Seeking Arrangements

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2967254]I got the email. It's not just a selfie but a VIDEO selfie. And it didn't say it was only for the girls. Seems to me like it's going to severely scale back the platform. From my perspective it's not that people are using fotos of others. It's that pretty girls are scamming guys. Seems like they are solving the wrong problem.[/QUOTE]I have no clue who many Nigerian dudes are sitting behind desks pretending to be women. Seeking wants business. They want new members registering, because old members drop off for a variety of reasons. It all comes down to how stringent they are with the "selfie. " Eros would ask girls to hold up a postcard with a date and some text written on it. If Seeking asks for a video holding today's newspaper, and wants the person to jump up and down and clap their hands 3 times, that will be much harder to replicate. If they store the videos, then they might be able to identify duplicates, but that process takes time. Otherwise a selfie video or photo just proves that someone likely unique is behind the account. It does not prove that the identity being presented in the selfie is in fact the person behind the keyboard. I could walk up to a bum on the street, offer him $10 to take his picture holding his state issued ID, and bingo I have a photo. Of course, that might not work very well as you'd have to upload photos to the profile of a man resembling a homeless drifter.

These kinds of measures might stop a certain percentage of people. But they likely won't stop people who are determined to commit scams, and have a bit of time and patience to mess around with digital editing software.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2967254]I got the email. It's not just a selfie but a VIDEO selfie. And it didn't say it was only for the girls. Seems to me like it's going to severely scale back the platform. From my perspective it's not that people are using fotos of others. It's that pretty girls are scamming guys. Seems like they are solving the wrong problem.[/QUOTE]That would be a dealbreaker for me. I'm tapping out if that's true. Not trusting them with that. That's just waiting for another Ashley Madison situation.

They say it's for new members.

So, I see a lot of potential good girls, regular girls balking at this. So, a slow burn end is coming.

They say it's for new members. If that changes and / or my account gets locked and need to sign up new. I see myself tapping out.

So, base case. Quality girls are kept out. Worst case. I get out.

Damn!

[QUOTE=AmericanPi;2967638]That would be a dealbreaker for me. I'm tapping out if that's true. Not trusting them with that. That's just waiting for another Ashley Madison situation.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Gfefan;2967679]They say it's for new members.

So, I see a lot of potential good girls, regular girls balking at this. So, a slow burn end is coming.

They say it's for new members. If that changes and / or my account gets locked and need to sign up new. I see myself tapping out.

So, base case. Quality girls are kept out. Worst case. I get out.

Damn![/QUOTE]Yeah this could kill the business. But maybe they will realize it before it's too late.

It's like this Mexican restaurant I used to go to that had a buffet. Including unlimited queso and chips. One day I show up and the unlimited queso is gone. I ask about it and they say it was too expensive and people wasted it. Guess what? Everyone stopped going! Total ghost town. So they put it back. And six months later regained their clientele.

So it was a decsison that made sense in the abstract and was a 100% fucking disaster in pratctice. Hopefully Seeking recognizes it before it's too late.

[QUOTE=TheCane;2966748]I have a strong appreciation for Steve's advice to always strike while the iron is hot. I mean these birds on Seeking can be so flaky that if you don't make a hard charging move right then and there, then you might lose your "shot on goal" with that particular girl forever.[/QUOTE]This, especially with women who log in once every few months. If she ever logs back on at all. I've seen quite a few who would I have absolutely loved to keep around and they haven't been on in months or years.

Most crypto exchanges that enforce KYC require the same thing: a clear picture of the person holding their government issued ID. I'm not sure that the girls have the same concerns that the guys do. Many don't blur their face pictures, I guess because the site gives the public appearance that it's not dedicated to prostitution in various forms. Therefore it's less controversial than being on a site like Eros. But if many guys start dropping out, there wouldn't be many people left to pay Seeking's overhead; as I would highly suspect the overwhelming majority of their funds come from Premium subscriptions from male members. It's very uncommon for girls to have Premium subscriptions. The only reason I'm on Seeking is because it's a worldwide site. I have yet to meet an American girl from the site. Since P4 P in the USA has become a crock of shit, any site that has a significant presence in other countries could work. Scammer aside, most of their problems arise from trying to skirt prostitution laws. Sites that are hosted and operate primarily in other countries rarely have to worry about that shit because most cops and governments tend not to pursue these kinds of businesses, unless it involves underage individuals or is politically motivated.

