Sosua Reports

[QUOTE=Frannie]Thanks, Jao.

It is interesting that the point of my original post that some people found so shockingly immoral was that you really can't distinguish between amateurs and pros, because even when relationships are based primarily on sentiment and lust, there is an expectation that the man will reimburse expenses, give gifts etc. Often the only difference is that a pro is playing a short game, but an amateur is playing a long game with potentially much greater rewards.

[I]"It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune must be in want of a wife.

However little known the feelings or views of such a man may be on his first entering a neighbourhood, this truth is so well fixed in the minds of the surrounding families, that he is considered as the rightful property of some one or other of their daughters."[/I]

These are the opening lines of Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, but couldn't they equally describe the arrival of a tourist in Sosua?

In a large workplace in the USA, extramarital affairs between marrieds are not particularly uncommon. Sometimes these affairs lead to a dissolution of a marriage and the formation of a new bond, but often they just provide a discreet welcome relief for a marriage that has gotten sexually boring or inactive and help to keep the family home together. When it comes to sport fucking, there is hardly anything purer than two people who both equally want to fuck each other.

I think that in any mainstream political or social forum the idea that men who pay for sex are deeply shocked at the idea of extramarital affairs would be met with bewilderment. That is not to say that such sentiments are not sincere, but they are probably more self revelatory than the posters intended.[/QUOTE]

A brilliant post. It got me googling for quotes. I couldn't find anything that would be an appropriate continuation of this line of commentary, but at least I stumbled on an appropriate biblical reading for next Sunday's sermon.

"Yet she increased her whorings, remembering the days of her youth, when she played the wh0re in the land of Egypt 20 and lusted after her paramours there, whose members were like those of donkeys, and whose emission was like that of stallions. 21 Thus you longed for the lewdness of your youth, when the Egyptians fondled your bosom and caressed your young breasts."

A reading from the Book of Ezekiel. Let us meditate on these images.

[QUOTE=Jaosousa]I have done that too. Exited a bar or casa with an open bar tab, in DR and went to an ATM machine. The banco popular ATM in Sosua, is one minute from Classicos on a moto. There is a security guy standing near that ATM machine late at night.

I remember one time in Santo Domingo, I exited coppa discoteca (I had an open bar tab) and I took a taxi to get some chica at her house. I was gone for an hour. I got back to coppa ordered more drinks with the chica, no problem.[/QUOTE]There's many simple things that a newbie can learn, to make his trip enjoyable, comfortable, and yes, even safer than home.

I said before, first find your happy zone, hotel, bars, motoconcho guys, come back to the same places, and build familiarity there, and spend the bulk of your budget there. Its amazing all the value added services you get when they know they'll be getting most of your business. They'll take care of you like family. There are couple of motoconcho guys that have been around for ever, and are more or less attached to the bar. They come in and always a big welcome. You can take off with them anytime to the ATM, or your other friendly bar to check out the action, and no worries about an open bar tab. I usually have two going at the same time. In Sosua they always know my routine.

And yes, (more to the point here) the chicas see all this and want to be part of it. Hell if he knows i'm waiting for my chica to show up, one over-zealous manager will tell the putas to move on, stop bugging me for cigarettes. Hey. I tell him, chill out, it's OK, I like the attention while I'm waiting.

I see gringos wandering around in different bars with attitude, arguing price with barristas or chicas, or others with that deer in the headlights look, and I feel sorry for them.

Their week is so much inferior to mine, but I'll bet when all is tallied up, we spend about the same.

[QUOTE=Frannie]These are the opening lines of Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen, but couldn't they equally describe the arrival of a tourist in Sosua?

In a large workplace in the USA, extramarital affairs between marrieds are not particularly uncommon. Sometimes these affairs lead to a dissolution of a marriage and the formation of a new bond, but often they just provide a discreet welcome relief for a marriage that has gotten sexually boring or inactive and help to keep the family home together. When it comes to sport fucking, there is hardly anything purer than two people who both equally want to fuck each other.[/QUOTE]Adultery is the glue that holds marriages together. It sounds good on paper or in a fairy tale to be with only one person the rest of one's life, but realistically something like that would drive most people fucking crazy.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational]Adultery is the glue that holds marriages together. It sounds good on paper or in a fairy tale to be with only one person the rest of one's life, but realistically something like that would drive most people fucking crazy.[/QUOTE]Adultery is the glue that holds marriges together? Therein lies the problem, people tend to look outside of their marriages for answers.

