Filipinas - Opinions and Advice

[QUOTE=Drbombay;2522235]I'm amazed at so many men (he wasn't an overweight old white guy) but a young able bodied Pinoy willing to throw it all away and put on a cape for some person and ply superhero. If mongers want to do it, then good on them.[/QUOTE]I have a coworker that is Thai and he was sending money to his chick in his hometown in Thailand. Same thing a Colombian coworker was sending money to his chick in Colombia. Come to find out they were sending money to the chicks and the chicks' real boyfriends. No, the shit is in no way limited to or has anything to do with overweight old white guy mongers. A fool (or hopeless romantic) is a fool.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2522061]If a company director decides that buying a Porsche is the best use of a government relief package for his business, that's his prerogative. Nothing illegal about it. The behavior of LBFMs is simply reprehensible.[/QUOTE]I never said it was illegal.

Mongering is not part if any moral crusade that I know of. However, how is an allready wealthy individual using funds made available to support struggling businesses for frivolous purchases less reprehensible than a bar girl on a cash grab from willing donors?

My initial post was more about who, if anyone, was to blame: those handing out cash with out restraint or those gleefully accepting it.

Cheers. G.

[QUOTE=Sammon;2522127]Cannot blame the desperate girls often tutored by family or friends. I have been chatting with a supposedly ' Virgin ' 18 year old in Cebu. Seem very nice not very pretty but passable. Willing to give up for support. After few weeks of chatting enter mother. Girl says I need to meet her mother before she can stay with me. Obviously mother I guess wants to discuss terms. So far I am playing along to see what the terms are. This girl is living alone in Cebu and her mom lives in a nearby island. Girl has a job in a resort restaurant. So far she has not asked for any money.

Philippine mindset is try to get max advantage because they all know foreigners except few love struck and lonely will marry. All rest like me are hit and run with least damage to my wallet.[/QUOTE]Or momma want to try and test run Mr Sammons sausage first before she allows you to impregnate so called virgin daughter LOL.

This has happened to me and I shagged momma and then daughter and then had a lovely threesome (plus her other daughters were given to me also later). Sometime you take one for the tea.

Tow mommas were the MILFs / GILFs I have posted about in the PG before. Slim, sexier than many 25 yr olds and loved to be kinky LOL.

[QUOTE=PedroMorales;2522135]So you are not a flowers and chocolates guy? Have you read The Art of the Deal? You are negotiating with an 18 year old Pinay pauper, who needs mommy in her corner (as we all do). You never know. Flowers, chocolates, two wedding rings (one for teen, one for mommy) might be the go. Nice big flashy ones. Go for it.[/QUOTE]Flowers, chocolates, champagne, dinner, candles are the ones I used when I had virgins in America. No such thing in Philippine. Have had 5 so far over the years. All from remote areas. Flew them to cities for the act. Three of them with business deal. Price for virginity. Two no demands. All the same I gave generous amount. All of them I repeated few times for a week or so for few years. I know from experience girls always have special affinity towards the first love or in this case first sex.

[QUOTE=WickedRoger;2522295]Or momma want to try and test run Mr Sammons sausage first before she allows you to impregnate so called virgin daughter LOL.

This has happened to me and I shagged momma and then daughter and then had a lovely threesome (plus her other daughters were given to me also later). Sometime you take one for the tea.

Tow mommas were the MILFs / GILFs I have posted about in the PG before. Slim, sexier than many 25 yr olds and loved to be kinky LOL.[/QUOTE]For some reason I tend to reject moms. I am there for fun with young girls only. Anybody over 25 does not interest me. Do not know why?

Maybe it is the naivety of young girls or my dominant attitude. Probably need to talk to my shrink if I had one.

Ever since I started mongering only young juicy pussy I crave for.

[QUOTE=Sammon;2522362].Maybe it is the naivety of young girls or my dominant attitude. Probably need to talk to my shrink if I had one...[/QUOTE]Why spend money on a shrink? Just spend it on young pussy.

You like what you like, why waste any time to find out why? Just enjoy.

[QUOTE=Sammon;2522362]For some reason I tend to reject moms. I am there for fun with young girls only. Anybody over 25 does not interest me. Do not know why?

Maybe it is the naivety of young girls or my dominant attitude. Probably need to talk to my shrink if I had one.

Ever since I started mongering only young juicy pussy I crave for.[/QUOTE]That I understand Sammon ut at times I go hunting for them via the MILF / GILF but I am super selective and the ones I see / know are slim naughty kinky and have figures as good as a 25 yr old mainly. And their daughters are very tasty. So I take one for the team I suppose you could say LOL.

