December 5, the King's Birthday
Any one know what is closed and what is open in Bangkok on Wednesday, December 5, the King's Birthday?
Thanks for the assistance.
BKK field report - 8 outings from a newb
My last trip to BKK (October 2007) was an amazing experience, and a lot of it wouldn't have happened without information learned from this and other boards. In the spirit of giving something back, here's some info about my last trip, from a grateful newbie.
First outing: Akane Chitlom. I'm a complete newb walking in, with a married man's concerns about diseases and god knows what else. I'll be lucky to get off at all, I think. Well, no problem. I buy the "hand service" package since I'm scared of lip service at this point (disease), and choose Shizuka from a line up of 3 (I went right at 12 noon). Up we go, and within the first 15 minutes she has me clean as a whistle, and hard as a rock. It turns out I like the prostate massage (who knew), so round one happens on the shower table. Nice massage followed by round 2, and she is receptive to my concerns and also to what's working for me and what's not. FOr most of you, this is boring, but for me it was my first step over to the dark side. She tells me she's 26. 1100 baht, I tipped 500.
Second outing: Annie's. Knowing nothing, I went at 11AM. Yes, there are 1/2 dozen women there, but I can't call any of them "girls". The youngest and prettiest of them looks like she's about my age (44). I am up for new experiences today, so choose her (her name's Olive). She is very slender, and has a nice body, but let's face it, 40 is not 20 (she tells me she's 43). Still, she manages to give me a good hand job, but then massages me for the rest of the time. I was not assertive enough to tell her what I wanted. Still a bit timid after coming over to the dark side, I guess. I wouldn't call it a bad experience, but let's put it this way: I've not returned. 1500 baht, I tipped 300 (didn't have the heart to tip nothing, but should have).
Third outing: Back to Akane chitlom. Right after Annie's, I'm feeling a bit let down, and decide to take a chance. I have also decided to try the lip service (covered), having learned a bit more about disease last night on the web. From the lineup, I choose Rikka (or is it Rika). I know now she works from Akane 33, but for some reason she was at Chitlom that day. Well, this was a real treat. Firstly, she has a bit more meat on her than some (but not fat), and I like that in a girl.- gives her a fuller chest and a more grabbable butt. Secondly, I chose her based on her engaging me with her eyes and smile, and was rewarded with someone willing to put herself into it a lot more than Olive. As with Shizuka, service was professional and effective. Only one shot this time, but this was my "fault". I actually felt completely satisfied after 1, so just hugged and talked with her for a while. Very GFE. I think she's 24. About 1500 baht, I tipped 500.
Fourth outing: Akane Chitlom again, but this time for the "half and half" (2nd girl joins after 1/2 time). Chose Miyuki, but not much selection. She was the best looker available, but this turns out to have been a mistake, since she's not making eye contact. Very uninspired performance, all massage and virtually no play, saved only by Ai coming in at half time and getting the job done. Perhaps on a different day or with a different customer Miyuki would be better, but I won't be taking that chance. Too bad really, because Miyuki has a body type I find attractive. 1780 baht, I think, and I tipped 500 each. I clearly shouldn't have tipped Miyuki, but once again, I have chosen to solve this issue by simply not repeating my choice.
Fifth outing: Poseidon, in search of body slide. "No body slide here for 4 years", papasan tells me. Oh well. Still up for new experiences. Chose a nice looking 24 year old whose name I can't remember, but performance was uninspired, so no big deal about the name. Number was 211. Papasan tells me "great body, not good service", but I have not yet learned that Papa sometimes knows best. Still, all is not bad. In addition to a great body, this one has an education, or so she tells me. Bachelors degree in economics, and soon to start an MBA. True? Who knows. Still, her English was very good. Good enough that we spoke about a lot of subjects. She tells me she has 3. 4 customers per day, 6 days/wk. I figure out if she makes a total of 500 baht from each one (tip plus anything the house pays her? ), she's pulling in about 10, 000 baht per week, or about 40k/month (about $1200 US). I'm sure some earn much more, and I'm sure some earn much less. But if she is average, this is indeed a very good living for Bangkok. Over double what I've been told the average "middle" salary is for ordinary working people. I'm pleased to hear this, because I don't like the idea of plundering Bangkok's treasures unless they're doing well out of it too. A combination of CBJ and sex follows a great bath and an OK hand job, but the reality is that this girl really shouldn't be here because her mind's not in it (she's there to pay for school), and it comes through. The talk and snuggle was the best part. Funniest moment came when she commented on how tall I was, but thank goodness my penis wasn't too big. She meant it in a nice way, I know, but it was hilarious. Junior has never been so insulted 2500 baht, I tipped 500.
