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[QUOTE=JustTK;2833575]It is a corrupt plutocracy, where the people are brainwashed in to thinking they are winners. You response shows me that you are victim of that propaganda.
"prostitutes societal losers" - its not how I view them. I will not save them bcos I do not view them as needing to be saved. They provide a good service and I pay them for that. Just like my maid and my car mechanic.[/QUOTE]If it was a tennis match: Game to Mr. JustTK. That would make Mr. LIT the loser. LOL!
[QUOTE=JustTK;2833525]If you want to make it about you. But I am unsure how you could be a single mother or a mother in a relationship.[/QUOTE]TK, we are on the same page. You said a single mother can have a partner, and that is what I am.
Mr. E has a twisted view of children and marriage after his own. The whole notion a single woman is dumb for having a child (unless the father died) is typical for him. He is breaking down a very complex issue, a woman's decision to have a child or not, into one that is black and white.
He described a twisted relationship with his ex-wife and children and IMO because of that, when he speaks on these subjects, logic goes off the deep end.
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2833587]TK, we are on the same page. You said a single mother can have a partner, and that is what I am.
Mr. E has a twisted view of children and marriage after his own. The whole notion a single woman is dumb for having a child (unless the father died) is typical for him. He is breaking down a very complex issue, a woman's decision to have a child or not, into one that is black and white.
He described a twisted relationship with his ex-wife and children and IMO because of that, when he speaks on these subjects, logic goes off the deep end.[/QUOTE]Elvis these guys hate everything, unless it is free and if it requires hard work they are totally against it.
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2833299]MB, I had to read what the dispute between you and JJBee was it. It was in one of his novels, and I passed it by.
FWIW, I actually think it belongs here but not because of the reason he said. I don't remember if you recall this, but the beauty queen fucked me and then engaged in some immature behavior.
Do you know how you said a 20 year old wants this age and a 40 year old wants this kind of a guy this age or something like that? Thing is I know now the 22 year old BQ may have been 42 when it came to so many other things but she was 12 when it came to relationships. She was in the Disney phase of white knights, unicorns, and rainbow farts. Thing is when you are dealing with a girl who expects a white knight and happily ever after, you have to coax them into letting go of those dreams, and that is hard, and I really do not like doing that. I want a woman who sees me and the help I can give her realistically instead of expecting me to behave like some white knight out of a Disney movie.
So in this case with regards to maturity, there are two kinds of women: those with the image of a male Disney hero in their mind and those realistic about men. The former can be any age even into their 40's and above, and the latter can be very young. I actually was surprised to see that the most realistic young women in the USA come from the drug culture. I guess you lose your idealism quickly in that world.
Thing is what do you know about JJBee really? This guy spends a year in Colombia getting drunk in dive bars every night, is not only penniless but gets himself into deeper and deeper debt, hangs out with people for the purpose of hitting them up for money, was led on by a cam girl, and what does he say about it? It was the greatest year of his life. Even when JJBee was in Colombia spreading Covid, he and his buddy V were spinning it in a positive way.
So JJBee can put a positive spin on anything. And he has someone 19 or whatever versus my 34 not that he is competing? Cough, cough. But you know where she is at on the Disney scale. She is in the front row of the church of rainbow farts, unicorns, and white knights, and JJBee, Mr. Positive (I repeat cough, cough) has convinced this young thing that he is her white knight and for now, it is clear that she believes it.
So you should care but not for the reasons he gives. The fun part is what happens next. Will the white knight stroke out or his knees give out to worsening arthritis, will our fair maiden wake up to reality, or will they live happily ever after? And that is where I disagree with you MB. I think we both know the ending but watching what almost certainly will be a train wreck is IMO must see tv.[/QUOTE]I don't think we are in disagreement, Elvis. I'm not sure how he fits the Disney hero / white knight image, but I'm sure their so called "relationship" won't last long. If my memory serves me well, they have had brake ups in the past. She is too young and immature, he is too old for her and beat up by life, they can't have a meaningful relationship just because they both listen to Carol G or love ice cream, or whatever small things they have in common.