[QUOTE=EngineDriver;2521747]The greed of provincial LBFMs knows no bounds. One dirt poor, 29 year-old gold digger I was chatting with in Davao was very keen to marry me and set the wedding date to September 2021. She was reasonably pleasant looking and would have been a good root. So I just humored her for a few days to see where it was headed, all in the name of completing my important field experiment. I told her to send me some pictures of diamond engagement rings she would like me to buy in Sydney the one she wanted had a fucking 3 carat rock which would have set me back USD $50 k. She said I would need to send her parents 50 k peso a month in perpetuity to live on in the province and then separately give her 500 k peso a month allowance until she was able to come to Australia. I did not realize that sacks of rice and tins of sardines in Shitsville cost more than fuckin' Beluga caviar and Moet & Chandon. Hahahahaha. She wanted me to provide a house in the province for her bloodsucking relatives to live in and to buy her a 7 million peso house in Davao City. She also wanted a car! Sure, why not? Hahahahaha. Now being a desperate, lonely monger with no prospects, I of course agreed to all this and said I would send the money to Western Union that afternoon for pick up. While she was off trying to find her ID in the pile of rubbish where she lived, I promptly blocked her. Hahahahahaha.
[/QUOTE]Late 2019 (seems like a long time ago) I had a Pinay I pulled from OT in Singapore back in the room. I had seen her before on that current trip and one night after we finished she gets a call from his sister in Kuwait. They start yabbering and then she hangs up and tells me her sister needs money to send to her daughter back in PI who is in school and she was going to give so could I pay a little extra to help her cover. I replied "H*ll NO!" Which then led to some song and dance on how we non-Filipinos don't understand the "family" and what it means to support. Told her not true, I have family relations that I do help and support but the difference is (at least for me) I'm not expected to pay for some of their life decisions. Sure a hand when a job loss occurs or some other unforeseen snag occurs, but not to pay tuition for a school that you couldn't afford in the first place or some of the other myriad reasons that one gets. It's not my job to pay for mama and papas retirement, just like I don't expect my kid to pay for me when I'm old and feeble.

I've had another Pinay there actually ask me yet again to send money directly to her sister so that her kids can stay in school which I turned down, nor was I going to be responsible for buying inventory for the family store.

[QUOTE=Drbombay;2522840]Sure a hand when a job loss occurs or some other unforeseen snag occurs, but not to pay tuition for a school that you couldn't afford in the first place or some of the other myriad reasons that one gets. It's not my job to pay for mama and papas retirement, just like I don't expect my kid to pay for me when I'm old and feeble.[/QUOTE]Exactly what I tell Thais and Filipinas. Westerners raise their kids so that they can grow up and take care of themselves. Their cultures raise their kids to grow up and be bogged down taking care of them. That is why they can not get anywhere as a society. They are saddled with that burden from birth.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2522844]Exactly what I tell Thais and Filipinas. Westerners raise their kids so that they can grow up and take care of themselves. Their cultures raise their kids to grow up and be bogged down taking care of them. That is why they can not get anywhere as a society. They are saddled with that burden from birth.[/QUOTE]Well I wouldn't go that far. Westerners should save money but 70% live paycheck to paycheck, those who work at least. Social security and other such benefits are there for westerners, there's nothing for the elderly in third world countries. Only a small percentage of westerns could live solely on their savings. I can understand the reason for a large family, there's always someone with a little bit of money who can help feed the family. One reason why so many Filipinos come to the states and work ten years and then head home, this gives them social security benefits which will go much further in their country.

[QUOTE=MrEnternational;2522844]Exactly what I tell Thais and Filipinas. Westerners raise their kids so that they can grow up and take care of themselves. Their cultures raise their kids to grow up and be bogged down taking care of them. That is why they can not get anywhere as a society. They are saddled with that burden from birth.[/QUOTE]Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan have similar patterns in which children have a life-long commitment to care for parents and family. According to your theory they shouldn't be able to get anywhere as societies.

[QUOTE=Drbombay;2522840]Late 2019 (seems like a long time ago)

I've had another Pinay there actually ask me yet again to send money directly to her sister so that her kids can stay in school which I turned down, nor was I going to be responsible for buying inventory for the family store.[/QUOTE]My standard reply for money demands is ' you did fine before meeting me '.

For the service I am more generous. But being a sugar daddy I am not. When I meet a girl if the girl starts with sob stories I set them straight right away. After that demands stop. Girls always try every which way. One recent girl wanted me to pay for her sisters wedding. Free money is always accepted.

[QUOTE=Breadman;2522898]Social security and other such benefits are there for westerners, there's nothing for the elderly in third world countries.[/QUOTE]But I know mfs that are taking care of 35 and 40 year old parents. Most of the bar girls don't have parents even as old as you. I can understand if you are 50 and taking care of a 70 year old parent, but that is not something an 18 or 20 year old should have to do before even getting their life started good.

[QUOTE=SoapySmith;2522920]Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan have similar patterns in which children have a life-long commitment to care for parents and family. According to your theory they shouldn't be able to get anywhere as societies.[/QUOTE]At Soapy Smith. You would be surprised at the numbers of stories that I see here in Japan in the news on kids who kill their parents. I'm talking about 40-60 year olds offing their parents in their 80's and 90's and you get the same response as to whey they did it: "I was tired of taking care of them and it was a burden" while they had to also work their normal lives.

[QUOTE=SoapySmith;2522920]Japan, South Korea, and Taiwan have similar patterns in which children have a life-long commitment to care for parents and family. According to your theory they shouldn't be able to get anywhere as societies.[/QUOTE]I'm not sure if you know much about cricket, but Mr. E let that one go through to the 'keeper. Hahaha.

Japan, Korea and Taiwan are rich countries, full of educated people in well paying jobs. Unlike Filipinos who have no birth control and think it's truly a blessing from God to have 23 kids, Japanese, Koreans and Taiwanese wisely stop after having one or two. They have a declining birth rate. The people there also know the value of savings and have good pension plans to assist with retirement. The financial burden on kids to support their parents in old age is therefore less as the parents have been sensible all their lives, living within their means. A Filipina would rather spend her last 6,000 peso on a lechon and a case of Red Horse for her extended family than on essential medical treatment for young Rodrigo or to pay his overdue school fees.

Uncles, aunties, cousins and siblings in Japan, Korea and Taiwan are gainfully employed and can support themselves without constantly seeking family donations. Bloodsucking is not part of their culture, unlike in the Philippines. Individual success and achievement in those rich countries is also valued, whereas in the Philippines, everyone is dragged down to the lowest common denominator. They just can't have anyone succeed!