What is SP?

[QUOTE=Jbj64;2962552]Last day of a 5 week trip, started in BA and ending in SP.

I only had 1 girl in BA because I found a gem on the first date.

Guili, 33 why. O fake blonde, all natural tits. I kept going back to her because I felt the price was fair a one hundred dollar bill for 2 hours.

She does BBBJ, bb anal BUT covered in pussy, afraid of babies. She also does CIM, great attitude, does golden showers too, not on her face. Saw her five times in three weeks, will probably fly her somewhere to meet for vacation.

I went to Rio but did not use seeking. Then I went on to SP, have seen 3 ladies here, all in early 30's.

Mary was first, when I asked her how much she wanted. She just said whatever I feel is fair which turns out to be not. The case she wanted four hundred for the full day but I wasn't willing to give her that, so I was planning on giving her two hundred and we agreed on two fifty and then she tried to get another fifty which I denied will not see her again.

The next one is renata who is a thirty two year old attorney all natural, paid $200 usd, totally a traditional date with sex at the end all covered, no anal, speaks perfect English. Fun to be with, but sex was not worth it. If I could convince her that I was s. T. the free and away to figure out how she could not worry about getting pregnant. She might end up going bareback.

Last night saw Cris, another thirty something professional that speaks perfect english this one did everything bare including CIM.

In s p I might have paid a little bit more, but it was worth it for me.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Orgasmomo;2968290]What is SP?[/QUOTE]Sao Paulo Brazil. Heaven on earth for the girl buffet.And I know this is the Seeking thread but as a man if u dont visit Scandallo with its luxe environment and 200 girls for hire u def have missed a life experience. Its not cheap but it is the most amazing girls buffet on planet earth.

Did seeking get rid of them?

Wanted to share this here in hopes of others helping me report this scammer enough to get her booted off the site. She tried to rinse and scam me earlier this year and the kicker is that she doesn't even remember. Claimed she was brand new to the site but I still had her contact saved. Before, she claimed she was single and about to give birth and that the father of the kid had passed. Insisted Canada's public services weren't enough LOL. Even had the audacity to give me her door dash log in to order things. Fuck that.

Fast forward to today and she has a different sob story and the dad of the kid is alive and well just "not involved" after 10 years LOL. So I call her out on her shit. She says that's not her. I just point out then how tf did I know her name and already have her number and she plays dumb. I'm so sick of these clowns and seeking taking our money and doing nothing about it. Beware.

[URL]https://members.seeking.com/member/ddfe0512-1fba-409b-adbe-62d9aeface12[/URL]

[QUOTE=WaltoDerri;2968532]Did seeking get rid of them?[/QUOTE]No, they still have them. But generally only display them AFTER your membership expires, in an effort to get you to rejoin.

The very desirable ones are snatched up quick. Make no mistake, there are whales out there that anipe the most desirable girls and they are gone as fast as they showed up. Years ago, I met two absolute stunners in (person) with brains on top of that. Unfortunately I met them just before a two week overseas. They came to my gorgeous house, saw my car, saw I was legit, we discussed terms with the only caveat being I couldn't see them regularly until I got back. Guess what, ghost town when I got back. I had them at my house, they are obviously interested but I'm some weird stupid way that only makes sense in my mind, I decided not to bang them on the spot as they were definitely open for business.

It occurred to me later that I had just given them 2 weeks to do better than me and apparently they did. Once consolation is that I did see one of them months later on seeking again and we did end up in a 9 mo arrangement but the one that got away was an absolute stunner. I hate myself to this day for letting her slip out of my fingers.

[QUOTE=WaltoDerri;2967722]This, especially with women who log in once every few months. If she ever logs back on at all. I've seen quite a few who would I have absolutely loved to keep around and they haven't been on in months or years.[/QUOTE]

So a few months back before trip to Poland I signed up for GBC again. I have a very detailed post from my last outing earlier this year. GBC is a sugaring site primarily for Polish girls but there are some stray Germany and Czechs if you're looking close to the border. I didn't re-read my previous post but I suspect the content is roughly equivalent as we're my results.

