Medellin New Girl Options
Final update before I left Medellin last Fri.
Since I stayed close to 5 Months, I confirmed w / the inmigracióand officer at the airport upon departure if I can return to complete the remainder of my visa in few days and they said no prob. Made it to Miami this week and extended / renewd my passport, tomorrow heading to BOG for few weeks, then Brazil. From BOG flights are half the cost to BRA vs FL, plus after so many months in mde it's only fair to go say Hello, to few hunnies in BOG before I leave Colombia for a while.
I know some of you vets already know this, but since most new travelers are concerned with online / app meets due to fear, I figured this would help. We all know El Poblado is expensive and a tourist trap, strip clubs arent for everyone and shady, most don't like the Centro street rats, many of us don't like the casas, so I discovered one addl great option for chicas.
En El Centro right in front of Hilton Grill club, and in both sides of that entire street, I discovered that all those bars have "bar girls". When you walk and pass by after 5-6 p you will see 5-10 girls in each bar sitting alone waiting for men. These girls are independent, cleaner chicas working, and even with my extensive experience in mde I never knew that. But I guess since I gave up on tinder and avoiding danger with online setups I started searching for more bars and in person interactions. So I spoke w some of those girls, and I was quoted 35 k bar take out fee, plus the girls could charge 150-200 k / HR, or more / less depending on her. I even asked why not 50 k like the street girls. They laughed and said most only date 1 guy or none for the night, they don't walk the street. The pretty street girls would bang 5-10 dudes a day, and it's rushed. In the bars, you get to sit in a clean environment, drink, converse, dance, and it was so worth it. I've seen many 7-9's, no seriously, def can compete with Lleras chicas, all dressed up and I think 150-200 k is fair plus seeing new fresh faces was quite a relief in that area. The few I banged were top shelf!! Wow.
Couple weeks ago one of my old novias tried to set me up, after we broke up and haven't spoken for over a month. She called and said a family member of her was kidnapped by gangs, and wanted me to help. She showed up at my apt ringing the bell without an invite, thankfully I had already moved. She came several times. I declined to help and suggested the police, she insisted they wouldn't help. I said how could I help? I'm no super ninja nor a fucking bank acct you can just call only when you need money, besides I never met that fam member, so this aint my prob. Sent those exact words. I had to make the shit clear. The audacity. But I'm quite certain it was a set up based on her prev sneaky ways. Once befofe, she sent me a video of a building on fire, said it was an arson in one of the apts from her neighborhood causing many people to be homeless, and askd if I could donate. I replied and said I will pray for those people. Of course I confirmed video was fake and old but didn't tell her that. I simply said I don't do charity, and I'm not Joe Biden. The only people I give change and some money to are the indigenous homeless I see in the streets that the Colombians treat like second class citizens. Otherwise these hoz must earn every fucking penny. I was so done with hoz that I stopped being over generous like no longer over-tip in restaurants or taxis, if no locals tip I don't tip either LOL. Fuck yall.
When I try to be polite, they think I'm easy till I tell them to fuck off then they get it. So fellas don't be a nice guy or even appear to be one.
Lastly, ran into many pedos, yes some of yall deserve to be scoped and drugged. Right in the middle of botero plaza, the police often have a van that says "proteccióand infantil" / child protection, looking for you dumb mfrs. I bumped at least 3 times into some dudes, having a long 5+ minutes convo with some minors, appears to be so, then they'd either call me to say Hello, with a fist pump / handshake, and obviously first thing I'd do is asking the girls how old are you, 17,16, then fuckers would make a face as if they didn't know. Like if you approach a young girl, first thing you should ask is her age, then maybe even proceed asking for an ID, etc. So why would you be standing there chatting for more than 2 minutes? You walk the fuck away from a minor. It's disgusting and happening in both Lleras and Centro. One old fart past 60 was bragging and dancing on how many young virgins he scored in couple years. As if it's his life's best accomplishment LOL, spend hrs and days hunting them online first. Like my dude most normal men have had those in middle school and high school years bruh. You are late at 60 sir. Like most awkward encounters and losers I come accross during my travels are always sex-deprived men, those who never got married or never had a real GF, doesn't know shit about women, and actually think they're players now paying for sex. Total fucking lunatics.
I think Medellin is a beautiful city and still a gem but clearly there are better spots that are less tense. I stopped few buddies that were on their way to visit, I asked them to slightly increase their budget and meet in BRA instead LOL.
Have fun and be safe!