Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

I would like to add to GE comments to say I agree with what he has stated is correct, because culturally Filipinos have a different mind-set.

Many of the girls who work in bars, deny this fact to themselves by hiding behind a wide range of different names, such as GRO, dancers, waitress, or door girls however, you can still pay money and take them all to your room for sex. Unlike in Latin America where the girls refer to themselves as [i]Putas[/i].

I would hope a majority of would not risk the stigma of going public of making a big scene trying extort money from some hapless foreigner. Let’s be honest here how many girls would risk standing up and saying that they went to a bar, met this foreigner went back to his place after midnight where he tried to attack her, so now the whole of her family and friends realise that she doesn’t actually work in a hotel and will wonder where the money she has been sending has actually come from.

Remember, if you meet a girl in a bar, invite her back to your place and have sex with her and then give her some taxi money, this is not yet a crime.

The Spam Hog is correct as usual. The uglier and the older the maid, the better for you as it's highly unlikely anyone owuld believe her if she cried molestation. I actually do not mind it much if former sleep overs show up unannounced as I tell the maid to tell them they cannot come in. They rarely try twice though I have gotten a couple of nasty text messages in the past. I think the best advice is never to lie to the girls about your feelings toward them or what you may want from them. There's no point to it, and it may only make things worse for your down the line somewhere.

:D

GE

Thanks for all the great responses, guys. The depth of collective knowledge here at WSG never fails to impress me.

Hello all,

The Metro section of the NY Times recounted today (6/16) the sad tale of Dr. Jonathan Nyce who is being charged with the brutal slaying of his Filipino wife who is twenty years his junior. They were married for 14 years and lived in New Jersey.

Apparently she (35yo) had been having an affair with the hispanic gardener for a year. Dr. Bryce had known about the affair and she promised to end it but didn't. In typically dry fashion, the Times described Dr. Bryce as bright but socially awkward. He had invented some medical procedure but his company was foundering. He met Michelle through a newspaper ad and they have several children.

An internet search may turn up more info.

I'm not trying to make any points here: maybe she wasn't getting enough sex or attention or both. She looked very attractive in the photo in the newspaper.

Looking forward to my next trip to the PI in late August.

Don

Here DD,

A link to the news on this guy and his murdered wife.

[url]http://abclocal.go.com/wpvi/news/060905_nw_nycemurder.html[/url]

As they say in the court, cheating is not a reason to murder your spouse, but it is a little telling to all those who think the loving catholic wife from the Philippines is going to stay with them till death do they part...no pun intended here.

She was obviously looking for action.

As a Father of a good friend of mine used to say "if you catch your wife cheating don't be mad at the guy or threaten him as there would be no hanky panky unless the girl wanted it to happen"

If she had killed her husband for the same reason there would be sympathy the world over for her. That's America.

In any case this guy is a turd and I hope he gets his for beating up on a defenseless woman.

FF

[QUOTE=Juniour]Remember, if you meet a girl in a bar, invite her back to your place and have sex with her and then give her some taxi money, this is not yet a crime.[/QUOTE]Not yet, mate! But depends already where you are.

I was told, in Sweden it is a crime already for the customer. Contrarily it remains free for the pro (supplier).

Absurd!

Thank god I'm 10,000km away from Europe.;-)

Cheers!

Hi,

I have recently met a filipina lady. She is very attractive and very petite as 1 would expect. She also seems to be somewhat wild. Never being with a filipina before, I was wondering in general how wild do theses ladies generally get in the bedroom? Are they generally ok with exploring Greek? You may laugh, but didnt know since they are so tiny if this is something they typically enjoy? Please give your opinions as I find this lady erotic and would like to explore the back door with her tiny frame.

