Medellin Reports

Right on Bro.

I know quite a few girls that prefer the older guys to the young bucks for quite a few reasons. What it comes down to is communication, attitude, maturity and respect. My Girfriends either really enjoy their time with me if not they should be in line for an Oscar. Being in my 60's I have been known to play around with all ages (I do not like to descriminate although women 25-35 years old seem to be the sweetspot for me). Yeah, I know they are with me for my money and I am paying them for their services but we all are having a good time. The same thing that goes for the guys in their 30's they are with you for the money too so don't think your special.

[QUOTE=JjBee62;2786553]You would think so, but that was not my experience.

Last summer my Colombian girlfriend came to the US to visit me, right in the Bible belt. The first time was for 5 days, the second time she stayed for 7 weeks.

We stayed in hotels together, went to a theme park, a baseball game and other tourist attractions. Went to malls, stores and restaurants, even to my favorite small town diner. I introduced her to most of my family and even my landlady, who has a daughter the same age. The only bad look we got was from a Walmart greeter. Granted, 1 of my sisters refused to answer the door when we showed up, but she's a hardcore racist. Everyone else treated us just fine. A few older women even made a point of saying how beautiful she was.

I'm 60 and she's 20.

However, I'm completely comfortable with it. If I was worried what others would think it might have changed the way others reacted to us.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Mongo1;2787076]Right on Bro.

I know quite a few girls that prefer the older guys to the young bucks for quite a few reasons. What it comes down to is communication, attitude, maturity and respect. My Girfriends either really enjoy their time with me if not they should be in line for an Oscar. Being in my 60's I have been known to play around with all ages (I do not like to descriminate although women 25-35 years old seem to be the sweetspot for me). Yeah, I know they are with me for my money and I am paying them for their services but we all are having a good time. The same thing that goes for the guys in their 30's they are with you for the money too so don't think your special.[/QUOTE]They don't love the older guys per se, they like the money that older guys have. Stop paying and see how long your "relationship" will last.

Up to 12-15 yr age gap is acceptable, because you are technically, the same generation. 20-25 yr gap, or 40 yr gap is too wide.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2787064]In the States its all about envy and jealousy. The men give angry looks because they are married to whales while the women are irked because they feel you should date women closer to your own age....like them.[/QUOTE]It's not just about jealousy or envy, but pure anger as well. Several years ago a woman told me that I was somebody who she saw as being with younger women, and that pissed her off to no end. I didn't even really "know" this woman as she was more of an acquaintance. At the time we were thinking about "getting to know each other better", but it never happened. The thing is that I'm not sexually attracted to most women my age (not all but most), and I suppose this can be said to be one of the negative "side effects" of mongering. I've never "adjusted" to being with women in my age cohort. And at this point in time, I don't ever intend to. I'll just keep fucking what I like to fuck until for whatever reason I can't anymore, and then I'll just stop fucking. Young, pretty blondes (brunettes and redheads too) forever: [URL]https://quatroporquatroclass.com.br/us/perfil/vitoria[/URL]!

[QUOTE=BeckyG]
What does a few extra years matter?
I like them older
The kind they call senor [/QUOTE]Mayores by Becky G.

Been to this place today and have a very bad experience, they are money grabbers specially scamming foreigners, I took a girl there, first of all her butt we smelling pop and it turns me off immediately I kindly ask her to take shower, secondly when I try to touch her boobs she say no as even touching them heart her and I was thinking how I can have sex with her without touching boobs then I try to touch her body and she again say no as she feel tickles when I do it, I was pissed off at that time lastly I try to kiss her on face and she again say no I don't like it, her attitude was as she was not interested in sex at all and just killing time, how someone can have sex without touching body, boobs and kissing? My mode was off till that time but the last thing she does which completely make me mad was after 30 minutes she start telling me time is over, I have actually taken a screenshot when I enter the room and showed her its only 30 min first she don't accept but when I insist she agree to stay more but I myself left room in 40 minutes because it was pure torture, I go downstairs and tell the manager all the story and the response of the manager was we will not refund you, I say wait a minute when I ask for a refund, instead of asking the girl what the issue is and saying sorry you are telling me no refund.

