Bangkok Reports

[QUOTE=JayWonEm;3015165]Reading up on Thai etiquette in preparation for my visit, I understand it is rude to touch people's heads, faces, or hair. Is this something that comes into play in private, or once the pants come off those rules go out the window? Is it something girls might instinctively dislike, but tolerate because they are getting paid? Should I practice my no-hands face fucking techniques?

Also read that showing the bottoms of your feet to someone is considered rude. Unclear how that affects foot fetishists.[/QUOTE]I only know that it's considered rude to touch the top of someone's head. Because that is where the soul resides. Touching faces or hair is OK, as far as I know (although most girls have limitations regarding their hair, as PgReal already pointed out). So I usually try to avoid the top of their head. But I have never had a negative response from a girl when I didn't think about it, or accidentally touched the top of her head. And I have also never experienced that it had any influence on a session.

Showing the bottoms of your feet deliberately to someone is considered rude. If you don't do it deliberately, like when you cross one leg over the other, just to sit more comfortable, then it's OK.

[QUOTE=JayWonEm;3015165]Reading up on Thai etiquette in preparation for my visit, I understand it is rude to touch people's heads, faces, or hair. Is this something that comes into play in private, or once the pants come off those rules go out the window? Is it something girls might instinctively dislike, but tolerate because they are getting paid? Should I practice my no-hands face fucking techniques?[/QUOTE]Treating this as a serious question. Thai-specific etiquette is for Thai people. It is not expected of farang, because farang are expected to be farang. Be courteous. As long as you are not intentionally disrespectful (and Thais know the differenece as much as we do), you will be okay. Are you seriously trying to show superior cultural sensitivity by practicing your "no-hands face fucking technique"? Might as well practice the proper way to give the girl a big Thai wai of respect after dumping a load deep in her snatch.

IMHO the most respecful thing farang can do is to take a shower and be squeaky clean from head to toe before the act. Any decent Thai provider will do the same. It is in their culture to be clean. Nothing will damper a session like bad body hygiene.

Sex is a contact sport, so it needs to be played that way. One of my regulars has been developing her deep throating skills and I regularly have my hand on her head to guide her technique. Win win for both of us. Hope this helps your journey into Thai culture. Enjoy, AR.

[QUOTE=Ranvir226;3015267] The {CH} line up was nice. I went twice. I liked it, will visit again for sure an and when I am in BKK.[/QUOTE]Good! I appreciate your update.

[QUOTE=Sunlover2;3015249]One persons opinion is the popular view? It feels like you are working from a knowledge deficit mate. At least the 2 girl and 3 girl option is stated plainly on the services menu, and the personnel in these places change all the time. And as for "old and hags" you did recommend Tulip LOL..[/QUOTE]You may be coming across wrongly, but if I have to harrow a guess, you have never been to the place, have you? They all promise you the sun, moon and stars in their services menu but if that is all you are going to base your choices on, then as they say a fool and his money is easily parted.

As for Tulip, I suggested it (opposed to a recommendation) for PSE, threesome / lesbian show to be precise. But you'll see I did add that I actually prefer Snow-white which has a nice mix of the odd spinner mixed in with the MILF's etc.

[QUOTE=AsianRain;3015307]Thai-specific etiquette is for Thai people. It is not expected of farang, because farang are expected to be farang. Be courteous. As long as you are not intentionally disrespectful (and Thais know the difference as much as we do), you will be okay. Are you seriously trying to show superior cultural sensitivity by practicing your "no-hands face fucking technique"? Might as well practice the proper way to give the girl a big Thai wai of respect after dumping a load deep in her snatch.[/QUOTE]The no-hands face fucking was definitely a joke. I want to be at least a bit knowledgeable about etiquette (like 15 minutes of Youtube video knowledgeable), but mostly I want to enjoy good vibes with the girls I meet. I think the fewer "it's OK because he is farang" moments the better.

Based on your feedback I am definitely going to give a big Thai wai of respect to a girl after dumping a load in her, but I will probably pass on stepping on her head during doggie in order to display my superior cultural sensitivity.

BTW, I recently learned that "farang" is a corruption of "Frank" coming from the Persian, which I assume dates back to their name for the Crusaders. Possibly common knowledge but new to me.

J.

[QUOTE=JayWonEm;3015391]BTW, I recently learned that "farang" is a corruption of "Frank" coming from the Persian, which I assume dates back to their name for the Crusaders. Possibly common knowledge but new to me.

J.[/QUOTE]Farang refers to the Germans (Franks) who inhabited Thailand in the mid 1800's. The original meaning meant European (Westerner) but the accepted current meaning has evolved into any non Thai or non East Asian.

As for head touching: in Thailand the head is sacred, as it is the closest to Buddha. And conversely the feet are the dirtiest part of the body because they are down in the dirt. If you touch a Thai ladies head without prior concent she will get pissed. And paying particular attention to her feet is about as naughty as you can get.

SL.

