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I know the opinions on this place are mixed but I would like if someone can provide recent intel. What is the best time to go for the best talent? Is BBBJ an extra charge and if so, how much? Also, I understand its not viewable from the road, up on top of a hill. What should I look out for if my Uber driver does not know? I will have boots on the ground in 3 weeks, if anyone would like to hang out for a beer or two send me a message.
[QUOTE=Kbdb2488;2830314]I know the opinions on this place are mixed but I would like if someone can provide recent intel. What is the best time to go for the best talent? Is BBBJ an extra charge and if so, how much? Also, I understand its not viewable from the road, up on top of a hill. [/QUOTE]Usually the most girls are there on the weekends. Everything is negotiable once you get into the room. Kissing is extra, BBBJ extra, whatever the girl thinks she can get- its a fight zone. That is why I do not like it anymore. Yes, you go up many hills. Winding road. Taxi drivers know how to get there, most.
I found a soft spot on the floor right in front of the main desk. Has anyone else noticed also? Of course, I used to renovate houses.
[QUOTE=OldSchool318;2829434]I have a friend from Panama here in the states and she is adamant that every Colombiana she has ever met is actually a prostitute and will take $$$ for sex because it's a part of their culture somehow.[/QUOTE]Yes, the Colombianas in Panama are all hookers. They can get a 90 day visa, no problem, so they go there to fuck and raise money for their family back home. Alot of jealousy because Panama used to be a part of Colombia many years ago, now they look at each other with distain and jealousy and Panamanians give Colombianas a bad rap just like Venies.
[QUOTE=HumbleHal;2830322][b]Yes, the Colombianas in Panama are all hookers.[/b] They can get a 90 day visa, no problem, so they go there to fuck and raise money for their family back home. Alot of jealousy because Panama used to be a part of Colombia many years ago, now they look at each other with distain and jealousy and Panamanians give Colombianas a bad rap just like Venies.[/QUOTE]Say what? One Colombian from Medellin that I used to messed with has lived in Panama for the 17 years I have known her. She has always worked in a factory there. My ex girlfriend from Barranquilla who I met when she was living in Venezuela has lived in Panama for maybe the last 13 years and she is a hair stylist. Last year I paid her a friendly visit when I was in Panama and there was a bunch of them (Colombian and Venezuelan guys and girls) living in a high rise condo together. It was like how they say about Mexican or Vietnamese people in the States. Every 5 minutes a new mf would come out of the back from somewhere. I was like how many mfs live here? Eons ago a chick I was messing with in Barranquilla was also trying to go to Panama to do hair. When I went to Barranquilla a couple of weeks ago I was not able to see one of my normal chicks because she, her son, and her sister were going to Panama for a few days to go shopping and to the beach. You guys got to get out to meet some normal people; everybody is not a hooker.
Try to get in a few days in Choco. There isn't much tourism infrastructure but the nightlife is fire. For reference, the club district is like a whole neighborhood of Jennylao like places.
[QUOTE=SubCmdr;2828233]Brother TK you are so right. During my first trip to Medellin I was actually disappointed by the way the girls looked. Yes, there were a few stunners out there. But all the hype I had read about Medellin and the girls of Colombia simply was not true according to a "boots on the ground" observation with my own eyes.
That being said, there is going to be someone who jumps up (beats their chest and calls me names because I am new to the Medellin forum and have strong opinions they disagree with)' and tells me to go someplace else if I don't like it. And to them I just put two middle fingers up! I'll go where I want, when I want and write what want about it.) [B]I had a great trip![/B] And I got all the sex I wanted. And I learned that I simply prefer the skin shade of my girls to be butterscotch to dark chocolate. And to have some ass. Because the most beautiful Colombianas that I saw looked like that.
So it is off to Cali at some point to explore a place I have been told has more of girls of my preferred type. The girls of Medellin that I saw on the street fell on the numeric attractiveness scale that would fit a Standard Deviation curve. A beauty standard that I have found to be consistent the world over. In my opinion, the girls of Medellin are no more attractive or less attractive than I have found during my travels throughout the world.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=Loki;2830278]I haven't really relied on these boards in years. So I haven't posted in quite a while. But. I need to post after visiting Energy recently. From about 2012 to 2020 I was a regular at Energy and I was always able to find a good time there. The talent of the girls is not really why I am writing.
The reason for this post is:
I have noticed that since the pandemic ended, there have been a lot more visitors of the. How shall we say it. Melanin-rich variety from the United States.
In a country as diverse as Colombia with a somewhat equally diverse tourist pool, these folks are quite easily discernible in a crowd regardless of that diversity due to their easy-to-spot behaviors:
They are loud as they are in the States. At least one of them in every group is wearing sandals with socks. They have no real self-awareness when they are out in public (similar to the States I guess). However, they SHOULD be more self-aware since they are not in their own country and can't protect themselves legally should they end up in an altercation. If they are emboldened to act the fool in Colombia, they will get deported and banned, perhaps incarcerated.
