Sex slavery and trafficking?
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the bad.
one girl told me the story about black saturday. this is how some girls are broken in to this business, mostly the forced and trafficked girls. to learn how always to smile and treat customers right, the pimp ties up the girl, and then lets some guys have repeated sex with her over 24 hours, vaginal and anal, and she has to smile the whole time or they beat her. the girl gets no break no food no water just 24 hours of constant forced sex. the girls commonly has black marks or bruises on her lower back after this, hence the term black saturday.
this story fucked me up bad and it took me several days to get it out of my head, if this is even half true. it shows how bad this business is and what some girls have to endure to give "us" our pleasure.
the forced girl.
this exotic looking girl who spoke very little english intrigued me. so i took her to the room. i started in my normal manner, just talking and gently touching her body. trying to get a feel for her. as her english was bad, this took a little while, but she was a sweet girl so i did not mind. but then she dropped a bomb on me, she basically told me she was there against her will, her "boyfriend" forced her to work there. she was a born and raised in germany, but her parents was deeply religious immigrants. so the boyfriend threatened her with telling the parents that she no longer was a virgin and she partied and was drinking alcohol. she told me her father would kill or banish her, if they would find out about her. and the only good thing left in her shitty life was her family, so she would do anything not to loose that. so going to the police was out of the question for her. this is a culture i cannot understand or will ever want to understand, but the girl loved her family so much that she would rather work in forced prostitution then losing them. her hope was that her "boyfriend" would find someone new and prettier in one to two years time and would then let her go. she told me she was taking anti depressants to cope. and if she had one great day among two bad ones she would be ok. she told me this because i was very nice to her and not the standard german customer. she feared that the if she told the this to a german customer or the club management or another girl in the club, they would contact the police and parents would find out about it. she swore me to secrecy and told me she felt a great relief being able to talk to somebody about this. either she was a oscar class actress and completely played me into paying her for two hours of her time with no sex. or she was for real, i could see her fighting the tears several times.
and when i told her there where no way i could have sex with her after this, she got real scared. turns out this particular club is really fuzzy about reputation and keeps scoreboards for the girls. so she was real worried that i would come out of the room not looking satisfied and tell the management that she gave a bad performance and should be kicked out from the club, she told me the boss could see it on my face if i did not get great sex, so she practically begged me to have sex with her. but i could not, i just keeps up the act the rest of the day always smiling when i saw her, and she was always kissing me etc.
what a total mind fuck this was for me, what should i do, i felt i had to do something, but she begged me not to. i left the room with serious self doubt and was depressed. was i a good person for coming to places like this? was i coward for not doing something? what can i do? should i tell the management etc.
the irony of the whole thing was my reaction, the way i chose to cope with this. i basically went and had sex with another girl to feel better and then told her about the whole story without revealing the other girls name, to get it out of my system. she then told me this was a common story among fkk girls, in fact it had happened to her also, but she had broken free from her "boyfriend" and worked now 100% independently, and was "happy" with that.
after talking to allot of girls, i learned allot of things. girls says that regular health checks are not mandatory in most clubs, and some girls choose not to take them. especially the girls with "boyfriends" taking all their money, so they can't afford tests. some clubs are runned by the mafia. many girls have outside pimps / boyfriends and the clubs basically do not care, or can't care because if they get involved in the selling of sex part they get charged with pimping. they just provide the facilities where the guys and girls pay the same entrance fee to use them.
there seems to be two kinds of girls in these clubs, the ones who are independent and strong and do this for themselves because they want the fast money, to buy designer clothes and jewelry etc. and the ones with pimps. the strong independent ones basically say the girls with pimps are stupid and weak and it's their own fault and do not feel any guilt for them, because no matter what they tell them, they would not listen and always go back to their "boyfriends". so they just stop caring about them.
how do you, guys handle the bad side of prostitution, i am basically in bliss when i am with the girls, but the day after i get self doubt and feel badly about it. how do you cope, how do you rationalize it. how can some guys buy sex from drug addicts for 20 euro, and be fine with that and believing its consensual sex. how can guys treat the girls like they are nothing, a product to be used and thrown away, and go home with a clean consciousness. and the you got a whole new subject about wives / girlfriends / children that some of you have to think of. that i don't have to.
i personally have tried to only to buy sex from independent woman, who choose this line of work from themselves. to keep my conscious clean, and as you can read i have failed. and have a hard time with that, still the sweetness of the bliss i experience pulls me, so i really doubt i can stop now, i really have opened a can of worms for myself. thank the norse gods there is no fkk in norway or i would been broke within six months.
there is a lot i have left out, it would simply be to long a post otherwise.
*disclaimer, all information in this post is my personal observations and / or hearsay, and should be treated as sutch.[/quote]i have personally seen or know from good friends clear slavery issues in various countries, over 10 years ago when i was more active. there also is lots of hearsay about this in germany.
unfortunately, all the sex trafficking fighters in reality fight prostitution in its entirety. it is very unusual to see institutions that actively promote legal free prostitution and fight the forced involuntary part of it.
talent visas for prostitutes would be helpful, but just mentioning this in today's feminist climate is a joke. will never happen.
the opposite side of the coin is rarely mentioned, too. the suffering of 40 year old virgin men who never get laid.
or how free prostitution tends to turn into scamming prostitutes. i have seen many places ruined by girls figuring out that they can get easier money by scamming then by actually providing services. in my experience, girls that are pressured. be it by criminal violent pimps or just by agencies who enforce standards- tend to give better service, are less prone to scam, rob or steal. yes, i know this is sad.
as an extreme example, in a recent raid on a tourist rip-off bar in brazil police found date [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] drugs with seven girls. these drugs are used to knock out dumb tourists and then totally clean out their apartment.
recently, in germany, i saw my share of m. slim girls fleeing murderous family hiding in fkk. these were the nicest gfe girls. of course, the fault does not lie with the fkk but with religion and culture and family. the fkk is their salvation, not the cause of their suffering.
i wish i had more time, i could elaborate further on the issues.
if anyone is interested in discussing this, please send me private messages. batou75, send me a pm with your contact details. would love to exchange some experiences and ideas.
Question for Mongers traveling solo to Germany
So your making another trip to Germany to check out all that the country has to offer, mainly the fkk clubs. Do you mention your travel plans to friends and family? If so, what is their reaction? I've heard everything from 'why Germany, why not Ireland etc'. Whats funny is guys will comment "you should go to Amsterdam, once in your life you have to experience that'. They have no clue what's available in Germany, that in itself is a huge plus in my opinion. This is a question more towards the USA travelor. Do you tell your friend dropping you off at the airport that your going to fuck your way thru Germany?
I've got some friends who make trips down to Costa Rica and Rio, the first destination in my mind really raises red flags. Rio on the other hand might not get scrutinized as much with the beach scene being so widely known.