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[QUOTE=Chief Justice]Like I alway say, seperate the chica from her beauty and pussy and most likely you aint got shyt but a broad thats good for a fuking and an occasional meal. And that goes for most of these american chics too. A lot of us meet beautiful breezys and get mesmerized but at the end of the day she benefits and you sitting there looking broke and stupid. This is why I tell chicks in the dr and america that I want to be friends and get to know them. Fuk all that 'I luv you shyt' in the first 6 mos. Lets get to know each other without labels bc once you wear that novio label, thats when the lies come in bc they expect things from you and will lie. Lie and lie again to drain you. But when you do not have a label, expectations are whatever and in TIME you will get to know what your chica is made of. And that is universal.
I noticed a lot of chicks in america especially when I was in atl are quick to want to make your their man bc they need help with their bills and when I say I just want to be friends, they most likely run away from me bc I am not what they are looking for bc they want somebody to rush in a pay this and that. Same thing for dr honeys. Same shyt different smell. They will screw you, suck you. So called love you but if you can't get to the WU. FUCK U! And then on to the next. Its a game and you have to love it bc its played everywhere.[/QUOTE]
I am a older guy than most Mongers and I thought I knew a little bit about how to play the game, but your post about telling the girls that you just want to be friends first is spot on. Thank you since that is now an addition to my game.
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[QUOTE=Chief Justice]Like I alway say, seperate the chica from her beauty and pussy and most likely you aint got shyt but a broad thats good for a fuking and an occasional meal. And that goes for most of these american chics too. A lot of us meet beautiful breezys and get mesmerized but at the end of the day she benefits and you sitting there looking broke and stupid. This is why I tell chicks in the dr and america that I want to be friends and get to know them. Fuk all that 'I luv you shyt' in the first 6 mos. Lets get to know each other without labels bc once you wear that novio label, thats when the lies come in bc they expect things from you and will lie. Lie and lie again to drain you. But when you do not have a label, expectations are whatever and in TIME you will get to know what your chica is made of. And that is universal.
I noticed a lot of chicks in america especially when I was in atl are quick to want to make your their man bc they need help with their bills and when I say I just want to be friends, they most likely run away from me bc I am not what they are looking for bc they want somebody to rush in a pay this and that. Same thing for dr honeys. Same shyt different smell. They will screw you, suck you. So called love you but if you can't get to the WU. FUCK U! And then on to the next. Its a game and you have to love it bc its played everywhere.[/QUOTE]You are right, a chic in the DR will probaly give you some ass if you say you love her or want to be her friend. But most women believe in a guy riding up on a white horse and riding away with her into the sunset(romance). If you say you want to be her friend she loses this fantasy and degrades you to the "bullshit guy". Every guy she passes on the street wants to be her friend and fuck. I want her to think i'm "the one". She plays her game i play mine. By saying you want friendship your thowing your trump card away. Understand were talking about young chics that still believe in love,why not use that to your advantage?
In the states it's a totally different playing field. I dont trust none of these tricks here. We dont have the upper hand. So i play the "i just want to be friends role" that way they know i just want a piece of ass nothing else. You cant play on their need for romance here because the consequences are serious. Chics here are not going to let you out of a 'relationship" without payback.
Back in the day i could tell a chic"I'ts not you i have to find myself" and dip. That shit dont work anymore,chics want to fuck my cars up,i gotta fight her brothers,her girlfriends look at you and roll there eyes,and momma is going to church praying against you.
In the Dr you can play the romance game because we can dissappear whenever we see fit. We call the game,make our rules,then decide if we want to keep playing.
But in closing,there is nothing like seeing the excitement in a chic when she see's you walking up,that friends dont get.