A 34 yo old mature woman, with a kid, education and career can't be compared to a 19 yo who literally is just starting out her adult life, if we are talking about a relationship. The former is a wife material, while the latter is a sex toy one uses to satisfy his sexual needs for money.
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2830069]I think it is funny a hypocritical [b]loser[/b] like you claims to eschew ad hominems and that is all you fucking do.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2830069]And by all means, tune out the [b]losers[/b] like yourself who say it cannot be done and pussy is pussy.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2828351]Those two statements show you to be a [b]loser[/b] that Mr. E has not just beaten but beaten to a pulp. Still, you are so busy arguing to argue, you don't even see how dumb you are being.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2825778]]Rice Rocket, Sang, Don Carlos, and I have hit the ball out of the park and instead of asking how we have done it, all you fucking [b]losers[/b] do is accuse us of being liars.[/QUOTE]All of the quotes listed have been written in reply to posts I have made in this particular thread. I am being defined as a loser based on a personal definition that the writer has and he is consistently using the word incorrectly.
[QUOTE=RamDavidson84;2833372]You should always try to put yourself in someone else's shoes.[/QUOTE]I can agree with your statement in principle but with someone like Elvis 2008 I wouldn't want to put myself in his shoes. An angry man attacking everyone who does not think or do what he does. Very narrow minded view of the world in my opinion. But when you think like a hammer as he does then everything appears to be a nail. Hard to believe I share a state in the (Dis) United States of America with him.
[QUOTE=RamDavidson84;2833372]From a biological perspective, humans are social animals and the instinct for a social hierarchy has always and will always exist. It is this instinct which leads us to the labels of winners and losers. It's not healthy to lose touch with the realities of the human condition.[/QUOTE]And therein lies the rub. You are dead on point. But Elvis 2008 uses the word loser (and he does not use it just with me. He is an equal opportunity attacker of all who do not think like he does) improperly. According to him everyone who is not fucking Beauty Queens is a loser. Never mind if you are fucking and your dick is happy with who you are fucking.
[B]Loser[/B] - [I]a person or thing that loses or has lost something, especially a game or contest.[/I].
I don't know about you, but for me I have been a loser on the sport field. You know games and when play a game I don't like to lose. But life is not a game, but it can be a contest. And it can get deadly. Depending upon the contest you have entered. And for those who have agreed to step into the line of fire at some point in their lives and lived to tell about it knows that "[I]It pays to be a winner[/I]".
We are in the forum to share information about having sex with girls. There is no contest. If you fuck you are a winner. Let me say that again: [B]If you fuck you are a winner![/B] Because [B]Pussy is Pussy![/B] People can argue with me until "my goats come home". But anyone who is not obsessed with dicks of other people knows that the pleasure received from a girl who lets you have access to their mouth, pussy or ass is received in private (unless you are into doing that with people watching). And when she gives you an orgasm, the dopamine hit you experience is yours and yours alone. And may I ask, who does not enjoy busting a nut? For me it does not matter the numerical ranking that some other man wishes to put on her, nor does it matter how much I paid or did not pay her. That nut is the best nut I ever busted. At least until I bust my next one.
I have been in airports and seen greetings. Especially between military personal and their loved ones waiting for their return. Those are joyful occasions that light up the entire area and cause smiles to everyone. Not a single moment of jealousy. Who in the fuck is so self involved that they think other people are looking at them in the airport in their moment of being greeted that others are jealous of them? That is an exercise I leave to my many readers. All through that airport many of those greetings are occurring at all levels of PDA based on the personalities of the individuals involved. Some of you guys posting up in here calling people losers and stupid and dumb need to do some deep self evaluation and figure out why they are so angry with themselves and others.
[B]Loser[/B] - [I]a person or thing that loses or has lost something, especially a game or contest.[/I].
Those who use the world incorrectly, lose the meaning of it. They have so much self loathing and hate that they use it to strike out at others instead using in the context of its proper meaning. After you win, you do not call your opponent a loser. You shake the hand of your opponent and you thank him for the competition. Because the willingness to step into the arena and compete has made you both better men. I look at a Tennis final. And you see at the end the difference in the Trophy's handed out. The difference in the amount of money awarded. And you can see that it pays to be a winner. But is the other person really a loser?
