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[quote=phordphan; 1276354]au contraire, mon frere.
It is legal in mx, however it is regulated and regulations tend to vary from state to state.
That's why, in tijuana for instance, you see most of it happening in the zona norte, or zone of tolerance. You can have chicas standing on the street, going shh, shh, and all that goes with it. It's been zoned to this area and, at least officially, not permitted elsewhere. However, there are still laws forbidding brothels and pimping. That's why you have to exit a bar and walk on the street (even a few feet) to get to the hotel. And also why in-house escort places don't advertise their locations.
Tijuana has evolved as it has, imho, due to its proximity to the usa, and its traditional "use" as a spot to briefly escape idiotic regulation in the usa, such as prohibition. It's never really been a vacation destination (i'm not sure how many border towns truly are) , and the prototypical customer tended to be a gringo who popped over the border for some cheap booze and quickie sex. I don't think the market for long-time gfe-type services really ever existed in tijuana. You can get it, but it's a lot more work, and requires multiple visits.[/quote]
Time and persistence is the key
[QUOTE=Artisttyp; 1276424]I have been studying Tijuana for a while now. I am still learning but my take on GFE here is :
It is possible. How? You become a regular visitor AND YOU ARENT CHEAP when buying ficha drinks. If anything the chica knows that you are always good for a drink. On the occasion you do take her upstairs she will remember that and obviously most barriers have already been worked through.
Some of these girls like to drink more than they like earning money. Working in a club sober for 8 hrs a day is a bore. I've done it and it isn't fun watching other people have fun when you arent. They can't afford to buy them for themselves. YOU become the savior for getting them through a day at the office. If you know some spanish even better so it doesn't ruin their buzz when they are trying to decipher your english into spanish.
Lone mongers who come into town for a few days now and then will not have the greatest luck but obviously being overly generous with ficha drinks can put you in a better position.[/QUOTE]I agree. Living in SOCAL for years has allowed me to become a known quantity in Tijuana. Once the girls know you they treat you better. But it took over a decade to get this treatment.
The other thing was I had to learn to take them or leave them. My main girl used to try to treat me like a regular trick at times. I actually ignored her for about four years. Now remember I was in Tijuana at least twice a week for the last 12 years, so she had to take this embarrassment for years. It takes time and like a real relationship you both have to give a little.
I actually get GFE in Tijuana from two chicas. In fact, I am so well known that I can actually show up prior to a certain street girl's arrival, pay at the desk, and just chill in a room until she gets there. And in another hotel, I just show up, plop down $3 and they will actually go down the block and get"my" girl. I have not had a knock on the door at either of these hotels in over five years. When I am done, I am done.
And the girls give total GFE in the room.
The downside, if there is one, is that in Tijuana few chicas bother me on the street. They all know I am "with" somebody.
We need to remember that Mexican women are VERY loyal. Even though these are hookers they have that loyal quality and appreciate it in us. The California Prison guards always marvel at how Mexican American women visit their imprisoned man not matter how long he is locked up. No other group is that loyal, they say. As the saying goes, a Mexican won't divorce you, she might KILL you, but she will not divorce you!
P. S. Another good thing about being a known quantity in Tijuana is that the girl drops her guard and you get a good look at her. When I show up early for my main girl, they send her straight to see me. No makeup, no high heeled shoes, etc. Just her in all her natural beauty. GFE all the way. No hooker attire, she saves that for other guys!
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