Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2773749]So you woke up one day and say oh shit my life is so lame, I got no money, a small peepee, so the only thing I got going for me is that I'm still young. So I'm going to go on a forum where the majority of members might be older, I'm going to insult them to make myself feel better. Way to go man. You're winning big. Men with long dicks and deep pockets are mature enough and confident enough to get women, no need for them to try to get confidence boosts on anonymous boards by insulting others LOL. So trust me I know your broke and not packing shit in your pants. In fact you could be a woman.

Also your generation is so lame dude, older fellas or normal men back then used to have games, they know how to approach women, talk to them, court them, etc. No social media back then. Your generation now in your 20's and even 30's is sad af. Your gen is about taking selfies, making duck lips and posting on IG, hence why you got zero games with ladies. I can tell you make duck lips LOL. Your heart prob jumps out of your chest when in front of a real woman, again, that's why you're here seeking help. The joke's on you son.

Oh yes I know, that's exactly why you're on this forum. You claim to be young and look good talking shit yet your a sad sack. Cause if your look was working for you, your dumb ass wouldn't be in here giving yourself a pat in the back.

The older dudes are this hobby for fun, had wives and real relationships already, however this shit requires money and time, you prob got a 40 HR week job and likely can't afford to be overseas long so you come here to hate. You claimed hate but you're the one hating bro and it's making you look like garbage.[/QUOTE]What he was trying to say is that there is generally much better chemistry / connection when the age gap is not as wide. Paid or not paid, the relationship looks more natural or normal. More things in common, coupled with some mutual attraction, lead to a better sex, and overall experience. Let's face it, older guys tend to be looking for something more transactional and care less about chemistry and other stuff. And that is fine. Younger guys, like myself, would like to have a GFE experience, something that would last longer and involves some connection. Maybe when I hit a 50 or 60 yr mark, I will gladly be visiting el centro and fucking them in a short term motels. But for now, I would like to use my advantages (age, single status, flexibility in work and travel, and some spare funds) to the max. You, older folks, need to realize that oftentimes you consider yourself know-it-all gurus and are defensive every time you hear a different point of view or prospective. Also, nowadays, age and wealth correlation is not as strong and obvious as it used to be, there are plenty of millionaires in their early 20's and 30's.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2773882]What he was trying to say is that there is generally much better chemistry / connection when the age gap is not as wide. Paid or not paid, the relationship looks more natural or normal. More things in common, coupled with some mutual attraction, lead to a better sex, and overall experience. Let's face it, older guys tend to be looking for something more transactional and care less about chemistry and other stuff. And that is fine. Younger guys, like myself, would like to have a GFE experience, something that would last longer and involves some connection. Maybe when I hit a 50 or 60 yr mark, I will gladly be visiting el centro and fucking them in a short term motels. But for now, I would like to use my advantages (age, single status, flexibility in work and travel, and some spare funds) to the max. You, older folks, need to realize that oftentimes you consider yourself know-it-all gurus and are defensive every time you hear a different point of view or prospective. Also, nowadays, age and wealth correlation is not as strong and obvious as it used to be, there are plenty of millionaires in their early 20's and 30's.[/QUOTE]I guess this make you a bit smarter than than the last guy. You say I consider myself a know it all guru and get defensive. Dude, you're like the #1 Most argumentative jerk on here and you get told this daily LOL. I'm not defending myself as I'm not old, far from it. But when I see a dumb post once in a while I jump in.

You're like a man-child literally, and like a child when parents repeat something to the child and it's all they hear, they in turn repeat it to other people.

Are you seriously trying to explain dynamics and benefits of being young between a man and a woman? Talking about Mr Obvious. You don't think everyone knows these basics? Dude chill the fuck out, I'm prob younger than you and your man-lover you're defending. Most of my reports are about GFE, talking shit and bragging about my non-pros. I'm dating countless of fine babes in all Latin America, still dating fine babes back home and not just paying for sex. This is something I do for fun like most men w money a high drive.

My reply is about him disrespecting others and bragging about his age. It's one thing you don't brag about, it's nothing special or unique since we will ALL get old one day. In fact it's so pathetic. And I believe losers who do that here is simply because they have nothing else to brag about, like having money or other things.

Feel free to measure dick, who got the best GFE, who paid less at the *****house, all that and it's even fun on here. But you don't brag and disrespect others about age, it makes ZERO sense and I'm pretty sure I've lost some brain cells writing about it. WE ALL GET OLD. WTF?

This forum is composed of the following imo:

50% = Real losers, young men or losers that cannot get a real GF anywhere, coming here asking help on how to talk to hookers, so imagine women lmao.