Yes, I know. Before you berate me, I am very well aware that everyone is here to have a good time. However, if Colombia (Medellin in particular) becomes like the Dominican Republic, it will be a sad day. I hope they find themselves some "get right" if they continue to visit Colombia.
Anyway. Back to the incident at Energy. A group of nine of them came in the other day. It was disgraceful.
They cat-called the girls unnecessarily when they came out to present themselves. It was embarrassing to hear them calling out numbers like they were at a Magic City auction. One of these "gentlemen" was talking out loud in English referring to one of the girls as "his working girl". I wish someone would give them an etiquette course when they applied for their passport. It's frustrating because I leave the States to get away from these types of people. Much to my chagrin, they are here now in larger numbers and with more frequency..[/QUOTE]Funny you should mention Energy, because something quite similar happened to me about 4 years ago.
I went in and the first waiting room was packed with 6 or 7 guys almost exactly as you described. They were loud, rather rude and pretty obnoxious. They had to have the lineup 3 times because they weren't even paying attention.
All of that worked out in my favor. I got 3 additional lineups and saw a girl who made it obvious she didn't want to get picked by 1 of them, because she wanted me. Turned out to be hands down my best casa experience of all time, and one of my best fucks of all time. I'm surprised someone on the street didn't call the police because of the noise she was making.
I've seen more. A guy standing in the middle of the sidewalk with a huge stack of cash in his hand, yelling at a bus, in English, asking if it went to El Centro. That was probably 6 years ago. Nearly every trip, going back 5 years, I've seen groups, from 2 or 3 up to 8 or more, waiting in the immigration line talking loudly about mongering.
A refreshing change of pace when I flew into Bogota in February, there were 3 guys politely trying to get through the line because they needed to catch a connection to Cartagena. Their behavior was exemplary and everyone helped push them to the front of the line. Such nice young men, thanking everyone. Of course there was 1 big difference between them and all the loud, rude, obnoxious guys. That melanin thing.
You see, all those assholes, dating back to well before covid, were white. The 3 guys who were nice, considerate and grateful, were black.
Funny thing is, my 1 trip to the DR and I met chill, nice, helpful guys of all types and I saw bad behavior from all types, including a big group of drunk Canadian men and women.
Bad behavior has nothing to do with skin color.
Instead of going through all that, just drop a post saying you despise black people and don't think any of them should be allowed in Colombia. It saves time and you'll still get all the PMs you want from people who feel the same way.
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You see, all those assholes, dating back to well before covid, were white. The 3 guys who were nice, considerate and grateful, were black.
Bad behavior has nothing to do with skin color.
[/QUOTE]Haha. Nice post. On another point, I think it would be easier for bad behaving tourists to 'ruin' a destination like DR bcos that country is so tourist focussed. Whereas a larger city like MDE or BOG can absorb a lot more tourists before bad behaviour starts to stand out. I think its more likely to be seen mainly in the 'tourist pockets' of a large city, such as Pqe Lleras. In any case, one can just move on to a new city with less tourists bcos paid sex is Colombian culture too.
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2) Colombia has a way higher level of femicides than the US or Europe (femicides women who are murdered due to their gender). In 2019 there were 570 reported in Colombia a country of over 50 million million. There were 470 reported in the US, a country of over 330 million, and the US is known as the country with the most per capita in the developed world. I had an interesting chat about this with a girl that is studying law in Medellin a while back. I used 2019 because I could easily find stats for that year for both countries.
I think infidelity for men in particular has to do with the culture and the legal system. Men are taught throughout Latin America that having a lot of women is a sign of being a successful man. My father-in-law, who is from Central America, for example, has three or four kids outside of wedlock. Secondly, there are no legal consequences practically for committing violence against women or abandoning kids. I know a couple of women in Medellin who have tried to get child support for their kids from a deadbeat dad but its taken years and both are still waiting for that money (both have six-year-olds). Most don't even bother. As we've seen with scopings, roberries, etc. , the fiscalia (I. E. Prosecutor) does a pretty poor job of investigating and prosecuting most crimes.[/QUOTE]Great post, Recondite. I said I had met three women in Colombia who were wife material. At least two of the fathers and at least one of the brothers cheated. Hell, one had a half-sister, the daughter of her father's mistress, she used to hang with.
The one I met in Medellin I was a little leery of because she had a very negative opinion of her father. I could just feel that lack of trust in her with men. Her mother was really sweet but I could sense even as a newcomer how devastating it was that he cheated on her. Her self-esteem seemed to be close to nothing, and she was an amazing woman. Current gal has a high opinion of her father, even though he cheated on her mother, which I think is really important.
