[QUOTE=TheCane;2996857]So now that I no longer have a paid Seeking membership, all of a sudden women supposedly in my area are making the first move by sending me messages. Messages that I of course can't read without a paid membership! That rarely ever happened when I had a paid membership. So why now? Nope! Seeking isn't getting any more of my money. Not ever! Overall it mostly proved to be a huge waste of time and definitely a waste of money for me using Seeking in the States. And I don't need it overseas so good riddance! Lure another sucker into re-subscribing just to read a "fake" message like "Hi" waiting for you LOL![/QUOTE]That's going to happen if you have your location (city) set to the USA. I NEVER use the seeking app, or seeking from the browser on my phone, because the site will ask for location permission. Which might conflict with the location you specify. I ONLY use seeking from a desktop computer, which I will not be prompted for location access, and can set my city to wherever I goddamn well please, without a VPN.
With all the experience I have in life now, it is beyond me why anyone would pursue a gringa woman in this day and age.
