Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2384183]Good advice, leave her alone. If you weren't in love, don't butt-in-ski. If you were in love, you have lost this one.

Ouch. We don't lock up gents for being a cad.[/QUOTE]According to many posters here, in the Philippines it is against the law to be fucking someone's wife. It carries jail time.

[QUOTE=Dg8787;2384252]According to many posters here, in the Philippines it is against the law to be fucking someone's wife. It carries jail time.[/QUOTE]Yes, but post-conviction. And rue the thought, many of us might be in jail for unknowingly doing the deed. How many gogo bargirls are married?

[QUOTE=PilotPaul;2383483]Well I am a bit surprised today to look up an old flame on Facebook only to see her relationship status is now Married, lots of wedding pics. I am just amazed at the speed at which a Filipina can go from zero relationship status to being married off. [/QUOTE]A related and re-telling of a similar marriage for a pinay some years back. The first part of it goes like this:

1) I knew a young provincial cutie from the Internet only, for 2 years; we communicated in the old YM. 2) Once in Manila, I told her what hotel I was staying at. In the evening, uninvited, she showed up with her sister, mom, and tita. 3) Thru a sad story, the tita said that I could keep the girl for any period of time I liked, and could I please return her on the bus to the province with some 'help' for the family sob story (pawned bike). 4) I kept the girl. She didn't care for BJ so much, but she just LOVED f*ckiing; I was having her left and right. 5) I let her come to the airport with me to see me off on a Saturday, giving her the amount her family needed; all had gone as expected.

Then the guard rails came off the thing. The following Saturday (Phils time) she hit me up in YM for a few thousand pesos for a party. I declined. A few days later, her YM profile image had changed to one where she was wearing a wedding dress and sitting in the lap of an older (late 60's, grey haired) white guy. I inquired. Seems she got married Saturday evening, the same day she asked for the pesos. WTF weren't we having sex a week or so prior? Seems also she left me at the departure area and then went to the arrivals area to wait for the other inbound gringo (her fiance), whilst my seed was still warm and dripping inside her. They spent the week together and got married the following Saturday evening.

The guard rails continued (for her) to come off. The gent flew home to his country and did not tell family that he'd gotten married. Over some months he distanced himself from her, and he dropped the relationship completely. She and the fam were upset.

Did the girl (or her tita) ever mention to me the inbound fiance? Nah. So in answer to Paul's inquiry of how fast a Filipina can go from zerio relationship status to married: Pretty effing fast (or alternately the same amount of time necessary to go from NAIA Departures to Arrival areas).

As a great believer in bonking hiso hos in between bottles of Chateau Lafite Rothschild and similar plonk, I was delighted, in a perverse way, to see this "soldier" get the Order of the Boot. On behalf of myself, the Thai Royal Family and Mongering Royalty everywhere, let me spell out some simple truths:

1. The Monger, whether Prince, Pope or Pauper, must be captain of his ship. Women are there for us and nothing else.

2. Although the woman had the correct servile position, bowing, salaaming and so on, this was obviously an act. Do not get beguiled by the tinsel.

3. The King cut his losses. Once the King knew I was 3 holing her, he gave her the Buddhist equivalent of the wrath of Cain. Proper order too.

4. No matter what your station, never, ever let a ho rise above hers. As that is T-are-O-you-be-L-E.

[URL]https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-50134690[/URL]

[QUOTE=WestCoast1;2384304]Did the girl (or her tita) ever mention to me the inbound fiance? Nah. So in answer to Paul's inquiry of how fast a Filipina can go from zerio relationship status to married: Pretty effing fast (or alternately the same amount of time necessary to go from NAIA Departures to Arrival areas).[/QUOTE]These are good experiences that everyone is sharing.

I have been to a few weddings in Ph of girls that I have dated prior to their wedding. Marriage in Ph seems to be more malleable and forgiving than it is in the west. I'm sure there are quite a few that we don't know about, hubby is OFW in the middle east and mother has to make ends meet. It's God's way.

