Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2942113]No she wasn't a virgin. We'd discussed her history in advance. She had 2 boyfriends before.

A few days on it appears my wang is in the clear. Relief. I mean I always wear condoms without fail but still nothing is 100 percent.

I think I might be done with the 18 year olds. On reflection it's never a great experience. The sweet spot seems to be around 22.

I'm even considering, and this is unprecedented for me, a 27 year old mom of 2. I don't usually do moms because I'm not fond of the stretch belly thing. But she just seems like such a good person that I'm betting the experience will be really enjoyable.[/QUOTE]I agree with you that the early 20's are the sweet spot. Much younger, and they tend to be a bit too immature. You have to be careful, too. There are some ladies on these sites who aren't using their real age. My best experiences have been with 20-26.

[QUOTE=BerolLoz;2942243]You're the second person I've heard here using Tinder as an alternative to Seeking / SDM / etc. I've tied it myself (I put the age range from 18-29), and find I do match up with a bunch of girls, but got to say I think some of these are either escorts or want me to join some other dating site.

Have you tried Hinge? Someone told me on another forum last week they've been using it for something like sugar dating. Not PPM but more like girls looking for shopping trips every now and then.[/QUOTE]Great idea, I have been also thinking about using Tinder, but SA works so well, in Mexico. I have not had time for Tinder, but I think I will give a shot in CDMX and MTY.

[QUOTE=BerolLoz;2942245]I agree with you that the early 20's are the sweet spot. Much younger, and they tend to be a bit too immature. You have to be careful, too. There are some ladies on these sites who aren't using their real age. My best experiences have been with 20-26.[/QUOTE]I know some guys go older but I'm w you. I don't do 20 anymore in US because my date got carded at the dinner table and couldn't show ID. LOL. And 26 is borderline high. I set my filter on 21-24 and bump to 26 if I can't find anyone. My sweet spot is 23 with nose ring. Then you know you are in! LOL.

P.S. Anyone else seen the trend toward bareback? Damn if 100% of my Seeking dates last few years haven't been bareback. 90% on initial date and remainder after one or two dates. My fave was recently when a new girl asked if I had a condom and I said yep. But after some fingering and DATY she mounted up raw. Hahaha. Or my FL girl who in the first date said "sorry about the condom but maybe when I know you better" and we fucked w condom. Went to the strip club and another bar and came back late night and fucked bareback! Guess she knew me better!

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2942671]I know some guys go older but I'm w you. I don't do 20 anymore in US because my date got carded at the dinner table and couldn't show ID. LOL. And 26 is borderline high. I set my filter on 21-24 and bump to 26 if I can't find anyone. My sweet spot is 23 with nose ring. Then you know you are in! LOL.[/QUOTE]I like 26 or 27. Old enough to have learned how to fuck but still young enough to be banging hot!

Tried seeking in MTL and didn't go as good as I would like it.

Set up a meet with redhead 1 and she bailed on the day I landed.

No warnings, we talked for a good amount beforehand setting up a reservation and getting it all lined up.

Bummer.

Redhead 2 hits me up at 3 am when I'm about to sleep as I landed late.

Decided to go and see her at her hotel with her friend because didn't think I would see her because redhead 1 didn't bail yet.

Friend was just ok redhead 2 was a bryce dallas howard look a like. Hot and fun.

Ended up leaving around 7 am and had a decent time.

No other girls on day 1.

Day 2 was hitting up a ton of MTL girls but no bite.

Day 3 I see redhead 2 alone and was pretty fun but late since she had to meet her sister all day.

Went to a crappy restaurant she picked.

Had fun at my hotel but she had to leave before midnight so kinda rush.

MTL girls don't seem to care or just lazy.

Not worth the trek.

Will be doing Brazil next and already getting good leads and confirmations.

Night and day difference and tons of redheads in SP so will see what happens.

A 24 year-old Brazilian branca on Seeking. At least this is what this person holds themselves out to be. In any event definitely my type for anal sex (the nose ring isn't too big or off putting)!

Not familiar with all these codes. You mean Montréal?

[QUOTE=Bearsi;2942750]Tried seeking in MTL and didn't go as good as I would like it.

Set up a meet with redhead 1 and she bailed on the day I landed.

No warnings, we talked for a good amount beforehand setting up a reservation and getting it all lined up.

Bummer.

Redhead 2 hits me up at 3 am when I'm about to sleep as I landed late.

Decided to go and see her at her hotel with her friend because didn't think I would see her because redhead 1 didn't bail yet.

Friend was just ok redhead 2 was a bryce dallas howard look a like. Hot and fun.

Ended up leaving around 7 am and had a decent time.

No other girls on day 1.

Day 2 was hitting up a ton of MTL girls but no bite.

Day 3 I see redhead 2 alone and was pretty fun but late since she had to meet her sister all day.

Went to a crappy restaurant she picked.

Had fun at my hotel but she had to leave before midnight so kinda rush.

MTL girls don't seem to care or just lazy.

Not worth the trek.

Will be doing Brazil next and already getting good leads and confirmations.