Sex is not a competition. Especially recreational sex. You make the argument that if your are trying to improve your family at the DNA level that is important. I'm not trying to do that at this point in my life. I've done it already. I'm trying to keep my legacy alive so they can further the achievements I have already made in this world. So I don't have to call anyone a loser, stupid or dumb to feel better about myself. I am not in competition for pussy with anyone posing here on ISG nor with any man or lesbian seeking it out in the entire world. I got friends that hook me up with mother fucking pussy! Compete. If your friends are not hooking you up with pussy, you mother fuckers need to get some friends like I got. Cause when I fuck, all my friends going to fuck. And when they fuck, all their friends fuck. It is not my girl. It is only my time. And I am here to say that when anyone posing in this thread busts a nut. The are a winner!
[B]Pussy is Pussy[/B]
[I]How you like me now?[/I]
[QUOTE=LoveItHere;2833521]You missed the part where Mr. E was corrected on this same stupid statement just last week? Pay attention to all the escort ads to the left, right, top, and bottom. The site states "sex" not "relationship" or "GF", etc. Read the tag line. I will start it for you: "Money is the world's." Please show links to posts where guys have found their wives here. OK I will accept just one.[/QUOTE]So Facebook is a site about Errctile Dysfunction, Scuba and outdoor gear? Those are the ads I see there.
This is an adult oriented website, which is a shrinking niche market. Adult services advertise here because they're more likely to find potential customers. If you look, somewhere near most major US airports you'll find a strip club. Are airports about naked girls giving lap dances? No. But the strip club owners know a lot of business travelers might have a pocket full of cash and a few hours to kill. Here are thousands of pre-qualified potential customers. They travel internationally and they want to get laid.
People have been talking about non-pros for as long as ISG has existed. Frequently people talk about getting free sex. LatinaLover just wrote that he's found himself a wife here. Slapshot wrote extensively about his girlfriend and their adventures during the pandemic. Every few weeks someone is asking about meeting regular girls to date.
While most here are just looking for quick, affordable sex, many are also interested in moving beyond the prostitutes.
"Money is the world's greatest aphrodisiac".
Open your mind. There are many ways to use money to get sex. However, for straight P4 P, it's not much of an aphrodisiac. The girl doesn't necessarily want to spend time with you. She wants to spend time with your money. Her good time begins when your good time ends and you hand her the cash.
However, put on good clothes, drive a nice car, spend money in nice places and you'll find women who are excited to be with you. Some are playing the long game, others are looking for the quick thrills, exotic trips, shopping sprees, expensive meals.
As soon as you leave the airport in Colombia, you become more attractive to almost all women. Even though your income may be modest, it's still riches to them. Now it's truly an aphrodisiac. Instead of ordering burgers at McDonald's, someone wants to cook for you.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2833642]I don't think we are in disagreement, Elvis.[/QUOTE]No, we are not. Only difference is I want to hear about the relationship, and you, and I totally get why, do not.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2833642]I'm not sure how he fits the Disney hero / white knight image, but I'm sure their so called "relationship" won't last long.[/QUOTE]If she is even a middle class woman in Colombia being treated to vacations and nice restaurants, you can imagine how special she is going to feel especially at her age when she is doing that and her peers are not. Eventually though as a guy, you run out of magic tricks and the girl is going to look at who you really are, and in this case an old man. Other thing is the guy is going to be fed up as his tricks do not work as well on her and wants to move onto someone new.
You know the talk about the crazier they are, the better they are in bed? Well, there is a basis to that. I do not know this woman at all, but given JJBee's ego, he is a sucker for a borderline. [URL]https://www.verywellmind.com/devaluation-and-idealization-in-bpd-425291[/URL].
Idealization reduces anxiety by protecting the person from emotional conflicts that might emerge in a relationship.
