Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2773830]As many already know, Christmas in Colombia is celebrated on Christmas Eve. This is how I spent it.

The original plan was for me to drive to my girlfriend's sister's house to pick up everyone and deliver all the gifts to Grandma's house at 7 pm. However, Paisa timing rules applied and we showed up at 8:30. In attendance were sister, her boyfriend, mom, grandma, 2 aunts and an uncle. Sister and BF left immediately to deliver gifts to his family, leaving the rest of us to eat and talk until around midnight when they returned.

I hear all the time how terrible Colombian food is, except it isn't. Dinner was thick cut, bacon wrapped pork loin, nicely seasoned, accompanied by cole slaw and what appeared to be twice baked potatoes with parmesan. To snack on I brought a meat and cheese tray with some sliced peppers and grapes for color. It was well received. I also brought all the fixings for Margaritas, which left 3 people pretty tipsy. Other than the uncle, I'd previously met everyone else, so it was a comfortable setting.[/QUOTE]You had a special Christmas that not everyone who goes there gets to have and it is for sure special. Clients don't get invited to homes to meet the families and even casual friends don't either so you really must have a novia. People in Medellin and I'm sure all of Colombia really enjoy Christmas for the whole month of December. I have been there in December a couple times and visited my friend's family and her friend's family just before Christmas and it was so genuine. Even in the poorer barrios, people put up lights and are so proud and happy with them. When they welcome you they do so with open arms. Nice to see someone enjoying and writing about a special holiday and not a play by play description of the sex they had. Christmas there with a family is more satisfying than most sex but let's not leave the sex out. Everything has a time and place.

New Years is pretty awesome too. Keep enjoying what you have!

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2774109]Ah yes! The famous scientific method of "I don't need to test this because I think it's right. " After all, "it's common sense and doesn't need to be explained. ".

I'll let you in on a little secret. If you can't explain something and start throwing out "common sense" as your response, you have no idea what you're talking about.

I'll let you in on some other secrets. They're going to involve the word that's your mental kryptonite, "subjective", the word which reduces your thinking to the level of an infant.

1. "Genuine chemistry / connection" can't be measured. It's subjective.

2. If you're paying for sex, you've already eliminated any concept of "connection. " After that you're dealing with an employee. They needed work, you needed something done which nobody would do for free.

3. Your "reversely (sic) correlated" age gap (the correct word is "inverse") only works if every man and every woman is exactly the same. They aren't. We're all different and we're back to subjective.

4. When you're talking about paying for sex, bargaining power depends upon available funds, willingness to spend and the girl's perspective (not prospective) and how she believes she will profit. In other words it's subjective. An 80 year old man looking for a wife to live in his mansion has a lot more bargaining power than a 30 year old who knows the words to 3 Colombian songs.

5. Yes. Some older guys are getting girls you can't afford. How do I know what you can afford? Your posts make it quite clear. Don't look at me. I can't afford them either. They aren't overpaying. They're simply getting the attention of the girls who won't respond to your messages.

6. If you're paying going rates, you're right back to ground zero. The girl is going where she sees the most profit. To know where that is you'll need to show off some mind reading skills, because that's another subjective thing.

The sad thing about this senseless discussion is that you're even here to make it senseless. When I was your age, probably working twice as many hours and barely keeping up with the bills, paying for sex was completely unnecessary. It was just a rare thing done for the thrill. Finding women for sex was easier than finding reliable employees. And that was back when casual sex was still taboo.

On the day you figure out how to get laid without flying to a 3rd world nation and paying for it, come back and tell us about chemistry and connection.[/QUOTE]1. Yes it is subjective, but don't tell me that there is a genuine one between a 20 yo and 80 yo grandpa who is literally one foot in the grave. I can compare myself now to myself 5, 10 or 20 years ago, and guess what? I'm not getting any younger and can clearly see the trend which is not going to change. Most of us did not pay when we were in our 20's, or even 30's, then the concept of ppm / p4 p comes into play as we age and after a certain age mark becomes permanent. There are exceptions but the correlation is obvious.

2. We all pay one way or another. The fact that I pay doesn't eliminate a connection, it just changes the motivation structure for a girl. She could be fucking a grandpa solely for his money, she could be fucking someone younger not only for money, but because she is having fun, great sex, etc etc. I have had relationships that started as pure ppm but then got converted into a normal dating. Because the connection was there.

3. Subjective this, subjective that, blah blah blah. Everything in your small world is subjective. What are you doing on this forum then? It makes no sense to share any info here at all, if everything we are discussing is subjective.