Night and day difference and tons of redheads in SP so will see what happens.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2942671]I don't do 20 anymore in US because my date got carded at the dinner table and couldn't show ID. LOL. And 26 is borderline high. I set my filter on 21-24 and bump to 26 if I can't find anyone. My sweet spot is 23 with nose ring. Then you know you are in! LOL.

P.S. Anyone else seen the trend toward bareback? Damn if 100% of my Seeking dates last few years haven't been bareback. 90% on initial date and remainder after one or two dates. My fave was recently when a new girl asked if I had a condom and I said yep. But after some fingering and DATY she mounted up raw. Hahaha. Or my FL girl who in the first date said "sorry about the condom but maybe when I know you better" and we fucked w condom. Went to the strip club and another bar and came back late night and fucked bareback! [/QUOTE]19-20 and they try to pretend they get money and do not have to put out. Naive or stupid. They think they just get money for hanging around and not hooking up.

I always tell the women that I was just tested 10 days ago at my annual physical and have a low sperm count and they let me Bareback. One stopped in the bed and demanded a condom, so I sent her home then and there. Sometimes they want me to pull out at orgasm, no problem, I cum in their mouth instead after working their pussy for awhile.

I used Seeking in GDL in 2022. It was ok. Found a 22 yr old with a 6 month baby. Saw her monthly for 3-4 mos then ghosted her. The kid got in the way. Always have to find a baby sitter.

I started using Seeking again this year and have meet some very nice girls. I had so many girls that wanted to meet but couldn't fit them into my schedule, which is basically monthly trips for a long weekend.

I've also tried Tinder but have not met one Tapatia.

I like 18-28. Best is mid 20's and NO F-ING KIDS! Haha.

[QUOTE=HumbleHal;2942940]19-20 and they try to pretend they get money and do not have to put out. Naive or stupid. They think they just get money for hanging around and not hooking up.

I always tell the women that I was just tested 10 days ago at my annual physical and have a low sperm count and they let me Bareback. One stopped in the bed and demanded a condom, so I sent her home then and there. Sometimes they want me to pull out at orgasm, no problem, I cum in their mouth instead after working their pussy for awhile.[/QUOTE]I can't begin to tell you how foolish it is to bareback with girls you're paying for sex. You almost certainly already have some lifelong diseases (herpes or hpv) and this is a great way to get them if not. Anybody you're paying to have sex is someone who's already demonstrated a willingness to engage in risky behavior. Like you. And me. And it doesn't matter what they say. They lie. Like you. You drop a line about just getting tested 10 days ago and they have their lies.

I know it's not the same with a condom. But it's like wanting to be a lifelong motorcycle rider and saying but I don't use a helmet.

[QUOTE=HumbleHal;2942940]19-20 and they try to pretend they get money and do not have to put out. Naive or stupid. They think they just get money for hanging around and not hooking up.

I always tell the women that I was just tested 10 days ago at my annual physical and have a low sperm count and they let me Bareback. One stopped in the bed and demanded a condom, so I sent her home then and there. Sometimes they want me to pull out at orgasm, no problem, I cum in their mouth instead after working their pussy for awhile.[/QUOTE]When using Seeking, I message back and forth and wait for the girl to ask about what I am proposing. I always reply: with intimacy or not? That sets the expectation that there will or will not be sex.

What's the sugar dating scene like in Oslo, Norway? I'm just curious.

[QUOTE=BaltiX;2943149]What's the sugar dating scene like in Oslo, Norway? I'm just curious.[/QUOTE]General rule of thumb: most women in Scandinavia either work decent jobs, are well educated, or in many cases, both. There hasn't been a significant income disparity in that part of Europe for a long time. The birth rate in Norway and the adjacent countries is quite low, so most of the women who are willing to get on their knees and work are those that dropped out of high school. So there is that scene there, but you won't have any many options as most other parts of the world.

[QUOTE=VanessasClient;2943240]General rule of thumb: most women in Scandinavia either work decent jobs, are well educated, or in many cases, both. There hasn't been a significant income disparity in that part of Europe for a long time. The birth rate in Norway and the adjacent countries is quite low, so most of the women who are willing to get on their knees and work are those that dropped out of high school. So there is that scene there, but you won't have any many options as most other parts of the world.[/QUOTE]That is mostly true, but I read from two users here that Stockholm has lot of sugar girls on SA and another website I can't remember despite the sex purchase ban.

So here at home I currently have two girls. One, who we will call Fuck Bunny is hot as fuck and fucks like a bunny but doesn't like to kiss or BJ. And the other who is new I call Nerdy Girl because well you can guess. And she needs fucking badly and is pretty good in the sack but it somehow feels less romantic.

Can't really complain but neither is ideal so I stay on the prowl. Scored a hottie over to text about a month ago but it's been tough to meetup. Finally met up tonight and damn she's going to vault right to first place. Slim girl with a pretty face. But most of all I love her attitude. She comes from dirt poor and she's just so humble and thankful to just not be treated like shit. We had a great time and some amazing tacos. Def top girl at home. Will repeat.