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hi woody!thanks for the note. i haven't been over there for a few months, so it's possible. since i live in the area, i'll take some time to check it out. i noticed that there is now 3 amp on the same street of 21 - towards the end walking away from the station - that are offering fs to any foreigner. the touts will happily greet you as you walk up the street anytime from around 8pm. the going rate is 10k. imho, its a better deal to ask for sumata (mutual masturbation) because since the girls value it less, they spend a little more time on it! also - you can deal! you should only pay around 7k or 8k before 10pm. or just ask for longer time.nampa - originally means 'soft group' or guys who had too much sexdrive. now it loosely refers to the art of meeting opposite sex by quick, sure conversation. kind of japanese 'speed seduction'. there are many nampa clubs and japanese otaku (obsessive) groups about nampa. the guys dressed in black suits at the station trying to get girls to join the hostess clubs are not 'nampa' - they are 'scouts' or 'crows'.

soujourn, thanks for the clariffication. I would like to indulge in Nampa. Could you please give me some of the names of these clubs in Hiro, Ebisu, or Shibuya? Also, is speaking Japanese mandatory?

Tokyo via AAThese massages are Shiatsu. Very good to break all your musles in pieces. Actually very relaxing though very painfull at the beginning.In absolutely all cases, they are performed either by old ladies in their 70's or by blind people, if not both.Perfect after a long flight and to sleep immediatly after.Do not expect any action, even from the old blind lady. Or you will be very very disappointed. Already when you will open the door...But enjoy it anyway as it is one of the very good things Japan has to offer to visitors.I personnaly have it any time I can.Wolf

Tokyo via AA,I have to echo Wolf on that one. I remember my first trip to Japan, wasted from the flight, the small sign on the dresser was just too tempting. I called for a massage and they send up an old lady who really worked me over. Believe me, there are no thoughts of sex when this wiry little thing is throwing you around the bed and snapping everything. You just keep your eyes shut and try to keep from getting damaged. It is relaxing though. I remember I asked at one hotel to "send up your youngest lady" This turned out to be a 60 year old. They all could see though! I will be back in Japan in November and can not wait!Wolf, I will drop you an email

hi amjeck and all.. here are a couple small 'nampa' tips. it' smuch the same as speed dating or nlp things. remember the goal is to take her to the hotel!1) establish a small yes - make a compliment, say something about the weather that is mutually true, etc.2) establish rapport - say something that indicates both of you have in common.3) split her from the pack - ask her to go have a drink, visit a shop, anything to get her to walk away with you.4) 'anchor' any positive experience with touch. so if you are at starbucks ordering a coffee or tea with her then it's easy to do something like gently touch her arm and say 'oh, that cake looks good!' the touch 'anchors' something positive and will put her at more ease to accept more touch.5) smile honestly and point out humor.6) be honest and hold her hand and say something like ' you are so kind and pretty. i would love to spend any small time with you!' 7) from here - if her reactions and response are still positive then it's simply a matter of risk! you could go directly to a little more rapport building or just ask to visit a relaxing place. (love hotel) or you may want to establish some cushion in your success and then invite her for dinner later. i prefer this method - i like to get her to like me a little, then retreat. japanese women get concerned if you suddenly retreat. they immediately think you don't like them and will generally start to nampa you! but i don't mean retreat like go away - just retreat like schedule something in advance of the current action!language - you don't really need to know japanese. and one of the best place to nampa is right outside any nova or gaba school! these schools try to teach english and are filled with women of all types eager and paying alot to learn it!places - i personally like ebisu the best. go towards the exit for the hibiya subway. across the street is the place for many small bar and cafe. and of course what the dicken's pub! i have taken 2 or 3 girls directly from there.meishi - business card. make alot of business card to indicate your name, position and phone number. you can get these even at narita. or most kinkos in tokyo. of course you may have your company card - but might not be appropriate for 'nampa'.keitai - celphone - you must have one when you are in japan. the cheapest is tuka. you can even buy them at almost any lawson's or 7-11. just go to the tuku store and get a pre-pay phone. total cost including phone and card should be less than 5000jpy.happy nampa!

