Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=FunForAll37;2773451]This is a funny post, because on the one hand I think you're correctly reading that he probably overestimates his ability to make genuine connections with working girls based on his tastes and personality. But then you seem to conclude that unlike him, you're able to make the genuine connections because of your race and age. It's pretty much the same fallacy. Not to say that relationships can't be made with sex workers or that some clients and sex workers aren't going to have better connections than others. But the notion of "chemistry" in this sphere is very overrated IMO. The girls that give you the feeling of having good chemistry with you are likely to be giving the same impression to other men. The ones you don't have a connection with are probably not having that great of a connection with other men because they don't care as much about providing a great experience, they're not as good at reading cues of what individual men want, etc. In short, they're just better at their jobs. They can make an older American man think they're connecting over shared interests and tastes and they can make a younger Latino man think they're connecting because they look similar and come from more similar backgrounds. And they get more repeat business because of it. The positive flip side of that is the girl who just laid there probably wasn't cold because she hated your haircut or found you a bore; she likely doesn't enjoy her job very much and doesn't care about making sure she has happy customers. Although that does highlight the exception to the rule on both ends, that a particularly charismatic and attractive man who's seeing sex workers for whatever reason might genuinely be viewed differently on rare occasions and a man with bad hygiene she might be eager to get rid of as quickly as possible because there's no interest in repeating. But the vast, vast majority of the time it's going to be like seeing your dentist. Your dentist doesn't give you a better clean because she likes you personally and doesn't give you a worse clean because you rub her the wrong way. Just find a great dentist.[/QUOTE]That should be on a t-shirt, or a really big coffee mug.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2773415]I know ColombianLover already set you straight but I couldn't help it to have a little more fun with you on this. You are totally delusional clearly w this post:.[/QUOTE]LOL you seem pressed. Let me guess you are a senior citizen as well. Don't take it so personal, I could care less what you do with your social security check. Calm down we don't all have to agree with everything, don't have a stroke LOL.

With a lot of you LOL. I understand I may not have an advantage over some of you just because of my age and ethnicity. We all know that money is really what matters. I apologize if I hurt some of you. I didn't realize this board was so sensitive and get back so much hate. Like I said we don't have to agree to everything and we don't have to get mad because someone may or may not have a advantage to have better chemistry over us or if one guy doesn't have to pretend a girl likes him and the other guy does. In the end who really gives a fuck. Let's put that debate to rest.

So true, women are programmed to think that older men have more money and stability and less drama, especially in Colombia.

As a middle aged men, I am not delusional to think that a 20-25 year old is with me because we have a good connection. She's there because she has a good time, gets treated well, gets money and get's to smell my world class perfume collection, not something she would get with a local Colombian who may connect with her on the music but is likely low income and cheating on her anyway.

[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2773387]unless you have money. You are nothing special to most of these girls. You are not unique in any way.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Luminous;2773651]So true, women are programmed to think that older men have more money and stability and less drama, especially in Colombia.

As a middle aged men, I am not delusional to think that a 20-25 year old is with me because we have a good connection. She's there because she has a good time, gets treated well, gets money and get's to smell my world class perfume collection, not something she would get with a local Colombian who may connect with her on the music but is likely low income and cheating on her anyway.[/QUOTE]She's going to cheat on you as in all likelihood she isn't attracted to you and isn't much concerned about your perfumes. That's just reality. You have a hooker. So many here want to think they have more while also trying to convince the forum that they have more. It's called fantasy reinforcement, a purpose forums like this have long served.

I just spent a month in Colombia and spent a good bit of time in the more expensive strip clubs. Like anywhere strip clubs aren't the best value compared to others in town, but many of us want to get out at night. Yes the girls in La Isla and Fase Dos are from the same handful of lower strata barrios as the Facebook, casas girls, and girls in the Centro strip clubs. It's also true, and I'll concede, that there's a higher concentration of the hotter girls from these barrios than in other venues. You spend more but save time ferreting out the gems in the less espensive places. That said, get ready to wear the latex, as in my fairly extensive research the girls in the more expensive places are wholly inflexible when it comes to BBBJ, even for a nice tip. BBFS of course forget it. For those that want to wear a raincoat start to finish and aren't price conscious, these clubs may be good option for you.

After 20+ years of Latin American travel and many trips over the last seven years to Colombia, it's become more and more clear to me that sticking out the hand with a pitiful look extends well beyond the streets of Medellin. It permeates the society, is expected, is socially acceptable, isn't so stigmatized like in the USA, which isn't to say that everyone does it, though if you spend enough time there you'll be tried time and again. You'll get it plenty from any women you come to know outside the game, like if you happen to get the Whatsapp of some of the more attractive hotel or bar employees, chat with or have lunch with them, etc. The hard luck stories are sure to come along with solicitations for birthday and Christmas gifts. These of course want money without having to put out.

