'm there for sex. Fuck the relationship bit. Who cares. I've had enough to last me a life time, and it sucks, and not in the good way. But just pure sex, no strings attached. Understood to be transactional, sweaty, hot, animalistic, sexy sex. Yeah baby! That's what it's about.
Shame is a huge factor. Especially in Asia. Saving face and all that. As foreigners, all we need to do is to approach these chicks with literally no shame. Again, you could look like shit. But cause you're a foreigner dude who looks like you might have some means, the chick will dig you eventually, if not right away. Don't matter if she be 7-11, or some uni gal. It'll happen. And yes, odds are very high she'll have some Thai boyfriend already, but again, who cares? You're there for the pussy. That's literally it!
Lucifer wept. It almost sounds like you guys are trying to date them or something. Go ahead and do it, and it'll be the same. A few years down the line, you'll end up hating each other anyway, and you better hope to Merlin's beard by then there are no kids you have to support.
Think about it like this. Anytime there's an even mildly attractive Asian chick anywhere in the US, or Canada, or Europe, she's snapped up right away. Like flies on shit. She'll never be single, every guy'll want her, even if she looks like shit. But it's the whole exotic nature of it all, her being Asian and all that. You think she'll serve you, cook and clean for you her whole life. Bla Bla Bla.
It's the same damn thing the other way around. When there's a foreigner guy in South East Asia, the chicks will see you as the exotic one, and the main draw would be financial. A step up the social and economic ladder. You'll be paraded around to her friends and family, to show off and all, like a gucci bag or something. It's like 'look everybody, I got a farang man, who's the shit now? That's all that it is, the sad, sad human reality of it all.
Same coin, different sides.
So just fuck her, get the most out of that pussy, pay her some cash, and split. Easy peasy, lemon squeezy! And you're welcome!
The Iconic University Student
[QUOTE=EverythingThai;2976380]Bangkok's university girls, often seen in their iconic short black skirts and white blouses, are the subject of many foreigners' fantasies. But before diving headfirst into this dream, it's crucial to face the realities, challenges, and potential pitfalls. Picking up university girls in Bangkok isn't as easyor as glamorousas it may seem on YouTube or in your imagination.
[/QUOTE]Haha, nothing iconic here, just a version of the good old stripping for tuition line. Older men have insatiable fantasy about banging students. Unless you are a professor at the college she's attending, and she is enrolled in your class, 95-99% of this is fantasy.
Call me skeptical, but the vast majority of hookers I have met, regardless of region, claim to be college students. Younger ones (in their 20's) are almost always university students, older ones pick more realistic vocations (fashion design, sales & marketing), or claim to be studying for an advanced degree. Heck I have been on streak lately, and slept with a soon to be lawyer, accountant, two engineers, 'biomedical' (whatever that means), and a clinical psychologist almost back to back. One I met on an overnight in Paris recently was studying to be a 'sex therapist', now that I could believe. She was very good GFE. The aspiring psychologist brought text books on a repeat visit, in a bid to better sell the fantasy I guess.
Now, I came here looking for intel, because I am thinking about venturing into Bangkok as my first destination in exploring SEA, but things don't seem very encouraging reading back a bunch of pages. Not sure I'm missing something. I'm now leaning towards Jakarta.
By the way EverythingThai, your posts are full of wisdom and a fun read!