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[QUOTE=Sammon; 1364454]After being with lots of DIA girls my observations are,

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Bottom line is you are going there to have fun with normal girls. So what if they are short or tall or heavy or slim? Just enjoy them and if you do not like can always get rid of them with some compensation.[/QUOTE]Good series of points Sammon and worth a "Post of Distinction" citation.

I concur with all of your points. In my OP I didn't mention that I too have lots of experience with DIA women. My main point was to advise guys NOT to put too fine a point on what dimensions are stated in the profile, and be prepared for a difference between the woman that you actually meet and the one on the DIA site. Sometimes it is a pleasant surprise and they are BETTER in person than on chat.

[QUOTE=Sammon; 1364454]After being with lots of DIA girls my observations are,

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6. IMHO most of the girls know height and weight when they joined DIA. If they are little plump their boobs will be bigger. Ver rare to find In Phil slim girls having big boobs.

Bottom line is you are going there to have fun with normal girls. So what if they are short or tall or heavy or slim? Just enjoy them and if you do not like can always get rid of them with some compensation.

This advice does not hold good for people looking for lifetime companion or long time relationship.[/QUOTE]Apparently Sammon has a rule #7.

7. If a fellow ISGer give you a contact, suggest that you will return the favor in the future. But then don't do it.

LOL. And for those of you who do share thank you. You know who you are. When I asked Jackson to create the chat thread it was my hope that we could exchange info about specific gals. X

Although I've yet to go over there, I've been going through DIA for a few days now without much success.

I've noticed that the ones that dress the sexiest and talk dirtiest on their profiles are ladyboys. It seems like the owners of the website will kick any girl who dresses sexy. If she isn't a ladyboy. WTF is up with that?

Though mainly it's also because I'm restricting my searches to Manila, AC, and other places in the north where I'll be visiting. Anyways I'll keep trying but so far I've put in quite a bit of effort without much return. Wondering why everyone else is crowing about it. If anyone does have any gems feel free to share but I don't have much to give in return. Though if I do meet you in Manila during CNY I'll buy you a beer!

While we're talking about DIA: what city names are you guys using when searching for girls in for example AC? Some girls put down Angeles City, some put down Angeles, some Pampanga, some AC etc etc etc.

[QUOTE=X Man; 1364592]Apparently Sammon has a rule #7.

7. If a fellow ISGer give you a contact, suggest that you will return the favor in the future. But then don't do it.

LOL. And for those of you who do share thank you. You know who you are. When I asked Jackson to create the chat thread it was my hope that we could exchange info about specific gals. X[/QUOTE]I have never asked for contact info from anybody except David thinking that I will make a trip to Peru. He was gracious enough as he helps lots of forum members. But for me at the moment pull of Phi is very strong and have put of my trip to Peru.

I can hold my own fort with harem, thank you.

Secondly it is not the question of giving contact details but it is the girls wish that she is not traded between people even with just the contact info.

I have helped some forum members with the contact info of some girls who I have not met and some I have met but they requested if I can introduce them to my friends. The members and the girls thanked me.

I don't think you'll have much luck getting dia gals in AC. Most are bar girls anyway. Just go to the bar.

Here is one that I thought was in Visayans, but I finally met her in AC recently. Mostly a waste of my time. Aimalyn.

[QUOTE=El Ted;1364710]While we're talking about DIA: what city names are you guys using when searching for girls in for example AC? Some girls put down Angeles City, some put down Angeles, some Pampanga, some AC etc etc etc.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=X Man; 1364981]I don't think you'll have much luck getting dia gals in AC. Most are bar girls anyway. Just go to the bar.

Here is one that I thought was in Visayans, but I finally met her in AC recently. Mostly a waste of my time. Aimalyn.[/QUOTE]Acute, chronical, aggravated and incurable mongeritis leads to this kind of statement.

Angeles City has about 340, 000 inhabitants, Metro Angeles close to a million and it is quite unlikely that all the DIA women from AC and of the surrounding areas are all bar girls.

The typical DIA girl from AC is probably not different from the ones in Cebu, Bacolod, Davao, CDO etc, the entire gamut from quasi-nun to working girls (and ladyboys) with of course (X man number here) many bar girls, probably more than elsewhere but *percentage wise* not that significant.