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i am still waiting for some of the so called know it alls, on this board to tell me where on this planet a piece of pussy is 100% absolutely free. i am ready to buy an airplane ticket to that magical shangri la land of free pussy.
i have read posts here where some mongers insist that it is impossible to have a normal girlfriend in dr. my opinion, sour grapes. some guys for whatever reason can't or are unwilling to to have a normal girlfriend in dr, therefore to make themselves feel better they will say any dr chica who has a gringo boyfriend is a puta.
i am not here to categorize and label every relationship that may exist between a dr chica and a gringo. i am not here to defend every dominican chica.
i would love to hear a conversation between a monger who believes that all dr chicas who have a gringo boyfriend are putas and one of those so called putas. i am sure the chica would respond in several ways: 1. that the ignorant monger is too dumb to learn spanish and could never have a conversation with a normal dr chica. 2. that the monger is physically unattractive and no normal chica would want to be with him. 3. that the monger is disrespectful, rude and/or exhibits other anti-social behaviors that no normal chica would tolerate.
some guys really should stay in sosewer, it is the perfect place for them.
[quote=oakie]all women are putas to some extent. it's a matter of degree. streetwalkers and other full time hookers are at the bottom of the barrel, but there are many pay for play ladies, part timers, occasional income supplementors that lead otherwise "respectable" lives.
back home if a guy has, or is in line to get, lots of money, "respectable" chicks will throw themselves at him and f''''k him in hopes of hooking in to economic security. big house, big car, big company, big job - you know the deal. and yet these women marry into it and are treated with respect. they'll still f...k the chaufer or the personal trainer or the favorite waiter on the side.
like the old joke, it's just a matter of price.
so the debate about never hooking up with a puta should include her status on the ladder. obviously wifing a streetwalker or bringing her back home would be a joke.
having a relationship with the chica from the bank who is very selective who she occasionally f...ks for money may be a different matter. some have to ply the streets, but some have more options.
and a dominican chica may be more faithful than any woman from another country.
how many guys in the states can find a virgin to marry?
my 2 cents[/quote]
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[QUOTE=Too Jaded]What was it they were presenting? Were they showing their daughters in the hopes for marriage so that the daughter could go to the Big PX In The Sky and send back some financial support or was it more of a temporary accommodation and if so what were they hoping for in return? Or were they just being friendly?
I have heard of similar things happening in Thailand but there it is a marital arrangement. I believe you would tour one of the more rural villages, find the girl you like, pay the father $400 and take your new bride with you. Not exactly my style but it works for some guys who just want a nice non-westernized spouse.[/QUOTE]
You pick one, fuck her over and leave boy its "Next of Kin" you know the film with Patrick Swayze. You best not never return to DR much less the village.... They expect Marriage or the very least a substantial Dowery/user fee! Its best to pass...This is a custom found in many cultures.
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[QUOTE=Jaosousa]Ho is a degrading term and reading some of these recent posts, I can see how some guys may believe it is OK to be evil with a chica, because in their minds she is just a ho, therefore they believe it is OK to abuse her. Its not even about sex, its about power and abusing another human being. Sick. One guy mentioned robbing from a chica's purse. How low can you go. If an American guy in DR steals from a chica, that guy is a total loser.[/QUOTE]I suppose some of us have an optimistic view that we can change thei world by being human, showing them something different. It's always worked for me, but I'm incurably romantic.
Truth is the world is full of putas that will try to rip you off, and yes, guys that will try to rip them off.
It's the human condition.
Count me out of that.
I find life is like a mirror - ya get back just what you give.
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NEVER for free!
[quote=jaosousa]i am still waiting for some of the so called know it alls, on this board to tell me where on this planet a piece of pussy is 100% absolutely free. i am ready to buy an airplane ticket to that magical shangri la land of free pussy.
some guys really should stay in sosewer, it is the perfect place for them.[/quote]
i have seen many posts claiming there is free booty in rio, bangkok, etc. but going dining/clubbing with non-proze leads to bad booty, drama and demands for more money because familiarity breeds contempt. better to keep it business like. even dudes from sao paulo have to pay to play in rio and us even more!
i would like to do some legit [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord117][CodeWord117][/url] (wind related), i like batchata (dr slide guitar) and the dr girls back here have nice personalities. i am caught between sosua (cabriete), dr and cartegena colombia. colombia has it's attractions but the wind is perfect in cabriete. i would like to have a nice massage and a nice "monica" after a day of getting beat up by the wind, and i speak enough spanish to get by. is there any available girls in cabrete? i mean ones that would give a nice massage and some extra similar to the other stops mentioned on this site?
