Chancedh Report: indeed a chance to possibly waste your cash
I've been lurking for a couple of years and never posted mainly because I don't monger as much as I used to. But I hit a dry spell and decided to shell out cash for a Korean DH spot mentioned here that I was looking at for a while--chancedh. Well, the staff on the phone were very nice. My japanese is not perfect but good enough to get most things done, and when there was difficulty the mama-san was helpful and patient. Away, I didn't want any more than a 80 minute course (their lowest amount of time) but for whatever reason they claimed they could only offer a 100 minute course. So that plus a 5,000 taxi fee... but I have the cash and I wanted to give them a try so I bit the bullet and accepted the total 30,000 fee. About 45 minutes later the girl arrives (Jennifer) and she's ok but nothing like the website photo, but that's cool, I understand that part of the game, and she was decent enough looking. Just keep in mind that the stunner you see by the name of Jennifer on the site does not exist except in the mind of the photoshopper who designed that grand illusion. Anyway, from minute one this chick clearly illustrated that she did not want to be there. I would have sent her away, but I was at first mistaking her attitude for just nervousness. Nope. She gets in, and before even saying hello, how are you, what's your name she goes "pay first?" with a semi-serious/concerned look. Now I've done all kind of mongering over the years, so I don't need pampering, but I figure since we're gonna be together for the next 100 minutes she could be a little more personable. I live in an upscale neighborhood, I was dressed well and well groomed, so the nervousness on her part was kind of weird to me.Anyway, I gave her the cash and then chatted her up for about five minutes after which she abruptly asked if we could go to the shower. I was not really into her at this point and had been trying to melt the ice around her first before getting started, but again I just decided to go with the flow and we when to the shower. Nice body, not amazing, but nice, about a 6.5, if her attitude was better I might have overlooked the scars on her belly and arm and leg and gave her a 7, but alas...She initiated no real intimate contact other than robotically grabbing the privates for washing. After about 2 minutes of this I told her it was ok, I could wash myself. I did try to wash her a bit (again, trying to melt the ice), but while she didn't stop me, she was quite unresponsive. So we finish quickly, hit the bed and she proceeds to covered BJ. I couldn't believe this crap. If I want covered bj (basically ineffective for me) I can just wack one out myself to a video. Needless to say there was no kissing or any other intimacy beyond my snacking on her tits a bit. Anyway, after that she switches positions so we can commence FS. At this point I'm actually a little shocked, I was starting to think she was going to do all kind of non-sex gymnastics just to finally tell me no FS. But to my surprise we were off the the races. Admittedly, for a session with a chick who didn't seem happy at all, she was relatively wet and tight and gave decent enough FS that I came after about 10-15 minutes. Whoa, my mistake. While I'm still laying there breathing heavy from the session and trying to get my wits back, she's already off the bed and asking me to come to the shower again. I'm like, damn, this chick really doesn't want to be here. I finally grew a pair and told her to hold on, while I rested a bit. She sat back down and basically ignored me watching TV while I sat there looking at her back wondering why I suddenly felt that I had to freaking seduce a chick I had just paid. After about 5 minutes I tell her ok, let's hit the shower. We do, same situation as before, nothing erotic or vaguely intimate. Then while still in the shower she tells me, 'I have to hurry, there is a taxi waiting for me.' I raise my eyebrows and say, 'Uhm, I paid for the 100 minutes course, you've only been here about 30 minutes' At which point she tells me that the 100 minutes includes the travel time it took her to get my apartment. ???!!!!! She actually said that BS. I tell here, NO, I 'know' that's not true. I told her, 'I don't pay for 'your' time, I pay for 'my' time.' She seems to realize her slick hustle logic wouldn't work and dropped it. We go back in the bedroom and she sits there naked again ignoring me watching tv. Again I'm thinking, 'really?' I've got to seduce some girl that's being paid to be here??? Well, like I said, I'm an experienced mongerer, so while I've actually seduced (or whatever you want to call it) my share of paid ladies from being sour into being happy, 1)this girl was not hot enough to warrant such a hail mary act, 2)despite my service request, I actually wasn't feeling 'that' hard up, & 3)she had yet to show even one chink in her armor of 'I don't really want to be here.' especially after the hustle attempt regarding the 100 minute course. I felt that attempt was over the top and borderline grounds for calling up the mama-san to get some of my cash back. But I didn't go there, when it comes to mongering I found that it's best to be extremely mellow in all dealings.So instead of trying to get her to change her mind I decided to just ask her, 'Do you not like foreigners?' She said, no, that's not it. Ok. 'Do you feel uncomfortable here for some reason? Because you really don't seem like you like being here at all.' Again, she goes, 'No, I'm ok.' So it's at that point I decide, ok, let's take her at face value and let's give this another whirl. I ask to come lay next to me. She ignores me (she spoke good english, so no communication problem). I look at her back knowing she heard me and say again, nicely and softly, hey, why don't you come lay next to me. She reluctantly comes, keeping her back to me while watching tv (I know, turn it off, but really, it was the only thing saving the episode from turning ugly). So I'm rubbing her shoulder and I then I give her nipple a lick and she shrugs me off. Hmmm... ok, now I'm actually getting a little ticked off. I say to her, again softly and playfully, 'hey, I want to play some more.' I didn't say 'what' I wanted to do, I just said 'play.' She turns around with a serious look and tells me that I only get one pop for the 100 minute course. I tell her that she has a lot more time left so we should do 'something'. She just clams up. The experienced monger in me told me that I had just been 'kinda' hustled and possibly dissed (though it's never good to take any mongering episode personally, it really is mostly business wrapped in emotional / sensual / sexual pretty wrapping). So I decided to cut bait and get on with my life immediately. I told her that I was not mad, but that I could tell she didn't want to be here, so she could leave now. Oddly enough, she starts protesting as if there's some argument to be had about time and courses, and I tell her very softly 'I don't want to talk about the time, it's OK. you can leave now, no problem.' It's important for me to stress that I said all this to her softly and nicely so as not to escalate things in any way. So she realizes I'm serious, gets out the bed, puts her clothes on and leaves. Good riddance.Back story on the girl: She said she had just gotten to Japan a month ago and that's why she could speak 'no' Japanese, only english and korean. She planned to only stay in the japan for a couple of months to make cash and then go back to korea. Which really makes me wonder what's going on in korea. the service price of kdh is not 'that' premium, so it seems odd that the korean girls would have to leave a relatively rich nation like south korean just to hook out here in japan. My verdict on Chancedh: Although I appreciated the niceness of the mama-san, and the girl was not bad looking, the fact that I was compelled to choose a higher priced/longer course than I had wanted, and then didn't even get the full impact of the extra time leaves me feeling a bit scorched. I think if you have some sort of specific yearning for korean girls and have money to blow, it's only a decent deal, certainly not amazing or noteworthy. For 30,000 I definitely expect some GFE, and what I got was pretty much the opposite. p.s. To any dissenters regarding chancedh, I won't begrudge you your disagreement, we all have different experiences. But keep in mind that I've been lurking here for over two years, have been mongering for at least 15 years, and this is the first time I've 'ever' posted a negative experience on an escort anywhere, which should give you some idea of the level of dissatisfaction that prompted this admittedly overlong and over-detailed screed.[size=-2][b][u]EDITOR'S NOTE[/u]:[/b] [blue]I would suggest that the author or another Forum Member consider posting a link to this report in the Reports of Distinction thread. Please [url=http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/announcement-reportsofdistinction.php?]Click Here[/url] for more information.[/blue][/size]