Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[quote=goodenough;1384702]i was just going to let the above, chock full on inaccurate information and cultural misperceptions slip by without comment, since i'm old, peaceful and in no need of a meaningless flame war.[/quote]of course you are correct, ge, and i am pleased that you spotted this misconceived post before i did as i doubt that i would have been so charitable. having brought up a british-filipino child here, i can confirm it is exactly as you say. rather than being ostracized for being a mixed race child, the reverse is the case. from grade school onwards my son was deferred to by his classmates, and quickly became a leader of his peer group.

in fact, this proved to be something of a mixed blessing as he became a little too self obsessed from being constantly seen as the hub of the wheel and so it was a good thing that i was mostly around to beat some reality into him (only kidding!). but on moving on to further education in uk, he initially found it difficult to adjust to being just another kid on the block instead of the kingpin, something that he will now freely admit.

[QUOTE=Hibukhibok;1384628]Now I have expressed this before but I am a little surprised about a Pinay legitimately in Europe and going back to the Phils to actually work there (at the local salaries) , if divorced how come she could not have squeezed a modest alimony. My wife always mentions going back there but (regrettably) she does follow through with her great idea once she realizes (again and again) that a 90% plus pay cut in her teacher's salary (assuming she could find a job) would be deleterious to her life style (like commuting in a jeepney along some polluted byway instead of her own new car in the New England countryside).[/QUOTE]I don't know about Europe, but in Texas we have no alimony in marriages lasting less than 10 years, except in very rare circumstances (e. G. Disability precluding ability to work). Unless there is child support, or post-marriage property to divide (I. E. Community property) , the ex-wife would have basically nothing. Of course, Europe may be much kinder to ex-wives.

RG

[quote=red kilt; 1384712]i must support most strongly ge's comments here, having lived here for almost 16 years.

surely hibuk's comments refer to some racist experiences in some other part of the world, not the philippines. i have never seen anything untoward about mestizo kids, although filipinos can be rather racist towards very dark-skinned people.

a lighter skin color alone is a source of great distinction amongst any mestizo kid's peers and jealousy would not be anything nasty.[/quote]i find yours and ge's comments very reassuring. i brought my gf back to australia last year on a 3 month tourist visa and she fell pregnant. she gave birth in december and i am currently visiting her now. our child has very light skin. and yes. i do send money every month to support her and the child.

having been bullied as a child myself and indeed witnessed shite managers bullying staff it is one of my pet hates, but i am relieved to hear that my new son will not be ostracised because of his skin colour.

Hey not judging and it can happen to any of us but are you ok having your kid raised in Phil? Your not looking at marrying the girl?

[QUOTE=Python75;1385367]Having been bullied as a child myself and indeed witnessed shite managers bullying staff it is one of my pet hates, but I am relieved to hear that my new son will not be ostracised because of his skin colour.[/QUOTE]

I've been online for a few weeks prior to my trip and in addition to solid contacts, there are the usual scammers. Some of them are so pathetic it's kinda cute. Like the ones that start a chat with "what is your work?" or who can't even keep their story straight in a single chat session.

I just found the winner for most eager. Their opening email is:

* Dear SbySW,

* Dear Steve,

* Hai _sbysw l hve my problem me nw please lm student my problem is money please are you ok nw lm wenny ramirez.

The picture is even better."Wenny" looks a lot more like Manny. I'm curious about the profile, but not curious enough to become a visitor.

SbySW

[QUOTE=South by SW 2; 1385442]* Hai _sbysw l hve my problem me nw please lm student my problem is money please are you ok nw lm wenny ramirez.

The picture is even better."Wenny" looks a lot more like Manny. I'm curious about the profile, but not curious enough to become a visitor.[/QUOTE]It does look a bit odd but many girls use these editing programs where you insert your own face into a template and you end up with something that looks quite wrong.

This is an example. The hair is completely wrong, and makes her look like a bakla.

Don't blame you for your lack of curiosity though.

[QUOTE=Tally Wacker;1385404]Hey not judging and it can happen to any of us but are you ok having your kid raised in Phil? Your not looking at marrying the girl?[/QUOTE]Having been married and divorced before it is highly unlikely that I would marry the girl at the moment. She is aware that I see other girls before visiting her and accepts it. I am not sure what the future holds. I am very, very fond of her but am in no rush to make any life altering decisions at the moment.

For a pinay she is quite a remarkable girl.

I thought I would paste an amusing chat I had on fc with a 22yr old virgin on my last trip. She ended up coming to my hotel one day for a few hours of fun.

Me:

You look beautiful.

I'm staying in Makati now at New World hotel.

Would you like to come for dinner and fun?

I'm TW

Her:

What kind of fun?

Me:

Hmmm watching tv, kissing and?

Her:

Haha I'm not game for that kind of fun I'm still virgin. And I want first time to be with special someone not for just fun.

Me:

Ah ok I understand.

How about just kissing and no sex honey?

Her:

Just kissing? Haha how can be sure

Me:

Haha well you can try and then you know.

Just kissing above the waist ok?

Her:

Haha I you kiss me, and me I will going to do? BJ you? Don't even know how to do that never tried before haha

Me:

Hehe I love your cute face and braces honey.

I can teach you how to BJ? Just kissing no sex I'm a gentleman

Her:

I'm really scared haha don't you afraid of my braces might hurts your hmmmm? Haha

Me:

Na don't be scarred honey we can go slow and I will show you.

Would you like to see a photo?

Whats your email address honey?

Her:

Atyahoo. Com.