Rather than deal with the fear that the other person isn't perfect or that the relationship might not work out, idealization allows them to keep the fantasy of perfection intact.
It's common with borderline personality disorder for a person to idealize a friend, family member, or loved one. End of link.
The catch phrase for borderlines is I love you, I hate you, do not leave me. You have never been loved like when a borderline loves you, and you feel like a white knight but when it turns to hate, you will be in the darkest hole you have ever been in. Thing is borderlines are usually really attractive and very giving in bed. They are the trickiest to spot because they not only will pass all your red flag tests but those of your friends and family. I do not know if this chick is borderline but like 6% of the population is.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2833642]If my memory serves me well, they have had brake ups in the past.[/QUOTE]And you would expect that with a borderline too. You leave them, which kills them emotionally, and then they go back to the idealization and love to get you back. Then even the most innocent thing triggers them and they go back to hate mode.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2833642]She is too young and immature, he is too old for her and beat up by life, they can't have a meaningful relationship just because they both listen to Carol G or love ice cream, or whatever small things they have in common.A 34 yo old mature woman, with a kid, education and career can't be compared to a 19 yo who literally is just starting out her adult life, if we are talking about a relationship. The former is a wife material, while the latter is a sex toy one uses to satisfy his sexual needs for money.
[/QUOTE]The first time I met my gal's daughter I liked her and vice versa. My gal goes to the bathroom, and I ask the daughter, "How many of your mother's boyfriends have you met?" She said, "Just you. " That is when the light bulb went off and I was like, "Okay, now, I get why she likes and wants me. " What we have most in common is giving the best life for her daughter.
So a 25 year old who has a 9 year old kid working since age 16 is going to be attracted to a man who can help her out of her rough life. OTOH, I have met Colombian women in their mid 20's who have not dated much and live at home. I would have a much better shot at the former than the latter especially if the single mother had a great looking BF who was the kid's father and turned out to be a no good bum. That single mother is done with the irresponsible young pretty boys. With them, it is how can you help me with my kid and their future?
I know on the market value scale women without kids trump those with them, and I get why. Thing is I like women as nurturers and can usually tell just by how a woman touches me if she is a mother or not. And some of the best looking women I have met are single moms, so it is not quite the negative for me it has been with other guys.
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2833299]MB, I had to read what the dispute between you and JJBee was it. It was in one of his novels, and I passed it by.
FWIW, I actually think it belongs here but not because of the reason he said. I don't remember if you recall this, but the beauty queen fucked me and then engaged in some immature behavior.
Do you know how you said a 20 year old wants this age and a 40 year old wants this kind of a guy this age or something like that? Thing is I know now the 22 year old BQ may have been 42 when it came to so many other things but she was 12 when it came to relationships. She was in the Disney phase of white knights, unicorns, and rainbow farts. Thing is when you are dealing with a girl who expects a white knight and happily ever after, you have to coax them into letting go of those dreams, and that is hard, and I really do not like doing that. I want a woman who sees me and the help I can give her realistically instead of expecting me to behave like some white knight out of a Disney movie.[/QUOTE]In the land of unwarranted assumptions you could be king.
[QUOTE]So in this case with regards to maturity, there are two kinds of women: those with the image of a male Disney hero in their mind and those realistic about men. The former can be any age even into their 40's and above, and the latter can be very young. I actually was surprised to see that the most realistic young women in the USA come from the drug culture. I guess you lose your idealism quickly in that world.[/QUOTE]In every regard, there are more than 2 types of women. I'll give you some examples.
1. A girl who has a kid at 16, leaves the kid with her mother, continues to party, keeps having kids, keeps partying.
2. A girl who has a kid at 16, settles down and starts building a life for her child.
3. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and terminates the pregnancy because she knows she can't handle the responsibility and provide a nurturing home for the baby.
4. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and tries to trap the father into marriage.
5. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and terminates the pregnancy because she doesn't want a child holding her back.
That's just on 1 subject, 5 different levels of maturity. Change ages, change situations and it's immediately obvious there are many different levels of maturity.