10% = Women and fake profiles, heck many of you have dupp accounts and even replying to yourselves, who knows you might be the same guy you're defending LMAO.

15% = Trolls.

25% = Real users and real men posting shit to help others and how to navigate this hobby.

You're like one the rudest posters in here always crying. And truthfully I could careless about you or anyone here. Not here to make friends nor seeking help LOL. Some of yall need a life, maybe why not go back to school and choose a better career if you're still so young and have time. Like make a bit more money, and you'll enjoy your life and this hobby more. Also like another posted wrote the other day, go get married and start a family, don't be here wasting your life man if you're so young and so macho papi chulo LOL.

I travel every 2 months and normally stay out for few weeks. I just got back, and once in a while when a read a stupid post I reply for fun. But also to help new readers, as a way to show not every dude here is a an ahole. I don't need help from none here, I'm mainly a contributor, and you? A debator? Masturbator? Cause aint no way in hell some of yall have time for the ladies arguing so much on here.

See, I guess you're right, I am a genius. So I'm off this topic Miami boy man-boy and Imma let you talk to yourself and defending your other self here.

So carry on Mr m. Bator!!

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2773882]What he was trying to say is that there is generally much better chemistry / connection when the age gap is not as wide. Paid or not paid, the relationship looks more natural or normal. More things in common, coupled with some mutual attraction, lead to a better sex, and overall experience. Let's face it, older guys tend to be looking for something more transactional and care less about chemistry and other stuff. And that is fine. Younger guys, like myself, would like to have a GFE experience, something that would last longer and involves some connection. Maybe when I hit a 50 or 60 yr mark, I will gladly be visiting el centro and fucking them in a short term motels. But for now, I would like to use my advantages (age, single status, flexibility in work and travel, and some spare funds) to the max. You, older folks, need to realize that oftentimes you consider yourself know-it-all gurus and are defensive every time you hear a different point of view or prospective. Also, nowadays, age and wealth correlation is not as strong and obvious as it used to be, there are plenty of millionaires in their early 20's and 30's.[/QUOTE]Now explain to everyone how you know these things. Did you figure out a way to live for a few years as a 50-60 year old to be able to make the comparison? Can you share that technology with the rest of us?

Most of us old men were formerly younger. We remember how things were, how we connected, the chemistry, all of it. Honestly, we're the only ones qualified to make the comparison. If you haven't lived it, you're either just guessing, or making shit up.

It's really simple. There are a lot of things all of us "know-it-all gurus" know. For example, we know a shitload more about what we want, what we're looking for and our experiences are than you do.

We also fully understand the difference between paid and unpaid relationships. As others have stated, some of us weren't bothering with paid companionship when we were younger. There's a stark difference between the two, however it's unlikely you'll ever grasp it. After all, if you've never experienced it all you're doing is guessing.

Unpaid starts with an attraction. Money, status or security might be part of the attraction, but there's almost always something more, a mutual desire to be together. It might be for a few hours, or for years. In most cases both parties know exactly how the other feels, because it falls apart when it's no longer working.

Paid starts with money. There might be something more, but without the profit incentive, it doesn't happen. Whatever else might develop is only truly known by the one getting paid. The one paying knows how he feels and knows nothing more. Many forget where it all started, with money, and think there's some type of bond.

A bond might develop, certainly the john often thinks there's a bond. However, without the money that bond dissolves like a turd in a typhoon.

Very few of the old guys get defensive about a different point of view, or "prospective. " We also handle different perspectives quite well. What some of us get defensive about is when some still wet behind the ears adolescent comes along and tells us what we feel, what we like and what we experience. Especially when they don't even have a clue about other guys in their own age group.

Plenty of young mongers can be found in El Centro, on the streets or in the casas. Several have posted their experiences. Many old guys are getting girls you'll never be able to afford, and often at a better price. Are they having better sex? No. Because (here's that word again) that's subjective.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2773882]Let's face it, older guys tend to be looking for something more transactional and care less about chemistry and other stuff. [/QUOTE]I have no idea what makes you think that, but it isn't true. Maybe you hate your father or something.

Wanted to do a quick intro and ask for info.

Sorry if a bit long but bear with me. I'm old school going back to Redbook days, those of you who know it know it. I'm in expensive California and when I get a chance I go down to Tijuana which has some pretty ladies. Hong Kong club has some really good looking ladies but too much plastic and implants. I like to use club for entertainment but I rather use an independent lady that I could have dinner with and back to my room. Much more comfortable and clean. I've been to Thailand the last few years and really fun (got certified in Scuba) . I travel more for the experience and seeing new places, doing more things. Seeing women while on vacation is a result of already being there. My goal is try to see a new country every year. I'm super active and in shape even though a few years out from retirement. With good diet, working out and genétics I still look really good for may age. Can out perform many in functional workouts. No here to brag, just giving an idea of me being active.

