Seeking Arrangements

100% agree. It is the variety and wanting something new.

I have a mental roster of girls I bang (real roster is risky). Sometimes I wonder if something is wrong with me but then, I go back right to it.

Oddly though, there are few girls (particularly in Europe) I keep going back to because they are super nice persons to beginwith. So, they have breached the barrier and moved into friends with benefits category.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2956900]I don't know. I think a lot comes down to just wanting variety. I often see a girl who's pudgy or maybe just has one asset on her I find attractive. I wouldn't like her long term. But I'd do her in a minute once or twice just because she'd be new and different. And I had pretty hot girlfriends in my twenties who after a year of dating just became the girl I was banging and I over noticed any flaws they had. I think this is how it goes for a lot of us. It's the excitement of new.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2956900] I often see a girl who's pudgy or maybe just has one asset on her I find attractive. I wouldn't like her long term. But I'd do her in a minute once or twice just because she'd be new and different. [/QUOTE]Life is too short to be with fatties or fugglies. Unless they pay you?? I do not mind asking women this if they are not my type, because I would need to be compensated. I do not wrestle outside of my weight class. And my car has a bumper sticker saying, "No Fat Chicks, Will Scrape!" Used to be if a woman was really butt ugly we could put a bag over their head and fuck them doggie style, but now most women complain about that.

I have had a couple women that I put a pink dog collar around their neck and attached it to a pink leather leash I bought from Petsmart. They thought it was a fetish, but I really wanted to see them crawl on the floor on all fours to my bedroom like a dog. True!

Question for the older guys: how do you usually finish? I've been going bb with the same girl and can't finish with a condom on anymore. She's not on bc so cip is no go. Recently been CIM, her on BJ and using my hand but worried I'll get or already have death grip and not be able to finish cip anymore.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2957169]Question for the older guys: how do you usually finish? I've been going bb with the same girl and can't finish with a condom on anymore. She's not on bc so cip is no go. Recently been CIM, her on BJ and using my hand but worried I'll get or already have death grip and not be able to finish cip anymore.[/QUOTE]Not quite sure what your question is, but blindly offer the following:

It's relatively common in older guys to not shoot a load from pure fucking. Even bareback. Odd but true.

BJ is absolutely key. Have to have a great warm up BJ. If it's good enough then may be able to finish fucking. If it's not enough then stop fucking and have interim BJ and then finish with fucking or CIM. All good. This is the way a lot of guys go.

If I REALLY can't cum say from fucking 8 girls in three days 😝 then her doing BLS and me on hand work is the ticket. Almost never fails.

Back on the BJ point. My girl Fuck Bunny was not much of a BJer and that made it hard to finish sometimes. My girl Hood Girl I trained up on BJ and wow what a difference an EXCELLENT BJ makes. Night and day.

I try not to bang any girl that doesn't make me want to cream by just looking at her. Makes me really picky and have a mediocre pull rate from even an FKK or big soapy. Also means I pay more than most I just pay less often. I'm prediabetic and never had ED problems with condoms until my late 40's. Now it's about 50/50 and I don't like the ED pills because they cheapen the intensity of the nut. I won't go bare unless I've been with her for a while (sb), never with a straight prostitute, it's not worth my health.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2957170]Not quite sure what your question is, but blindly offer the following:

It's relatively common in older guys to not shoot a load from pure fucking. Even bareback. Odd but true.

BJ is absolutely key. Have to have a great warm up BJ. If it's good enough then may be able to finish fucking. If it's not enough then stop fucking and have interim BJ and then finish with fucking or CIM. All good. This is the way a lot of guys go.

If I REALLY can't cum say from fucking 8 girls in three days 😝 then her doing BLS and me on hand work is the ticket. Almost never fails.

Back on the BJ point. My girl Fuck Bunny was not much of a BJer and that made it hard to finish sometimes. My girl Hood Girl I trained up on BJ and wow what a difference an EXCELLENT BJ makes. Night and day.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2957169]Question for the older guys: how do you usually finish?[/QUOTE]Yes. If she is on Birth Control then its a free shot, CIP or anywhere I want. If the pussy is big and I do not want it, then CIM.

If she is not on BC then cum outside is the answer. Unless you want to pay child support for 18 years. When you are dead, then it stops but a child could inherit from your estate, so watch out.

[QUOTE=HumbleHal;2957226]Yes. If she is on Birth Control then its a free shot, CIP or anywhere I want. If the pussy is big and I do not want it, then CIM.

