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[QUOTE=Mosquito2002]Have a 8 month old, Thai / Farang daughter that is 8 months old.[/QUOTE]

8 months and you are planning for her education, that's dedication and devotion to your child. I'd vote for you as Father of the year


[QUOTE=Mosquito2002]
Any recommendations on planning a new borns future??
Especially, if the new born if half Thai/half fanrang with no plans of moving/relocating to the U.S..
I'd even take recommendation of sending her to the states for her education, as she's an only child and money is not object (with in reason (standard U.S. college cost).[/QUOTE]

Since money is not an issue, send her to the U.S. Better opportunities for her before and after graduation.

[QUOTE=Barko]One thing is absolutely sure, for me personally, if I didn't speak Thai, and know how to spin the Thais in the direction where [b]I[/b] want them to go, (smiling, talking story, buying coffee & doughnuts, acting completely at ease in a super tense situation) I would be in a freaking Betong jail cell today instead of hanging out on Kata Beach on an incredibly beautiful breezy day with a bunch of ice cold sliced pineapple, my laptop, and a fresh coconut with a straw sticking out.[/QUOTE]

Wow! An 87 word sentence. *clap* *clap* Are you German?

So would you be in jail in Betong, Thailand or Betong, Malaysia?

[quote=mosquito2002]have a 8 month old, thai / farang daughter that is 8 months old.

honestly, all i'm concerned about is her education and long term prospects.

i'm fairly well so, don't care how much it cost for her education.....what are my options???

then, after her education what would i require to ensure her future employment.

understand the primilary education is cheap (by western standards), i'm just looking for the $$$$$ that'll be required to ensure she gets a good paying job aftrer her education!!! right not i'm planning on a 1-2 million baht pay-off!!

pay-off depending on if she's really capable of handling the job!!!

any recommendations on planning a new borns future??

especially, if the new born if half thai/half fanrang with no plans of moving/relocating to the u.s..

i'd even take recommendation of sending her to the states for her education, as she's an only child and money is not object (with in reason (standard u.s. college cost).

mosquito2002[/quote]i have been thinking about this a lot recent as i am thinking about having one with my thai girl. here are my thoughts.

- 0-2yr : the mom's parents up north
2yr-5yr: with me, but taking care of by a nanny/maid ( hiring the aunt to do this)
5yr-15yr: international school in bkk
15yr-22yr: hs in usa and college in one of the ivy university. ( stanford is my goal, but i will settle for havard, mit, john hopkins)
22yr-25yr- post grad studies in usa resulting in phd

to prep for her, i would hire the best tutor in from chinatown to teach her chinese ( they will be a major player in the next 10-50 years).

i will hire the best sat prep tutor when she is 8 yrs old to tutor writing and vocab, read comprehension.

i will hire a tutor to teach her speed reading ( this will help her with advance studies) and basic computer science ( web designs and applications, java, api etc. ) ( she will grow up in a world dominated by computers)

i will have her attend some type of martial arts from the age of 10yr up. she will attain a black belt by the time she gets to hs.

she will be a girl scout and learn nature.

she will attend swimming classes.

in addition to being fluent in thai, english, and chinese, i'd want her to study russian, and spanish to some degree.

she will volunteer to help the poor a few week out of the year to keep on grounded and to remove the sense of entitlement.

she will plant rice with the farmers up north each planting season growing up.

i am sure i miss something. overall, i would want a child who knows that with money there is service to help the less fortunate. and to look at the world from the eye of a child who is modest and not a spoiled brat who gets everything handed to on a silver platter as many younger thais from rich family do. she will know how the other have live not by watching stupid thai soaps but by actually being here and doing the dirty but necessary work.

[QUOTE=MauiDude]This is for the guy with the questions about lady boys in Thailand.

The problem with ladyboys is that there is a history of them putting a drug on their nipples and when you suck the nipple you then passed out and they rob you. They also have been robbing guys in various ways like drug their drink etc.

So be very careful.

Some hotels let you bring them in and if you do its good if they show id.

There has been problems with them still acting agressive and even many pickpockets that are lady boys.

Another problem is that if you are drinking you may not know that its a ladyboy?

I am returning to Bangkok and want to know where the best bars are for real girl on girl action.