So guys' there money hungry moron are there just to grab your money, their conversation start with money and end on money, we go these to relax and a couple of dollars are not a big deal but the mindset of the people at this place is criminal.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2787079]They don't love the older guys per se, they like the money that older guys have. Stop paying and see how long your "relationship" will last.

Up to 12-15 yr age gap is acceptable, because you are technically, the same generation. 20-25 yr gap, or 40 yr gap is too wide.[/QUOTE]The last chick I hooked with on my trip to my surprise was 19 years old, I'm 35 and even at my age I low key felt uncomfortable walking around with her in provenza, like I said I don't know how guys in their 50's and 60's are comfortable with that, I would assume most people might think they are walking around with their grand daughter.

I actually felt a little embarrassed and shame with the security guys at my airbnb when I had to tell her to display her cedula to them. Had I known her age prior to meeting up I would of gone with someone older, at the very least 21, But I said fuck it, it was my last day and she was a sweet girl. I guess I don't like feeling like a pedophile. Not my thing.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2787079]20-25 yr gap, or 40 yr gap is too wide.[/QUOTE]Too wide for what? Too wide for both parties to have a good time?

MB, why are you the "Acceptable Police" ? I am 62 and have a regular in Bogota that is 32, have known her 5 years. We are comfortable together, she usually stays with me for 2-3 days. Do normal things that normal people do. Go to eat, movies, concerts, tourist stuff, run errands, watch TV, etc. Of course she wouldn't be there without money, but its good for both of us. To each their own.

While I still see prepagos and semi-pros on occasion, I am now more likely to see chicas who just enjoy the company. Food, jacuzzi, safe environment, good treatment in and outside of bed. I currently have a GF who is 18. I am 57. We connect in some ways, but certainly not others (some generational, some cultural). But we enjoy our time together. She asks nothing of me, although I did buy her a nice shirt for Christmas! Her parents know about me and are fine with it, because they know I respect and take care of her. And she is not the first girl I've been with whose parents were totally fine with it and actually were happy she was not with a guy who was going to abuse her or knock her up or treat her like dirt.

I am not saying every girls prefers an older guy and I'm not saying all parents would be accepting, but it does happen.

Obviously I have no illusions of marrying her and bringing her to the USA. That's not going to happen with any chica. But we are enjoying the time now and not worrying about the future.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2787015]
Don't get me wrong, I like them young and fresh too, but I'm being realistic and would never call a girl that I'm fucking and who could be my granddaughter, a "girlfriend".

Her parents are probably in their early 40's. If i was her dad, i would never let her date a 60 yr old fart from the US no matter how much money he has, simply because this is fucked up.[/QUOTE]

So this morning I went down to Centro and had an excellent mid day session with a cute 23 year old vennie at botero real. Anyways I got some pics of the new barrier that was put up last week.

I heard it's only going to be temporary though and had something to do with a new paro nacional (protest) that is going to be happening soon.

[QUOTE=JustTK;2787105]Too wide for what? Too wide for both parties to have a good time?[/QUOTE]Too wide to have a real, long lasting relationship.

BTW, how do you know if both parties are having fun? Keep in mind that one party pays, and the other party gets paid. Would the party that gets paid have fun for free?

[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2787117] Her parents know about me and are fine with it, because they know I respect and take care of her. And she is not the first girl I've been with whose parents were totally fine with it and actually were happy she was not with a guy who was going to abuse her or knock her up or treat her like dirt.
[/QUOTE]Do they also know you see prepagos?

The real question you got to ask is, I don't know if you have a daughter or not but if you do or did, would you be OK with your 18-25 yr old daughter dating someone as old as 50-60 yrs or even just older than you?