4. With this I agree, I should have added "all other things being equal".

5. Everyone can get an attention if your opening message is $10000 or whatever dumb number you type. And yeah, throwing out some crazy numbers doesn't make one overpay LOL. And didn't you say old folks get better rates than me? Jajaja.

6. I don't care what a girl thinks. I have my budget in mind, which correlates with going rates for each particular venue. If I see value for myself, I pay what I find reasonable, if not, I move on. I don't care what some old folks or weekend warriors pay.

Christmas day, as expected, things were slow. Not much traffic and many places were either closed or were open for shorter hours. Many panaderias and droguerias were open, along with quite a few restaurants. Some of the malls were open including Santa Fe. Almost all of the restaurants were open, but many stores were closed. The crowds were reasonable.

Around 6:30 there were 3 working girls on Calle 10 by the west end of the park. When I drove by at 9:30 I didn't see any. Provenza was reasonably full by 9:30, although many places were dark.

This morning I checked out of my apartment early, intending to spend some time visiting old haunts. One such place was Mayorista. I parked at Jumbo Las Vegas and walked across. There have been changes since my last visit. The old VW dealership is now a sushi place called California Buffet. Several new bike paths have been added, including a bridge up to Ayura station and across the river and the Autopista.

The street of hotels running south from the main chica block look the same. However, the casino on the corner has updated the outside and changed name from Las Paraguas to La Piragua. The short time hotels have also raised from 16 k to 22 k for 2 hours. I was surprised to not see a single working girl on the main strip at 11 am. I've always seen them before, even earlier. I did spot 2 possible workers coming from the Metro.

At the moment I'm relaxing at Viva mall. Have to return the car this afternoon, then I'll check my bag and head to a nearby hotel to catch some sleep before my 2 am flight.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2773942]It may be garbage to you and similar people like you & that's fine. Just like you are the ones who insist one man's garbage is another man's treasure.[/QUOTE]Exactly. He thinks he has some kind of authority here to determine which post are garbage and which are not. He thinks he speaks on behalf of majority here, but can't even imagine how many PMs I get from other members telling me what low life douche he is.

Anyone use Geisha academy in medellin?

I am pretty fcking sure I saw a list of guest friendly hotels and airbnbs on this forum but can't find it. It should be in "report of distinction" if there is such a list. Does anyone know if it has been discussed and if I can find it browsing through posts from a year back or so?

Wish you all a happy mongering 2023!

Avoid Christmas and new years and easter as well. These are family times. Rice rocket seems to have made enough friends over the years to have people he considers family down there or close enough. Anyone new to the city without an established base of connections is just going to wish he had come at a different time. It won't be bad, but it's going to take more effort and money.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2773952]You seem cool. I thought about going this month but like you said I felt it would be better next month because most girls would want to be spending the weekends with their families. Glad you are enjoying Medallo. Curious to try the aguardiente.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2774163]1. Yes it is subjective, but don't tell me that there is a genuine one between a 20 yo and 80 yo grandpa who is literally one foot in the grave. I can compare myself now to myself 5, 10 or 20 years ago, and guess what? I'm not getting any younger and can clearly see the trend which is not going to change. Most of us did not pay when we were in our 20's, or even 30's, then the concept of ppm / p4 p comes into play as we age and after a certain age mark becomes permanent. There are exceptions but the correlation is obvious.

2. We all pay one way or another. The fact that I pay doesn't eliminate a connection, it just changes the motivation structure for a girl. She could be fucking a grandpa solely for his money, she could be fucking someone younger not only for money, but because she is having fun, great sex, etc etc. I have had relationships that started as pure ppm but then got converted into a normal dating. Because the connection was there.

3. Subjective this, subjective that, blah blah blah. Everything in your small world is subjective. What are you doing on this forum then? It makes no sense to share any info here at all, if everything we are discussing is subjective.

4. With this I agree, I should have added "all other things being equal".

5. Everyone can get an attention if your opening message is $10000 or whatever dumb number you type. And yeah, throwing out some crazy numbers doesn't make one overpay LOL. And didn't you say old folks get better rates than me? Jajaja.

6. I don't care what a girl thinks. I have my budget in mind, which correlates with going rates for each particular venue. If I see value for myself, I pay what I find reasonable, if not, I move on. I don't care what some old folks or weekend warriors pay.[/QUOTE]1. It depends upon the 20 year old and the 80 year old. I remember moving a 70 year old woman out of Seattle. Her boyfriend was in the 25-30 range, had a good job, while she clearly had very little money. She was moving cross country to be closer to her grandchildren. He quit his job to go with her. And she definitely looked her age. Was there a real connection? A girl from my HS class married a guy in his 50's shortly after graduation and stayed with him until he died. Was there a real connection.

