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[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2772671]Bro you are wasting your time writing back to them. Some of these guys are so old they probably don't even know who J balvin let alone any of the less known artist are in Colombia LOL. Yet they claim they receive better chemistry and better sex than others lmao. Let them think that. And if they think music doesn't have any effect with connecting and vibing with these girls they are only lying to themselves. Let them just pretend they know the lyrics and believe they are having some sort of emotional connection LOL.[/QUOTE]Seriously? You and MiamiBoy are the only ones claiming to get better sex and better connections. You just fucking did it.
Better is subjective. The sex I get is only better or worse than other sex that I've gotten. There is no way to compare the sex you may someday get to the sex I'm getting. I use my penis. I assume you have your own penis and use that. I use my brain. I'm not sure what you have which is comparable, but you might use whatever that is.
All of this shit takes place in the brain. The rest of your body just has nerve receptors which transmit electrical impulses. Your brain then decides what all that means. Since all of us are using different brains (and different amounts of those brains) every single situation is unique to each individual.
If I'm fucking the women who are most attractive to me, you're fucking the women who are most attractive to you, and MiamiBoy is fucking the women who are most attractive to him, who is fucking the most attractive girls? 3 completely different body types, probably 3 completely different types of hair, levels of makeup and other things. Which group is the most attractive?
The answer is:
It doesn't matter.
P.S. Try Morat. If you just stick with the overplayed crap you're not going to impress anyone. Also, you would be amazed at how many Colombian girls really dig 70's, 80's and 90's Classic Rock. They also get into many Contemporary US artists (spent much of the last 24 hours with my car full of Colombians and my girlfriend was choosing the music).
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Unfortunately there is no breakdown given by area. I do have these paragraphs from Colombia Reports.
"Robberies are most common in the city's downtown area where hundreds of thousands of people visit every day to go to work. Affluent districts like Poblado and Laureles / Estadio have also become popular attractions for robbers.
Homicides
Medellins homicide rate has increased after hitting an all-time low in 2015, mainly because of an escalating turf war between gangs that are aligned with local crime syndicate the Oficina de Envigado, and their paramilitary rivals, the AGC, who control gangs in the west of the city.
Medellins downtown area has always had the citys highest homicide rate because it is where most drug dealing, fencing and contraband trading takes place.”
[QUOTE=JustTK;2772856]Does it give a breakdown by region of the city? Although we might think most tourists stay in Poblado, I doubt that is true. Maybe most gringos stay there, but I doubt most Latinos stay there. And I bet the biggest number of tourists would be Latinos.[/QUOTE].
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First Facebook friend
Hi Mongers.,
I've been lurking for a little while on this forum, and after reading so many forum posts decided to take the plunge to visit in April. I have always found it a bit confusing on where to find that first person on Facebook to add. Any advice would be appreciated!!
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[QUOTE=PremiumBetter;2772854]Hey guys, what would be your prefered way to hit up on local girls in Medellin during the day? Shopping center or something else? I was thinking of Centro Comercial Santa Fe.[/QUOTE]If you are successful hanging out in malls picking up women at home you may be able to in another country. Who knows.
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[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2772816]I have had tons of normal girlfriends in Colombia and one thing I have never needed to connect or vibe with them is music. We do a thing called talk to each other. I would even be tempted to say that you have to play all of this music to avoid having to converse with each other because you probably do not have shit in common in the first place. Just because the taxi driver plays Bad Bunny does not mean we are establishing a connection and vibing while I am riding in his car.[/QUOTE]It doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out any girl will have more chemistry and vibe better (thus more than likely have better sex) with someone she has more in common with oppose to being with someone she has very little in common with and can't relate to. You can choose not to believe that, but that is a simple fact.
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[QUOTE=JjBee62;2772857]Seriously? You and MiamiBoy are the only ones claiming to get better sex and better connections. You just fucking did it.
Also, you would be amazed at how many Colombian girls really dig 70's, 80's and 90's Classic Rock. They also get into many Contemporary US artists (spent much of the last 24 hours with my car full of Colombians and my girlfriend was choosing the music).[/QUOTE]How I'm I claiming to have better sex out there if I haven't even landed there yet? LOL.