Redbook used to really good when it was around. In Tijuana, telegram groups are the big thing. Getting reviews, agencies and women posting when available makes it really usable. Thailand is just a big open market with bars every where and "walking streets". I'm trying to get the hang of this here and I haven't used this site really until prepping for this trip. My Trip will be at the end of January in Medellin. With all the info I decided to book Energy. I like good wifi, Aircon and the security at the front all sounded good especially being my first trip there.

Since this is my first trip there I wanted to be in a place with many tourist and centrally located. I'm pretty street wise and don't over drink or take drugs. I try not to put myself in bad situations that I have control over. I think this is what makes it great about this board is the wealth of info. I appreciate all the helpful knowledge in here. Its hard to weed thru though so much info on these threads. On top of that with all the debating and arguing its a bit nauseous and time consuming. I wish there was threads that only had comments on the thread and all other debates / arguments in other threads.

My goal is to do activities during the day, see sites, workout, hike and take in some culture. The evening would be more for dinner and ladies. I like a fit women or slightly thin. Hard fake boobs look good but don't feel good at all. The big oversize trendy booties girls want again for me meh. I want a nice size booty but being a gym rat gives me a different view on bodies and in shape. GFE with a girl a must. Unfortunately I only speak just alittle Spanish as I do duolingo everyday to practice.

I'm hoping some of the vets and well known members could send some info my way. I have started using tinder, yes I've read don't use tinder but I'm trying build a network of women I can meet. I know more of you have facebook contacts butiá haven't had any success or help I'm posting here.

Seems like members like Humpty, JJ Elpapi and a few others really have helped many out. I will try to send few DM's out and see if I can get some help. Any help would be appreciated it or recommendations. One of the members Jim responded to my dm and sounds like I might meet him up while there.

Again thanks for any info and sorry for the long read.

Bro all these posts about Medellin and you haven't even been there yet. I started going to Medellin about 10 yrs ago when I was 32, so I was younger than you are now. I always have a blast and I'm Asian so I look younger than I am. Age isn't a big factor, girls connect well with me because I can speak Spanish, make them laugh, and understand their culture. Anyways, I'm here now and Medellin sucks! Jajaja don't come down here, you'll be very disappointed 🙃. I kid of course.

Btw…it’s my 3rd year in a row spending Xmas and NYs here and I wouldn’t have it any other way. Most ppl would say chicas are limited during this time of year since they spend time with family. This is where I come in and go party with their families. Chino paisa hasta la chimba hpta! I’m hungover as fuck and I love it! Mixing guaro and ron was def a bad idea jajaja

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2773646]With a lot of you LOL. I understand I may not have an advantage over some of you just because of my age and ethnicity. We all know that money is really what matters. I apologize if I hurt some of you. I didn't realize this board was so sensitive and get back so much hate. Like I said we don't have to agree to everything and we don't have to get mad because someone may or may not have a advantage to have better chemistry over us or if one guy doesn't have to pretend a girl likes him and the other guy does. In the end who really gives a fuck. Let's put that debate to rest.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2773764]You didn't hit any buttons. Most of the guys here give good advice. When someone comes along posting garbage, they will tell him he's wrong. If he continues believing in something that doesn't exist, they figure the guy is either an idiot or a troll.[/QUOTE]It may be garbage to you and similar people like you & that's fine. Just like you are the ones who insist one man's garbage is another man's treasure.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2773882]What he was trying to say is that there is generally much better chemistry / connection when the age gap is not as wide. Paid or not paid, the relationship looks more natural or normal. More things in common, coupled with some mutual attraction, lead to a better sex, and overall experience. Let's face it, older guys tend to be looking for something more transactional and care less about chemistry and other stuff. And that is fine. Younger guys, like myself, would like to have a GFE experience, something that would last longer and involves some connection. Maybe when I hit a 50 or 60 yr mark, I will gladly be visiting el centro and fucking them in a short term motels. But for now, I would like to use my advantages (age, single status, flexibility in work and travel, and some spare funds) to the max. You, older folks, need to realize that oftentimes you consider yourself know-it-all gurus and are defensive every time you hear a different point of view or prospective. Also, nowadays, age and wealth correlation is not as strong and obvious as it used to be, there are plenty of millionaires in their early 20's and 30's.[/QUOTE]I guess they get offended easily and take it too personal if a younger guy says these a girls are (most likely) to be attracted to a young fit man vs an old fat man. They can't and won't accept simple facts, I mean I hope I don't become that naive when I get older. Seems they only think about their point of view and their way is the only way.