Soujourn,Great tips! I hadn't thought of getting Japanese business cards for the purporse, but it is a great idea. How long does it take to have them made at NRT? Also, the tip on the pre-paid phone will save me a fortune. I've been renting and paying way too much.BR

I just returned from a 'massage' in Shibuya. It was one of the chinese massage places just off Center Gai. If you walk past Century 21 - on the left - and continue past the intersection towards the end of the street. Its on the right side about 30m before the end of the street. Don't worry how to find it, they always have 2 or 3 touts out looking for customers. 1 of the touts is usually a cute japanese chick. The place is on the 3rd floor. It's small and typical of these type of massage joint - 3 or 4 small paperboard rooms with a massage table. Why I like this one -1) The rotate the girls often, about every 3mo and usually every week or so will be a new girl.2) You can pick the girl out from the book - usually its a fair match - the pictures are really airbrushed - but at least you have some idea.3) You can reject any choice and just walk away4) They deliver as promised - most Japanese massage places will hook you with something like 8000Y and say everything is inlcuded - but then while you are naked on the table the girl won't do anything except light massage until you pay about 10,000 or 15,000 more!5) You can negotiate the price - earlier in the evening is better and on weekdays. They will demand 14,000Y for 30min of sex - I generally offer them 7,000 and if its not busy, they will say OK. If you are a repeat visitor its better.Tonite -1) Picked a girl name Julie (close translation) she seemed about 23 with nice face an attitude. In her dress, quite cute. When she stripped I was a bit disappointed - augmented breasts that were still only a B or C. But nice large funky nipples. She had some scar on her belly - maybe kind of c-section scar. Her attitude bumped her body weakness about a point.2) She didn't mess around with massage (it digs into your play time) and cleaned me after shower with baby wipes (nice touch and good hygiene) She gave a nice slow, deep CBJ and when I was fully erect, asked me to get on top her. I'm a little large compared to her regular customers, she said, so she was anxious to try it! Her pussy was nice and lubed and trimmed too. She responded nicely to slow deep thrusting - nearly GFE. Then she let herself enjoy some nice fucking in many positions. She had 2 orgasms that I could discern by her vaginal spasms and vocals.3) I didn't nut after 40min so I asked for 'ensho' which is extension. I paid another 3000Y and tipped her 1000Y. She grabbed me again we started fucking. She really dug me deep fucking her and pulled me as close as she could. Her pussy was really throbbing and nothing gets me off faster than to feel that! I came nice and hard deep in her. Pulled out and we cleaned up in the shower.4) They were busy so there were lots of guys waiting and you can hear all the action in each room. If you are shy, this may affect your experience- I don't mind, its kind of natural japanese way to be around many people, but avoid interaction, so you can feel comfortable.Wrap up. She's from Shanghai, most of the girls there are from Shanghai - its easier for them to get travel visa, Or taipei. The mainland girls are best though. In Shanghai she would be around 400RMB ST - 600RMB for the night. In Tokyo the total cost was 13,000JPY. So cost is about double in Tokyo with minimal chance of long time.Most japanese guys prefer japanese girls so they can indulge in fantasy or image play. They also think chinese girls might be 'dirty'. I really prefer the chinese girls - their sex play vocals are easier on my ears than the typical japanese whining and they are usually less hairy which I prefer. Also, its not likely you will get sex from Japanese girl unless its in Soaplands, SW or maybe a near-skanky pink salon girl. Most chinese massage places are a rip off - this one delivers! I recommend it if you are horny, have a little extra cash and want (re)experience a little Shanghai or Bejing barbershop type service.Cheers,SFacility - 3.5Girl looks - 3 - 7 (YMMV)Attitude - 4 - 8Cost - 3 (APAC) 8 (Japan)Service - 6

Brothers, I have really benefited from WSG over the years and I would like to give back. So here goes my first post:Over the passed 2 months I have become a minor expert on "deai sites" (hook-up websites). If you read and write Japanese these can be a gold-mine for dates.The routine is that you either (1) read a post some girl made and e-mail her, or (2) you post a profile of yourself and wait for e-mail to come. The beauty of the system is that if you make it through the e-mail exchanging phase (including exchanging a photo), you are almost guaranteed to get laid on the first date. In two months I have met 6 girls, laid 5 of them -- 4 on the first date. And I am 35 with average looks. The girls ranged from 19 to 33 years old and they were all good looking -- 6 to 10.Since success at this kind of pursuit requires written Japanese language skills, I will reserve the details of how to suceed for those who want to contact me directly. My e-mail address appears below.shinjuku_paul@yahoo.co.jpBy the way, if you can't read and write Japanese, don't forget Adult Friend Finder or Alt.com. These sites are in English and have Japanese chicks too. A friend of mine has also had success with Match.com.I am happy to see the discussion go in the direction of picking up amatuer girls versus pros. Happy hunting.