There maybe a stigma (LOL) associated with AC and the girls avoid to mention their town? I am skeptical. Is it the same for Subic or Olongapo?

Sources Wikipedia and DIA (search for Angeles City).

A town with several universities, malls etc should certainly offer lots of possibilities (different too) beyond yr lovely and delightful bar fined BG, ST or LT (true you do need DIA for the latter).

Question to the moderator: when I type who (full spelling with re at the end) it changes automatically to working girl, why? Mrs Grundy at work on ISG?

[quote=sammon; 1364454]after being with lots of dia girls my observations are,

1. target the age group you want. i only target 18-23 because this group tend to be non-corrupt and sometimes do not play games. yes, they are inexperienced in sex but i like it that way to teach them.

besides very few of my girls were money hungry and upkeep is cheap.

3. naturally when they meet a strange guy they will be afraid. it is our duty to put them at ease and treat them well. never demand anything first. also give them a choice to run if they do not like you. it is not to be taken.

4. always make your intentions crystal clear as to the relationship. i always say i am looking for company only and never promise serious relationship. some girls drop me but you will be surprised how many still wants to be with me.

5. as to money and gifts very few demand it. they are quite happy with whatever you bring, buy or give. for them even 500 pesos is big. just the other day one of my previous gf asked me if i can send 500 pesos.

although long time ago i have sent money to girls these days i give only when i see them.

6. imho most of the girls know height and weight when they joined dia. if they are little plump their boobs will be bigger. ver rare to find in phil slim girls having big boobs.[/quote]

1. agreed w/ caveats. my target age was 24. 35; the 18- 22 ones i found a bit annoying with the incessant yet banal texting, but i have since dropped it down to 18. keep in mind that there are some excellent older women. i've been meeting one who is 40 who hadn't had sex in 17 years after she gave birth and the guy dumped her. i've also met one who is 50. she constantly messaged me. three kids and an unmarked stomach. separated from her husband. a real firecracker. my mistake to wait so long. why? i ignored her due to her age. i've enjoyed both immensely. personality trumps age.

3 & 4. in my profiles i communicate exactly what will happen; mall wandering, flowers, dinner dates, and wedding bells aren't on offer. they come to my place for sex. note: after i posted this i received a reply to an email i earlier sent: "thats sounds great!! i like rimming guy asshole licking deep into it with my tongue.. ! [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord121][CodeWord121][/url] and cuming into my mouth and all over face is my favorite one to do. except anal,rough sex hurt/pain are my limitations and rules that must to be follow! also im open fucking in pussy but must hve condom to be sure safe!! im free to meet up in day time in late morning..! here is my no. 09(redacted).. im lookung forward to meet u..! thanks!" you're welcome, baby.

5. rarely am i asked for money. when it has happened it's for "taxi", and i pay no more than 300.

6. height and weight i don't worry too much about. in my experience a chubby girl will tell you she's that. so many lads looking for spinners that they've failed to find the 5'6" mestiza with the 38dd's. i haven't felt and fucked tits so large in almost 2 decades. speaking of mestizas, don't limit yourself to the "exotic beauties".

i'll add: if you're looking for 2 or more hookups a day find a way to keep track of your girls. i've forgotten to add names to the numbers in my phone. their profile names are unlike their real names. i've confused numerous girls with others. today i was looking to contact a girl who came over last thur and i couldn't remember her name or where i met her. i'm checking all my messages on all the sites (shit, girls frequently change their photos) and all my emails. flummoxed. eureka! i found her and sent her an email. a couple of hours later she replies that's she's in makati and do i want to meet."sure, come on over. 430." she wants to meet in a mall. odd. last time she came right over. maybe she wants christmas present. bloody hell."come to my condo." i get a reply."okay, where do you live?" wtf, she was just here a week ago. absentminded one. i send address."i'm in a cab and will be there soon." ten minutes later she arrives, texts me, and i meet her outside. who. is. this? once in a while the gods smile on me, and today was one of 'them. a fucking knockout. 19. so beautiful. tall. well dressed. killer heels. studying to be a flight attendant. chat for 15 minutes and i tell her: "go take a shower." "okay."

this leads me to my last suggestion. limit your questions and maximize your directives."do you want to take shower now?" i feel is too risky. they're already getting a nosebleed from all the english. have a heart. tell her what to do.

happy new year, lads.

