Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2787145]Too wide to have a real, long lasting relationship.

BTW, how do you know if both parties are having fun? Keep in mind that one party pays, and the other party gets paid. Would the party that gets paid have fun for free?[/QUOTE]What is a real relationship? How long is "long lasting?" When does a relationship begin and end? And who gets to define those things? I would think those questions can only be answered by the people involved. Can you show me how your judgement on these things is superior to mine and hers?

BTW, how do you know both parties aren't having fun? In my case, I know both parties. You know neither. Neither party is getting paid, although one party does pay and provides things the other can't afford (like extended trips to the US).

How do you know if the person you've spent time with enjoyed the time together? What do you base it on? One good indicator is the "call back. " That's a comedy term. When a comedian tells a joke and then later on says something to connect the current joke to the previous one, that's a call back. It only works if the audience enjoyed the first joke.

If you do something with someone and they bring it up, in a positive way, at a later date, chances are they enjoyed it. A call back. Over Christmas I had a chance to hang out with her family, and they questioned us both about her time in the US. Based on the things she mentioned and her reaction and response to the things I mentioned, I'd say she had fun. Of course that's only based upon actual experience with the parties involved and doesn't use the more reliable method of just making shit up to align with your prejudices.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2787064]In the States its all about envy and jealousy. The men give angry looks because they are married to whales while the women are irked because they feel you should date women closer to your own age....like them.[/QUOTE]I wish we could give likes on ISG.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2787079]They don't love the older guys per se, they like the money that older guys have. Stop paying and see how long your "relationship" will last.

Up to 12-15 yr age gap is acceptable, because you are technically, the same generation. 20-25 yr gap, or 40 yr gap is too wide.[/QUOTE]Stop paying with a 12-15 year age gap and see what happens. Stop paying with a 3 day age gap and see what happens.

When you're traveling to another country and paying a girl, as you've said, $100 or more, to spend time with you, the age gap isn't an issue. It works the same with my job. If they decide to stop paying me, how much longer do you think I'll keep coming to work? My name's not Milton.

Maybe someone else did, but I've never said anything about "love. " I care less about love than I care about the world knitting championship. Just like "love", I don't know if there is a world knitting championship. There's lust, self-preservation and self-gratification. There's even preservation of the species. When you take all those things out, where is the love?

Worrying about "love" is a quick way to fuck up a good thing. You see it all the time. Two people go out, they have fun, they fuck, they repeat, until one or both decide they're "in love. " They stop going out, they stop having fun and eventually they stop fucking and then it all goes to shit, because they confused fun with love and decided that some form of ownership was required. Worse, when it all falls apart, they usually decide they hate each other, which spreads amongst their friends because everyone has to pick a side.

Much more dependable is "is it working?" If it's working then don't fuck with it. If it's not working pick one:

1. Fix it.

2. Replace it.

3. Do without it.

If you go to a restaurant, since this is currently being discussed, and order a steak, you take a bite and decide if it's a good thing. If it isn't a good thing, back up to your 3 choices. Maybe a bit of salt or steak sauce will fix it, or you might need to send it back. Or you might just say fuck it and order a pizza. What you don't do, if it's a great steak, is buy the restaurant, close the doors and tell the staff they're only allowed to feed you and start eating every meal there.

Dears,

Some months ago, I was browsing Instagram, and somehow I bumped into this beauty from Medellin. From the photo, absolute goddess.

I could see she had several thousands of followers, which automatically means low chances of getting noticed, but I have tried anyway. She was clearly a pro, from the photo and party videos she posted. I had to try a few time before she gave me an answer, but basically I asked her in a polite way if there was a way to meet her.

She said that usual stuff and shared her price: "1 million COP for one night" (about 200 USD) which is quite the standard in Colombia. Then I asked her how much would be a whole day and she gave me 1. 5 M COP (300 USD). I live in Panama City and we could not meet for several months, but keep in touch. Once, I almost met her in Cartagena, but then not.

Then finally we met in November 2022 in Bogota' (I paid her flight) and she was amazing and fun all the time.

Last month, I met her again in Medellin, when I went to have some fun. She is sweet, she can easily have sex multiple times and enjoying it. Unlike other girls she is on a good mood all the time and her body is to die for. I plan to meet her again soon. Damage: 300 USD / day.