[QUOTE=Fun468]Hi,

I have recently met a filipina lady. She is very attractive and very petite as 1 would expect. She also seems to be somewhat wild. Never being with a filipina before, I was wondering in general how wild do theses ladies generally get in the bedroom? Are they generally ok with exploring Greek? You may laugh, but didnt know since they are so tiny if this is something they typically enjoy? Please give your opinions as I find this lady erotic and would like to explore the back door with her tiny frame.[/QUOTE]
Sorry to disapoint you,but being very active in the local adult community ,I can tell you with certainty that the overwhelming majority of Pinays are not into anal.the Philippine Cosmopolitan sex survey says only 15% of Pinays are into anal.But then again,she could be part of the 15% cheers

As a resident in the RPI, I know as much as I need to find a girl whenever and wherever I (alone) need. but as I stated my wife has suggested we find a girl for the night. Our first attempt was in AC, and my wife did the questioning with the Mamasans, I just sat there and grinned. Eventually we found a girl who was up for it, and it surprised me that it took 3 bars to find one willing (in Nero's). The girl was OK in bed, nothing extra special but definately a proffessional. This definately turned the wife off the idea somewhat next day.

That's the basic problem; my wife is scared that if she really goes to town on some hooker's pussy she could get "sick". So I have suggested trying Manila, but as I go there frequently; Burgos, EDSA/Airport or LA Cafe, I dont want to meet any girls i have known before. I also suggested finding a girl one night meeting her next day and taking her to a clinic for a check up. Then for a wild night.

Any suggestions on alternate venues (must have young good looking girls), other places to try or other suggestions as to how to go about this without the wife getting up tight.

[QUOTE=Member #2559]As a resident in the RPI, I know as much as I need to find a girl whenever and wherever I (alone) need. but as I stated my wife has suggested we find a girl for the night. Our first attempt was in AC, and my wife did the questioning with the Mamasans, I just sat there and grinned. Eventually we found a girl who was up for it, and it surprised me that it took 3 bars to find one willing (in Nero's). The girl was OK in bed, nothing extra special but definately a proffessional. This definately turned the wife off the idea somewhat next day.

That's the basic problem; my wife is scared that if she really goes to town on some hooker's pussy she could get "sick". So I have suggested trying Manila, but as I go there frequently; Burgos, EDSA/Airport or LA Cafe, I dont want to meet any girls i have known before. I also suggested finding a girl one night meeting her next day and taking her to a clinic for a check up. Then for a wild night.

Any suggestions on alternate venues (must have young good looking girls), other places to try or other suggestions as to how to go about this without the wife getting up tight.[/QUOTE]
There is a Philippine adult forum called Manilatonight.com,After you join and have 25 posts,The adult sections open up.There are sections on wife swapping,Bi partners etc.In Manila,Try a place called Skyline Massage Parlour on the 8th floor on the Grand Boulevard Hotel,It has young good looking girls who are checked weekly,About 20-25% of their girls are into threesomes,They even have quintuplet service,where you get 4 girls at one time.Hope this helps

Like women the world over, if you get them hot enough, they'll let you try.
The thing is to make it so good for them they'll let you finish.

My experience is if you sling 'em them twice normally in an evening, then go down on them for a good long time (seriously a long time -- 20 minutes, and your tounge is tired at the end) they'll be so hot, so wet, and so loose they'll permit the posterior porking. And Fillipinias being thinner and shorter than most western women doesn't make 'em any less willing to be greeked.

[QUOTE=Fun468]Hi,

I have recently met a filipina lady. She is very attractive and very petite as 1 would expect. She also seems to be somewhat wild. Never being with a filipina before, I was wondering in general how wild do theses ladies generally get in the bedroom? Are they generally ok with exploring Greek? You may laugh, but didnt know since they are so tiny if this is something they typically enjoy? Please give your opinions as I find this lady erotic and would like to explore the back door with her tiny frame.[/QUOTE]

I met this highly attractive Filipina girl working in the UK via some friends. We hit it off straight away - dfk first date. 2nd date we're practically all over each other. She doesn't want to do the deed because of crappy plasterboard walls and neighbours (she's noisy apparently). But then she proceeds to let me explore her upper body with my mouth without any real effort to stop me, though down lower was a bit more resistant. She had seriously deep breathing, flushed face, and probably the longest snog I've ever had. But then the next day she says in 1 text message that she's not ready and in the next message that she was as horny as hell?!?! It's one hell of a tease! The ironic thing is she says she likes me TOO much and is scared because of it!