I had a very nice DIA in AC and she was slim and stacked. Actually, she was a referral from another DIA girl who couldn't get a babysitter or something. But the bar girls are fine, too.

[QUOTE=X Man; 1364981]I don't think you'll have much luck getting dia gals in AC. Most are bar girls anyway. Just go to the bar.

Here is one that I thought was in Visayans, but I finally met her in AC recently. Mostly a waste of my time. Aimalyn.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1365596]I'll add: If you're looking for 2 or more hookups a day find a way to keep track of your girls. I've forgotten to add names to the numbers in my phone. Their profile names are unlike their real names. I've confused numerous girls with others.[/QUOTE]I use MS OneNote. A simple click on the task bar's icon and you've got a screen shot of her DIA page (or whatever website page) , complete with her photo and the last few messages. You can also capture screen shots from the message pages and group them with her profile page. If the girl changes her photo I simply add it to the group as well. It's also handy if she has closed or deleted her profile, but already given you her contact info.

You can type in personal notes too. Like phone numbers she gave you in ym / skype or via eamil, personal tastes, bi-girl or straight, etc. Along with various types of tags; all of it searchable; so if you have a mystery phone number on your cell phone you can search for the number in OneNote. About tags, for example for "D- cup" only girls, add a tag and type in "D-cups" next to the icon that pops up (wherever you place the cursor on her page is where the tag appears). Later you can search for all of those tags. You can change font sizes and colors, highlight sections, etc. The possibilities are endless.

All of the info you gather is saved into "workbooks". You can separate them with tabs for each city / region / country, etc. And you have the option of password protection for each workbook or just the individual tabs.

Of course it takes a little to get used to, but I have found it a great tool for organizing my DIA / web contacts. There are also some apps for iPad users that will allow you access, but I don't know if you can edit from there; is anyone aware of an app for it?

Drag and drop your OneNote files into something like Dropbox and you'll have web access to your notes from anywhere.

Naturally this is no help if you forget to update the contact info on your phone and you're not near a computer, LOL.

[QUOTE=Pip Jaeger;1365658]I use MS OneNote.[/QUOTE]Outstanding. I'll check it out. Thanks, m8.

[QUOTE=Hibukhibok; 1365476]A town with several universities, malls etc should certainly offer lots of possibilities (different too) beyond yr lovely and delightful bar fined BG, ST or LT (true you do need DIA for the latter).

Question to the moderator: when I type who (full spelling with re at the end) it changes automatically to working girl, why? Mrs Grundy at work on ISG?[/QUOTE]Correction: True you do NOT need DIA for the latter. Oops.

Of course DIA is useful for the former.

The former and the latter etc, this turn is confusing and should be avoided as per Samuel Johnson himself, possibly a monger too with weird tastes (enjoyed being whipped) , never made it to AC although strictly speaking he could have since during his lifetime (1762) Manila then was in British hands and AC only a short (couple days) kalesa hop. His dick was short too but any Japayoke BG can handle that very well.

The Brits would have liked in retrospect to hang on to Manila but when the treaty of Paris was signed (1763) there was no mention of the Phils as the signatories did not even yet know about the Spaniards having surrendered Manila to the Brits.

[QUOTE=Ickywicky; 1364615]Although I've yet to go over there, I've been going through DIA for a few days now without much success.

I've noticed that the ones that dress the sexiest and talk dirtiest on their profiles are ladyboys. It seems like the owners of the website will kick any girl who dresses sexy. If she isn't a ladyboy. WTF is up with that?

Though mainly it's also because I'm restricting my searches to Manila, AC, and other places in the north where I'll be visiting. Anyways I'll keep trying but so far I've put in quite a bit of effort without much return. Wondering why everyone else is crowing about it. If anyone does have any gems feel free to share but I don't have much to give in return. Though if I do meet you in Manila during CNY I'll buy you a beer![/QUOTE]First, every story on ISG about how guys had the time of their life with a filipina and they post it was so easy, needs to come with a big blinking [b]YMMV[/b] Stipulation. Some guys are younger, some handsome, some have infinite charm and can get laid anywhere and pick and choose who they bang. In life all things are not created equal, and this is one of those times. Take some time to do your homework. Browse the men seeking woman section on DIA and check out the competition. Put some time in and read a few profiles and get a sense of what other guys are doing and posting. Granted most of those guys are web-warriors only and will never get on a plane and visit the Philippines, but check them out just the same.