If she is not on BC then cum outside is the answer. Unless you want to pay child support for 18 years. When you are dead, then it stops but a child could inherit from your estate, so watch out.[/QUOTE]I hope this isn't too personal a question. If you're an older guy, presumably you don't want to start a new 18 year clock by having kids. But you like to go bare (which I am on the record as saying is a bad idea with girls you pay for sex but that's a different topic entirely). But my question is why not cut your tubes and eliminate the possibility entirely of an unwanted pregnancy at this stage in your life?

Just turned 41. Not sure if that is old.

No ED issues. Used Cialis a couple times, just to feel how it is. But felt less orgasm and a slight headache next day. So, no more.

Here is my order.

1. Vet the girl and filter out. Test results. So, my conversion ratio is low but a price I am willing to pay.

2. Pull out and finish elsewhere, mostly tummy or boobs even if she says she is on BC.

3. Once I gain trust, there are occasions I CIP but it's rare.

4. Enjoy a really good CIM if in the mood for it.

So, 70% finish elsewhere, 20% CIM, 10% CIP.

CIP is mostly with girls I have known for 3 years and have IUD. There was one occasion of CIP with a girl in California. But I felt nervous next day. So, stopped doing it early on until I have trust that she is genuinely on a reliable form of BC.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2957169]Question for the older guys: how do you usually finish? I've been going bb with the same girl and can't finish with a condom on anymore. She's not on bc so cip is no go. Recently been CIM, her on BJ and using my hand but worried I'll get or already have death grip and not be able to finish cip anymore.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2957351]Just turned 41. Not sure if that is old.

No ED issues. Used Cialis a couple times, just to feel how it is. But felt less orgasm and a slight headache next day. So, no more.

Here is my order.

1. Vet the girl and filter out. Test results. So, my conversion ratio is low but a price I am willing to pay.

2. Pull out and finish elsewhere, mostly tummy or boobs even if she says she is on BC.

3. Once I gain trust, there are occasions I CIP but it's rare.

4. Enjoy a really good CIM if in the mood for it.

So, 70% finish elsewhere, 20% CIM, 10% CIP.

CIP is mostly with girls I have known for 3 years and have IUD. There was one occasion of CIP with a girl in California. But I felt nervous next day. So, stopped doing it early on until I have trust that she is genuinely on a reliable form of BC.[/QUOTE]Ima going to call you a youngster. Take your age. Add my standard GF age and you have my age. LOL.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2957359]Ima going to call you a youngster. Take your age. Add my standard GF age and you have my age. LOL.[/QUOTE]Hahah no wonder girls are attracted to you, you have an amazing sense of humour.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2957170]Not quite sure what your question is, but blindly offer the following:

It's relatively common in older guys to not shoot a load from pure fucking. Even bareback. Odd but true.

BJ is absolutely key. Have to have a great warm up BJ. If it's good enough then may be able to finish fucking. If it's not enough then stop fucking and have interim BJ and then finish with fucking or CIM. All good. This is the way a lot of guys go.

If I REALLY can't cum say from fucking 8 girls in three days 😝 then her doing BLS and me on hand work is the ticket. Almost never fails.

Back on the BJ point. My girl Fuck Bunny was not much of a BJer and that made it hard to finish sometimes. My girl Hood Girl I trained up on BJ and wow what a difference an EXCELLENT BJ makes. Night and day.[/QUOTE]I was worried I wouldn't be able to CIP since I've been finishing myself and CIM recently. And that seems to have killed any chance of finishing in a condom anymore. Even when I could finish in a condom it was a lot more effort though. Good to know it's normal for it to get harder to finish even bb inside. I've pulled out once for a back shot but it makes me nervous I won't time it right and the first little squirt will still be inside.

Are any of you snipped?

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2957415]I was worried I wouldn't be able to CIP since I've been finishing myself and CIM recently. And that seems to have killed any chance of finishing in a condom anymore. Even when I could finish in a condom it was a lot more effort though. Good to know it's normal for it to get harder to finish even bb inside. I've pulled out once for a back shot but it makes me nervous I won't time it right and the first little squirt will still be inside.

Are any of you snipped?[/QUOTE]Pulling out is not a reliable form of contraception, based on numerous studies finding that pre-ejaculate fluid often, though not always, contains sperm. Despite the prior mistaken belief that urinating in between orgasms would flush sperm from the urethra, thereby eliminating the problem. If I wanted to avoid pregnancy, I would never rely solely on that method. Where's Wes tried that, and even had the girl take the morning after pill, and she STILL got pregnant. I don't think that speaks very highly of the method. Granted, if you are 60+, the quality and quantity of your sperm has probably deteriorated so badly that it may not matter. I am not 60+.