[QUOTE=ColombiaLover;2787117]While I still see prepagos and semi-pros on occasion, I am now more likely to see chicas who just enjoy the company. Food, jacuzzi, safe environment, good treatment in and outside of bed. I currently have a GF who is 18. I am 57. We connect in some ways, but certainly not others (some generational, some cultural). But we enjoy our time together. She asks nothing of me, although I did buy her a nice shirt for Christmas! Her parents know about me and are fine with it, because they know I respect and take care of her. And she is not the first girl I've been with whose parents were totally fine with it and actually were happy she was not with a guy who was going to abuse her or knock her up or treat her like dirt.

I am not saying every girls prefers an older guy and I'm not saying all parents would be accepting, but it does happen.

Obviously I have no illusions of marrying her and bringing her to the USA. That's not going to happen with any chica. But we are enjoying the time now and not worrying about the future.[/QUOTE]It is the younger mongers who fight against this idea that much girls can enjoy the company of much older gringos. Remember this, as an older guy, I used to be your age and thought exactly the same thing. We used to be you and you will eventually become us. Because of this, you should hope that it is true so that you will continue to enjoy the company of much younger women even 30 or 40 years from now and they seem to enjoy your company. Wouldn't that be great even if it is a fantasy.

Great observation but you forgot the younger guys, yes if the younger guys quit paying see how long the Chicas hang around. You may think they want to be around you because your young and handsome but in reality they have their hands in your wallet. Your going to pay any way with meals or buying them clothes etc.

"Up to 12-15 yr age gap is acceptable, because you are technically, the same generation. 20-25 yr gap, or 40 yr gap is too wide. ".

These are the stupid rules that were forced upon us and the reason we leave to have fun. Bottom line is if your old and like younger women you can go to Colombia and have a great time for very little money. The girls that make my regular list are the ones that make me feel like a King and that I enjoy spending time with. I really don't care much for the naysayers who are trying to put us down and really do not care to hear about a youngster that can get pussy for free (although in reality it is not). This is a site about mongering and escorts (paying for sex). Enjoy my friends, I'm living the dream.

These are the stupid rules of pussy prison and the reason we leave to have fun.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2787079]They don't love the older guys per se, they like the money that older guys have. Stop paying and see how long your "relationship" will last.

Up to 12-15 yr age gap is acceptable, because you are technically, the same generation. 20-25 yr gap, or 40 yr gap is too wide.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2787145]Too wide to have a real, long lasting relationship.

BTW, how do you know if both parties are having fun? Would the party that gets paid have fun for free?[/QUOTE]I didn't make a claim. I proposed a hypothetical. You are the one making claims again. Claims are demonstrably false.

BTW. If you were to plan to go to the Supwerbowl final w your same age GF. But you didn't have nough money to buy the tickets, how much fun would you have? . And if you did have tickets to buy the tickets, would it be fair for me to say "that's not real fun bcos you had to pay for it"?

[QUOTE=Anthony2023;2787088]The last chick I hooked with on my trip to my surprise was 19 years old, I'm 35 and even at my age I low key felt uncomfortable walking around with her in provenza, like I said I don't know how guys in their 50's and 60's are comfortable with that, I would assume most people might think they are walking around with their grand daughter.

I actually felt a little embarrassed and shame with the security guys at my airbnb when I had to tell her to display her cedula to them. Had I known her age prior to meeting up I would of gone with someone older, at the very least 21, But I said fuck it, it was my last day and she was a sweet girl. I guess I don't like feeling like a pedophile. Not my thing.[/QUOTE]Many young guys don't like older men banging young women because of the possibility of old men fucking girls that the young guys want and so those young guys get the old man's sloppy seconds.

[QUOTE=Osteoknot;2729250]Love equals money or money equals love...

My downfall, is my chicas see how much I spend on the pink shit, and that unfortunately sets the bar quite a bit higher, but that "problem" is of my own doing and I can only blame myself for that predicament, not them. What can I say when they observe, "But you spent X-million pesos this week on. . . ? " I tell them I worked long and hard to spend my money the way I choose, but if we are talking love, that is obviously a selfish retort and does not fly well...[/QUOTE]An old post but I have to add taking your date to a higher end restaurant although not an issue for us, but when the girl sees a steak dinner for 100 K and you're drinking 30 K drinks, when that bill comes and the waiter either announces for the whole restaurant what the total is, even though you are looking at the bill (The total is on the bill, that's what the bill is, why do they need to announce the total more than once?) or they lay the bill on the table in full view of everyone at the table while they work the credit card machine.

My point is aligned with Osteo that when the girls see you just spring 300 K for dinner and you have agreed on 200 K for the night, she may just feel slighted and service may take a dip. "If he is spending 20 K on taxis three times tonight, 300 K on dinner etc. Why am I only getting 200 K!