I'm sorry to burst your bubble jb but when you compare someone like you (60 I'm guessing white) vs someone like me (latino, 35), more than likely these 18-35 yr old (latina girls) are going to have better chemistry and more in common with some one like myself. That's pretty common sense. Same as if I was talking to a 50+ yr old white woman, you would more than likely have more chemistry and things in common with her. For someone that's older I would of thought you would be smarter than this jb. Do you honestly believe these girls aren't putting on a show for you? You should know they just see you as a gringo ATM just like everybody else. They are not going to be able to relate to you as much as someone like me that speaks fluent spanish, is closer to there age and comes from a similar culture. Sorry I have to be the one to tell you this but you can't be that naive.
P. S who doesn't like 70's,80's,90's that doesn't mean anything. The point I was trying to make is who they are MOST LIKELY to have a stronger bond with, which COULD lead to having better chemistry and a better experience more times than not.
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[QUOTE=Dazneak;2772881]Hi Mongers.,
I've been lurking for a little while on this forum, and after reading so many forum posts decided to take the plunge to visit in April. I have always found it a bit confusing on where to find that first person on Facebook to add. Any advice would be appreciated!![/QUOTE]Hello fellow monger.
Search happy ending medellin on Facebook and start adding girls from the friends list. From there Facebook will start suggesting girls to you from medellin. Talk to girls who have pictures of their family or kids. You are less likely to be at risk that way.
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[QUOTE=Eszpresszo;2772754] Punting is an old man's hobby. If you are young, you can still be and should be pursuing relationships with ordinary civilian girls while you can, before their attitude turns toxic. When there are still good women worth having and available (because they get scarce in their 30's and what is left over can be dicey).
Punters have typically been mature men like myself, who still crave young women and of course, married men who need something other than their spouse to suit their carnal needs. All of the GPS in Brazil, whom I have queried about their client base have told me the same thing. 90% of their clients are married and usually older men. Because if you are single young man in Brazil, you are living in a nation full of fun women. Anytime I've come across fellow punters in South America (usually entering or leaving a brothel) my counterparts are usually mature like myself. This has happened in Argentina, Brazil and Colombia. And even in Pattaya, which is like the Disney World for males, the average age of the male visitor seems well over 30, or 40 even.
I never got serious about punting until I got divorced at the ripe age of 57, and found myself outside of the league of hot, young sluts. Not to mention that divorce left me near broke for a few years. Punting turned out to more cost efficient and less frustrating than dating.
That said, if you are under 40 and pursuing some fap fantasy about paying for sex, you are wasting your life. All I can say is go find a girlfriend, while you still can.[/QUOTE]This proof's to me even when we get older we could still have a lot to learn. While it's true that for the most part most mongers are older men, I think that has to do because of the fact most older men are financially stable to pursue the hobby. As far as if your under 40 you should be pursuing a relationship that couldn't be more farther than the truth. Most men in their 30's and 40's are in miserable relationships / marriages. I got married young in my 20's and was lucky enough to get out of it when I entered my 30's. I dated in my early 30's and believe me when I tell you this generation of entitled females is nothing like the women you dated when you were in your 30's. Not to mention there was no social media and perhaps texting. Most good looking females nowadays are talking to at least 2 guys at the same time. You can't take any of them seriously. You might find a unicorn in today's day and age but believe me it's rare. No thanks. Been there done that. I rather focus on my finances, my happiness instead of trying to make someone else happy. The hobby works out great for me because I travel a lot as well. So it's convenient and also drama free. I think hobbying in my mid 30's is awesome because like I mentioned before I have the full confidence to go after the hottest women (in my opinion) and the best part about it is I don't have to PRETEND like they like me as well because I am still young, fit, fun and attractive.
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[QUOTE=Eszpresszo;2772754] All I can say is go find a girlfriend, while you still can.[/QUOTE]Forgot to mention, at my age I can also still have that girlfriend experience in the hobby, by taking them out to dinners or dates without the awkwardness of the whole world staring at us if I was much older. At my age I can be out in public and be seen with a big titted, big butt girl without feeling uncomfortable. I agree 100% with you guys if I was 60+ years old no way in hell would I want to been with a plastic girl. It would be too obvious what kind of deal we got going on. I think I would just order room service at that point to spare me the embarrassment.