I am bringing my filipina with me and she wants to get up and lick real pussy. Its only been a year since I have been there but I hear things change a bit and I may have missed something since I usually travelled alone there.

Is gullivers better or worse?[/QUOTE]
I dont know where to begin. Where do you get your info? Well I have friends that have this going-with-ladyboys-thing on their mind when going out in LOS. Never heard anything about what you describe, from them. What I do hear sometimes is that freebies tries to drug the farang and then rob him. But this is in general, not only with Ladyboys.
Try the Patts daily, and do some reading, or travel more, before you post!

[quote=primo bolan]i dont know where to begin. where do you get your info? well i have friends that have this going-with-ladyboys-thing on their mind when going out in los. never heard anything about what you describe, from them. what i do hear sometimes is that freebies tries to drug the farang and then rob him. but this is in general, not only with ladyboys.

try the patts daily, and do some reading, or travel more, before you post![/quote]
[url]http://thailand.baronbonk.com/date_rape_drugs.shtml[/url]

[quote]date [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] drugs

i have said it before but it keeps coming up; and all too often it is thailand regulars who get caught. beware the so called date [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] drugs. they are being used daily in bangkok and, i believe, also in pattaya.

despite their name, the drugs are principally being used to facilitate robbery. they make you malleable and drowsy but still able to be moved (walked). so a person who has been drugged will generally just appear to be drunk.

sometimes the drugs will cause you to give up information, such as pin numbers etc. at the very least, your hotel room, or apartment, will be cleaned out.

one description of the drugs reads: “ the drugs often have no colour, smell or taste and are easily added to flavored drinks without the victim's knowledge. there are at least three date [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] drugs ……… the drugs can affect you quickly. the length of time that the effects last varies. it depends on how much of the drug is taken and if the drug is mixed with other substances, like alcohol. alcohol can worsen the drug's effects and can cause more health problems. ”

i know of two people who have been drugged in the area around the nana hotel: one in the bar, we think, and one outside. the area immediately outside nana plaza and the hotel car park is truly full of thieves, child pickpockets, dishonest katoeys and criminally minded mangdas.

be careful out there. don't drink from open vessels (glasses) in late outside bars, buy a bottle, make certain you see it opened and then keep it with you.

a man and his wife were drugged in an outside bar near soi 7/1. they later woke up outside a hotel high up sukhumvit, without their gold and money.

in pattaya a while ago there was talk that katoeys put the drug on their nipples, thus disproving the old adage that one of the most useless things in the world is tits on a bull!

apart from wariness additional protection is to make certain any place you stay insists upon taking the id of late night visitors. i know many do not like it but it is in your interest.

similarly, wearing a lot of gold in public will attract the attention of the criminal element, as will flashing money, so be discreet out there.

needless to say paying bar should protect you from these problems: saving that bar fine can be very expensive!

i can't stress enough that the people i know to whom this happened are worldly wise, have been to thailand regularly or live here. they are not idiots. this can happen to anybody, so take care. ![/quote]

[quote=pinkpearl][url]http://thailand.baronbonk.com/date_rape_drugs.shtml[/url][/quote]you did find something on the web. so what? does it mean anything to you?

Visiting BKK, next week. This 'll be my first time there. Wud like to see some action too. But I'll be wid my wife so looking for a middle label decent hotel near good action spot. Help.

Thanks in advance

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The problem with ladyboys is that there is a history of them putting a drug on their nipples and when you suck the nipple you then passed out and they rob you."

just as a technical thing , how do they put this drug on thier body and not be affected themselves ?

Not saying it does not happen but if its so powerfull you would think it would go thru thier skin too.

Bk

[QUOTE=BKK Dreaming]"
The problem with ladyboys is that there is a history of them putting a drug on their nipples and when you suck the nipple you then passed out and they rob you."

just as a technical thing , how do they put this drug on thier body and not be affected themselves ?

Not saying it does not happen but if its so powerfull you would think it would go thru thier skin too.

Bk[/QUOTE]
Maybe they use somekind of barrier type vaseline and then they put on the Upjohn.

PB

Robbery is always a potential problem.

Sometimes its from drinking too much and then you are a victim of opportunity.