Anyway, my little newly married friend I did not meet her as a bg in AC, she never worked like that in AC. I met her at her legitimate work, dated once without sex, once with her friend (who left when the lights when darker) and a few more times over 6 months. A conscientious mature student, focused on study and results. Like all filiina, when the body clock strikes 30 they will marry.

While I have not contacted her, I have added her sister (23 years old) on FB. At least I can keep things in the family.

PP.

Question about Vasectomy. I just had my sperm stored in a sperm bank so I can use it in the future (more likely before I turn 45), so I will be having a vasectomy done next week.

My question is to the guys here who had vasectomy done and had sex without condoms, what are the chances of me getting HIV or STD?

BTW, consider that I only have sex with normal girls, NOT with pros or semi pros or sluts (girls who sleep for fun), I'm just talking about normal girls who have a career or are hard-workers (with regular jobs not sex-work) or college students or just graduated, with no experience with foreigners. So basically uncorrupted goodhearted honest filipinas.

The reason I ask is because I heard there is an epidemic HIV infection in the Philippines, I know most of them infected are gays, sex workers (or semi pros), and drug users. But I'm afraid that maybe afew of those normal filipinas may also have it. What are the chances of those type of girls been infected of those diseases?

Before that, in all my trips to Phils, I will always wear condom, and once I knew the girl pretty well I will use the pull-out method, then back home every year I will get STD test done right away since I don't want to pass any diseases to my partner at that moment.

Should I keep doing that? Or I'm safe since the girls I have sex with are good normal girls.

I rather do bareback, plus I want to take advantage of the Vasectomy.

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2386544]My question is to the guys here who had vasectomy done and had sex without condoms, what are the chances of me getting HIV or STD?

BTW, consider that I only have sex with normal girls, NOT with pros or semi pros or sluts (girls who sleep for fun), I'm just talking about normal girls who have a career or are hard-workers (with regular jobs not sex-work) or college students or just graduated, with no experience with foreigners. So basically uncorrupted goodhearted honest filipinas.[/QUOTE]LOL. Are you fucking kidding yourself or what? Would these happen to be the same normal girls that I have been fucking all these years as well? The only STD (if you call it that) that I have ever gotten was the crabs when I was in college and delivering pizzas for Domino's (knock on wood. Yeah the pizza guy thing is real!) So if you think a chick has to be a hard core hooker in order to pass a disease off to you, well... experience is the best teacher.

When I was in Navy bootcamp they showed us a film on STD day. There was a naked picture of this fine ass blond chick. All of us hard up guys were cheering, until it was revealed that she had herpes! A disease does not care who passes it around or who it is received by.

As far as HIV, that is really hard to receive by a male when he is having vaginal sex with a female. That is a "bloody" disease, meaning you have to mix blood to get it. Dick and ass skin get small tears when dicks and asses are being put together and generally the disease is passed on that way.

By the way, I just went to the doctor the other day for an annual checkup. She said the last time I had an HIV test was in 2017. So she had me do one that day and said I would not need to take another one from here on out. No idea what was up with that. Was she saying that if I have not gotten it by now, then I am invincible to it or something?

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2386554]LOL. Are you fucking kidding yourself or what? Would these happen to be the same normal girls that I have been fucking all these years as well? The only STD (if you call it that) that I have ever gotten was the crabs when I was in college and delivering pizzas for Domino's (knock on wood. Yeah the pizza guy thing is real!) So if you think a chick has to be a hard core hooker in order to pass a disease off to you, well... experience is the best teacher.[/QUOTE]I doubt they are the same girls, once I find out she met foreigners before I don't sleep with them, I had a hottie who said to me that she never met foreigners before, then when she show me her real facebook and I scroll down, I saw her pics with 3 different foreigners, she keep telling me they were just friends they never had sex, I'm like in my mind: Yeah right! So I told her you know how much I hate lies, stop lying to me, is OK if you had sex with them I have no problem with that, I just hate lairs, so she started crying and confess that she had sex with 2 of them, I felt bad for her, but I had to stop seeing her, I told her we can still be friends but not sex. The thing is if in 10 minutes I was able to find 3 foreigners she met in the last year, how many foreigners did she met the last 5 years if I search deeper. I know lots of Filipinas lie, but with experience (in this case my own experience with Filipinas and their culture) you get to know who is honest and who is not in a face to face conversation.

