This one has the merit of being extremely clear.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/AsianSexy[/url]
Anyone know her?
Printable View
This one has the merit of being extremely clear.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/AsianSexy[/url]
Anyone know her?
After many delays I'll be making my first trip to Phils in just a few weeks. I'll give a full report soon. Most of my time will be spent with 2 gfs in 2 different cities. I also have a little bit of time open to see 1 or 2 others in the transition. I'm mulling over my choices. I keep coming back to the one in the photos below. She's a sweet, mall-mannered lady and we get along quite nicely. She is willing to take the 5 hour bus ride from the province to see me, and says if I don't like her I can send her on her way. In terms of looks, she is very cute, but by no means the most beautiful of my contacts. Her one outstanding feature is that lustrous, waist-length curtain of Lady Godiva hair. I have to admit fantasies about that hair swirling all around me as we make love. We all have our fetishes. Some look for big breasts, others for a shapely ass, others for legs, etc. I never thought of myself as a "hair man," but I'm finding myself hooked. I have to say that many Filipinas are truly blessed in the hair department. So I'm curious: how important is hair when you evaluate the total package?
[QUOTE=Wazoo;1358269]Her one outstanding feature is that lustrous, waist-length curtain of Lady Godiva hair. I have to admit fantasies about that hair swirling all around me as we make love. We all have our fetishes. Some look for big breasts, others for a shapely ass, others for legs, etc. I never thought of myself as a "hair man," but I'm finding myself hooked. I have to say that many Filipinas are truly blessed in the hair department. So I'm curious: how important is hair when you evaluate the total package?[/QUOTE]Many Filipinas have beautiful long hair like hers. Long hair can be quite appealing, but in the end,"there's no accounting for taste." Only you know how important the hair is in the total package. But if you meet her, hopefully you'll make your judgment about her on the basis of other qualities as well.
But do not expect this one to be a provincial bumpkin. One of the photos shows her in a plane, and she's wearing the same clothes as in the other photo. I'd say a hotel photo, or perhaps a dormitory setting, given all the flip-flops. Poor girls from the province, on the rare occasions that they travel to the big city, are more likely to go by bus and ferry. So somebody with money paid for her flight.
And chances are this was not a flight from the province to Manila if she lives within a five hour ride. On the other hand, her seat mate appears to be another Filipina. So you might want to ask a few questions about the flight and go from there.
[QUOTE=Skip Kost;1358386]But do not expect this one to be a provincial bumpkin. So you might want to ask a few questions about the flight and go from there.[/QUOTE]I didn't want to disclose too much personal information about her, but actually I know quite a lot about her story. She was married for several years to a European, lived there for several years, and speaks that language passably. He marriage broke apart about a year ago and she moved back home. So she's more sophisticated than the average country girl. Her personality is gentle, sweet, and polite. But she hasn't been able to find a job and savings have run out. She's bored at home with nothing to do. A night or two of romance in the excitement sounds pretty appealing. I'm sure she's also hoping for a nice gift if we meet.
Hi there,
I have been using DIA for a long time since I have been going to Philippines. Lately, I just realized that I am getting many more contact requests from Malaysia and Indonesia girls than before. I wonder if you have noticed this trend and had any experience about it. Mostly, if the contacts were legit and also if the follow-ups were rewarding. There are some obvious differences on language, education and religion so I guess is not the same game.
Not sure about posting this in the Philippines thread but I guess that most people use DIA just to meet Philippina girls.
[QUOTE=Trajano;1358930][SNIP] Not sure about posting this in the Philippines thread but I guess that most people use DIA just to meet Philippina girls.[/QUOTE]You should of went with your first instinct. Posting this question on the Malaysia and Indonesia threads will get you closer to finding your answer.
Some guys prefer to do the SEA hop and visit many countries per trip and use DIA to find a hook-up all over Asia, not just for the Philippines.
Unless you plan to visit Malaysia and Indonesia there is no reason to waste your time playing message tag with them IMO. Focus on the places you will visit, but as always it's 'up to you'.
[QUOTE=Fredje1961; 1356607]This one has the merit of being extremely clear.