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[QUOTE=IamLookin;2772860]... "Robberies are most common in the city's downtown area where hundreds of thousands of people visit every day to go to work. Affluent districts like Poblado and Laureles / Estadio have also become popular attractions for robbers. ...[/QUOTE]I got this from where you got the quote from. It's not surprising that more people is going to have more robberies. It's not clear what is the "rate" or the context of the number? It also has to do with behaviors so these numbers could change for people don't engage in the same behavior.
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[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2772904]It doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out any girl will have more chemistry and vibe better (thus more than likely have better sex) with someone she has more in common with oppose to being with someone she has very little in common with and can't relate to. You can choose not to believe that, but that is a simple fact.[/QUOTE]Even if that is true, it still does not mean you have better sex than others. Just let the girl choose the music then she will think you have great connection.
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FB Girls
Can anyone point me in the direction of finding groups to join for FB girls? I am not having luck searching.
Also, has anyone had experience going full google translate on one of these dates? My spanish es no muy bien.
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[QUOTE=Nounce;2772954]Even if that is true, it still does not mean you have better sex than others. Just let the girl choose the music then she will think you have great connection.[/QUOTE]Key word "More than likely".
Doesn't mean it will always be true.
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[QUOTE=IamLookin;2772860]Unfortunately there is no breakdown given by area. I do have these paragraphs from Colombia Reports.
"Robberies are most common in the city's downtown area where hundreds of thousands of people visit every day to go to work. Affluent districts like Poblado and Laureles / Estadio have also become popular attractions for robbers.
Homicides
Medellins homicide rate has increased after hitting an all-time low in 2015, mainly because of an escalating turf war between gangs that are aligned with local crime syndicate the Oficina de Envigado, and their paramilitary rivals, the AGC, who control gangs in the west of the city.
Medellins downtown area has always had the citys highest homicide rate because it is where most drug dealing, fencing and contraband trading takes place.
.[/QUOTE]I'll add some observations.
On my drive north to Caucasia the army was everywhere, groups of them in almost every town. In one town the doors of almost every house and business were tagged in red paint with "AGC. ".
Downtown also has the highest population density. The crime there, especially involving foreigners is usually simple larceny. The people reporting being drugged and robbed stayed in Poblado and Laureles. Guys reporting a chica demanding more money and calling the police were mostly staying in Poblado or Laureles. However, wherever you are, it's up to you to keep alert for potential threats.
If you really want to see the filth in Medellin, I know of 2 spots. The first is in El Centro. Start on the north side of the Prado station and walk west. That's the area where all those garbage bags end up and people dig through for stuff to sell. You'll also, if you keep walking the area see scenes that have probably inspired a few zombie apocalypse movies. I don't advise going there. I never felt threatened, but there's nothing you want there.
There's a similar area I know of near Industriales in the north of Poblado.
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[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2772904]It doesn't take a brain surgeon to figure out any girl will have more chemistry and vibe better (thus more than likely have better sex) with someone she has more in common with oppose to being with someone she has very little in common with and can't relate to. You can choose not to believe that, but that is a simple fact.[/QUOTE]Every girl selling pussy can relate to any guy buying pussy, because they have the most important thing in common: The desire to trade money for sex.
Young, old, fat, skinny, Spanish speaking or barely able to say "hola", none of us have anything significant in common with most of these girls.
How many of your close friends or relatives were murdered before the age of 20? Were you forced to have sex between the age of 12-14? How many consecutive days have you gone eating only rice because the family had no money for anything else? How old were you when you first had a shower with hot water? Did you grow up in a house at least partially constructed from scrap materials? How many times have you and your friends been robbed at gunpoint? Did you have 2 or more children before the age of 18?
Just about every girl hooking in Medellin has experienced some of those things, many have been through all of them. Being sent to bed once without dinner doesn't really compare.
Making a connection takes more than playing "Criminal" and telling her how much you admire Pablo Escobar.