[QUOTE]When I was in Navy bootcamp they showed us a film on STD day. There was a naked picture of this fine ass blond chick. All of us hard up guys were cheering, until it was revealed that she had herpes! A disease does not care who passes it around or who it is received by.[/QUOTE]I know anybody can get STD, that's why I always use condom the first few times I have sex until I know them very well. BUT to be honest I'm more worry about the HIV epidemic.

[QUOTE]As far as HIV, that is really hard to receive by a male when he is having vaginal sex with a female. That is a "bloody" disease, meaning you have to mix blood to get it. Dick and ass skin get small tears when dicks and asses are being put together and generally the disease is passed on that way.[/QUOTE]I didn't know this info, I didn't know you can not get it by vaginal sex, so if someone has HIV she can not pass it to me by vaginal sex? (not blood involved).

About anal, my favourite one, but hard to convince a good filipina girl to do it, I guess I can live without it, I mostly ask for anal to girls who have nice rounded ass, many pinays I met have that, is easier to find a filipina with a nice rounded ass than to find a filipina with big natural boobs.

[QUOTE]By the way, I just went to the doctor the other day for an annual checkup. She said the last time I had an HIV test was in 2017. So she had me do one that day and said I would not need to take another one from here on out. No idea what was up with that. Was she saying that if I have not gotten it by now, then I am invincible to it or something?[/QUOTE]I hate it when I want to get a HIV test done and all they care to ask is if I had sex with a male, I say not of course but what about the men who have anal sex with women, I always had to say that (even if I didn't do that that time), and it also helps to mention that I been in a country where there is an epidemic of HIV, plus I show them an article of a study about Call Center employees having HIV in Phils, lots of work for straight men just to get an HIV test done, but the gays can easily get that test done, discrimination the way I see it!

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2386564]About anal, my favourite one, but hard to convince a good filipina girl to do it, I[/QUOTE]Well instead of trying to convert the "good" Filipina try dating the bad Filipina. They are much more open.

In AC I had one FL whom would like to offer me her ass when she was on the reds. I call that service.

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2386564]I doubt they are the same girls, once I find out she met foreigners before I don't sleep with them, I had a hottie who said to me that she never met foreigners before, then when she show me her real facebook and I scroll down, I saw her pics with 3 different foreigners, she keep telling me they were just friends they never had sex, I'm like in my mind: Yeah right! So I told her you know how much I hate lies, stop lying to me, is OK if you had sex with them I have no problem with that, I just hate lairs, so she started crying and confess that she had sex with 2 of them, I felt bad for her, but I had to stop seeing her, I told her we can still be friends but not sex. The thing is if in 10 minutes I was able to find 3 foreigners she met in the last year, how many foreigners did she met the last 5 years if I search deeper. I know lots of Filipinas lie, but with experience (in this case my own experience with Filipinas and their culture) you get to know who is honest and who is not in a face to face conversation.[/QUOTE]Simple question? Why do you bother visiting as those you chat with have all had foreigners inside them, some all holes! So why bother?

I suggest you may have more luck with a convent (even in the Philippines) or Canada where it seems you are bawd.

Do you have the same rule for pinays in Canada as you did say you were banging one there (or was it more).

But to think you never play with a girl who has had an foreigner is a tad naive as they had pinoys so then what do you do LOL.