[QUOTE]Thing is what do you know about JJBee really? This guy spends a year in Colombia getting drunk in dive bars every night, is not only penniless but gets himself into deeper and deeper debt, hangs out with people for the purpose of hitting them up for money, was led on by a cam girl, and what does he say about it? It was the greatest year of his life. Even when JJBee was in Colombia spreading Covid, he and his buddy V were spinning it in a positive way.[/QUOTE]You're asking MB what he knows about me and then demonstrating that you know even less. To clarify, MB knows nothing about me. However, everything you know about me is completely wrong. You did get 1 thing right, I spent a year in Colombia. Now for what you got wrong.
1. Getting drunk in dive bars every night. I can give you partial credit on that one, but it requires an alternate definition. During that year, I got drunk 3 times, once in the "dive" bar, once in one of the clubs in Parque Lleras and once in my apartment. I did spend many nights in the "dive" bar, often ate a burger and had 2 or 3 beers. The "dive" bar was talked about quite a bit here and many ISG members went there. It was located just west of Calle 10,2 blocks away from Parque Lleras. The owner is an avid diver, so if you want, you can call it a "dive bar. ".
2. Is not only penniless, but gets himself into deeper and deeper debt. After the year I was penniless. I went in debt returning to the US and getting back on my feet. The debt was quickly paid off and 5 years later I'm in the best place financially I've ever been.
3. Hangs out with people for the purpose of hitting them up for money. There's absolutely no truth in that. There's not a single person who can claim I hit them up for money. Even my brother, who gave me the loan to get me going again can't make that claim. When he learned I was struggling he reached out and made an offer. Of all the lies you've made up about me, that may be the most egregious fabrication of them all.
4. Was led on by a cam girl. I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean. Her boyfriend had grand ideas about forming a webcam studio. He asked me to be a part of it. His plans never came to be.
5. It was the greatest year of his life. Wrong again. "Greatest " goes completely against my philosophy. Every year of my life has been a great year. That will continue until it ends. However, it was a great experience. I built friendships and got to learn more about the culture. I ate well, exercised daily and explored a fascinating city, all while improving my Spanish and fucking as much as I wanted. When it ended I had the challenge of climbing back up. That's one of life's true pleasures and you'll never experience it.
6. Even when JJBee was in Colombia spreading Covid. Not much amazed me before you landed on ISG. Since then you've amazed me many times. Mostly I'm amazed by how often you contradict yourself. You spent months arguing vehemently that Covid was no worse than the flu. You insisted, even declared "I'll take the under on that bet any time", that US Covid deaths would never exceed 80,000. As soon as I made the bet, you went silent and wouldn't acknowledge anything until weeks later when you tucked tail and ran saying you never accepted the bet. You argued against masks and social distancing and any attempt to restrict travel or isolate infected people. Then, when I discovered I had Covid in Colombia, getting my required test to return home, suddenly it became a conspiracy. According to you, I had known before my trip, and, in your words, had infected all of South America. Yet, as with everything else, it's just more EMUS (Elvis Made Up Shit). One person who I was in contact with got sick. Nobody else in her house got sick. She recovered quickly with only mild symptoms.
Had I known I had Covid before my trip I would have canceled. Period. Even if I decided to travel infected, I would have gotten a test upon arrival, so I didn't have the extra expense of spending 2 more weeks in an expensive hotel. And if I didn't care about infecting other, I wouldn't have quarantined.
[QUOTE]So JJBee can put a positive spin on anything. And he has someone 19 or whatever versus my 34 not that he is competing? Cough, cough. But you know where she is at on the Disney scale. She is in the front row of the church of rainbow farts, unicorns, and white knights, and JJBee, Mr. Positive (I repeat cough, cough) has convinced this young thing that he is her white knight and for now, it is clear that she believes it.[/QUOTE]Competing? With you? For what? Is there some special prize? How could a middle-aged Colombian woman with a kid be something I want to compete with? I try to avoid any women with kids to begin with. I have no interest whatsoever in paying for someone else's inability to comprehend the human reproduction process. To make it worse, by 34, many Colombianas are already grandmothers. That's way too much baggage.