2. Stick to the subject. P4P, not dating. Who says she isn't having fun with grandpa? You? Are you taking girls to places they've never been before to do things they've never done? Are you introducing them to new cultures and new things. Over the last 10 days I've had the opportunity to listen to my girlfriend rave about the things she's done with me to her family.

3. Everything you're stating is subjective. You don't seem to grasp objective. Our relative heights, weights and ages are objective. How each of us feels about those things is subjective. Stating that a hotel bed is very firm is objective. How comfortable the bed is, subjective. Price ranges for girls from different sources are objective. The service any girl provides is subjective. The stuff you keep ranting about is all subjective.

4. All other things are never equal.

5. First, I said there are some older guys getting better girls and better rates. In some cases it's simple familiarity. In others it's because the guy is known to be able to open doors to a better future. Second, nobody said they are offering crazy money. Besides, that only works with the incredibly stupid. Ask any successful webcam model how often some clown comes along offering crazy money if they will first do what they want. Or ask a stripper.

6. If you don't care what a girl thinks you just declared that all of your babble about chemistry and connections is bullshit. You can't make any connection other than simple p4 p without getting into what the girl thinks or how she feels.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2774170]Exactly. He thinks he has some kind of authority here to determine which post are garbage and which are not. He thinks he speaks on behalf of majority here, but can't even imagine how many PMs I get from other members telling me what low life douche he is.[/QUOTE]As always, you're wrong. I speak for myself, only and always. My posts often include that I am speaking only for myself, or that I can't speak for others.

Ah yes. How many PMs has Paulie sent you now? You do realize he's another old guy?

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2774015]YIKES LMFAO. Oh man you went there LOL, Now you done pissed off more than half the people on here LOL.

I feel that though, I can't even fuck with anyone under 21 at my age. I prefer 25-30.

I'd feel like a weirdo if I was fucking even someone my daughters age or younger let alone granddaughter when I'm that old.[/QUOTE]I doubt if he pissed anyone off. The girl I'm dating isn't my granddaughter, although if we stretched it just a bit, she could even be my great granddaughter. If that bothered me I wouldn't have introduced her to my family and friends, some who have children or grandchildren in her age group.

Personally I don't let others decide what I think or how I feel. If an 80 year old guy is bumping uglies with 20 year olds, I'll happily buy him a beer. If a 25 year old guy is doing the same with 25 year old girls, same deal. You are responsible for your own hangups. They don't apply to anyone else.

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2774038]Wtf are you talking about? If you actually read any of my posts you would know the only thing I've mainly asked this forum is where to find the best looking girls in Colombia, why because I obviously never been numb nuts.

Hmm let me think, why would I be asking where to find the hottest girls if I had no game? Dumbass LOL. I'm obviously asking because I have the fullest confidence to do so you retard.

Unlike you with your stupid ass remarks, I can tell by just all of the dumb shit you said you are talking about yourself LOL.

Heart out of chest? Young macho? Papi chulo? Men with long dicks? (Pretty suspect if you ask me, who talks like this?) what else, duck lips? Selfies? 40 HR week job? A blind squirrel?

What are you 14? Either that or lay off the pipe dude.

I needed that laugh. Dumbasses I swear LOL.[/QUOTE]Who's getting sensitive now? Now you see how it feels being insulted? So if you come here just respect your elders cause they can help you; sorry If I made you cry. I've always enjoyed playing the role of a counter-Bully. Both online and in person. Your tone is changing and it's more like it, we're close so let's get to the bottom of your true needs.

Since you finally admitted you're seeking help on where to find hot ladies, feel free to ask the experienced gents on how to talk to them also. No need to be rude and stop all that BS about you're younger, hispanic background and better suitor BS. Having lots of money is obvious, but also make sure your front teeth are straight, like no gaps and shit. Dental implants are cheap in Colombia and Latin America. Be sure to not smell bad, I know you've migrated to the states so by now I'm sure you know what a deodorant is, use it. No gay skinny jeans please, and I already told you about the selfies and duck lips. Trust me chicks don't dig that. Do these few things and we'll move on to the next steps.

Hint Hint, I'm sure you and your other username poster on here arent the only aholes. Maybe I am too LMAO. Hope the few tips help.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2773764]You didn't hit any buttons. Most of the guys here give good advice. When someone comes along posting garbage, they will tell him he's wrong. If he continues believing in something that doesn't exist, they figure the guy is either an idiot or a troll.[/QUOTE]After reading an avalanche of responses to Anthony's "perspective" my mind harkened back to this response. He's got to be a troll, since no one can be as idiotic as he is being.