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[QUOTE=RiceRocket99;2773930]Bro all these posts about Medellin and you haven't even been there yet. I started going to Medellin about 10 yrs ago when I was 32, so I was younger than you are now. I always have a blast and I'm Asian so I look younger than I am. Age isn't a big factor, girls connect well with me because I can speak Spanish, make them laugh, and understand their culture. Anyways, I'm here now and Medellin sucks! Jajaja don't come down here, you'll be very disappointed 🙃. I kid of course.

Btwits my 3rd year in a row spending Xmas and NYs here and I wouldnt have it any other way. Most ppl would say chicas are limited during this time of year since they spend time with family. This is where I come in and go party with their families. Chino paisa hasta la chimba hpta! Im hungover as fuck and I love it! Mixing guaro and ron was def a bad idea jajaja[/QUOTE]You seem cool. I thought about going this month but like you said I felt it would be better next month because most girls would want to be spending the weekends with their families. Glad you are enjoying Medallo. Curious to try the aguardiente.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2773906]Now explain to everyone how you know these things. Did you figure out a way to live for a few years as a 50-60 year old to be able to make the comparison? Can you share that technology with the rest of us?

Most of us old men were formerly younger. We remember how things were, how we connected, the chemistry, all of it. Honestly, we're the only ones qualified to make the comparison. If you haven't lived it, you're either just guessing, or making shit up.

It's really simple. There are a lot of things all of us "know-it-all gurus" know. For example, we know a shitload more about what we want, what we're looking for and our experiences are than you do.

We also fully understand the difference between paid and unpaid relationships. As others have stated, some of us weren't bothering with paid companionship when we were younger. There's a stark difference between the two, however it's unlikely you'll ever grasp it. After all, if you've never experienced it all you're doing is guessing.

Unpaid starts with an attraction. Money, status or security might be part of the attraction, but there's almost always something more, a mutual desire to be together. It might be for a few hours, or for years. In most cases both parties know exactly how the other feels, because it falls apart when it's no longer working.

Paid starts with money. There might be something more, but without the profit incentive, it doesn't happen. Whatever else might develop is only truly known by the one getting paid. The one paying knows how he feels and knows nothing more. Many forget where it all started, with money, and think there's some type of bond.

A bond might develop, certainly the john often thinks there's a bond. However, without the money that bond dissolves like a turd in a typhoon.

Very few of the old guys get defensive about a different point of view, or "prospective. " We also handle different perspectives quite well. What some of us get defensive about is when some still wet behind the ears adolescent comes along and tells us what we feel, what we like and what we experience. Especially when they don't even have a clue about other guys in their own age group.

Plenty of young mongers can be found in El Centro, on the streets or in the casas. Several have posted their experiences. Many old guys are getting girls you'll never be able to afford, and often at a better price. Are they having better sex? No. Because (here's that word again) that's subjective.[/QUOTE]I don't need to get to that age to figure out that the age gap matters a lot, and is reversely correlated with genuine chemistry / connection. This is just common sense and doesn't need to be explained. The money you pay cover that gap. The older one gets, the less bargaining power one has. Older guys can get girls that I will never be able to afford? How do you know what I can or can't afford? And even if they do, more power to them. I pay going rates and don't need to severely overpay because I don't have sex with someone who might be my granddaughter.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2773963] I pay going rates and don't need to severely overpay because I don't have sex with someone who might be my granddaughter.[/QUOTE]YIKES LMFAO. Oh man you went there LOL, Now you done pissed off more than half the people on here LOL.

I feel that though, I can't even fuck with anyone under 21 at my age. I prefer 25-30.

I'd feel like a weirdo if I was fucking even someone my daughters age or younger let alone granddaughter when I'm that old.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2773720]I guess some of us aren't too bright heh. Read my reports and other posts incl the one I replied to you. I'm nowhere near a senior citizen's age. But I have nothing but respect for the older fellas, in person and on here.

The thing about age is that anyone who compare themselves with age or come here to talk about is pure trash and I pitty them really. First, we will all get there. Secondly, What matters the most is what you do while you're young.

Another big irony is this: Most of the older folks on here that you're disrespecting or thinking you're better than, have had mostly a great life, had a marriage, children, real girlfriend. Now on here getting out of Matrix so to speak. But you on the other end is a laughable stock. Why in the world would you be on this forum or learning how to fuck prostitute at 20,30, heck even at a healthy 40?