Sorry to disappoint you, but I'm nobody's white knight. The only thing that's clear is your head. It's obviously clear up your ass. You've once again demonstrated you know nothing about me. Correction. You know less than nothing about me because almost everything you think you know is false. You know just as much about her.
[QUOTE]So you should care but not for the reasons he gives. The fun part is what happens next. Will the white knight stroke out or his knees give out to worsening arthritis, will our fair maiden wake up to reality, or will they live happily ever after? And that is where I disagree with you MB. I think we both know the ending but watching what almost certainly will be a train wreck is IMO must see tv.[/QUOTE]Stroke out? Worsening arthritis? I see you are pretending to be a doctor again. You might want to take a look in the mirror. Then again, probably not.
Happily ever after? Now it's fairy tale? Like with the Venezuelan princess? The fair maiden gets taken to the castle of her dreams in Peru and the white knight even brings her parents. Then the fair maiden starts fucking the stablehand and locks the knight out of the castle. So, the knight comes to the round table crying and gets ridiculed. Is that the type of fairy tale you're talking about?
For me, it lasts as long as it lasts. No train wreck needed. Although it is fun watching the dumpster fire of your logic.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2833642]I don't think we are in disagreement, Elvis. I'm not sure how he fits the Disney hero / white knight image, but I'm sure their so called "relationship" won't last long. If my memory serves me well, they have had brake ups in the past. She is too young and immature, he is too old for her and beat up by life, they can't have a meaningful relationship just because they both listen to Carol G or love ice cream, or whatever small things they have in common.
A 34 yo old mature woman, with a kid, education and career can't be compared to a 19 yo who literally is just starting out her adult life, if we are talking about a relationship. The former is a wife material, while the latter is a sex toy one uses to satisfy his sexual needs for money.[/QUOTE]See? You lied. You said it didn't matter to you at all, but here you are again, like you've been for the last 3 months, talking my relationship, speculating, making up fantasies about it. Which means you still haven't answered the question:
Why is my relationship so important to you?
You can't say it's not important. Something that's not important isn't something you write about every day. Something that's not important isn't something you talk about with others at every opportunity. Just answer the question. Why?
What's your definition of "won't last long?" It's already been 15 months since we made it a sexual relationship and 2 years since we moved it beyond Platonic.
How do you know her maturity level? I understand you won't be able to answer this question either. I'm going to ask more, you won't answer them. How do you know I'm beat up by life? According to Elvis, I put a positive spin on everything. That hardly sounds like someone beat up by life.
I'm not going to dig it up, but I wrote a long post about our shared common interests. Just like everything else I've rebutted, you run away and then try something different. You spent months declaring the relationship was impossible and couldn't exist, now you're declaring it's a relationship that won't last long, when it already has.
Have you had a TBI? Traumatic Brain Injury? Short term memory loss can be a lifelong problem after a TBI.
I'm asking because you just decided that it's wrong to talk about girlfriends and relationships on ISG and now you're comparing 2 different relationships and deciding it's okay to talk about 1 of them.
[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2833641]Elvis these guys hate everything, unless it is free and if it requires hard work they are totally against it.[/QUOTE]So now paying $500/ month for a chick's rent is considered hard work. What hard work did he do that was not picking up the tab? But for the money he would not have the girl.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2833789]In the land of unwarranted assumptions you could be king.
In every regard, there are more than 2 types of women. I'll give you some examples.
1. A girl who has a kid at 16, leaves the kid with her mother, continues to party, keeps having kids, keeps partying.
2. A girl who has a kid at 16, settles down and starts building a life for her child.
3. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and terminates the pregnancy because she knows she can't handle the responsibility and provide a nurturing home for the baby.
4. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and tries to trap the father into marriage.
5. A girl who gets pregnant at 16 and terminates the pregnancy because she doesn't want a child holding her back. That's just on 1 subject, 5 different levels of maturity. Change ages, change situations and it's immediately obvious there are many different levels of maturity.[/QUOTE]Feel better? All we need is subcommander to come up with ten more.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2833789]However, everything you know about me is completely wrong. You did get 1 thing right, I spent a year in Colombia. Now for what you got wrong.