As an aside, I've discovered that I don't need the full 2 hours, or even 1. 5 hours (unless there's a lot of massage). For me, strange as it may sound, one shot plus a lot of cuddling and talking and laughing is enough. You may feel completely different, I suppose, but I've come to the conclusion that this is just fine. I felt a little self conscious coming back to the fish bowl room after only an hour. Do they think I can't perform? Are they wondering if I had a good time? Well, I did have a good time, and since I got what I wanted, I'm a happy customer. Still, I wonder what they really think.
Sixth outing: Akane Chitlom again, but this time with an appointment for Rikka (made at 2 hours notice, and she had to get there from 33 or wherever else she was). The GFE was so nice from Rikka that I wanted more. Chose the 1/2 and half option again, and it was up to the shower room. However, no pretense of massage this time! Having been chosen a 2nd time, she seems to understand that I want a bit more personal attention, and I get it. Back from the shower, we're both naked, and she's up on top of me in a flash, with only a bit of lotion between us. We have "outercourse", in which she basically uses her undercarriage and hands to get me off (with condom, at my request). My impression is that intercourse would have been possible, but I didn't ask. Ai came in at 3/4 time, but I was past the point of caring. Already in heaven. Had to ask both of them to quiet down and just lay down with me for a snuggle. They were all too happy to do it, with the usual "you happy I happy". 1780 baht, I tipped 500 to Ai, 1000 to Rikka (sorry guys, but to me, tipping is just a feel good thing, and I felt pretty good). I also tipped Mamasan 300 baht for the appointment at short notice, and I bought a big box of chocolates for all the girls to share (will they eat them or will they worry about getting fat. Not sure). I bought a small box for Rikka too. They all seemed genuinely touched by this small kindness.
Seventh outing: Nattaree. Aha. Finally a body-slide place. Actually, there seem to be two entrances to this place. The one on the left and the one on the right. The one on the left doesn't do body slide, but the one on the right does. I chose from the fish bowl with my eyes again, without consulting my brain. Mistake. Nutt was a stunner, but (it turns out) only doing it to support her child (husband died, I was told). Oh well. Into the bath, and OOOOH. Bloody freezing. It turns out the hot water heater wasn't working. Oh well, we do the best we can, but it was not fun having body slide while freezing cold from the bath! Uninspired hand, blow, and sex. 2000 Baht, tipped 500.
Eighth outing: Nattaree. Drawn back by the thought of a part timer. They're a lot younger than the fish bowl girls. I'd say 19. 22 rather than 24. 30+. Will this mean they have great bodies and lots of energy but no knowledge of what to do with a man's body? Only one way to find out, and how bad could it be, right? I turn up shortly after 1pm. Only 1 girl in the bowl (a fattie), and only one part timer. Clearly I've made a timing mistake. I decide to punt up to Poseidon and take a look at their 3rd floor. Phew, it's hot out. I'm sweating by the time I get there at 1:30PM. Still, the situation is as bad here. 2 in the bowl, and none (! ) in the 3rd floor. I sit for about 15 minutes drinking my drink, waiting for someone to arrive, but they don't. After a short trip to the men's room (there 's no ladies room), I decide to punt back down to Nattaree. I arrive there hot and sweaty, but it's now 2pm. Same girl still in the bowl, still all alone. But. Yahoo! There are now a couple dozen part timers. These young girls all look pretty, but I'm a little smarter than I used to be. I take a bit of time, and choose based on a combination of looks, smile, eye contact, and general "I'm interested in you" coming from the girl. Of the 25+ girls there, only about 5 meet the criteria. Papa comes to the rescue to help me choose. I say "how about that one", and he gives me his judgment. Finally, I choose a girl called "Wen", who seems genuinely pleased. I tip Papa 300 baht, which hopefully he'll remember next time. Into the room, and this girl is the first one I've had who just dives right in with the kissing and fondling. Even before the drink lady has been in. Enerjetic. Yes, I would say so. I'm smiling all over and standing at attention in moments. "You have chosen wisely my son", I think to myself.