Then of course there's the begging hookers, but when you give them money all you are doing is buying more time off for them. The typical independent barely works as it is, and generally speaking, the more money you give her, the more time it will take for her to come back as they'll need to spend that money first before they start reading their messages again. That's why 80% or more of the time the Facebook hookers show up at the appointments begging you to come down and pay the taxi. They will only work broke. The only ones to have truly figured this out is the casas, for they make so little per fuck, it of necessity assures they have to do plenty of work.

But the moral of the story is, don't give these girls any money, as it will not change her life one iota. It will just enable her to sit on her ass and party with her friends longer before they have to again take an appointment and get in a taxi on a wing and a prayer. The same applies to the non-prepago beggars. That said, it's your money to do with as you please, but at least now you know, aside from some rare exceptions, what it's being used for, which is for waste and to avoid work. Don't be one of those PT Barnum said was born every minute. Wink.

Feliz Navidad everyone. All in all I had a great trip, but is nice to be home. One month there has always been the sweet spot for me.

I have never celebrated New Year's in Medellin but maybe next week I will do down there. What's happening in the city for the holiday? Any recommendations where to go, with or without a chica? Don't want to be spending the night in my Airbnb.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2773643]LOL you seem pressed. Let me guess you are a senior citizen as well. Don't take it so personal, I could care less what you do with your social security check. Calm down we don't all have to agree with everything, don't have a stroke LOL.[/QUOTE]I guess some of us aren't too bright heh. Read my reports and other posts incl the one I replied to you. I'm nowhere near a senior citizen's age. But I have nothing but respect for the older fellas, in person and on here.

The thing about age is that anyone who compare themselves with age or come here to talk about is pure trash and I pitty them really. First, we will all get there. Secondly, What matters the most is what you do while you're young.

Another big irony is this: Most of the older folks on here that you're disrespecting or thinking you're better than, have had mostly a great life, had a marriage, children, real girlfriend. Now on here getting out of Matrix so to speak. But you on the other end is a laughable stock. Why in the world would you be on this forum or learning how to fuck prostitute at 20,30, heck even at a healthy 40?

I'll tell you the diff and why. If you married young in your 20's, 30's, and got divorced, then fine. You've tried the normal thing and didn't work out; especially now if you're a tad bit successful with some money, why not travel and spread your wings? Learn about new cultures and new women? Those I get.

But you my dude, you sound like you've never had a real GF, a wife, family, and desperate enough trying to give yourself a confidence boost comparing yourself with your older mates LOL. Clearly you got issues.

Dude, you'll get older soon. So worry about your own life, how much money you got, whether or not you're wasting your life or not. If you're really so macho as you claim, then get a real dime piece girlfriend, oh I guess you can't hence why you're paying for pussy and learning how to on here LOL.

You're making yourself look bad, cause the rest of us know why we're here and mainly by choice since been there done that. Again, to prove you're so macho get a real GF and don't be here. I always write for fun on here that even a blind squirrel can go in a brothel and pay for a hooker, so you aint none special cause a squirel will outbid you if he brings more cash than your macho ass.

What's your next bright and smart reply young macho?

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2773646]With a lot of you LOL. I understand I may not have an advantage over some of you just because of my age and ethnicity. We all know that money is really what matters. I apologize if I hurt some of you. I didn't realize this board was so sensitive and get back so much hate. Like I said we don't have to agree to everything and we don't have to get mad because someone may or may not have a advantage to have better chemistry over us or if one guy doesn't have to pretend a girl likes him and the other guy does. In the end who really gives a fuck. Let's put that debate to rest.[/QUOTE]So you woke up one day and say oh shit my life is so lame, I got no money, a small peepee, so the only thing I got going for me is that I'm still young. So I'm going to go on a forum where the majority of members might be older, I'm going to insult them to make myself feel better. Way to go man. You're winning big. Men with long dicks and deep pockets are mature enough and confident enough to get women, no need for them to try to get confidence boosts on anonymous boards by insulting others LOL. So trust me I know your broke and not packing shit in your pants. In fact you could be a woman.

Also your generation is so lame dude, older fellas or normal men back then used to have games, they know how to approach women, talk to them, court them, etc. No social media back then. Your generation now in your 20's and even 30's is sad af. Your gen is about taking selfies, making duck lips and posting on IG, hence why you got zero games with ladies. I can tell you make duck lips LOL. Your heart prob jumps out of your chest when in front of a real woman, again, that's why you're here seeking help. The joke's on you son.