1. Getting drunk in dive bars every night. I can give you partial credit on that one, but it requires an alternate definition. During that year, I got drunk 3 times, once in the "dive" bar, once in one of the clubs in Parque Lleras and once in my apartment. I did spend many nights in the "dive" bar, often ate a burger and had 2 or 3 beers. The "dive" bar was talked about quite a bit here and many ISG members went there. It was located just west of Calle 10,2 blocks away from Parque Lleras. The owner is an avid diver, so if you want, you can call it a "dive bar. ".
2. Is not only penniless, but gets himself into deeper and deeper debt. After the year I was penniless. I went in debt returning to the US and getting back on my feet. The debt was quickly paid off and 5 years later I'm in the best place financially I've ever been.
3. Hangs out with people for the purpose of hitting them up for money. There's absolutely no truth in that. There's not a single person who can claim I hit them up for money. Even my brother, who gave me the loan to get me going again can't make that claim. When he learned I was struggling he reached out and made an offer. Of all the lies you've made up about me, that may be the most egregious fabrication of them all.
4. Was led on by a cam girl. I'm not sure what that's supposed to mean. Her boyfriend had grand ideas about forming a webcam studio. He asked me to be a part of it. His plans never came to be.
5. It was the greatest year of his life. Wrong again. "Greatest " goes completely against my philosophy. Every year of my life has been a great year. That will continue until it ends. However, it was a great experience. I built friendships and got to learn more about the culture. I ate well, exercised daily and explored a fascinating city, all while improving my Spanish and fucking as much as I wanted. When it ended I had the challenge of climbing back up. That's one of life's true pleasures and you'll never experience it.
6. Even when JJBee was in Colombia spreading Covid. Not much amazed me before you landed on ISG. Since then you've amazed me many times. Mostly I'm amazed by how often you contradict yourself. You spent months arguing vehemently that Covid was no worse than the flu. You insisted, even declared "I'll take the under on that bet any time", that US Covid deaths would never exceed 80,000. As soon as I made the bet, you went silent and wouldn't acknowledge anything until weeks later when you tucked tail and ran saying you never accepted the bet. You argued against masks and social distancing and any attempt to restrict travel or isolate infected people. Then, when I discovered I had Covid in Colombia, getting my required test to return home, suddenly it became a conspiracy. According to you, I had known before my trip, and, in your words, had infected all of South America. Yet, as with everything else, it's just more EMUS (Elvis Made Up Shit). One person who I was in contact with got sick. Nobody else in her house got sick. She recovered quickly with only mild symptoms.[/QUOTE]Paulie said you hit people up for money to get hot water, and you admitted having no hot water. I believe him and not you. This whole War and Peace novel and you did not refute anything but that.
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2833789]Sorry to disappoint you, but I'm nobody's white knight. The only thing that's clear is your head. It's obviously clear up your ass. You've once again demonstrated you know nothing about me. Correction. You know less than nothing about me because almost everything you think you know is false. You know just as much about her.[/QUOTE]LOL. What did I say I knew about you birdbrain? Let me help you. It was this:
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2833789]"Greatest " goes completely against my philosophy. Every year of my life has been a great year. That will continue until it ends.[/QUOTE]You are actually agreeing with me which may be the funniest thing of all.
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2833817]So now paying $500/ month for a chick's rent is considered hard work. What hard work did he do that was not picking up the tab? But for the money he would not have the girl.[/QUOTE]SMH. Paulie actually had a great line on the typical ISGer lazily living off of others, and here Mr. E is doing the same thing. What you and I do, actually working for a living, is actually a foreign concept for so many of the ISGers like him. It really is sad. Don't you just wish we could make some of our tax contributions to these lazy assholes voluntary?
[QUOTE=JjBee62;2833795]See? You lied. You said it didn't matter to you at all, but here you are again, like you've been for the last 3 months, talking my relationship, speculating, making up fantasies about it. Which means you still haven't answered the question:
Why is my relationship so important to you?