I've never been married and never will. Because I'm honest with myself. I like new pussy so why fool myself and act like one is enough. Plus I got to much shit to give anybody half, yeah I'm a selfish MF. I view marriage as a sacred bond between two commited people. I've also seen first hand from both parents, who had multiple marriages, the destruction divorce has. Were talking about being broke down emotionally, financially, and mentally.

I look at marriage as a lock on the door. If someone wants to be with you when the door is always open to leave, thats more telling of the relationship you have.

I pass married guys every night when I get off work. They stay in the parking lot trying to strike up a conversation with anyone that will listen. They hate to go home, they are stuck.

My best friend asked last week to stay in one of my vacant rooms. I told him I would pay for him to stay in a hotel for a couple days. I NEVER get in peoples marriage. You will always regret it. Because when they work it out they look at you as the one who interfeared.

A few years ago I went to the strip club with a married friend of mine. He got 200usd out of the atm to go to a hotel with a stripper. The next day his wife called and said I'm no longer welcomed in their home because I tricked her husband into getting money for MY strippers.

Stay out of other peoples marriage, its nothing but trouble when you get involved. If someone is trying to get you involved, it's a setup.

Frannie I came down on you hard because you have many years on this earth and I feel you should have know better. Especially after you come across here as a very educated individual. I guess you feel entitled. Sometimes the smartest guys lack basic common sense. You appear to be a non confontational guy, and I like that about you. We will continue to debate, and for the record I have no I'll will toward anybody here.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational]Make sure you change that to sawasdee "khrap" before you hit the Land of Smiles or people will think you are hitting for the other team. Khrap is used by males while kha is used by females at the end of a phrase to show politeness or that you have good home training.[/QUOTE]I have never been to Thailand, when I start to learn a foreign language, I always remember the bad words first. I na Ma, may mean FU in thai, lol.

[QUOTE=Mr Enternational]Adultery is the glue that holds marriages together. It sounds good on paper or in a fairy tale to be with only one person the rest of one's life, but realistically something like that would drive most people fucking crazy.[/QUOTE]Also don't forget that paying for sex is illegal in almost all US states, thus narrowing the ethical options other than crossing a border or flying overseas.

[QUOTE=Mr Gogo]Adultery is the glue that holds marriges together? Therein lies the problem, people tend to look outside of their marriages for answers.

... I view marriage as a sacred bond between two commited people. ...[/QUOTE]
What is it about men who've never been married being more reverent of the marital bond than those who have actually been married?

I'm married and my wife sent me to Sosua on my birthday last month. I came home and showed her pictures of the girls I was with and told her of all of my exploits. Now THAT is the glue that holds my marriage together. :-D

[QUOTE=Lagocache]What is it about men who've never been married being more reverent of the marital bond than those who have actually been married?

I'm married and my wife sent me to Sosua on my birthday last month. I came home and showed her pictures of the girls I was with and told her of all of my exploits. Now THAT is the glue that holds my marriage together. :-D[/QUOTE]

Did your wife show you her pictures from your time away?

[QUOTE=Negro562]Did your wife show you her pictures from your time away?[/QUOTE]
Yup. Would you like me to share with the board?

[QUOTE=Lagocache]Yup. Would you like me to share with the board?[/QUOTE]So let me get this straight while your wife let u go to Sosua and do ur thing she also does her thing and then yaw come back together and share pics or ur sexual escapades like everything is all good. Sounds like something I saw out of an HBO Real Sex series. I can see how the conversation went down

"And look honey in this pix you can see that I was getting head with a condom on so as you can see I practice safe sex while I was in Sosua. Hubby that's soo nice here's a pix of me and the mail man bending me over the hood of ur car *in the garage. If you look closely you'll see the magnum xl condom on the hood of the car as well. Aaww ur the greatest wife a man could ever have. Love You"! LMFAO

[QUOTE=Coolie High]So let me get this straight while your wife let u go to Sosua and do ur thing she also does her thing and then yaw come back together and share pics or ur sexual escapades like everything is all good. Sounds like something I saw out of an HBO Real Sex series. I can see how the conversation went down

"And look honey in this pix you can see that I was getting head with a condom on so as you can see I practice safe sex while I was in Sosua. Hubby that's soo nice here's a pix of me and the mail man bending me over the hood of ur car *in the garage. If you look closely you'll see the magnum xl condom on the hood of the car as well. Aaww ur the greatest wife a man could ever have. Love You"! LMFAO[/QUOTE]

You Stupid!