[QUOTE=JayWonEm;3015165]Reading up on Thai etiquette in preparation for my visit, I understand it is rude to touch people's heads, faces, or hair. Is this something that comes into play in private, or once the pants come off those rules go out the window? Is it something girls might instinctively dislike, but tolerate because they are getting paid? Should I practice my no-hands face fucking techniques?

Also read that showing the bottoms of your feet to someone is considered rude. Unclear how that affects foot fetishists.[/QUOTE]

I don't think this is a thing in the "bedroom". I actually ask first whether I can hold their head because some women don't like the control aspect but I have had maybe one person in BKK say no and I am sure she was worried about her hair. I always hold a head in a blowjob bar after asking. If someone doesn't want me messing up their hair, they say so. In the non BjBars, I have had the same experience.

Just be gentle with the face fucking. My wife loves to be face fucked. She has sucked over 200 guys. There are guys that do it completely wrong and turn her off and there are guys that do it completely correctly and she gets so turned on. Pay attention to your sex mate. It will make for a great blowjob.

[QUOTE=AsianRain;3015307]Treating this as a serious question. Thai-specific etiquette is for Thai people. It is not expected of farang, because farang are expected to be farang. Be courteous. As long as you are not intentionally disrespectful (and Thais know the differenece as much as we do)[/QUOTE]100% this!

You are NOT Thai and never will be, regardless how long you have been here or how well you speak Thai. You are a Foreigner.

To Thais, there are a lot of differences between us Farangs, and a lot of stereotypes, but if you are respectful, you will be welcome almost anywhere.

As for P4 P, everything goes, you can touch the head without issues if you do not make it "degrading". As AR perfectly said: Be clean, Be respectful and you will have a great time.

Also, don't be a Kee-nok, bargaining for an extra dollar discount is not cool to street vendors whose life is hard as it is.

[QUOTE=Mogwai;3015299]
Showing the bottoms of your feet deliberately to someone is considered rude. If you don't do it deliberately, like when you cross one leg over the other, just to sit more comfortable, then it's OK.[/QUOTE]If you're interested, even when done not deliberately, as in crossing one leg over the other, it is still considered rude.

[QUOTE=NicFrenchy;3015432]100% this!

You are NOT Thai and never will be, regardless how long you have been here or how well you speak Thai. You are a Foreigner.[/QUOTE]It's not about being Thai, or acting Thai. As I said, it's about how you vibe with a particular girl, and there are dozens of posts on here about why guys had an especially good or especially bad time. Of course all the girls accept things they don't like about us. I doubt any of them actually want to suck my 70 year old dick. I just want to make it a bit easier for them by not doing things that give them "ick" vibes. It's good if you know what those things might be.

Anyway. Good discussion. Looking forward to the visit.

Seen this question asked before. But no answers I liked ha.

Planning a trip soon. I need a substitute for literally my favorite place on earth. Love the laid back vibe / country / older non-pros.

TIA!

[QUOTE=JayWonEm;3015391]
Based on your feedback I am definitely going to give a big Thai wai of respect to a girl after dumping a load in her, [/QUOTE]I wouldn't do this if I were you. First of all because it's not necessary in this case (she has been serving you, not the other way around), and second because it's not that easy to do it the right way.
So you can better not do it, than do it wrong or at the wrong moment. Personally I never give a wai to anyone when I'm in Thailand.

[URL]https://thailandfoundation.or.th/wai-the-thai-greeting/[/URL]

Talking about the wai: in the past quite a lot of girls used to give me a wai when I handed them over the money after a romp in my room. Nowadays most of them don't do this anymore. Sometimes they don't even say thank you. Does anyone have the same experience?

[QUOTE=Mogwai;3015657]Talking about the wai: in the past quite a lot of girls used to give me a wai when I handed them over the money after a romp in my room. Nowadays most of them don't do this anymore. Sometimes they don't even say thank you. Does anyone have the same experience?[/QUOTE]Getting the wai at payment time is increasingly a rarity. And it is not uncommon for the girl to immediately count the money to confirm that the agreed amount has been paid. This is often followed by a request for tip. Things are much more transactional these days, but I understand and sympathize as there are clearly more and more guys who don't pay the agreed amount or worse try to skate without paying at all. Just last week I had a Thai street pickup insist upon payment in advance. This is something I never do, but the happy compromise I provide is to show the money and place it on the dresser for the girl's comfort. If she insists on pocketing the money first, I will cancel. This process has worked every time to prevent standoff situations. She knows I can pay and she knows that I expect her to play. Win win.

IMHO the most culturally sensitive thing punters could do is pay correctly for their play. Enjoy BKK, AR.

I have ALWAYS gotten a wai after the deed is done. I like to think its my performance, but know in my heart its the cash.

[QUOTE=AsianRain;3015659]I understand and sympathize as there are clearly more and more guys who don't pay the agreed amount or worse try to skate without paying at all. Just last week I had a Thai street pickup insist upon payment in advance.[/QUOTE]Did you see in the Pattaya news a couple of days ago so guys from the subcontinent contracted a wait, but when she took off her bra they went back on the deal. They went to the police saying she misrepresented because she had on a pushup bra leading them to think her tits were bigger than they actually were.