If you would be ok with it idk about you but I would seriously seek a psychiatric evaluation for myself and said daughter ASAP.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2787045] To get a visitor visa for your girl to visit the United States is even more impressive if true.[/QUOTE]Is it really that hard to get a visitor visa to the us? I don't really know, I've only read if your a student it's not that hard. I always thought it would be more impressive to get a visa to places like Cuba.

[QUOTE=MoonShot;2787045]In the America that I know, which is big cities, it would attract a lot of attention and a lot of scorn and negative comments. It is not a normal age gap for America and it does attract a lot of disgust. It also attracts a large number of young fit men with game gravitating towards your girl and trying to hit on her. I always thought that the Bible belt cities were even more judgmental but perhaps I am wrong. If that is the reaction in your city and she is still with you all the more power to you bro. To get a visitor visa for your girl to visit the United States is even more impressive if true.[/QUOTE]Does Chicago count as a big city? Downtown. Millenium Park. Willis Tower. The big Apple Store? I've previously posted 1 or 2 pictures undoubtedly taken on the observation deck of Willis Tower (formerly Sears Tower), so I'm pretty sure it's true that she has a visa (B1/ B2 if it matters). Attached is a screen shot from a video when we ate at Giordano's on Randolph Street. Notice the lack of disgust, scorn, negative comments or even attention.

It didn't attract a lot of attention, scorn, disgust, or negative comments. As I stated, just one judgemental loom. It also didn't attract any fit, young men gravitating towards her and trying to hit on her, not even when we spent the day at the water park at Kings Island in Cincinnati (which was the reason for the visit to the Chicago Apple Store). However, if she had worn the bikini she brought with her, something I bought her from Wicked Weasel, we would have attracted a lot of attention. Fortunately, I was able to buy something at the park more appropriate for the Midwest. That's not saying that she didn't get looked at and even stared at a few times, but that's pretty common with a beautiful woman in a bikini.

What you wrote is based on what you think would happen and reflects your opinion towards the whole old man, young woman scenario. What I've written is what I actually experienced and I believe my positive experience is a reflection of my acceptance that the age difference is irrelevant.

There's always the risk of some Karen going on a rant, but I've been through that before. I know how to make them look silly, and it would be worth some nice cash once the video went viral.

If you want, this summer (after her semester is over), I'll let you fly her and I to New York, LOS Angeles, or whichever big US city you want, and you can follow us around and see how people react. You can even try your game and try to hit on her.

[QUOTE=RamDavidson84;2787075]You said 40 years, not 20. Even 20 is kinda pushing it for USA. Going out in public and balling out with a chick who is 40 years younger than you is awesome and I love reading it and would get a kick out of seeing it, but it would really irk the hell out of everyone who sees you two show affection in public. I am sure you would get the death looks and whispers of "grooming" and "sugar daddy". Like you state though, I am sure you could care less about that shit with a hot young thing on your arm.

#1 Rule of monger-life. There is what a man can do, and a man can't do.

Thank god a man with cash can always find some good looking female company, no matter his age.[/QUOTE]Sorry my brain was thinking 20 years old while my finger was typing 40 years younger and the result was "20 years younger. " Blame it on the 60 year old brain.

And who's balling out? We went places, did things as a couple, but we weren't giving each other tonsil massages in public, except at the airport. Although there was one night in the car, driving around, plus things got heated on the long road trips. In public we behave like a typical couple, same in Medellin.

To me, attitude is important. I see guys asking about "the walk of shame", bringing a girl to your hotel, or going into a red light business. I don't feel that way. Whatever I'm doing, it's completely normal and natural. People don't notice anything unusual because I'm not acting like I'm doing anything unusual.

The same approach, in my opinion, helps to avoid problems in places like El Centro. If you're walking around seeing criminals and druggies and danger everywhere, people will notice. When I walk around, I see just normal people doing normal things in a normal place and I'm just another face in the crowd.