Why wait? Here is my second post:Some of you were asking about "healths" that accept gaijin. Take a look at the Madonna chain of establishments (http://www.madonna.gr.jp/). If you click on the English button on their website, you will only get the Roppongi info. But I have been to the one in Meguro many times and they have no problem with foreigners. By the looks of the staff, I doubt they speak English in Meguro though. The Hamamatsu-cho and Yoyogi locations do not accept foreigners. I have called to confirm this.Good luck.

Hey Member:How hard has it been to pick up and then drop them after just one lay?Can you post any deai leads/web addresses? I take it these are not the kind of girls who are looking for cash, right?Thanks.

Hey member1276 - I'm curious --1) Do they offer AF at Madonna? I called and couldn't get clear answer. What about 'secret' services (i.e. FS) My experience is that if you have a good session or repeat session sometimes this is possible. Otherwise 17k for a sumata shagging seems a little steep. Especially with as you know, so many willing email dates available!2) What about any SW action in Meguro - I see quite a few latin hotties walking up the street to the station?3) Any news about Gotanda area? It seems a pretty good hang for the nasty girls - especially Champions. I haven't tried to to get in there yet - my Japanese is passable, but not proficient enough to satisfy most of the health/soap standards.Ciao

All,This doesn't only work in Japan. It also works in the US. Try any Japan related website that has penpal like exchanges.The caveat is you have to be able to read/write Japanese.

Lion,In answer to your questions:1) It is really no problem to part ways with the girls from deai sites after one lay. I usually only give them my first name and Yahoo! e-mail address, so there is really no way for them to pester me if I don't want to meet them again.2) They site I recommend you try is <dr.to>. The entire site is in Japanese including credit card payment, so I can't recommend it to you folks out there who don't read Japanese.

Hi AllI was strolling through Kabukicho on Sunday Sept. 28 not paying much attention when this really cute Chinese girl asked me if I needed a blow job. I thought for a moment and it dawned on me that , yes , I did need a blow job. Since the cute tout girl was obviously not the one who would do the deed, I headed for Hinomaru.I paid my money and sat down. After a while, Ami, #26 shows up. She is about a 3, but that's fine, I wasn't expecting much. The pre-blow job conversation covered a number of topics including; 9-11, the Iraq war, WW II, Hiroshima, Nagasaki, The Great Kanto Quake and finally, how she used to hate Americans for killing so many of her compatriots, but she thinks she's over it now.I had to agree that war and earthquakes are not good and promised her that I would one day visit the A-bomb sites , but how about that blow job?She whips out a condom. Am I the first man to get a covered BJ at Hinomaru?It was a very bad cbj. She has a nasty cold and can't really do the job, so it turns into a covered hand job. Am I the first man in Japan to get a covered hj? After what seemed like an eternity I fill the balloon and leave with my dick thrashed from the no-lube covered hj. Is this standard operating procedure at Hinomaru?If so, next time think I'll save myself the hassle and jerk off myself, then light a cigar with a 10,000-yen bill to get that feeling again.Ciao Bros,Blue Mist

Hi Blue Mist,Yep, I think you might be the first. Sorry to hear about it! I usually visit the Hinomaru early in the morning, between 8 and 11am, and while the girls are usually never that cute - rarely above a 5, they offered quite extended services compared to the standard pink salon fare - ala Century 21. My guess is that you just got a girl with a chip on her shoulder. In any case, thanks for the update - we can now note #26 as a definite 'NG'. You were correct, though, in bypassing the chinese tout -- you would have paid 10k - 14k for a 'massage' and asked to tip another 10k for a CBJ and maybe 20k for FS. If you know some japanese you can deal, if not, you are just another victim. For cheap, consistent FS, I suggest the 3rd floor massage parlour in Shibuya, up the street on the right from 21. I'll post a map here so anyone can find it. The girls are from mainland China, generally 3's - 7's, but they deliver as promised and and you won't be burning any extra 10spots.Ciao.