You can't say it's not important. Something that's not important isn't something you write about every day. Something that's not important isn't something you talk about with others at every opportunity. Just answer the question. Why?
What's your definition of "won't last long?" It's already been 15 months since we made it a sexual relationship and 2 years since we moved it beyond Platonic.
How do you know her maturity level? I understand you won't be able to answer this question either. I'm going to ask more, you won't answer them. How do you know I'm beat up by life? According to Elvis, I put a positive spin on everything. That hardly sounds like someone beat up by life.
I'm not going to dig it up, but I wrote a long post about our shared common interests. Just like everything else I've rebutted, you run away and then try something different. You spent months declaring the relationship was impossible and couldn't exist, now you're declaring it's a relationship that won't last long, when it already has.
Have you had a TBI? Traumatic Brain Injury? Short term memory loss can be a lifelong problem after a TBI.
I'm asking because you just decided that it's wrong to talk about girlfriends and relationships on ISG and now you're comparing 2 different relationships and deciding it's okay to talk about 1 of them.[/QUOTE]How do I know her maturity level? Thats easy. She is 20 years old, no kids, no completed college education, probably has no job or very little work experience, no prior relationships (if she had any before she turned 18, I don't count them, because she was a kid).
Why is your relationship so important to me? It is not, simply because I don't know you or her in person, and if you die tomorrow, or if your relationship goes south, I would not care. You post your novels here, and me and other members comment on them. I have said this before, stop posting your personal stuff and you won't get any comments. If you want attention, post your shit on some dating site, or write a fucking book.
How do I know you are beat up by life? Well, if a single man is in debt at the age of 57 and shares an apartment in Colombia with a cam model, something is fucked up about his life.
All I know about you and your relationship comes from your numerous novels posted here, not more, not less. BTW, I don't support anyone, including Elvis (and he knows this), and your buddy SubWay in posting dating stuff on ISG, because such information is irrelevant to other mongers.
[QUOTE=CasaNoVa;2830867]I don't mind reports of nonpros / girlfriend experiences mixed in with mongering info. Since I speak Spanish I plan to mix in real dating one I can set up shop for months at a time in the near future. For my two cents on the topic of the sites purpose the very top of the page under its title ISG. "Money is the world's greatest aphrodisiac." Have fun y'all![/QUOTE]You have it right and the others have it wrong. It is a big tent forum about having sex with girls. And if the the Mboy posting here that does not like the information about non-pros / girlfriend experiences then he can put me on ignore and stop having apoplectic fits when people are doing what he can't.
Girlfriends and non-pros cost more than money. They cost time, energy and emotional involvement. I don't know about any one else, but my time is the most valuable asset I have. Mongering information is good. I don't always want to fuck my girlfriend. But I rarely have real intimacy with prostitutes. So, I don't know why mongers feel threatened by non-pro and girlfriend posts unless those post trigger a deep feeling of regret of the unfulfilled hole they have in their life.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2833914]BTW, I don't support anyone, including Elvis (and he knows this), and your buddy SubWay in posting dating stuff on ISG, because such information is irrelevant to other mongers.[/QUOTE]Hey MBoy the forum is about "sharing information on having sex with women. " Here is a news flash for you, the founder could care less what you support. If you feel so strongly about this issue ask the Administrator to create a thread about dating and non-pros. Then you can simply avoid these posts by not reading the thread. Alternatively you can put posters who you do not support on ignore and avoid it that way also. LOL!
Let me ask a question in general. Do you think that the majority of men only get sex from prostitutes?
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2832517]27 yo. Time to sell!
30 yo - 50% off.
Over 35 yo. Clearance (up to 70% off).
40 yo. Outlet.
50 yo. Goodwill / Salvation Army.[/QUOTE]You do realize that this quote you plagiarized was from a [B]DATING COACH[/B] not a monger coach.
[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2833084]You forgot to add your stupid signature question at the end of the post.[/QUOTE]Thank you for the reminder.
[B]How you like me now?[/B]