I have been walking down sumkumvit late at night and its been the lady boys that have tried to pick my wallet and pocket. In Bangkok. If I had been drunk then I would have been an easy target but I was aware of what they were doing.

It was the kids in cebu and manila, Philippines.

The information I get is from the Bangkok newspaper and hanging out and the police looking for suspects in robberies.

I read the Bangkok news when I am there, and I talk to people and I observe behavior.

It happens also in usa. Its not a really big problem but still something to be aware of and on guard.

I have been living in the Philippines and there is a lot of crime going on that is unreported and also in the newspaper.

I do not know exactly how they do it but I have also been approached by women that want me to go somewhere with them and it just feels wrong due to the story they tell me about going to a different part of town to meet and talk to someone that wants information about where I come from.

Most of the guys that are travelling and into this hobby know what the dangers are and the reason I wrote was because of a question in this forum.

There are drugs that are absorbed through the skin and some have to be ingested to be effective.

It is possible that the drug is put in a glass or in a drink and not on the nipple?

I had a thai girlfriend that was robbed three times in one year.

Fortunately for us tourist we are relatively safe if we exercise some caution. Also I am well aware that robbery and scams are not just exclusive to any one type of person.

I am sure if a guy wants to find quality ladyboy? Whatever your definition you can find some honest ones?

In the Philippines I know many scams by many real women and lady boys. I do not hang out with the lady boys but try to keep up with the situations that are in my neighborhood and areas where I go right now I am fucked out by three great filipina girls. So if my writing here is without clarity its just I am tired.

Hope to be back in Bangkok this July with my number one filipina girl and she loves girls as much as I do.

I do not understand the part about do some reading and travel more before you post?

What is up with that. \? If I waited to post till I knew all the answers I would never post.

As with any information its like take what you can use and forget the rest.

I do lots of reading and internet research on places I travel to.

And I appreciate this forum to get information and sometimes I just want to give my 2 cents worth of information.

And yes sometimes all information is loaded with misinformation. But if it helps in anyway to find more information then why not?

So if I post something and someone has better or more information then please post any information and I will check it out and if its useful then I will use it? If its not useful then thanks for the effort.

I have limited expierence of being in Thailand over a period of three years spending maybe five months or more a year there. And its been over a year since I have last been there.

I spent a lot of time at nana. And was there when the police were rounding up lots of lady boys. Of course I was curious about what the police were doing and started asking questions and reading. I saw several lady boys hiding from the police. And several were taken away by the police.

I was fairly new to the Bangkok area at the time and for all I knew it was illegal to be a katoy ?

But with reading the news and other people sources including the police I did find out there was a problem with several foreign visitors being drugged and robbed by lady boys. Now unknown to me if this is a continuing problem and like most problems I have no idea what percentage of the lady boys were involved?

Since that time I have also been robbed by the police through extortion and I have had a few friends thrown in jail by the police because they did not pay the extortion. This is both in Thailand and in Philippines.

Okay so lets get back to where the best girls are and the best deals for the hobbyist and the visitor looking for pussy,

Like what is the latest about patpong? And where are the best areas to go for pussy/

I have always like the nana area and soi cowboy.

What is the current pricing and tipping expectations? .

And yes I get confused because I am in many different countries and have very little blood flow in my upper head.

I am sure I am missing something else?

[QUOTE=AndyBKK]15yr-22yr: HS in USA and college in one of the IVY university. ( stanford is my goal, but I will settle for Havard, MIT, John Hopkins)[/QUOTE]

With all due respect, Stanford, MIT, and Johns Hopkins do not fall within the Ivy League category. This notwithstanding, they are outstanding, top of the first-tier national Research I universities. You may desire to consider first-tier national liberal arts colleges as well, such as Swarthmore, Smith, Grinnell, and the like.

my last trip in bkk was 1st week of april (i go in bkk 4 times a year since 2 years for 1 week stay).

began with some st, going in beergarden (catch bee, see report and pics previous report), get some other girls in the street bar late in the night, going to [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord901][CodeWord901][/url]’s, sol and eden club.

the 3rd day, i was having a drink in the afternoon outside new wave soi 7, looking at people and girls.

a small group of girls was seating not far from me, eating as usual, making up for the night, etc.

one of them, named may, was looking a lot to me but seemed not very shy but not pushy at all.