Me:

Ok I emailed you.

Her:

Wow your big haha why you squished your balls in your lat pics? I think thats hurts haha

Me:

LOL it did not hurt hehe.

Did you like it honey?

I can teach you how to kiss the head of my cock and put it in your mouth slowly.

I would also love to kiss and lick your little niples hehe.

Its ok?

Her:

How long you will be staying here in phil? Becouse I'm working, I work 6days a week I'm not sure when I will be available fot teaching me how do that haha

Me:

I just arrived and will be here for 2 weeks for business.

Would you like that I teach you honey?

It will be fun.

Her:

Yeah but I wish it would be not hurts? Haha becouse sometimes I saw in the movie girls doing that, they really look like hurting haha, anyway we still have many time maybe before you leave we can teaching haha

Me:

Ah only in the movies they show like that hon.

I will go slow and be gentle and it will feel nice.

Would you like me to kiss and lick your littke pussy to?

Whats your cell #

Her:

Haha yes but kiss and lick only ok? No finger inside can you promise me that you will not break my hymen?

My # is

Me:

Yes of course honey only lick no fingers and no cock.

Did you ever have your pussy licked before? I love to do that.

Would you like to taste my cum a little when I cum?

Her:

Nope, never tried lick my pussy before, friends saying its really feels so great, yeah maybe just taste your cum a little haha

Me:

Yea girls like that hehe. Are you shaved honey or no?

Yes I would love to cum while you sucking my cock let you lick my cum

Did you have your nipples kissed before?

Her:

I'm shave haha, nope never tried that too, but kiss many times, I have expirience manytimes stealing kissed haha

Me:

You can steal kisses from me hehe.

Did you get wet with our flirting?

Her:

Yes I'm dripping wet haha, I need to sleep now.

Just message me.

Me:

Ok hon thanks I will. Gnight.

Her:

Good night teacher haha

And Tally Wacker. Was she in fact a virgin?

The peril of meeting several girls from the dating sites is they each want Valentine's Day."Sorry baby, I'll out of town on business. We'll have our own Valentine's Day later". Expect to see some repercussions. Add to it last night I started getting texts and messages from girls long forgotten who want to meet tomorrow.

Last night I had a pleasant surprise from an old DIA contact (F&B employee at a top hotel in Makati). We exchanged several messages 2 months ago but it went nowhere. She insisted that our meeting not be at my condo. Fast forward and she texts me looking to meet at a Glorietta coffee shop. I counter with my condo. She says she'll come over for a chat. I reply she's going to do more than that. She's in the jeep and at my place in 10 minutes. We did chat for a bit. She met an Aussie on DIA and they spent a lot of time over a week on skype. The other day she met him at NAIA and they grab a cab for p1500 to his Makati hotel. She says that the cabbie told them his white cab is an official airport taxi. Arrived at the hotel and the p1500 fare is now p1800. The guy losses his cool but pays off the chiseler. From that point forward the Aussie's composure is gone. Soon after he is abrasively rude to a waitress. Because he's too hot tempered the DIA girl losses interest. So she splits. Pretty girl and a great lay who happily spent the night. Lost over $7. 50. I reckon her replacement was dearer than that. Keep calm and carry on

In closing I'll add the girls who work at the hotels and casinos have the most entertaining stories about their guests. Well worth your time.

[QUOTE=Hutsori;1385806]The peril of meeting several girls from the dating sites is they each want Valentine's Day."Sorry baby, I'll out of town on business. We'll have our own Valentine's Day later". Expect to see some repercussions. Add to it last night I started getting texts and messages from girls long forgotten who want to meet tomorrow.[/QUOTE]V-Day in the Philippines is a frenzied over-hyped commercial event.

All restaurants will be booked out, and the lines at SOGO and other short-time establishments will be huge (I know. I got trapped in one several years ago when I forgot it was February 14)

All filipinas want some recognition on the day or preceding it. If you plan on doing something special in Manila especially, make sure you have a booking.

I just tell them that we don't take much notice of V Day in Australia. It is just another day for us. That usually gets an "Ohhhh really".

Yes siree! I respected her wishes and we had fun.

[QUOTE=Pak Mike;1385738]And Tally Wacker. Was she in fact a virgin?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tally Wacker; 1385615]Me:

Ok hon thanks I will. Gnight.

Her:

Good night teacher haha[/QUOTE]got to love the Philippines.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt;1385825]All restaurants will be booked out, and the lines at SOGO and other short-time establishments will be huge (I know. I got trapped in one several years ago when I forgot it was February 14)[/QUOTE]Thank you, Red. I had forgotten that it was the dreaded day tomorrow. I had intended to invite a friend along to a little slap and tickle at Eurotel. That would have been a mistake for so many reasons. Instead I'll barricade myself in the house, phone off the hook and CP switched to mute, and ride it out. Much better.

Red's summary makes me feel like I dodged a bullet.

I'll be in the Philippines a week after Valentines Day. It works out great. We get to chat about all the hugging and kissing we'll miss and I promise them a special belated Valentine's treat. They are primed for romance and I get away with bringing them some discount rack chocolates in red and pink foil.

All the opportunity with none of the hassles. It's like the movie Groundhog Day. But with spinners.

Wish I could say I cleverly planned it that way, but that's just how my schedule fell out.

BTW, Tally Wacker, you are true gentleman.

SbySW.

[QUOTE=Red Kilt; 1385825]V-Day in the Philippines is a frenzied over-hyped commercial event.[/QUOTE]