Oh yes I know, that's exactly why you're on this forum. You claim to be young and look good talking shit yet your a sad sack. Cause if your look was working for you, your dumb ass wouldn't be in here giving yourself a pat in the back.

The older dudes are this hobby for fun, had wives and real relationships already, however this shit requires money and time, you prob got a 40 HR week job and likely can't afford to be overseas long so you come here to hate. You claimed hate but you're the one hating bro and it's making you look like garbage.

[QUOTE=Plan77;2773570]

A question for experienced ones. Is there a day time pick up place other than centro in Medellin?[/QUOTE]Loutron is a well known day time casa very different from el centro.

Many of the Facebook chicas prefer to visit mid-afternoon.

Masaje parlors and apartments in Laureles. Use internet hook-up sites and / or do a little research to find these places.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2773646]With a lot of you LOL. I understand I may not have an advantage over some of you just because of my age and ethnicity. We all know that money is really what matters. I apologize if I hurt some of you. I didn't realize this board was so sensitive and get back so much hate. Like I said we don't have to agree to everything and we don't have to get mad because someone may or may not have a advantage to have better chemistry over us or if one guy doesn't have to pretend a girl likes him and the other guy does. In the end who really gives a fuck. Let's put that debate to rest.[/QUOTE]You didn't hit any buttons. Most of the guys here give good advice. When someone comes along posting garbage, they will tell him he's wrong. If he continues believing in something that doesn't exist, they figure the guy is either an idiot or a troll.

Dear guys and girls.

Are there any safe erotic massage parlors in Medellin? Laureles or El Poblado?

Also is the Inntu hotel girlfriendly? I read some mixes reviews.

I let girls choose whatever music they like from my collection. Some connect with it and me and others don't. I detest reggaeton, merengue, salsa, and dembow. Basically the genres that emphasize volume and rhythm over harmony, lyrics, or any other musical element. I tend to get bored by so many acts that rely heavily on electronic rhythm tracks and autotune vocals because they are so generic and repetitive. I enjoy the G's (Becky, Karol) from time to time. The girls who must hear Maluma, Marc Anthony, and Bad Bunny 24/7 have to take a break from it if they want hang out at my apartment. It's not a big deal. After all, they are going to scroll instagram stories with backing tracks of that music while they are on the metro back to their barrio where they will hear it all night long from their neighbors.

[QUOTE=Nounce;2772954]Even if that is true, it still does not mean you have better sex than others. Just let the girl choose the music then she will think you have great connection.[/QUOTE]

As many already know, Christmas in Colombia is celebrated on Christmas Eve. This is how I spent it.

The original plan was for me to drive to my girlfriend's sister's house to pick up everyone and deliver all the gifts to Grandma's house at 7 pm. However, Paisa timing rules applied and we showed up at 8:30. In attendance were sister, her boyfriend, mom, grandma, 2 aunts and an uncle. Sister and BF left immediately to deliver gifts to his family, leaving the rest of us to eat and talk until around midnight when they returned.

I hear all the time how terrible Colombian food is, except it isn't. Dinner was thick cut, bacon wrapped pork loin, nicely seasoned, accompanied by cole slaw and what appeared to be twice baked potatoes with parmesan. To snack on I brought a meat and cheese tray with some sliced peppers and grapes for color. It was well received. I also brought all the fixings for Margaritas, which left 3 people pretty tipsy. Other than the uncle, I'd previously met everyone else, so it was a comfortable setting.

While waiting for the sister and BF to return we talked, listened to Colombian Christmas music and drank some wine. Along with dinner I had some homemade natilla and bunuelos, Colombia's traditional holiday treat. I was questioned frequently, mostly by granny, a out Christmas in the US. Overall the conversation was good and I didn't feel the least bit excluded.

Once sister returned, and after Margaritas were served, it was gift giving time. I assume this is a Colombian thing. Each person handed out the gifts they bought to the recipient. However, before giving the gift, they would mimic the person for everyone to guess who the gift was for. Much laughter and applause for each performance. There were even gifts for me, but no performance.

We finally left at 2 am and I played taxi for a few stops before making it back to Provenza by 3. People were still partying in the streets, with music and fireworks, although Poblado was pretty quiet.

If you decide to bring gifts, or special treats to your Colombian girls, here's one which is cheap, exotic and will be very well received: bread and butter pickles. When my girlfriend was visiting me, we bought a jar when shopping. She practically inhaled them, so that was one of her gifts. I think she was more excited to receive a jar of pickles than any of the other gifts. She passed them around and everyone loved them.

Overall it was a good time.