I find you get better service from the girl going to a humble tipico place to eat and not spending wads of cash in front of her.

By spending big bucks in front of her you are showing how rich you are, however temporary due to a good FX rate vs USD / EUR, this is not going to last forever. They are continuing to jack up prices due to all you Daddy Warbucks out there, spending like a drunken sailor. And I should know about sailors.

Just my. 02 cents.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2787275]Many young guys don't like older men banging young women because of the possibility of old men fucking girls that the young guys want and so those young guys get the old man's sloppy seconds.[/QUOTE]At 35 I probably thought the same thing. Now at 43 when I see a 55 year old with a 20 yr old I want to give the guy a high five and say good for you!

Bottom line is old women are not fuckable. When I go to the pool or Walmart, all I see are old unfuckable women. We have to travel to Brazil and Colombia so we have a huge amount of choice. It's impossible to compete with the 21 year old body. My old boss used to bust my balls for looking at 21 year olds. Then I saw his 250 pound wife and realized it was just jealousy. He has to bang this whale in his 50's.

[QUOTE=Tiepolo2002;2787255]She said that usual stuff and shared her price: "1 million COP for one night" (about 200 USD) which is quite the standard in Colombia. Then I asked her how much would be a whole day and she gave me 1. 5 M COP (300 USD).[/QUOTE]$200 for overnight isn't standard, it's definitely up there unless you're going to a high-end club which isn't worth it imo. Medellin is more expensive than Bogota though. I spent about $60 for a few hours to $100 for most of the afternoon. I'm heading back there this weekend and scheduled more time with the same girls for about the same I paid last time.

I had one that quoted $200 for the day and another wanted almost $100 per hour. You just have to weed through them until you find better options.

What it comes down to is the how much cash the girls can get for how little effort. So, on that basis we can probably agree the girls have to exert less effort to get more money the older the punter. All in all I feel strongly the older guys that really interest girls are the one's who appear on bank notes. Anyone who doubts that should withhold cash to get a low cost cocktail of truth and reality.

[QUOTE=Mongo1;2787076]Right on Bro.

I know quite a few girls that prefer the older guys to the young bucks for quite a few reasons. What it comes down to is communication, attitude, maturity and respect. My Girfriends either really enjoy their time with me if not they should be in line for an Oscar. Being in my 60's I have been known to play around with all ages (I do not like to descriminate although women 25-35 years old seem to be the sweetspot for me). Yeah, I know they are with me for my money and I am paying them for their services but we all are having a good time. The same thing that goes for the guys in their 30's they are with you for the money too so don't think your special.[/QUOTE]

The streets are saying it is there for a 45 day period, possibly longer. I think it's been in place for a week or so already.

[QUOTE=Gabacho;2787141]So this morning I went down to Centro and had an excellent mid day session with a cute 23 year old vennie at botero real. Anyways I got some pics of the new barrier that was put up last week.

I heard it's only going to be temporary though and had something to do with a new paro nacional (protest) that is going to be happening soon.[/QUOTE]

I think your point is valid even though you and the guy you quoted are not referring to quite the same thing. A key difference is it's not hard to setep away from the table and tell the waiter you want to settle the restaurant bill discreetly. You don't even need to show a menu to your date. There are barrio girls who won't understsand it anyway. To expedite the ordering process I sometimes break down the menu with questions like "do you prefer beef, pork, fish, or salad. " That's just an example because 90%+ of the time there isn't much interest in seafood or salad. French fries and solomito will usually get you past the awkward ordering phase.

[QUOTE=SailorJim;2787282]An old post but I have to add taking your date to a higher end restaurant although not an issue for us, but when the girl sees a steak dinner for 100 K and you're drinking 30 K drinks, when that bill comes and the waiter either announces for the whole restaurant what the total is, even though you are looking at the bill (The total is on the bill, that's what the bill is, why do they need to announce the total more than once?) or they lay the bill on the table in full view of everyone at the table while they work the credit card machine.

My point is aligned with Osteo that when the girls see you just spring 300 K for dinner and you have agreed on 200 K for the night, she may just feel slighted and service may take a dip. "If he is spending 20 K on taxis three times tonight, 300 K on dinner etc. Why am I only getting 200 K!

I find you get better service from the girl going to a humble tipico place to eat and not spending wads of cash in front of her.

By spending big bucks in front of her you are showing how rich you are, however temporary due to a good FX rate vs USD / EUR, this is not going to last forever. They are continuing to jack up prices due to all you Daddy Warbucks out there, spending like a drunken sailor. And I should know about sailors.

Just my. 02 cents.[/QUOTE]