[QUOTE=Dan7373]<cut>Take your time to look at all the ladies. Make eye contact with those that look at you too. Keep looking back and forth between those who are making eye-contact with you. And choose the one who doesn't move away her eyes from yours and looks more interested in you than all the others.The lady who stares you down is the lady you should choose. Because her stare is an invitation. It shows she isn't shy. She has already made up her mind to be with you. And this means that she is in the mood, and she will try to be a good hostess for you.[/QUOTE]I partially agree with these sentiments but do not fully subscribe to them.I am choosing a girl. If a girl is not my type, it doesn't matter how enthusiastic she is. It won't be right for me.Firstly, any girl that puts on a big act and seeks your selection in an exaggerated way, should be avoided in my opinion. This could be by excessive facial expressions, nods, or waves from girls in a fish bowl. I don't like girls who put on an act. The sex part might all be an act too.Girls who won't look at you at all, or are concentrating on some other customer, should probably be avoided also, although I have had really great sessions with seemingly aloof girls.If you stare at a girl and she looks away after a bit, this may just be natural shyness, or just not wishing to appear too forward or too desperate. So I do not consider this to be a bad sign at all. I have had great sessions with girls that have some degree of modesty or shyness. Then again I sometimes like wild and wanton girls too.In soapy places, if choosing a seemingly aloof girl, it would be a good idea to call her over for a chat first to see if any chemistry seems to be going. This assumes can communicate at all. Often the more classy girls can appear somewhat aloof.I find Eden an annoying place as you are expected to choose a girl without having a chance to converse with her first. One girl seemed to take exception to be asking her name so I thought it best not to continue.Soapy places have the advantage of being able to watch girls in the fishbowl, seeing how they interact with their friends, and looking for any very ugly facial expressions that can give away the character. However i do get caught out with another customer choosing her before my study is complete.My success rate is choosing a girl for a satisfactory to good session is about 4 out of 5, not counting girls I am repeating with, and maybe 1 out of every 5 or 6 reaches the oustanding mark and requires repeats. However different girls can be outstanding in different ways.Girls I intend to repeat (and mostly have repeated already): 2 at Utopia, 1 at Long Beach, 1 at Emmanuelle, 1 at Thonglor 2, 1 at Tulip, and maybe one at Versailles.Its great to have a list of favourites so that can have a "Sure Thing". Normally at least one is bound to be available. But I have a backup list (looong list) of places I would like to try or try again.Its tough to find time :(