[QUOTE=WickedRoger;2386706]

But to think you never play with a girl who has had an foreigner is a tad naive as they had pinoys so then what do you do LOL.[/QUOTE]That is what I was thinking as well. Pinoys get around as much as foriegners, if not more. They are famous for their hit and run tactics. Also, the health care available to them is not as good as the West. Not a comment on the Doctors, but most of them simply can't afford it. So they are spreading that stuff around, bareback, because condoms are taboo with the Filipino Catholic culture. And Pinays love sex; as someone quoted on the AC thread, the only virgins in the country are currently being born in the hospital.

Finally, do a google search on HIV. You can transmit and receive HIV through vaginal sex.

[URL]https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-is-the-risk-of-hiv-from-vaginal-sex-4138626&ved=2ahUKEwjd05GCocTlAhVjhuAKHSZiB4sQFjALegQICxAB&usg=AOvVaw1GxNGIGkudFKRUuntOerBM&cshid=1572448165862[/URL]

And Mr E is techinically incorrect. HIV is a fluid disease, not a blood disease. You can give it to a girl by shooting your infected load in her.

[QUOTE=SaltyPete;2386764]Finally, do a google search on HIV. You can transmit and receive HIV through vaginal sex.

[URL]https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.verywellhealth.com/what-is-the-risk-of-hiv-from-vaginal-sex-4138626&ved=2ahUKEwjd05GCocTlAhVjhuAKHSZiB4sQFjALegQICxAB&usg=AOvVaw1GxNGIGkudFKRUuntOerBM&cshid=1572448165862[/URL]
[/QUOTE]And to complete your education, read this:

[URL]https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/prep/index.html[/URL]

HIV can be largely prevented.

[QUOTE=NiceGuy99;2386778]And to complete your education, read this:

[URL]https://www.cdc.gov/hiv/risk/prep/index.html[/URL]

HIV can be largely prevented.[/QUOTE]The cost for a 30-day supply is about $2000 US. Call me a Cheap Charlie, but I'll stick to condoms.

[QUOTE=SaltyPete;2386814]The cost for a 30-day supply is about $2000 US. Call me a Cheap Charlie, but I'll stick to condoms.[/QUOTE]Also check out the side effects to your liver and so on. The idea of nuking my body once a day does not cut it for me.

[QUOTE=WickedRoger;2386706]But to think you never play with a girl who has had an foreigner is a tad naive as they had pinoys so then what do you do LOL.[/QUOTE]I'm with Roger.

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2386564]I doubt they are the same girls, once I find out she met foreigners before I don't sleep with them, [/QUOTE]This is troubling, considering its a dichotomy (or hypocrisy, see your quote below). Once you find out she's sleeping with other foreigners? Isn't it too late at that point? If you got fooled by one pinay (haha haven't we all? Don't we understand that's part of the game). There's a good chance you've been fooled by others (if not the vast majority). Pinay honesty is not exactly legendary; the girls are extremely opportunisitic (I think we've documented that over and over).

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2386564]I had a hottie who said to me that she never met foreigners before, then when she show me her real facebook and I scroll down, I saw her pics with 3 different foreigners, she keep telling me they were just friends they never had sex, I'm like in my mind: Yeah right! So I told her you know how much I hate lies, stop lying to me, is OK if you had sex with them I have no problem with that, I just hate lairs, so she started crying and confess that she had sex with 2 of them, I felt bad for her, but I had to stop seeing her, I told her we can still be friends but not sex. The thing is if in 10 minutes I was able to find 3 foreigners she met in the last year, how many foreigners did she met the last 5 years if I search deeper. [/QUOTE]If she tells you that she's not sleeping with other foreigners, there's not only a good chance she's not telling the truth, she is also not mentioning her pinoy boyfie (or pinoy sex partners). Jesus de Christo.

[QUOTE=SteveNash;2386564]I know lots of Filipinas lie, but with experience (in this case my own experience with Filipinas and their culture) you get to know who is honest and who is not in a face to face conversation.[/QUOTE]I don't think so (I could be wrong). I'm with Roger. I know that sounds very "CM-ish", but I'm sticking with it.