Medellin Reports

[QUOTE=Villainy;2794894]Not a good thing to blame the victim. But there are two serious errors this guy made that may cost him his life (of course, we all hope he recovers).

These lessons are really important for visitors (or those that live here) to understand.

#1. Don't wear jewelry, rings, watches. No one here is going to be impressed with your trappings of success. They will only be looking at them as an opportunity. Don't pull out your iPhone in public either. If you need to check messages, duck into a coffee shop or store and do it out of public view.

#2. If you do get confronted, give it up. Your wallet or watch or phone isn't worth your life.[/QUOTE]Florida Nueva is just the other side of Calle40, a Laureles neighborhood that is very lively and close to the metro station. I am always walking these streets with my phone out and as are many foreigners all along the setenta, from the upb gate to the metro station.

It could just be the luck of the draw. I think it can happen anywhere not just in Laureles or Medellin.

[QUOTE=Villainy;2794894]Not a good thing to blame the victim. [/QUOTE]It is if it is justified. A certain level of stupid gets what is coming to them. The guy is from California and wearing an expensive watch out in public in a country filled with poor people where that watch could feed a family for a month. I doubt they saw his watch driving by or watching him walk past. They or a friend saw him and his watch up close to identify its worth at a bar or restaurant and followed him. My guess based on that little info is that he thought he could walk on water and learned differently.

Would you feel sorry for a guy who has never been to the mountains and never been in snow who decides to go on a cross country walk in the middle of the night alone in winter wearing only a T-shirt and freezes to death?

Three years ago I was in Cucuta around noon at one end of Parque Mercedes. At the other end is a police station. People are everywhere. I was trying to get this girl who then called over her friend who was hard core girl in her young twenties. I handed her my phone for 30 seconds and then it hit me. Get that phone back! Too late. She yelled for her friends. I yelled police. She won. Top of my head was bleeding and nobody of supposedly good character moved a muscle. Idiots ran into the direction of the police and I had my phone back 10 minutes later. Was I a victim? No. I was a 30 second idiot. I am a foreigner, no Spanish, not a big guy, border town, poor illegals everywhere, $250 phone looks $500 but they assume is a $700+ phone. But I am in touch with reality. I really screwed up. I do not need to blame others for every little thing that happens to me. And sometimes shit just happens.

First just a few questions.

Can anyone give a brief rundown on how to best buy viagra from a pharm?

Are there any that we know will not require a prescription or do you just have to try a few? Would writing what you want down help to avoid language issues? With so many chicas and more time than I have energy I really could be having a lot more action with viagra in hand.

I'm interested in something like "the mansion". A hotel where you can go and stay a night but women will come to the hotel and be in a common area for pickup. Can anyone provide the exact name or how to find The Mansion or places like it? Any tips or advice?

Anyone know about action about the city that is not in El Poblado or El Centro?

It appears that there maybe some action off the el centro and el poblado areas. Just independent women in groups of 3-4 that may decide that part of the city they will make a little money outside their apartment. I'd like to find out more about this.

So those are my questions. Now I'll contribute what I can and report on what I've learned.

In general I would say be cautious out there and keep your cool. There is a very tiny minority of people here that harass tourists to get money out of them. It also seems worse on weeknights when there are less people overall. I probably don't look like the best target until there are fewer targets.

So like you may have read, be clean but dress down. If anything try and appear as if you don't really have money. Only take the money out that you need to spend for what you are doing. Never ever even look at your money in public. Even if you only have 20 k pesos you will be more targeted if someone sees you messing with your wallet.

I would not be in el central off the main streets after 8 pm at night without extreme caution. The shopping district and the area with all of the day prostitutes goes completely away by 8 pm. The rest of the areas around there however still go strong to the north east. I'm still new so do your own recon, but I felt that was certainly an area things could go bad fast. I mitgated my risks by being hyper aware of anyone watching me, or following me. Inside the bars I felt very safe and people were locals just out enjoying themselves. Even on the street I never got asked for anything after getting away from the shopping area in el central. It is just a feel that you know from being in a lot of cities that you need to be careful there.