[url]http://www.dateinasia.com/AsianSexy[/url]
Anyone know her?[/QUOTE]Try that link now and you know why most of them are not.
[QUOTE=Wazoo;1358501]I didn't want to disclose too much personal information about her, but actually I know quite a lot about her story. She was married for several years to a European, lived there for several years, and speaks that language passably. He marriage broke apart about a year ago and she moved back home. So she's more sophisticated than the average country girl. Her personality is gentle, sweet, and polite. But she hasn't been able to find a job and savings have run out. She's bored at home with nothing to do. A night or two of romance in the excitement sounds pretty appealing. I'm sure she's also hoping for a nice gift if we meet.[/QUOTE]Is she actually divorced or went back on her own, was she actually married? If she is legit she certainly should have some alimony from her ex at least for a while (if by Europe you mean western Europe where the rule of law prevails).
A reasonably attractive Pinay in Western Europe (wether she is dumped by her husband or dumps him) should have many options there w / o having to return home for good.
Maybe there is an interesting story there, but why worry so much about her if you all have in mind is "a night or two of romance"?
[QUOTE=Wazoo;1358269]I have to say that many Filipinas are truly blessed in the hair department. So I'm curious: how important is hair when you evaluate the total package?[/QUOTE]Extremely important for me, wether on top or somewhat lower (hate, really hate a shaved pussy) , now you should be aware that these beautiful creatures shed their lovely long hair constantly and even with the most fastidiously clean you will find her hair everywhere all the time. Even once in a while in the food that she has so lovingly prepared for you. The wonder is that they don't get bald.
[QUOTE=Hibukhibok; 1359535]Is she actually divorced or went back on her own, was she actually married? If she is legit she certainly should have some alimony from her ex at least for a while (if by Europe you mean western Europe where the rule of law prevails).
A reasonably attractive Pinay in Western Europe (wether she is dumped by her husband or dumps him) should have many options there w / o having to return home for good.
Maybe there is an interesting story there, but why worry so much about her if you all have in mind is "a night or two of romance"?[/QUOTE]Actually, she clarified just yesterday that she is separated and not yet divorced. She still have a visa to her husband's country and could go back and work, but she just missed her family. But you are right that it's not important for me to know all the details of her story when it would be just a brief meeting. She seems happy to have some romance and a night out on the town from a nice guy and some gifts to help her make ends meet.
On a related note, I find that so many women on DIA will start up a conversation with me just because I'm not crude. They tell me that it's very rare for a poster to treat them with respect. It's amazing how much mileage you can get out of simply not being an ass.
[QUOTE=Wazoo; 1361021]Actually, she clarified just yesterday that she is separated and not yet divorced. She still have a visa to her husband's country and could go back and work, but she just missed her family. But you are right that it's not important for me to know all the details of her story when it would be just a brief meeting. She seems happy to have some romance and a night out on the town from a nice guy and some gifts to help her make ends meet.
On a related note, I find that so many women on DIA will start up a conversation with me just because I'm not crude. They tell me that it's very rare for a poster to treat them with respect. It's amazing how much mileage you can get out of simply not being an ass.[/QUOTE]I concur with Wazoo, I don't even bring up sex until the pinay does. It's a game and they love to "talk around" the subject. If they come out talking money, then I change from BF / GF mode into business mode and start negotiating.
Respect for fellow human beings is something we should all practice. It comes back 2u tenfold.
Cheapy
In all the time that I have been using different chat / dating sites like DIA and Pinalove I have noticed a distinct disparity between the woman's appearance in her photos and the dimensions displayed on the profile.
Usually the photos show they are much bigger than the dimensions suggest.
Each time when I have asked for clarification I have had 2 responses: either they reply that the photo was taken years earlier and now "I am a little bit more chubby heehee" or else they have no idea how tall or heavy they are and so they just guess.
Sometimes they are in the ball park but yesterday I called out a women with around 10 pics on her profile who said she was 164 cms and 34 kgs. From her photos she would have to be 60 kgs minimum. 34 kgs is a spinner.