she began to speak to me, usual question, what are you doing, how long do you stay, etc.

we decided to go to my room, never asking how long, never speak about money

very good sex party, very nice body, very gfe.

she has 2 girls, she supports only her daughters and sometimes help brother and parents.

i (we? ) fall like in love, we stayed together 6 days till the end of my holidays, we did a lot of things, shopping, bars, pool bar, spice club, restaurants, meeting her friends. etc.

i felt like to be integrated to her life and her surroundings, every girl in soi 7 and soi 5 was knowing me as her farang bf, very kind with me when i was alone (when she was going to see her daughters 2 hours every 2 days).

a very good moment that put me deep in bg lifestyle and way of living. i felt like i was living there for a long time.

i repeat i spend very very good time with her.

if i was not married, i would think of keeping her but.

she is very lucid, saying me she can not wait for me, need to work, doing what she has to do (and what she wants to do, because as she said, it’s not a willing but a need to do what she do), she said always to me she is a bad girl (for me, she is a really good girl but doing a bad girl work);

she well sees the things, knowing living together is impossible, can not wait for me, never speaking about future because she said she can not know how tomorrow will be she said to me we will stay friend and stay in contact and meet each other maybe one day. our life are to different to be together one day

she scared me telling me what kind of guy she met and what some of them were treating her.

at the end, i had to go back home, but we stayed in contact by email, phone or sms about every 2 days till today. sometimes i was regretting to have not done more with other girls and stayed too long and exclusively with her but it was so great with her.

i precise i gave her some money and buy a lot of things but she never ask me any amount, always thanking me a lot when i pay present or give money at the end of my stay.

since my departure (it was just before the last evenements in april), she told me that bkk is very quite, nobody there, nothing to do and. no chance winning money; she said a friend of her wants to go to singapore to try better business, she planned to go there in may 20th.

i try to persuade her to stay in bkk till my next trip (june 15th for 1 week) and go later in singapore if she wants. i promise her to give money but she never ask me for.

last week, she was still in bkk, and doesn’t know when she leave. i have to say i was hoping she stay till my arrival.(selfish)

but today. breakdown! she call me to say she is leaving tonight and she is so sorry not waiting for me. i tried to keep her in bkk but decision was taken and i imagine she called me at the last moment for not changing her mind

i am so sad and disappointed; i am just near to cancel my next trip planned in 2 weeks.

i hope i will have some news of her, she promise me to give me some and call me when she come back in bkk but she thinks it will not be before 1 or 2 months. she said to me to enjoy my next holidays and hope to see me one day.

i have now to make some new plans for my next stay: eden, tulip, sol. and bg like her.

it is too much new to feel good with my next trip but i think i will go there and enjoy bkk life as usual but i am afraid i will always think of her when i will go in places we used to go together.

but, i know when i will be there i will enjoy and maybe if i was with her, i will regret one day to refrain from going with other girl and having good time. maybe i would be cut in 2. now, things are clear, i will have no regret and i hope i will see her in a few months.

i have to say that i hope she will not feel good in singapore and she will come back earlier (when she know i am in bkk and able to help her); but if not, i will have good time.

what do think of that? am i under tg hypnotism? am i a smooth heart? did you live same experience?

i must apology for 2 things:

-english is not my native language so i hope you will understand how i feel.

-very long and maybe not clear post, but i really needed to write this (like a therapy)

fred

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[QUOTE=Professor 1]With all due respect, Stanford, MIT, and Johns Hopkins do not fall within the Ivy League category. This notwithstanding, they are outstanding, top of the first-tier national Research I universities. You may desire to consider first-tier national liberal arts colleges as well, such as Swarthmore, Smith, Grinnell, and the like.[/QUOTE]Maybe Stanford and MIT aren't technically Ivy League schools, but they are more difficult to get into than "most" of the Ivies....with perhaps the exception of Harvard or Yale.

[QUOTE=james707]Visiting BKK, next week. This 'll be my first time there. Wud like to see some action too. But I'll be wid my wife so looking for a middle label decent hotel near good action spot. Help.

Thanks in advance[/QUOTE]Nana Hotel on Soi 4 is about as close to the action as you can get.

A search in the Bangkok Hotels thread will give more info about it, so you can decide whether or not it suits you.