The weird part, and maybe this is just true among the upper classes, is most of the girls I have met who are in high school have not dated and are virgins. I think my gal was like that. She was swept off her feet in college, and she got pregnant, and did the Catholic thing and had the child. The guy who got her pregnant has not done shit but beat her up, but there have been others in his family who have been supportive.
Maybe others women meet better guys and get married in college, but there are so many women I have met on line who went to college and got a taste of reality and said "Fuck it, I am not hanging around these broke crude bums" and went for guys who treated them better or had some money.
That is why guys have a chance in Colombia to get women they never would otherwise. Yes, the women are attracted to men with money but also they are so disappointed in the infidelity and mistreatment of Colombian men.
They also have other Colombian women who set a very high standard for looks and servitude. I have been so impressed with the energy, intelligence, kindness, and know how of the middle aged women I have met in Colombia. Some of the younger women imitate their role models, and those are the ones I wanted, but many do not.
[QUOTE=JustTK;2830472]Haha. Nice post. On another point, I think it would be easier for bad behaving tourists to 'ruin' a destination like DR bcos that country is so tourist focussed. Whereas a larger city like MDE or BOG can absorb a lot more tourists before bad behaviour starts to stand out. I think its more likely to be seen mainly in the 'tourist pockets' of a large city, such as Pqe Lleras. In any case, one can just move on to a new city with less tourists bcos paid sex is Colombian culture too.[/QUOTE]The only bad behavior I plan on doing is in the BED with chiquita who's tight, right and looks like she can go aaaallll night! Haha, with that said yes. Tinder is on fire, and many can be had for around the $100-120 range from what I have seen although YMMV; I've got about 50 or so contacts or varying chicas from all Plastic to all natural, . Skinny, chubby, toned. These chicks really run the gamut from what I've seen. Well, I'll be in Medellin with boots on the ground in about 3 weeks, but if anyone wants to chat with a few chicas drop me a line and I'll send you some numbers, you can get to know them at your leisure and feel them out. These are all going to be tinder chicks tho, and I know there are differing opinions about them. Personally, I require them to be available for video calls before I take them seriously. Anyways, drop me a line! Happy hunting all!
[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2829408]I know man. It was MB, but the website software mistakenly quoted it to you and since the site owner will not take me off moderation I could not go back and change it.[/QUOTE]You are on permanent moderation for good reason. All you do is pick fights and find fault with other mongers all day. Plus do a lot of bragging. And very occasionally offer up some useful information.
[QUOTE=AmorPorFavor;2830539]You are on permanent moderation for good reason. All you do is pick fights and find fault with other mongers all day. Plus do a lot of bragging. And very occasionally offer up some useful information.[/QUOTE]I have never understood how people on this website consider it bragging for a person to say they went out with a chick that is not a hooker. I always thought it was something that normal people do since adolescence and is no more of a brag than saying I ate a hamburger today. Bragging would be saying I was driving my Ferrari 120 mph today and the chicks were all over me. Bragging would not be saying last week I went to the beach with Mary Sue who is a nurse at the hospital downtown. But I guess.
[QUOTE=AmorPorFavor;2830539]You are on permanent moderation for good reason. All you do is pick fights and find fault with other mongers all day. Plus do a lot of bragging. And very occasionally offer up some useful information.[/QUOTE]I know if I dated all the teachers, doctors, lawyers, models, and all around good girls like him I sure as hell would not have any reason what-so-ever for being on this website and definitely not have 14,000 posts. That kinda sorta screams liar to me.
[QUOTE=Knowledge;2830435]Try to get in a few days in Choco. There isn't much tourism infrastructure but the nightlife is fire. [/QUOTE]Whereabouts do you refer to / did you go? Its a huge strip of land from Panama all the way down to Cali.
[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2830475]I said I had met three women in Colombia who were wife material. At least two of the fathers and at least one of the brothers cheated. Hell, one had a half-sister, the daughter of her father's mistress, she used to hang with.
Her mother was really sweet but I could sense even as a newcomer how devastating it was that he cheated on her. ...even though he cheated on her mother, which I think is really important.
...but also they are so disappointed in the infidelity and mistreatment of Colombian men.
[/QUOTE]Am curious why you think it is important. I prefer the thinking that is more prevalent in some Asian cultures. Where partners accept that their partners have sex with others, as long as they do it discretely, and that it is just sex. It seems to me that the sexual act is really not important. What is important is to be trustworthy, reliable and supportive; that is what "loyal' is in a meaningful sense. To 'cheat' is to plan to leave, to have a relationship with another. That's when sexual relationships can have a serious impact on a long term relationship. But simply having sex with another just for fun. That has no impact on a long term relationship, in fact it can often save it from being tedious. IMO.
Quibdó, good times, including music beyond the standard mix of reggaeton, salsa, cumbia & vallenato. Don't drink the tap water!
[QUOTE=JustTK;2830743]Whereabouts do you refer to / did you go? Its a huge strip of land from Panama all the way down to Cali.[/QUOTE]