I'll tell you the diff and why. If you married young in your 20's, 30's, and got divorced, then fine. You've tried the normal thing and didn't work out; especially now if you're a tad bit successful with some money, why not travel and spread your wings? Learn about new cultures and new women? Those I get.

But you my dude, you sound like you've never had a real GF, a wife, family, and desperate enough trying to give yourself a confidence boost comparing yourself with your older mates LOL. Clearly you got issues.

Dude, you'll get older soon. So worry about your own life, how much money you got, whether or not you're wasting your life or not. If you're really so macho as you claim, then get a real dime piece girlfriend, oh I guess you can't hence why you're paying for pussy and learning how to on here LOL.

You're making yourself look bad, cause the rest of us know why we're here and mainly by choice since been there done that. Again, to prove you're so macho get a real GF and don't be here. I always write for fun on here that even a blind squirrel can go in a brothel and pay for a hooker, so you aint none special cause a squirel will outbid you if he brings more cash than your macho ass.

What's your next bright and smart reply young macho?[/QUOTE]Wtf are you talking about? If you actually read any of my posts you would know the only thing I've mainly asked this forum is where to find the best looking girls in Colombia, why because I obviously never been numb nuts.

Hmm let me think, why would I be asking where to find the hottest girls if I had no game? Dumbass LOL. I'm obviously asking because I have the fullest confidence to do so you retard.

Unlike you with your stupid ass remarks, I can tell by just all of the dumb shit you said you are talking about yourself LOL.

Heart out of chest? Young macho? Papi chulo? Men with long dicks? (Pretty suspect if you ask me, who talks like this?) what else, duck lips? Selfies? 40 HR week job? A blind squirrel?

What are you 14? Either that or lay off the pipe dude.

I needed that laugh. Dumbasses I swear LOL.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2773963]I don't need to get to that age to figure out that the age gap matters a lot, and is reversely correlated with genuine chemistry / connection. This is just common sense and doesn't need to be explained. The money you pay cover that gap. The older one gets, the less bargaining power one has. Older guys can get girls that I will never be able to afford? How do you know what I can or can't afford? And even if they do, more power to them. I pay going rates and don't need to severely overpay because I don't have sex with someone who might be my granddaughter.[/QUOTE]Another poster wrote that everyone gets old. In your case, with your attitude, I think you might not.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2773963]I don't need to get to that age to figure out that the age gap matters a lot, and is reversely correlated with genuine chemistry / connection. This is just common sense and doesn't need to be explained. The money you pay cover that gap. The older one gets, the less bargaining power one has. Older guys can get girls that I will never be able to afford? How do you know what I can or can't afford? And even if they do, more power to them. I pay going rates and don't need to severely overpay because I don't have sex with someone who might be my granddaughter.[/QUOTE]Ah yes! The famous scientific method of "I don't need to test this because I think it's right. " After all, "it's common sense and doesn't need to be explained. ".

I'll let you in on a little secret. If you can't explain something and start throwing out "common sense" as your response, you have no idea what you're talking about.

I'll let you in on some other secrets. They're going to involve the word that's your mental kryptonite, "subjective", the word which reduces your thinking to the level of an infant.

1. "Genuine chemistry / connection" can't be measured. It's subjective.

2. If you're paying for sex, you've already eliminated any concept of "connection. " After that you're dealing with an employee. They needed work, you needed something done which nobody would do for free.

3. Your "reversely (sic) correlated" age gap (the correct word is "inverse") only works if every man and every woman is exactly the same. They aren't. We're all different and we're back to subjective.

4. When you're talking about paying for sex, bargaining power depends upon available funds, willingness to spend and the girl's perspective (not prospective) and how she believes she will profit. In other words it's subjective. An 80 year old man looking for a wife to live in his mansion has a lot more bargaining power than a 30 year old who knows the words to 3 Colombian songs.

5. Yes. Some older guys are getting girls you can't afford. How do I know what you can afford? Your posts make it quite clear. Don't look at me. I can't afford them either. They aren't overpaying. They're simply getting the attention of the girls who won't respond to your messages.

6. If you're paying going rates, you're right back to ground zero. The girl is going where she sees the most profit. To know where that is you'll need to show off some mind reading skills, because that's another subjective thing.

The sad thing about this senseless discussion is that you're even here to make it senseless. When I was your age, probably working twice as many hours and barely keeping up with the bills, paying for sex was completely unnecessary. It was just a rare thing done for the thrill. Finding women for sex was easier than finding reliable employees. And that was back when casual sex was still taboo.

On the day you figure out how to get laid without flying to a 3rd world nation and paying for it, come back and tell us about chemistry and connection.