Her profile mentioned being honest and truthful and she did not want to meet liar guys (sic) so when I politely suggested that she should be honest and say truthfully how big (heavy) she was she became very nasty and blocked me.
Just a heads-up that you shouldn't always put much store on the height and weight listed on profiles. Most times they honestly have no idea how tall or heavy they are.
[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1364334]In all the time that I have been using different chat / dating sites like DIA and Pinalove I have noticed a distinct disparity between the woman's appearance in her photos and the dimensions displayed on the profile.[/QUOTE]Very true Red Kilt. I find them wrong more with the weight than the height. I too have asked "is that really your weight" when listed as 34kgs etc. Yesterday I asked that of a a DIA listed as 90 kgs and she said yes that's right. That's heavier than me! I always strive to have a cam chat before I have a Filipina date.
How do you find Pinalove? Never tried it.
Enjoy the festive season. I am!
Kongking
[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1364334]Just a heads-up that you shouldn't always put much store on the height and weight listed on profiles. Most times they honestly have no idea how tall or heavy they are.[/QUOTE]Yes, Red, and the same goes for all their other claims: beauty, breast size, age, sweetness, etc. One must see (and feel) to believe. Regards, buddy. Merry Christmas to all! Hope you guys are getting the Christmas "presents" you want!
[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1364334]In all the time that I have been using different chat / dating sites like DIA and Pinalove I have noticed a distinct disparity between the woman's appearance in her photos and the dimensions displayed on the profile.
Usually the photos show they are much bigger than the dimensions suggest.
Each time when I have asked for clarification I have had 2 responses: either they reply that the photo was taken years earlier and now "I am a little bit more chubby heehee" or else they have no idea how tall or heavy they are and so they just guess.
Sometimes they are in the ball park but yesterday I called out a women with around 10 pics on her profile who said she was 164 cms and 34 kgs. From her photos she would have to be 60 kgs minimum. 34 kgs is a spinner.
Her profile mentioned being honest and truthful and she did not want to meet liar guys (sic) so when I politely suggested that she should be honest and say truthfully how big (heavy) she was she became very nasty and blocked me.
Just a heads-up that you shouldn't always put much store on the height and weight listed on profiles. Most times they honestly have no idea how tall or heavy they are.[/QUOTE]After being with lots of DIA girls my observations are,
1. Target the age group you want. I only target 18-23 because this group tend to be non-corrupt and sometimes do not play games. Yes, they are inexperienced in sex but I like it that way to teach them.
Besides very few of my girls were money hungry and upkeep is cheap.
2. When you look at the pics posted on DIA, target the ones who have natural look. Photoshopped or showing big boobs etc are generally ladyboys. I also avoid the ones with heavy make up and hot lipstick.
Granted that these girls do not own a camera and they try to put the pics which was taken an occassion like wedding, party etc. Most of the time it is outdated. Cam chat is the best option but I have " Dated " without cam chats also. Experience varied from thrilled to dissappointment. But if they give me good sex who cares?
3. Naturally when they meet a strange guy they will be afraid. It is our duty to put them at ease and treat them well. Never demand anything first. Also give them a choice to run if they do not like you. It is not to be taken.
As an insult. I have almost tried to kick some girls out because of an attitude. Even then I give them a day to adjust. Some do and become excellent companions and some do not and leave.
4. Always make your intentions crystal clear as to the relationship. I always say I am looking for company only and never promise serious relationship. Some girls drop me but you will be surprised how many still wants to be with me.
5. As to money and gifts very few demand it. They are quite happy with whatever you bring, buy or give. For them even 500 pesos is big. Just the other day one of my previous gf asked me if I can send 500 pesos.
Although long time ago I have sent money to girls these days I give only when I see them.
6. IMHO most of the girls know height and weight when they joined DIA. If they are little plump their boobs will be bigger. Ver rare to find In Phil slim girls having big boobs.
Bottom line is you are going there to have fun with normal girls. So what if they are short or tall or heavy or slim? Just enjoy them and if you do not like can always get rid of them with some compensation.
This advice does not hold good for people looking for lifetime companion or long time relationship.