any recomondations? you look like a person in touch with reality, so please advise!
thanks
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[QUOTE=Coolie High]Ooh yeah no doubt. Chief said it the best to me the other day when he was like, I want a broad that BELIEVES IN ME. Not just Love me but believes in me
Now Katz we'll ask what's the difference. A woman that BELIEVES in u love you for u and only u. She's just just not in it for the economic comeup but she genually wants to be on ur team no matter what
A broad that Loves you well u can experience that everyday at Sosua. There are broads that'll make ur toes curl. But that's all she about. She ain't down with ur team. Soon ass shit goes bad she's gone
You know I'm starting to think that AD, Cheif, Mr. Gogo and few others was brought up on some old school Don Magic Juan pimp shit LMFAO[/QUOTE]Way to go Coolie!
We all want the chica to see something different in us than the "average" monger. Meanwhile all of us are looking for something that makes her diiferent from the average puta.
What a f....ing mess!
But hey, that the fun in Sosua, finding out. Ya never know!
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[quote=buledaddy]i have seen many posts claiming there is free booty in rio, bangkok, etc. but going dining/clubbing with non-proze leads to bad booty, drama and demands for more money because familiarity breeds contempt. better to keep it business like. even dudes from sao paulo have to pay to play in rio and us even more!
i would like to do some legit [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord117][CodeWord117][/url] (wind related), i like batchata (dr slide guitar) and the dr girls back here have nice personalities. i am caught between sosua (cabriete), dr and cartegena colombia. colombia has it's attractions but the wind is perfect in cabriete. i would like to have a nice massage and a nice "monica" after a day of getting beat up by the wind, and i speak enough spanish to get by. is there any available girls in cabrete? i mean ones that would give a nice massage and some extra similar to the other stops mentioned on this site?
any recomondations? you look like a person in touch with reality, so please advise!
thanks[/quote]
the place is called cabarete. it is only a dollar ride from sosua by public taxi, but you can find girls in cabarete, and massage too, though you will probably have more choice in sosua. staying in cabarete is a good idea if you want to stay in a vacation hotel or apartment and socialize with other non mongering tourists, because you can zip over to sosua any time you like for massage and nookie.
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[quote=jaosousa]i am still waiting for some of the so called know it alls, on this board to tell me where on this planet a piece of pussy is 100% absolutely free. i am ready to buy an airplane ticket to that magical shangri la land of free pussy.
i have read posts here where some mongers insist that it is impossible to have a normal girlfriend in dr. my opinion, sour grapes. some guys for whatever reason can't or are unwilling to to have a normal girlfriend in dr, therefore to make themselves feel better they will say any dr chica who has a gringo boyfriend is a puta.
i am not here to categorize and label every relationship that may exist between a dr chica and a gringo. i am not here to defend every dominican chica.
i would love to hear a conversation between a monger who believes that all dr chicas who have a gringo boyfriend are putas and one of those so called putas. i am sure the chica would respond in several ways: 1. that the ignorant monger is too dumb to learn spanish and could never have a conversation with a normal dr chica. 2. that the monger is physically unattractive and no normal chica would want to be with him. 3. that the monger is disrespectful, rude and/or exhibits other anti-social behaviors that no normal chica would tolerate.
some guys really should stay in sosewer, it is the perfect place for them.[/quote]hay jas. i love sosua!
monger/puta is like the old joke. i'm looking for the perfect one, but why would a perfect one waste her time with me?
puta=john. i know, because i am a john. we're no better or worse than they are, hell we're actually worse because they don't pay us, we pay them! follow the money!
bottom line has nothing to do with puta designations.
all women are essentially the same. it's just that in sosua good pussy is plentiful and cheap compared to where we normally live. it could take years, if ever, to duplicate for free what we can do in one week down there. then of course we find it wasn't really free after all.
it's basic economics. long live sosua! and thank the gods it's there!