1) They only recently started taking credit cards again. When I wanted to sign up they would only deal in transfers from a polish bank. Through some ingenious sleuthing and a very helpful ISG menber, I sent him to some money and he opened an account for me. Shout-out mate.

2) The place is crawling with thin to super thin Slavic dolls. IMO the hottest on the planet in looks and just below north west Thai women as a total package (looks and attitude).

3) The place is every bit of a slog as Seeking with the added fun of a language barrier sometimes. I go for early to mid 20's and they all speak and write very good English. I'd say I get a reply about 10% of the time, 5% of those turn into an actual conversation that doesn't involve what I'm prepared to give them and about half of those I actually want to see once I get a pic from them.

4) Catfishing is the norm. Do not believe a single pic you see on the site or a picture they dm you. Insist they send you a pic standing next to some mundane house appliance or multiple fingers held you so you know you're not getting shafted. Serious girls won't care, pros and scammers will be insulted and tell you to fuck off.

5) The serious civies have always asked me to name an amount after we've chatted for a while and established a repoir. I've never been turned down on what I offered. That said, I pay what I pay at home, or almost with currency conversion. I don't care because I'd be paying it at home anyway. I don't go to eastern Europe to bargain in pussy, I go because I love the look of slavic girls. Any teenager from the 80's and early 90's remembers all the supermodels from that time period. Guess what? They're made here! 5'6" 110 lbs is the rule rather than exception, even if their lying theres plenty of margin for her to be extremely hot. The pros will always throw out a number first, generally 500 euros+. I don't do escorts or pros.

6) I generally don't post specifics about dates or girls but I chatted up several, found one I really liked and will probably spend the whole or most of my 12 days with her. Last year I had backups and a back up to a backup in Krakow but I don't feel the need to do that this year because I have a winner early on. I do have two backups for her from before I met her but as long as she shows up the first date I'll ditch the other two. Also have a girl in a remote part of the country with some interesting siteseeing so I'll hook up with her once the goodbyes have been said with girl 1.

7) don't sign up too early. Made the mistake last year and was too stupid not to this year. Nobody takes you seriously more than a month out, maybe two weeks or less. They don't want to waste their time talking to someone to have him disappear. I get it. Next time I'll sign up for a min month membership because I get more action in the last two weeks than the prior 10 weeks combined. There is a gold membership that allows you to contact "model" profiles. Never felt the need to do that. Platinum wmhascworked fine for me.

So in short, the place is still a good mine and just like a gold mine it's a fuck ton of work to get a nugget of any value. Only you can determine if it's worth it to you. For me it's an unequivocal yes!

Happy hunting boys. I may post some exploits later.

[QUOTE=FilthyBeaver;2969059]3) The place is every bit of a slog as Seeking with the added fun of a language barrier sometimes. I go for early to mid 20's and they all speak and write very good English. I'd say I get a reply about 10% of the time, 5% of those turn into an actual conversation that doesn't involve what I'm prepared to give them and about half of those I actually want to see once I get a pic from them.

4) Catfishing is the norm. Do not believe a single pic you see on the site or a picture they dm you. Insist they send you a pic standing next to some mundane house appliance or multiple fingers held you so you know you're not getting shafted. Serious girls won't care, pros and scammers will be insulted and tell you to fuck off..[/QUOTE]Ah so you made it out there!

Hope you have more luck than I did. I'm used to going to places where I can stack girls on different days. Poland for me was a slog just trying to get one girl worth the effort. There just isn't a huge sugar culture there.

Your approach of bagging one winner for 12 days might be the super smart play. Well done.

Keep sharing your exploits dude. Eager readers want to hear.

[QUOTE=VanessasClient;2969026]No, they still have them. But generally only display them AFTER your membership expires, in an effort to get you to rejoin.[/QUOTE]I wonder if only certain people get them. My membership has been expired for like 3 months. I have a stack of 90 dollar prepaid cards I have for this purpose and now I can't use them. I used to google promo codes and use the main one and now that doesn't work anymore.