Into the bath, and WTF. It's freezing cold again! Yes, I remember from last time, but I thought it was just that one room, or if not, then certainly just that one day. Well, apparently not. Still, being who I am, I have a giggle about it, and make some remark that it's a good thing the girl is so hot since the bath is cold. To be honest, she's a lot more freezing than me. No fat at that age! After getting clean (and cold), I decide to run this session rather than letting her run it as I have more or less done previously. Onto the bed.come and lay down with me and let's get warm, I ask. Why? I genuinely enjoy the snuggling as I've said previously, and I know I'm not going to be using all my time anyway (based on prior experience). She seems to love it, and I do to. Virtually no English in this girl, so I can have a nice conversation with myself, making all sorts of jokes about the situation, and she just smiles. For you, this might be a complete waste of time, but I loved it, and I'm a customer too. In fact, I think I'd love a LT experience sometime, but not on this trip, since I'm with my wife and daughter, and there's only so much lattitude I can expect from my wife! After a while of this, she expertly (at least by my standards) gives me what I would call a semi-CBJ.- bareback except for the tip, and condom going on at the last minute. Very nice, with lots of balls and ass play too. Did I mention this girl has a very nice, tight body with a great ass, which I play with a lot (not inside). She's concerned that my boobs are bigger than hers, but I tell her not to worry about that. I'm certainly not bothered about it. I preferred hers over mine. She would happily have put herself into it for the whole time, but once again, a good man knows what he wants, and I had had enough after about 75 minutes. She looked concerned, but I reassured her that all was well, and that we should just cuddle for a while. Cost 2600 baht. I tipped 1000.
My indoctrination into the dark side is far from complete, but what a fantastic time I had. I hope whoever is reading this can put some of this information to use, and have a great time in BKK. TO end off, I'll add this:
There's sex, and then there's having a good time. From the very start, I knew I wanted to have a good time, and try some sex too. I got that, by and large. But if I had been focused on just how good the sex was, only half of my outings would count as good ones.
These girls are human beings. If you can make one laugh or feel good. Please do. I did, and it brought me a lot of pleasure to do so. A little kindness goes a long way. Almost right from the beginning, I decided to do a bit of good for each girl, even if it was just making them laugh. There's great therapy in that.
As a customer, I bore ultimate responsibility for getting what I wanted. In those cases where I didn't, I was still able to have a good time, but I voted with my feet (ie: didn't come back to same girl or place).
I also had my limits as to what I wanted to do or what I wanted the girl to do. In my case, this was really a health issue. If there were no STD's, I'd be in there like a shot with DATY, bum licking, and bareback everything. But for me, that's not a reality. My limits evolved during the trip as I became more knowledgable. I decided I would not allow the girl's juices (of any kind) inside my body. That meant no DATY, covered sex/BJ, and so on. All the girls were fine with my limits. Some would clearly have gone outside those limits if I wanted them to. But my health is up to me, and I hope I've chosen wisely.
In the West, we think of hookers as being part of a "meat market", and that's true. However, these girls all had good self esteem, all seemed well in control of every situation (well, except for making the water hot at Nattaree), and I never felt I was putting them in a dishonorable or repulsive situation. I've never tried a hooker in the West. Perhaps it is the same. But here, these are real people doing a job, some better than others, some liking it more than others. But it's job for them, and they are professionals. We are (or at least I am) the amateur, the one out on a limb.
I just gotta endorse he "cuddle factor". Having a young, beautiful, willing girl (or two) cuddled up before or after sex, it has to be one of the best feelings in the world. Hopefully people won't get too caught up in just coming to orgasm. At least for me, there's a lot more to it than that. Even scampering around at Akane from the slightly grotty rooms to the slightly grotty shower can be fun. If accompanied by the right girl (s).
Impressions: I enjoyed Akane, particularly Rikka, Ai, and Shizuka. I didn't like Annie's. I really liked the part timer (Wen) at Nattaree. Poseidon had the best rooms. Annie's had the worst rooms. Akane's were "ok", but the girls made up for it. Eye contact, expressed interest, and smile, are much more important than how the girl looks, but if careful about timing and choosing, you can have both!
I will do my best to answer questions, if anyone has any.
Gherkin
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