The next thing you need to do is post a clear and flattering picture on your DIA profile (or other dating website). Posting a non-smiling or passport-slash-mugshot picture ensures your profile will get few visitors and make sure it's a color picture with a nice background. Time stamps on your pic that say '1997' are a real turn off! Make sure its a somewhat recent pic because if there's one thing filipinas are good at, is picturex2 knowledge.

Next bit of info would be [b]do not lie on your profile! [/b] If you want a wife, gear your profile that way. If you want a steady GF, adjust your profile accordingly. If you want NSA sex with a filipina be blunt and straight-forward without mentioning money or time limits. Both things that will get your profile banned and make the filipina feel like a BG. Hint with code words like "I will take good care of you" ect, and work out the terms and payment when you meet in person or on another medium like yahoo messenger.

Last thing to realize, filipinas rarely take the time to read your profile. They just send a message (cut and paste or original) and alot have no clue what you are seeking. I always ask within the first few messages sent if they have read my profile. Most will go read it at that time.

When it comes to asking other members for contact info or 'gems' as you call it, is a dicey game and you need to put in time and do your own searching for best results. Asking another member might yield a few numbers or profiles but are your tastes compatible? What if you like spinners and the info contains only chubbies? What if the filipinas interacted very well with one member and creating the same chemistry with you might be asking for too much. So do your own homework and that way you have only yourself to blame if things do not work out as planned.

[QUOTE=Hibukhibok; 1365476]Acute, chronical, aggravated and incurable mongeritis leads to this kind of statement.

Angeles City has about 340, 000 inhabitants, Metro Angeles close to a million and it is quite unlikely that all the DIA women from AC and of the surrounding areas are all bar girls.

The typical DIA girl from AC is probably not different from the ones in Cebu, Bacolod, Davao, CDO etc, the entire gamut from quasi-nun to working girls (and ladyboys) with of course (X man number here) many bar girls, probably more than elsewhere but *percentage wise* not that significant.

There maybe a stigma (LOL) associated with AC and the girls avoid to mention their town? I am skeptical. Is it the same for Subic or Olongapo?

Sources Wikipedia and DIA (search for Angeles City).

A town with several universities, malls etc should certainly offer lots of possibilities (different too) beyond yr lovely and delightful bar fined BG, ST or LT (true you do need DIA for the latter).[/quote]

When you have to source Wiki, you have no idea what's going on in and around AC. Most of the senior members know it's a total waste of time to chase "regular" DIA girls who list there location as AC or any surrounding city. The vast majority are indeed BG's who are tired of the bar scene and have wised up to the fact that yah for awhile the bar scene was fun but there is no pot of gold at the end of the rainbow only a worn out body. All of them desire a knight to ride in, marry them and take them away from having to endure a pussy pounding from a couple hundred guys per year minimum.

No matter how many times you chat or exchange messages with 'regular' AC women (non-sex trade employed) on DIA to a fault all will deny working in a bar or ever working in a bar. When pressed or while digging through the FB, tagged or upon meeting in person it becomes clear they worked or still work in a bar. Sure will try and claim waitress status and some will say they only work in the kitchen and that's alot of bola.

Sure there are 'regular' filipinas who live in AC that are on DIA and other dating sites, but IMO when you meet 10 and 8 are working in the bar or former BG's its not worth the time to try and sort out who is whom. There are better places in the Philippines where it's much easier to find 'regular' filipinas without all the drama and hassle.

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Question to the moderator: when I type who (full spelling with re at the end) it changes automatically to working girl, why? Mrs Grundy at work on ISG?[/QUOTE]The word you are inquiring about is a derogorory word and as such has no place on ISG. Forum software corrects your improper use of the word into "working girl". Using alternative ways to get the word in question (as well as other offending words and terms) inserted into the text of your post is an easy way to get placed on moderated status. Openly criticizing forum management practices or moderator actions will result in your profile potentially being banned.

Happy Holidays to all.