Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

While on the subject of 3somes.

Was never into it but in the phils it was almost forced upon me.

Staying at top end hotels with king size beds.

Get friendly with the girls and their friends.

Hey presto a room and a bed full of women.

If they like you then it can be party time.

Most I had in one bed was 5. And a good time was. Had by all.

Last trip I was reaching the point of no return when the girl fondling my balls whispers in my ear.

"careful where you come she has good eggs".

See the girl I was plowing was her cousin and at 21 already has 3 kids.

Made me laugh. And put me off my stroke for a while.

That's interesting. Do you have any idea why this happened? What was the "other" link? Send a pm if it's too personal. I would advise anyone, if some sns wants to add your "other" friends, don't be tempted. I haven't had a problem with dia.

[QUOTE=Asian Lover Oz; 1378673]Just be careful with what you put in DIA if you are concerned about your privacy.

I did use my real photo but age change and handle that was unrelated (or so I thought).

Just ran a google search and BANG. 1st hit was my name and photo, it picked up from another link I had totally not realised.

My DIA pic is now a resemblance rather than me![/QUOTE]

Recent request from a potential date when I arrive in AC:

'When you arrive in AC I'm telling you. No hunky pinky ok? '

I'm not sure if she means no hanky panky or perhaps she is not into anal. Guess I'll find out.

At this rate you should get a student loan for that kind of research. But, then, Filipinas have a language own their own, if not languages.

What's their education system like? Several girls claim B. A. 's at 20. Glorified high school?

[QUOTE=Vittu; 1379378]At this rate you should get a student loan for that kind of research. But, then, Filipinas have a language own their own, if not languages.

What's their education system like? Several girls claim B. A. 's at 20. Glorified high school?[/QUOTE]Nothing beats the philly schoolsystem as I have a 19yrs old girl claiming through her DIA profiles she has Bachelour degree allready. Maby she is so damn clever so she rushed through the system fast. I allways enjoy a good lie:-)

[QUOTE=Vittu; 1379378]At this rate you should get a student loan for that kind of research. But, then, Filipinas have a language own their own, if not languages.

What's their education system like? Several girls claim B. A. 's at 20. Glorified high school?[/QUOTE]They graduate high school at 16, not at the 18-ish that other countries graduate. They skip middle / junior high school. RK do I have that right? Entirely possible to be done with college by 20, and if a shorter program then by 18.

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[QUOTE=Vittu;1379378]What's their education system like? Several girls claim B. A. 's at 20. Glorified high school?[/QUOTE]Though there are several decent unis, and a few very good ones, diploma mills are widely attended.

[QUOTE=Skogis;1379394]Nothing beats the philly schoolsystem as I have a 19yrs old girl claiming through her DIA profiles she has Bachelour degree allready. Maby she is so damn clever so she rushed through the system fast. I allways enjoy a good lie:-)[/QUOTE]That is highly possible if the education system in PI is structured anything like that in France where a baccalauréat (le bac) or bachelor's is actually what you earn after completing high school and not to be confused with what you earn after four years in the American university system.

[QUOTE=Westcoast1;1379421]They graduate high school at 16, not at the 18-ish that other countries graduate. They skip middle / junior high school. RK do I have that right? Entirely possible to be done with college by 20, and if a shorter program then by 18.[/QUOTE]Smart kids can graduate from HS at 16 and go straight to a University and after 4 years they can graduate with a degree. Not common or usual but possible.

However, except for a few better institutions (3 or 4 maximum) , most Universities are simple "diploma / degree mills" and the quality of the degree s extremely questionable.

The move towards a 12 year (+ a Kinder year) that started in this current school year (2012/2013) will mean that by around 2017/18 there will be 12 years of schooling (as the basic qualification) and 4 years of tertiary training (same as everywhere else in the world).

This change in the system is already causing a perceived shift in attitudes towards tech-voc training since that is seen as a better alternative to an extra 2 years of school plus 4 years at tertiary level.

It is likely that by the time years 11 and 12 are being undertaken at secondary level more students will be wanting to switch to tech / voc training through TESDA institutions because there is almost always the reward of a job (either in the Phils or overseas) when they have a technical diploma.

There is still a stigma attached to those who undertake tech / voc courses (only the "masa" or poor people do these courses), but the perception is slowly changing and and already we are seeing more middle-class kids enrolling in greater numbers in tech-voc programs (marine technology, auto repair etc).

This is a good thing.

By 2013, the demographic of girls working in bars and as FLs may be starting to shift.

When I look at Filipino Cupid, I see girls with primary / middle, high school, vocational and B. A. Education.