Now, she's a professional and not a sex worker (and I doubt ever has been), and also quite religious. So I'm looking for opinions on regular PI ladies. Her attitude does not seem to match the advice given on Filipino dating sites.

Should I give her the time that she's saying on the one hand, or gently push for what we obviously both want? Of course, I don't want to hurt her - but I've waited before and they got bored!

Confused, never had a girl do quite this sort of thing on this sort of scale before!

Thanks.

Simmer!

I think we should call upon Cebu Local, as he is member of the same community as me in Manila, and living there. He should have a lot of input on pinays, nevermind if they live in the RP or UK. We are talking about the nature of the girls, right?
There is also another "old" member CANCONTRIB, which for sure can give input on this, but we have not seen him on this forum for more than a year now. I hope he is still monitoring the thread.

This has become a long thread, with a lot of valuable advises, so read through it when you have time, and learn.

Me - I have a non-WG lady that I am with when I am in Manila.
Never mind the pre-history, but it did not take long after I started to hit on her, before we made out :) , and she was a virgin (bad me). :D
We went scubadiving together one weekend, and then I did not see her for a few days, but I texted her. When I was back in town I texted her again, and she invited me to the movie. After the movie I paid her taxi home and agreed to see her for dinner the next day. We had our dinner in my hotel, and she was typical filipina "dizzy" after the meal, so I invited her up to my room to relax. This was the first time we dfk'ed and played, but no intercourse. We agreed to see each other the next evening after her work, and then it was a hit.

Someone may not agree, but I think that it is part of their nature to be naughty and go all the way (after a while - almost like what they say in the switchboards down there).

I have been with a few non-WG's, and that are hard to bed the first couple of times, but being persistent (inviting them for more dates) - you will get there, unless you have bad breath, smell or other handicap :) . I am sure Cebu Local can back me up on this.

Right now I am working on two ladies, one promo-girl and Miss "something", and a nursing student. She is curious since she asked if I was circumcised (am not), so she wanted to "see" and try, if I promised not to get her pregnant. She had slept with one boyfriend she said (knowing girls, they always divide the numbers, opposite to boys, so I guess she means two)


[QUOTE=Simmer]
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So I'm looking for opinions on regular PI ladies. Her attitude does not seem to match the advice given on Filipino dating sites.

Should I give her the time that she's saying on the one hand, or gently push for what we obviously both want? Of course, I don't want to hurt her - but I've waited before and they got bored!

Confused, never had a girl do quite this sort of thing on this sort of scale before!

Thanks.[/QUOTE]

Hi
Most of the dating sites give advice for working girls.I personaly know the girl he meets whenever he is in manila and she is gorgeous and is a defenite none-WG,She worked for one of the most exclusive resorts in the Country and is currently still in the travel industry.You get "good "girls in stages.They dont like to go all the way on the first date.Thats for "bad"girls.She will give it up in stages,Expect heavy petting by 2nd date with her giving you a handjob.Expect oral on the 3rd or 4th date and all the way after that."Good "Pinay girls are generally like that.Good Luck

Thanks Cebu and Marco. I've flicked through various reports in this forum but I just needed a "personal" take on my situation! Trouble is, she talks dirty - very dirty - and yet is afraid to act it out physically. She's changed schedules to fit around me and phoned 3 times yesterday. Tonight will be date #3.5 (the first 0.5 just being an introduction at birthday party). So maybe very soon she will be ready. Wish me luck!

Thanks again.