I'm sure many of you will remember Blakman from the summer of 2020. He thought he had found the secret nexus that no one else had. That allowed him to get Gusto-level girls at Centro prices for FB chica lengths of time. If I recall correctly, he was in his mid-50's and said that he didn't speak a word of Spanish. And his secret was having fruit and dry popcorn in his place for the girls to eat. At least he was on the ground making things happen.

I'm not posting the name of the building. If you're interested send a PM.

Spent 10 nights in a conveniently located Airbnb in Provenza, only 2 blocks down to OCi: Mde and many of the popular restaurants in Medellin. Secure on-site parking and 24 hour security was available.

The building is family friendly and the introductory messages stated no drugs or prostitution. They also mentioned guests are allowed, not to exceed the room capacity at any time and a limit of 4 guests per stay without additional charges. Cedula is required. The only visitor was my girlfriend and there were no problems. From what I saw, with a bit of discretion bringing in girls is no problem. However, if you're going through 2 a day, you should go elsewhere.

The apartment was 2 bedroom, 2 bathroom, full size kitchen, living room and separate office area. There is a balcony which stretches the length of the apartment. Both bedrooms and the living room have access to the balcony. Some units have air conditioning, mine didn't. There were fans in each bedroom and the temperature was always comfortable for me.

The kitchen was well equipped with stove top, oven, microwave, dishwasher and a large refrigerator. The laundry room had a nice washer that's supposed to dry as well. It washes well, but jeans are some other items will need to hang to finish drying. There were plenty of towels and clean sheets. I believe the price was about $140 per night, all fees included.

[QUOTE=MaddTraveler;2773720]

I'll tell you the diff and why. If you married young in your 20's, 30's, and got divorced, then fine. You've tried the normal thing and didn't work out; especially now if you're a tad bit successful with some money, why not travel and spread your wings? Learn about new cultures and new women? Those I get.

But you my dude, you sound like you've never had a real GF, a wife, family, and desperate enough trying to give yourself a confidence boost comparing yourself with your older mates LOL. Clearly you got issues.

What's your next bright and smart reply young macho?[/QUOTE]Well if you would have just read a couple of comments below you would have seen my comment saying exactly what you said you would understand LOL smh.

You basically described my situation.

I got married young in my 20's and was lucky enough to get out of it when I entered my 30's. I dated in my early 30's and believe me when I tell you this generation of entitled females is nothing like the women you dated when you were in your 30's. Not to mention there was no social media and perhaps texting. Most good looking females nowadays are talking to at least 2 guys at the same time. You can't take any of them seriously. You might find a unicorn in today's day and age but believe me it's rare. No thanks. Been there done that. I rather focus on my finances, my happiness instead of trying to make someone else happy. The hobby works out great for me because I travel a lot as well. So it's convenient and also drama free. I think hobbying in my mid 30's is awesome because like I mentioned before I have the full confidence to go after the hottest women (in my opinion) and the best part about it is I don't have to PRETEND like they like me as well because I am still young, fit, fun and attractive.

P. s Had to repost because it got deleted the first time, I guess they didn't want you to see it and get hurt after realizing what a complete fool you made of yourself.

[QUOTE=JC9999;2774213]After reading an avalanche of responses to Anthony's "perspective" my mind harkened back to this response. He's got to be a troll, since no one can be as idiotic as he is being.

I'm sure many of you will remember Blakman from the summer of 2020. He thought he had found the secret nexus that no one else had. That allowed him to get Gusto-level girls at Centro prices for FB chica lengths of time. If I recall correctly, he was in his mid-50's and said that he didn't speak a word of Spanish. And his secret was having fruit and dry popcorn in his place for the girls to eat. At least he was on the ground making things happen.[/QUOTE]I'm quite sure Anthony is the same as Miamiboy. #1 TROLL of this forum for 2022. He argues and gets aggressive w everyone, now created another acct and replying to himself seeking extra validation. So pathetic if you ask me.

He came in trying to clown old folks, mocking, making fun and mentioning social security checks, how young and macho he is, how girls prefer his ethnicity. Total ass. And now that I'm clowning him back w counter-bully punches he's suddenly getting serious. Bunch of ass-clowns.

I'm on the defensive side, I hate people who claim to be better than others, and I make fun of anyone who does. Why TF would you come here and make fun or mock someone or group of people based on their age just cause you're younger? That's just low, zero class. Bottom feeder type of people. Straight garbage.