How would you characterize each group, or is that even possible?

[QUOTE=Vittu; 1379487]When I look at Filipino Cupid, I see girls with primary / middle, high school, vocational and B. A. Education.

How would you characterize each group, or is that even possible?[/QUOTE]Absolutely not possible, in exactly the same way as it was not possible to categorize my parents back in the pre-war days. My parents did not have the access to schooling that I had but in no way did it diminish intelligence or their ability to make their way successfully in the world.

The level of schooling has absolutely no bearing on whether they will be "hot to trot" except for the disclaimers in the following.

Of course, as a general rule, the poorer (aka under-educated girls) are usually more "desperate" to meet someone who can help them out of poverty, and that sometimes means a foreigner, regardless of age.

As another general rule, well-educated women from the upper middle class families are NOT interested in the everyday foreigner / tourist as they target rich contemporary men from the established colleges. Being seen with an older foreigner stigmatizes them as being either easy or flirty or, heaven forbid, a prostie.

You might notice that filipina profiles on most chat boards are pretty much the ONLY ones who say "all ages" or "18 to 80" in the men they seek. Most other countries the girls say 20 to 30 or 30 to 40 or at least ages that are close to their own. The Philippines seems to be the only place where girls don't care. Any age will do as long as he is a foreigner and he is breathing LOL.

Note that I GENERALISED in the preceding comments. Someone will have a story that contravenes my general rules as though it disproves what I said but IN GENERAL, what I said is, I believe, true.

*NB In Post 6600 below I meant to say "By 2020" in my final line (I wrote 2013 by mistake but I guess it could still be shifting all the way up to 2020)

[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1379515]You might notice that filipina profiles on most chat boards are pretty much the ONLY ones who say "all ages" or "18 to 80" in the men they seek. Most other countries the girls say 20 to 30 or 30 to 40 or at least ages that are close to their own. The Philippines seems to be the only place where girls don't care.[/QUOTE]With slight exception of continent of Africa, though admittedly a minor variation in venue.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1379515]. .

You might notice that filipina profiles on most chat boards are pretty much the ONLY ones who say "all ages" or "18 to 80" in the men they seek. Most other countries the girls say 20 to 30 or 30 to 40 or at least ages that are close to their own. The Philippines seems to be the only place where girls don't care. Any age will do as long as he is a foreigner and he is breathing LOL.[/QUOTE]In this past week I have also had 2 different independent chat contacts very keen to meet me even though my age is outside their limits and they have not seen what I look like. I do NOT post a photo on any of the sites. They both look very presentable in their profiles.

When I pointed this out to them that they did not know what I looked like and that I was older than they preferred they both responded in a similar way. Paraphrasing, they said it didn't matter because I seemed nice; it didn't matter what I looked like and age was just a number blah blah blah.

Needless to say I never met them. They may have been bakla (ladyboys) which is unlikely as I am a reasonable judge and the stats seemed unlikely too, but more importantly, I was not wanting to meet women who appear SO desperate to meet ANYONE, and were prepared to meet me sight unseen. I certainly wouldn't meet anyone that I had never seen on cam or in pic.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1379563]I do NOT post a photo on any of the sites.[/QUOTE]I have a photo on DIA and every once in a while I take the "old" one off and post a new one, in the perhaps unjustified belief that a fresh face may reignite a conversation. I certainly don't mind a "you are looking younger" message! I was without a DIA photo yesterday for a few hours, just a question-mark appeared. I was surprised to discover that I could only send one reply every 6 hours without a posted photo. That must slow your messaging down a bit RK and others without a photo? So I quickly posted a photo.

I also notice that DIA must now have improved photo screening technology, and if not automatically approved a photo may take 2 days before manual approval. Initial rejection may occur if the screening process cannot recognise a face, or that it is covered or masked with objects. I had glasses on with a small photo flash reflection on the lens, That was sufficient for an automatic rejection, so I tried, successfully, with another photo without the flash reflection.

Well, I used the same handle on a professional forum quite a while ago with my real name etc.

I picked the same name in DIA not remembering about the first one.

So when you searched my handle name in google it showed me there on DIA with photo and then the next few lines were hits from the other forum with name etc.

Now they both show up but the DIA pic isn't me so less to worry about.

Was thinking of deleting DIA and starting again as you can't change your handle it seems.

[QUOTE=X Man;1379209]That's interesting. Do you have any idea why this happened? What was the "other" link? Send a pm if it's too personal. I would advise anyone, if some sns wants to add your "other" friends, don't be tempted. I haven't had a problem with dia.[/QUOTE]