I'm personally off the El Poblado area as my Spanish has improved and I know the city better. I would recommend someone new to Medellin get a place in the laureles. It's a great part of the city and very fun. An uber to the outskirts of Poblado on the west side is not much. I save money by only taking ubers to the outskirts of the dense areas and walking that last 0. 5 km in. That can cut the cost almost in half as that last. 05 km is the slowest part of the drive. May as well walk.

Also it is good to make friends with the guys in the bars and clubs that have lots of girls around them. Unlike in the US where all the men are fighting over scraps, here the men with game have access to an abundance of attractive women who love sex. It makes them happy to introduce you to women and set you up to have a fun time.

So why we are here. You really don't have to pay women at all for sex here. Getting your teeth whitened is a remarkably good investment when dating in medellin. They love white teeth. Clean finger nails. I'm not a real hot guy. I'm 52 years old. I'm white from the US. Barely know Spanish. I've had dates with hot doctors, teachers, artists, musicians. They all love having sex and you typically see that after the 2nd or 3rd date and they are extremely eager. Colombian Cupid seems to be the best to meet these kind of women.

So why we REALLY are here. Seeking is the go to for me if I want attractive women that are looking for perhaps a more respectable way to make money through sex. One venezualian woman I met off there I have taken her to nice restaurants and I may take her on a trip to the beach. She is helping me with Spanish and find an apartment. Most women off seeking will likely cost you more at first but I've worked the site for about 3 years. There it is possible to find women that just like that you can spend money on food, a nice place, and a vacation. They cost you no more than any other girlfriend.

Which brings me to why we are REALLY REALLY REALLY here. The truth is the women in Medellin are so plentiful and so many also in the sex trade that you can pretty much live the life you want on your budget. I know the el central area best now. I literally can't date a woman off colombian cupid or seeking 'for free' without spending far more than I will just going to one of the many options in el central. It's a bit of a mind bender. Even just to uber a girl from seeking to my place and back to hers will perhaps cost $10. The going rate was between 30 k pesos and 50 k pesos it seemed for about a half hour. Never feels rushed. Room included if you just say that up front. Sometimes they will sell sodas and candies. But even at twice the street price a soda is like $2 so I always get them what they want to drink. I didn't even see a street prostitute for the first 2 1/2 weeks I was here because I had so many off colombian cupid and seeking that I wasn't 'paying' for. And I put 'paying' in quotes for reason. On any given day in el central there are hundreds of women looking for action. More than half I have no interest in. They are simply not attractive. In fact I would say 1 out 10 is extremely objectionable and I don't know how they ever make any money. That said 1 in 5 I typically find attractive.

In El Poblado the prices seem to be far more inconsistent. I've had offers as low as $60 k to as high as $300 k. I was so ignorant at first I thought Noventa was $90 US. Nope. She wanted 90 k pesos. Just about $20. I still passed. The $300 k girl was absolutely perfect in every way. She had two friends with her that also were very attractive. I would definitely see great opportunities here to just get all 3 girls standing in the doorway. You don't have to turn any down and the prices are just so cheap. I've not done it yet but once I get my Spanish a little better I think that might be something to try.

I'd finally add that they are all very clean. In fact the women I've met on the street have been more clean and concerned of hygine before and after than the women I have dated off colombian cupid.

I would end by saying most all women in Medellin are extremely approachable and interested in meeting you. In America the women have men starved out for sex and companionship and we are the desperate ones. Down here in Colombia it is the opposite. The men never chase the women here much it seems. They are known to do as they please and the women know that the men here have access to sex anytime they choose. So women are more like the men in America. When you give them attention they almost can't help but want to fuck you after a bit of time. Unless they are ultra attractive they are the ones that feel starved out.

A few other weird things.

Medellin has amazing fries here. And hamburgers. Crazy good.