ROFLMAO~

[QUOTE=Negro562]Did your wife show you her pictures from your time away?[/QUOTE]

That's why my wife goes with me and takes the pictures for me. Nothing but constant 3-somes. Aint nothing like a bi-sexual Latina wife. Shit sometimes Im the one that should be jealous some chicas really dig being with her more than me. But I gotz the loot they understand that. Dudes I meet sometime say wow you brought your wife your my hero and Im like no man my wife is your hero. Hey to each his own what I have works for me. I get to have my cake and eat it too. but you can be sure that I treat my wife as well as I can how many dudes can roll with thier wives on the hunt. She actually makes good choices in chicas too, being Latina she can see through a lot of the bullshit some chicas may try to pull. We both have the same taste in chicas too, so that helps. Anyway to all the Single guys, Married, Couples, enjoy yourselves, life goes by quick. Its all about connecting for positive pussy experiences.


Peace.

Has anyone ever been to the Hospitals in the DR (more specifcally, the ones in Puerto Plata)? I ask because I'm just curious what they are like as far as setup and operation.

A chica I talk to from time to time went to the Hospital with her cousin who had a fever. At first the aunt was there, but once the aunt returned she had to go be with her cousin all night. To me it seemed as if they were doing 24hr rotating guard shifts or "watch standing" (for ex-military heads) for the cousin. Is this done because if no one is with the cousin then she runs the risk of being neglected treatment in the hospital? Here in the States most of us just drop their asses off (family members) and expect that they will be well taken care of by the hospital staff (or risk being sued).

Also, I know fevers are not contagious, but whatever is causing the fever could be. Most of us are not going to rack up unnecessary medical bills over a fever. Most people I know (family and friends in the States) just stay at home until it passes unless it becomes severe. This DR chica lives with a lot of youngins in her household (her kids, sisters kids, prima's kids, Tia's kids, etc.). Having the cousin go stay in the hospital a few days for a fever seems like a knee-jerk reaction to me, but is it (Dominican) wisdom that it is better for the sick person not to be in the house so as not to infect everyone else in the home? Or is treatment there cheap enough to where they can go to the hospital for every little thing? (I don't say this last part to sound petty. It is just that the Aunt was sick once and they went to the hospital. They were there no more than two hours, lol).

[QUOTE=Coolie High]So let me get this straight while your wife let u go to Sosua and do ur thing she also does her thing and then yaw come back together and share pics or ur sexual escapades like everything is all good. Sounds like something I saw out of an HBO Real Sex series. I can see how the conversation went down

"And look honey in this pix you can see that I was getting head with a condom on so as you can see I practice safe sex while I was in Sosua. Hubby that's soo nice here's a pix of me and the mail man bending me over the hood of ur car *in the garage. If you look closely you'll see the magnum xl condom on the hood of the car as well. Aaww ur the greatest wife a man could ever have. Love You"! LMFAO[/QUOTE]
LOL I was just being facetious. My wife isn't into stuff like that. I've told her she can do stuff on the side since she allows me to but she thinks it's uglier for women to sleep around but normal for men. She was home with the kids while I was away.

[QUOTE=Coolie High]So let me get this straight while your wife let u go to Sosua and do ur thing she also does her thing and then yaw come back together and share pics or ur sexual escapades like everything is all good. Sounds like something I saw out of an HBO Real Sex series. I can see how the conversation went down

"And look honey in this pix you can see that I was getting head with a condom on so as you can see I practice safe sex while I was in Sosua. Hubby that's soo nice here's a pix of me and the mail man bending me over the hood of ur car *in the garage. If you look closely you'll see the magnum xl condom on the hood of the car as well. Aaww ur the greatest wife a man could ever have. Love You"! LMFAO[/QUOTE]LOL, that is funny.