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[quote=jaosousa]i am still waiting for some of the so called know it alls, on this board to tell me where on this planet a piece of pussy is 100% absolutely free. i am ready to buy an airplane ticket to that magical shangri la land of free pussy.
i have read posts here where some mongers insist that it is impossible to have a normal girlfriend in dr. my opinion, sour grapes.[/quote]
this discussion never ends. it all depends on your situation. if you are reasonably young, attractive, socially well situated, and looking for a wife and you speak a reasonable amount of spanish, then of course you can find her outside of the lowest level of society. dominicans use the word "nivel" to indicate class or social status.
however if you are an older guy and you want a relationship with a beautiful young women, there is going to have to be a quid pro quo no matter where you are.
here in the us i am currently having a very passionate affair with a beautiful african american woman who is 30 years my junior and a bit less than half my age. she is a coworker, and i knew her for nearly 3 years before the affair started a couple of months ago. she is a licensed professional, married living with her husband of ten years, and has a child with him. there is no way on earth that she can be described as a hooker.
we have a very loving and affectionate relationship that is genuine in every way, and sexually she is probably even more enthusiastic than me,
yet she has hit me up a couple of times for $100 cash to help pay her bills for childcare and professional exams.
this is the simple reality of life today. if a woman is having a relationship with you, it is usually because she sees that relationship as cost effective. it doesn't mean that she doesn't love you or care for you, but if you run out of money you can be sure that the relationship will run out of steam.
i don't resent this, because it is asking rather a lot to expect a very attractive woman to be your love interest purely for the sake of romance and nothing else. i still think i am incredibly lucky to have her.
marriage itself is a type of business contract, so guys need to be realistic and not go around with mills and boon fantasies in their heads.
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The Generalisation Trap
OK One more try at this.
Why do some guys persist in denigrating the best market for pussy this guy has ever seen.
What's all this bullshit about calling them all putas and their families all pimps?
It's like some kind of self loathing.
When the Bounty landed in Tahiti the native girls were swimming out to meet them. Sex for trinkets.
In some cultures (Inuit), the highest honor you could give a travelling guest is your bed and your wife.
It's just cultural differences, and I for one say "Vive la difference!"
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[QUOTE=Frannie].....Here in the US I am currently having a very passionate affair with a beautiful African American woman who is 30 years my junior and a bit less than half my age. She is a coworker, and I knew her for nearly 3 years before the affair started a couple of months ago. She is a licensed professional, married living with her husband of ten years, and has a child with him. There is no way on earth that she can be described as a hooker.......[/QUOTE]
You are proud to come on a puta board bragging about having an affair with a married woman living with her husband? You my friend are what I consider the scum of the earth, low life, piece of shit. I hope her husband finds out and comes in the office one day and kicks your MFing ass.
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sawadee ka (hello in thai) and thanks.
the wind was always ripping every time i visited cabarete. frank reyes is a well known dominican bachatero. there are frequent concerts throughout the dom rep.
cabarete is a small beach town about 15 minutes east of sosua. there is a main road that runs through the town, with bars, restaurants, hotels, wind surfing and kite boarding schools/rental places that sit facing a fairly wide beach.
i have not been in cabarete in about three years. the last time i was there, lots of new construction of condominium complexes was ongoing.
mr gogo is a very nice guy on this board. mr gogo has a business in cabarete and would have more up to date information on cabarete. you may want to send him a pm, with any specific questions you may have.
when i used to stay in cabarete, my wingman would always get a therapeutic massage from a chica named kika, price back then was about 400 pesos for an hour. my wingman said she gave an excellent massage, with no extras, no happy endings. kika has a small massage studio in sosua and she told me she had a massage place in cabarete. i will try to find her business card, because you can call her to set up a time and place as to when it would be most convenient for you to get a massage.
i hung out at night a few times in cabarete, what i saw then, was mostly younger tourists partying at the bars that face the beach. you could easily take a taxi or small bus to sosua to find chicas. if you encounter a chica you like in sosua, get her cell number and invite her to cabarete. the chica will pay less than 100 pesos for transportation from sosua to cabarete. if you only want her for late afternoons or early evenings many chicas will be amenable to that.