The women who speak the best English are the party girls who mostly hang out at bars, listen to music, and watch a lot of TV. In other words the people who consume a lot of social media and entertainment content. The unprofessional people.

I've dated a doctor, a veterinarian, and several other professional women here. None of them can speak English well at all because they have careers and work and don't spend any time watching American movies and entertainment content. I just didn't expect that when I came here to be the case.

[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2794795]Did you quote that correctly. 9 figures would be 100 million dollars. If I had that much money I would try to spend as much as possible before I die. You can't take it with you. I wouldn't care what the girls charged.[/QUOTE]Some people are just cheap. No matter how much money they have.

[QUOTE=SankarShetty;2794912]Florida Nueva is just the other side of Calle40, a Laureles neighborhood that is very lively and close to the metro station. I am always walking these streets with my phone out and as are many foreigners all along the setenta, from the upb gate to the metro station.[/QUOTE]You're welcome to walk around with your phone out just like when you are back home. Afterall you'll see Colombians doing it all the time. But most likely your phone is a lot higher end than theirs is and that draws attention. I live here and it happens all the time. Not just to foreigners but to locals as well.

[QUOTE=SankarShetty;2794912]It could just be the luck of the draw. I think it can happen anywhere not just in Laureles or Medellin.[/QUOTE]It happens all over. There are a lot of poor people here and although most wouldn't go out of their way to rob someone. If you wave opportunity around like a flag, one day you make it into the newspapers.

[QUOTE=ChuchoLoco;2794900]
my first trip there was 50 years ago this month during Carnival in Barranquilla and spent 45 days traveling around.[/QUOTE]Can you describe Colombia in the 70's? How was the culture and women?

[QUOTE=DonMedellin;2794984]Can you describe Colombia in the 70's? How was the culture and women?[/QUOTE]I'll try my best but keep it short. Much smaller, less developed and virtually no tourist industry. Lots of soldiers on the streets keeping the peace. I was there before Pablo. Landed in Barranquilla and first culture shock was an old guy on a donkey outside the airport.

[QUOTE=DonMedellin;2794984]Can you describe Colombia in the 70's? How was the culture and women?[/QUOTE]Writing short so I don't get timed out. What struck me the most then was that there were only 2 classes, rich and poor. No middle class and mostly poor, few rich. The rich really looked down on the poor also. Very arrogant. Women were pretty but no silicone in this days so huge tits and asses weren't around. People were very nice and it was very safe. Walked all hours of night in Medellin and never a problem. It was much smaller and tallest building was 7 stories next to Park Bolivar.

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[QUOTE=Nounce;2794765]It's easy. The problem is not members posting. It is the members who don't post. We are waiting for someone with six trips under his belt to post his first report or say something useful 😏.[/QUOTE]I have been Medellin six 6 times over the last couple of years (a little less than 2) and gearing up to do my 7th in a few days. In that short time, as many of you already know, a lot has changed. I have also been to other cities in Colombia, and mongered in Europe, Canada, Mexico, Panama, Australia, DR, and some other islands. The first two Colombia trips were with family, so I've only mongered in Colombia for a year now (4 trips). I have seen girls from FB, Seeking, Parque Lleras, El Centro, prepagos, casas, strip clubs, and, yes, the much debated Tinder. While Tinder gets a bad rap, and, in many ways, rightfully so, I have mostly great experiences, except for the 2 times the girls showed up looking very different than their photos. I sent them home. I was nice enough to provide cab fare. I know I know. I don't have to but honestly, what's 10-20 mil in COP? I would rather send them home politely, move on to the next, not have drama, and not ruin my mood.

