A little class and respect goes a long way
Nice report Polermo.
In relation to getting laid in MDE, obviously there are more than a few kinds of women to interact with.
There are many that have it in their mind that they don't want to do it but believe she has no other choice and no amount of money or charm is going to make her like you. Luckily, they are fairly easy to identify but perhaps less easy to walk away from. You just have to do it. IMO personality is the most important feature in any person. Hygene a close second. Haha. No, seriously!
In contrast, I have found that a large population, although not engaged in their ideal profession, want you to have a good time and understand what to do to make that happen. After all, it's really not that difficult to figure out. With these "types," give them a little polite conversation, a playful "prove it to me" attitude and the chemistry has a knack of kicking in big time! If you just exchange #'s without actually interacting, they already know they got you and lose their motivation. Besides! Why would you do that with sooooo many options? You may be a monger but is looking like one at all to your advantage? C'mon guys learn a few extra Spanish verbs and be amazed at how much you can make these girls laugh and how much more fun it is.
I have found this to be true of the MM girls as well as in clubs and Mayorista. Speaking of which, is Mayorista a unique spot in MDE? I thought the sit down, casual atmosphere was fantastic. I heard rumor of someplace similar with lots of bars and clubs in Sabaneta but never ventured out that way. Anybody have info on that?
[QUOTE=Palermo; 1118633]I have been having 'highly average' experiences with well known girls, so it's nice to be able to post something more positive about my experience in Medellin.
I chatted online with this girl, let's call her 'j', for 2 weeks or more before finally arranging a meeting with her at a coffee shop. Her online photo is spectacular, and odds are you have seen her photo. She's not quite so hot in person, but the photos is real and she has a rack that is second to none. She has a few extra pounds, but she looks good and is a woman, not one of the skinny kids that seem to be everywhere.
We had a great chat and I thought she was looking only for a serious relationship, but she flirted a bit and when I told her I had been with a prepago from the same website she said 'why did you do that? What's wrong with me? ' and I took that to mean she would be open to an arrangement, even though she really wanted a serious relationship.
We made plans to go out to dinner a few days later, but then I met a really great girl so I told 'j' that I had met a girl who I really liked and she wanted me to only see her, and I was going to stick with that.
'j' said: 'ok, but I won't tell anybody if you still want to go out' so then I really saw she was open to some fun. The girl I liked cancelled one date, then another, so I said fuck it and called j.
We just went out and had a nice dinner, a few drinks, during which I mentioned I had a sore neck from the crappy pillows in my apt. She offered a massage.
I asked for the check and off we went.
By the way, she was dressed 'impecable' as she told me she always is. This is not a barrio girl, but she's not a model type either, more like a down to earth girl who has a killer body. She'd probably play in the lingerie football league.
Anyway, that's the best time I have had in Medellin by far. I'm not one for details, but this was a true GFE. She was amazing. At no time did she mention $$, before, during or after. I slipped her a handful of bills as she left. Which she thanked me for without looking at.
I realize this isn't much of a report, but what I am thinking is, if any of you guys are into a real woman, not one of these young kids, I will ask j if she is interested in meeting you. She may or may not be, so no promises.
And be warned in advance, she is not an all out 'pro'. She told me she was at a mansion party once, thrown by the RL site, and she was appalled. Guys were handing her their cellphones to get her number and she was insulted.
She told me if they had had any class at all and actually talked to her first, she might have been interested.
So if you want to see her, you'll need to be a bit more discrete and gentlemanly. Otherwise, forget it, she'll walk out on you, as she told me she had done on several dates. But play your cards right and you will have a fabulous time like I just did.
PM me if interested, and I'll see what I can do. No promises. Or you may already be chatting with her online. At least I can confirm you aren't wasting your time.[/QUOTE]
Wow! That close to lleras
Interesting to hear because in the four blocks that I walk home every time I go to Lleras at night I've never seen anything like that. I saw three knife fights in Centro but only one person actually got stabbed. Went back to Sabeneta yesterday and was surprised that they were having a packed service for the boy who was run over the day before. Word travels fast because everyone I talked to knew about it.
[QUOTE=Palermo;1119553]But I did have a bit of a scare last night walking home at midnight from lleras. A guy with a machete was fighting with a cartonero, who managed to fend him off with an iron bar. The machete guy then took to following me. I turned at the first street where I knew some armed guards were and went up to wish them a nice evening. The machete guy had already turned down another street, so he probably was harmless, but think I will taxi the 6 blocks home from now on.[/QUOTE]