la passion massage in sosua, has a webpage with many photos of the chicas who have worked there. at la passions, rooms on site (or you can take chicas out), just about everything is on the menu, except maybe anal sex.
i have seen websites for some newer condominium complexes in cabarete, that rent out nice apartments on a nightly or weekly basis. chica friendly hotels in cabarete, i don't know. there is a cabana complex about about 5 minutes from the center of cabarete. a cabana is a discreet love motel that usually costs less than $20 for a 4 hour room rental. most cabanas are clean.
there used to be an all inclusive hotel in cabarete, last time i was there it was closed. i am not sure if there are any all inclusive hotels presently in cabarete.
cabarete is about 30 minutes from puerto plata airport.
some tourist chicas go topless on the beach in cabarete.
in youtube search for cabarete, or wind surfing cabarete or kite boarding cabarete, there will be numerous videos that could give you an idea of how cabarete is.
you can buy a dominican cell at claro for 500 pesos ($13 us).
years ago i was interested in going to cartagena, colombia. from what i read cartagena in august gets filled up with italian mongers and the chica prices go up. there are some nice condo and apartment rentals in cartagena. supposedly very hot and muggy in cartagena.
santa marta, colombia appears to have some very nice beaches, not sure how it is for windsurfing. san andres, colombia supposedly has very nice beaches.
los roques, venezuela also supposedly has very nice beaches.
any questions just ask.
[quote=buledaddy]i have seen many posts claiming there is free booty in rio, bangkok, etc. but going dining/clubbing with non-proze leads to bad booty, drama and demands for more money because familiarity breeds contempt. better to keep it business like. even dudes from sao paulo have to pay to play in rio and us even more!
i would like to do some legit [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord117][CodeWord117][/url] (wind related), i like batchata (dr slide guitar) and the dr girls back here have nice personalities. i am caught between sosua (cabriete), dr and cartegena colombia. colombia has it's attractions but the wind is perfect in cabriete. i would like to have a nice massage and a nice "monica" after a day of getting beat up by the wind, and i speak enough spanish to get by. is there any available girls in cabrete? i mean ones that would give a nice massage and some extra similar to the other stops mentioned on this site?
any recomondations? you look like a person in touch with reality, so please advise!
thanks[/quote]
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[QUOTE=Mr Gogo]You are right, a chic in the DR will probaly give you some ass if you say you love her or want to be her friend. But most women believe in a guy riding up on a white horse and riding away with her into the sunset(romance). If you say you want to be her friend she loses this fantasy and degrades you to the "bullshit guy". Every guy she passes on the street wants to be her friend and fuck. I want her to think I'm "the one". She plays her game I play mine. By saying you want friendship your thowing your trump card away. Understand were talking about young chics that still believe in love, why not use that to your advantage?
In the states it's a totally different playing field. I don't trust none of these tricks here. We don't have the upper hand. So I play the "I just want to be friends role" that way they know I just want a piece of ass nothing else. You can't play on their need for romance here because the consequences are serious. Chics here are not going to let you out of a 'relationship" without payback.
Back in the day I could tell a chic"I'ts not you I have to find myself" and dip. That shit don't work anymore, chics want to fuck my cars up, I have to fight her brothers, her girlfriends look at you and roll there eyes, and momma is going to church praying against you.
In the Dr you can play the romance game because we can dissappear whenever we see fit. We call the game, make our rules, then decide if we want to keep playing.
But in closing, there is nothing like seeing the excitement in a chic when she see's you walking up, that friends don't get.[/QUOTE]So true, I agree.
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[QUOTE=Too Jaded]What was it they were presenting? Were they showing their daughters in the hopes for marriage so that the daughter could go to the Big PX In The Sky and send back some financial support or was it more of a temporary accommodation and if so what were they hoping for in return? Or were they just being friendly?
I have heard of similar things happening in Thailand but there it is a marital arrangement. I believe you would tour one of the more rural villages, find the girl you like, pay the father $400 and take your new bride with you. Not exactly my style but it works for some guys who just want a nice non-westernized spouse.[/QUOTE]That story sounds like BS to me.