Here is how I approach my Tinder girls, as well as the ones I find on any other social media site, because I go back, I message them a 2-3 weeks in advance just to get to know them. The pros will likely get bored quickly and stop responding or just ask me to message them when I arrive. They are here for the quick hit. That's fine. I enjoy less than pro chicas quite a bit on a personal and sexual level. It takes some effort but it yields great results. I message most of these girls about once every other week. They often like telling me about their day, their dreams, and the things they are dealing with. One chica talks to me about Colombian politics, she is very informed, and one of the best fucks I've ever had. Most of these text conversations are short catch ups. I usually stay in an AirBnB that allows for companions without fees (they are all over), a door person to check their IDs and who calls me before he lets them leave the entrance of the apartment, and a safe. I do not drink with them. I am also not a heavy drinker. I let the girls drink if they wish and will drink with them when I am out in public. The one time I broke that rule, I was about to enjoy a trio and I saw girl put a powdery substance in her own drink, which she told me was Tussi. I asked them to leave immediately. I was not spiked and it appeared they were not trying to spike me. Just to get high themselves. These girls were Lleras chicas. I also do not do overnights. I get the disadvantage of not being able to roll over and have morning sex but I like sleeping alone and if I wanted the morning sex, I will ask them to come back over. And they do. I keep all of my important things (real phone, money, passport, laptop, etc. In the safe the entire time. I am precocious by nature, as I also do not do sleepovers with women I date in the states until we have have been fucking for months. This has kept me out of harms way as much as possible, but nothing is without its risk.

Using this pre-text method, I now have about 2 dozen chicas that I can message for play when I am in Medellin. Many of them are in college (they often send me pics when I am not in the Jean), some are nail technicians and they give me pedicures and manicures (I tip extra for stuff like this), massage therapists, etc. I usually give 200-300 mil for long day visits and I have a hard rule of never wiring money. I make a Victoria Secret run and rummage through the 3 dollar bin, remove the price, and give them as gifts. All of these things not only keep me safe (r) but they also curry favor for better experiences. In other words, for 250 mil + 30 mil for a massage or a pedicure + 3 USD panties, I get gorgeous young 20 somethings who fuck my brains out the entire day. I know lots of people are complaining about rate hikes, but any economist will tell you that the market, and this is a sex market, is not usually moved by one simple factor (e. G. The weekend ballers). These girls have access to the internet and see those "elite" Colombian girls on planes going all over the world on a one YOU horny bastards dime (not mine. LOL), they discuss this stuff with each other, things are more expensive globally so they, like everyone else, are in need of more money, and other factors.

Casas are casas and serve a wonderful purpose but they can be mechanical, same with strip clubs (La Isla and Fase Dos), which are way more expensive but I sometimes want the club vibe. Prepagos are prepagos but I like the no haggle menu of it all, the window shopping, meaning, I can simply check off and ask someone to do the things I want and it's great for what it is. There is indeed something for everyone in Medellin. There are girls that have asked me for money in USD and (like others have said) I refuse to discuss it with them outside of COP. There are girls that have asked me for over 1,000-1,500 COP, and I completely refused. There are girls who don't ask for any money at all. I don't like these girls no more than I like the expensive ones because they want to be with me the entire trip. NO. LOL. I have other chicas to see. There are even cheaper ways to do Medellin but my method works very well for me because when I did it cheaper during one trip, I didn't have as much fun.

Most of my rules have been gathered from guys on this board + whatever way I tweak them to suit my particular needs and wants. In other words, gather your rules and tweak them as you see fit.

1. AirBnB with security / door person that checks IDs.

2. Have a safe and lock up your things.

3. Don't drink with them in your room or watch your drink like a hawk.

4. Get to know them a bit, if you can, before hand.

5. Be nice.

6. Learn a Spanish. Even a little goes a long way.

7. Finally, and I cannot stress this enough, get to know the city beyond the sex market. I also go to spas out there, high end restaurants when I meet up with friends out there, (both of which are way cheaper than here in the states), go dancing, meet people, and have a good time.

P.S. The amount of arguing yall do on this site is perplexing, considering the amount and variety of chicas that are available.