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2957336]I hope this isn't too personal a question ... But my question is why not cut your tubes and eliminate the possibility entirely of an unwanted pregnancy at this stage in your life?[/QUOTE]Yes, it's personal, but funny now in hindsight.

In 1995 I went to the urologist to get a vasectomy after 2 kids. While in the back examination room, a fairly pretty, young woman came in, unannounced, in street clothes, and pulled down my zipper and started massaging my nut sack. She did not say who she was, nor what she was doing, nor was she wearing a white coat or uniform, nor was there another person in the exam room.

Then the doctor came in. I asked him, what was that fairly attractive young women doing to me, playing with my scrotum, did he know? He said that was his Physicians Assistant and she was checking to see if my sperm cord was long enough to pull through a slit and cauterize. Then he said he would not do the surgery because I had some emotional issues. Fuck him. Would have done his PA if she would have kept playing with me!

So later I have had 2 women approach me, wanting me to sire children with them. Neither one was wife material, but they were both very serious about it. One was my attractive banker, who knew I had some money in my accounts, and wanted me to sign a co-parenting agreement with her and make a baby. The other was a long-time very cute lady friend of age 40 that had been interested in me for 20 years, but was too independent to make wife material or live with.

Recently I have met a couple of sugar babies that would make good babies, both in their mid 20's and both slightly confused, which is what I like. I could probably make babies with either, if I wanted. Time will tell. All is good. Abraham had kids with Sarah when they were 100 so maybe I will. Alla Akbar.

[QUOTE=HumbleHal;2957545]Yes, it's personal, but funny now in hindsight.

In 1995 I went to the urologist to get a vasectomy after 2 kids. While in the back examination room, a fairly pretty, young woman came in, unannounced, in street clothes, and pulled down my zipper and started massaging my nut sack. She did not say who she was, nor what she was doing, nor was she wearing a white coat or uniform, nor was there another person in the exam room.

Then the doctor came in. I asked him, what was that fairly attractive young women doing to me, playing with my scrotum, did he know? He said that was his Physicians Assistant and she was checking to see if my sperm cord was long enough to pull through a slit and cauterize. Then he said he would not do the surgery because I had some emotional issues. Fuck him. Would have done his PA if she would have kept playing with me!

So later I have had 2 women approach me, wanting me to sire children with them. Neither one was wife material, but they were both very serious about it. One was my attractive banker, who knew I had some money in my accounts, and wanted me to sign a co-parenting agreement with her and make a baby. The other was a long-time very cute lady friend of age 40 that had been interested in me for 20 years, but was too independent to make wife material or live with.

Recently I have met a couple of sugar babies that would make good babies, both in their mid 20's and both slightly confused, which is what I like. I could probably make babies with either, if I wanted. Time will tell. All is good. Abraham had kids with Sarah when they were 100 so maybe I will. Alla Akbar.[/QUOTE]That's interesting. Thanks for sharing. It kind of amounts to your saying well, never say never. Leave a back window open.

I don't know how old you are. I'm mid 40's. I also have 2 kids. After that, and I love them, but I'm not looking to start the clock over again. I don't want to be going to kindergarten plays at 60. It's ok to close one chapter of life and open a new one. Only reason I don't get snipped is I'm married so it'd be super suspicious. And anyways I'm a huge proponent of using condoms when banging girls you're paying for sex.

I know it's odd but after a multi day multi girl seeking trip I always have that outside fear that in 3 months I'll get a call from some faraway girl saying she's pregnant. And I'll have to basically say look my sperm is already weak and we always used a condom so it's not me. But the fear is always there. Just a little bit.

[QUOTE=GoingDumb;2957169]Question for the older guys: how do you usually finish? I've been going bb with the same girl and can't finish with a condom on anymore. She's not on bc so cip is no go. Recently been CIM, her on BJ and using my hand but worried I'll get or already have death grip and not be able to finish cip anymore.[/QUOTE]I've been doing pull-out since probably my 20's, so either I have a low sperm count, or I just lucked out for close to 30 years. I get a feeling when I'm about to go and make sure I'm clear at least 2-3 seconds before. If I'm going a second round I'll usually wash off with soap when I go to the washroom. As someone else pointed out, just peeing is not a guarantee, but so far, so good.