[QUOTE=AmorPorFavor;2794972]Some people are just cheap. No matter how much money they have.[/QUOTE]I read a article recently about a janitor who died with millions in the bank. He never retired or spent his money before he died. He was smart enough to save all that money on a janitors salary but not smart enough to realize he can't take it with him.

[QUOTE=AmorPorFavor;2794972]Some people are just cheap. No matter how much money they have.[/QUOTE]You don't seem to think or read what others have said. They are selectively being "cheap". One of the reasons that people come is because it is cheap. So you didn't visit because it's cheap?

[QUOTE=TheProcess;2794968]First just a few questions.

Can anyone give a brief rundown on how to best buy viagra from a pharm?

Are there any that we know will not require a prescription or do you just have to try a few? Would writing what you want down help to avoid language issues? With so many chicas and more time than I have energy I really could be having a lot more action with viagra in hand.

I'm interested in something like "the mansion". A hotel where you can go and stay a night but women will come to the hotel and be in a common area for pickup. Can anyone provide the exact name or how to find The Mansion or places like it? Any tips or advice?

Anyone know about action about the city that is not in El Poblado or El Centro?

It appears that there maybe some action off the el centro and el poblado areas. Just independent women in groups of 3-4 that may decide that part of the city they will make a little money outside their apartment. I'd like to find out more about this.[/QUOTE]1. Go to any pharmacy and ask for Sildenafilo. Tell them whether you want the 50 MG or 100 MG pills. Tell them how many you want. If I remember correctly you can get the 50 MG in a box of 4, and 100 MG in box of 2. They will also have the name brand Viagra for a much higher price. No prescription required.

2. The Mansion used to require a minimum 2 night stay. You should book in advance. You can find the website if you Google Hotel M Medellin.

3. There's an area near Grill San Diego with street walkers at night, or there used to be. I'm not familiar with the area, but others have reported on it. There used to be street girls in Mayorista, although I didn't see any in December when I walked through. There are informal casas throughout the city with a few girls working out of them. Search the online ads to find them.

[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2795010]I read a article recently about a janitor who died with millions in the bank. He never retired or spent his money before he died. He was smart enough to save all that money on a janitors salary but not smart enough to realize he can't take it with him.[/QUOTE]Some people just have a different lifestyle. I have an uncle who's 80, he never married, did have a lot of women when he was younger but never mongered. He's now a millionaire, I doubt he can get it up as he never talks about women now when I ask him. He does drink a lot. He realizes that he can only spend a small fraction of his money before he dies. He has made a will leaving his houses to his daughters and said he's dividing his money among his nieces and nephews. I have no problem spending my money on airline tickets, hotels, booze, good food and girls, girls, girls.

[QUOTE=TjBrazil;2795010]I read a article recently about a janitor who died with millions in the bank. He never retired or spent his money before he died. He was smart enough to save all that money on a janitors salary but not smart enough to realize he can't take it with him.[/QUOTE]Some people just have a different lifestyle. I have an uncle who's 80, he never married, did have a lot of women when he was younger but never mongered. He's now a millionaire, I doubt he can get it up as he never talks about women now when I ask him. He does drink a lot. He realizes that he can only spend a small fraction of his money before he dies. He has made a will leaving his apartment building and houses to his daughter and said he's dividing his money among his nieces and nephews. I have no problem spending my money on airline tickets, hotels, booze, good food and girls, girls, girls.

[QUOTE=Turgid;2795162]Some people just have a different lifestyle. I have an uncle who's 80, he never married, did have a lot of women when he was younger but never mongered. He's now a millionaire, I doubt he can get it up as he never talks about women now when I ask him. He does drink a lot. He realizes that he can only spend a small fraction of his money before he dies. He has made a will leaving his apartment building and houses to his daughter and said he's dividing his money among his nieces and nephews. I have no problem spending my money on airline tickets, hotels, booze, good food and girls, girls, girls.[/QUOTE]Your uncle isn't cleaning toilets when he has a couple million in the bank. This guy continued to work when he didn't need to. I guess he didn't like traveling but loved cleaning toilets.